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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder how many of you on receiving a message either delete it without reading it or just leave it unread?

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Almost zero

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I will often delete without reading. I look at the profile first and if they don't match what my profile says I'm looking for I don't open the message.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Sometimes they're so short you can read the entirety of it without having to open it lol

Hi x

Hi wuu2?

Nice tits

Etc etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We delete lots without even reading them. If the people sending them have clearly not read our profile then why would we even bother reading it.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I leave them unread for a day or two then bulk delete. Less chance of getting them whining that I deleted it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes they're so short you can read the entirety of it without having to open it lol

Hi x

Hi wuu2?

Nice tits

Etc etc etc"

LOL, never thought of that. I guess I tend to be a bit more verbose than that when I send messages

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I open all mine apart from those that start with... Can you send me your worn knickers or stockings... They get there ass deleted!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I leave them unread for a day or two then bulk delete. Less chance of getting them whining that I deleted it."

Do you view their profiles first before deciding?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I open all mine apart from those that start with... Can you send me your worn knickers or stockings... They get there ass deleted!!"

I never get messages like that

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I leave them unread for a day or two then bulk delete. Less chance of getting them whining that I deleted it.

Do you view their profiles first before deciding?"

Depends. If I can tell its a one or two word message, and they have no profile pic then no. As said above, if they have obviously not read my profile I'm not going to read their 'message'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get that much mail.

I'll only delete it if it really sucks or I don't like the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will often delete without reading. I look at the profile first and if they don't match what my profile says I'm looking for I don't open the message. "
same here if it's not for me no point wasting time

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"I open all mine apart from those that start with... Can you send me your worn knickers or stockings... They get there ass deleted!!

I never get messages like that "

I must of had your share.. 3 in 1 day lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends. If I can tell its a one or two word message, and they have no profile pic then no. As said above, if they have obviously not read my profile I'm not going to read their 'message'."

Thanks for the clarification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We delete lots without even reading them. If the people sending them have clearly not read our profile then why would we even bother reading it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

57.97%

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I open all mine apart from those that start with... Can you send me your worn knickers or stockings... They get there ass deleted!!

I never get messages like that

I must of had your share.. 3 in 1 day lol"

LOL, you lucky lady!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I answered all my messages today I think. I've hidden myself again and closed my filters so I don't get any more. I do try to answer everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if a message is from a younger guy, or half way across the country, i delete and block without bothering to look at profile or read it. shadows as avatars and hi or nice tits messages get the same, an avatar, right age range and area i look at profile 1st.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I answered all my messages today I think. I've hidden myself again and closed my filters so I don't get any more. I do try to answer everyone "

That's a reasonable approach. I can understand the rationale in deleting the one liners or where the profiles have minimal information too, as well as not responding to messages from far away.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Depends on how idiotic the message is. I used to bait the idiots, but now I can't be bothered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if a message is from a younger guy, or half way across the country, i delete and block without bothering to look at profile or read it. shadows as avatars and hi or nice tits messages get the same, an avatar, right age range and area i look at profile 1st."

That's a reasonable approach too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is personally I'd rather have my message deleted.

I take that as an answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on how idiotic the message is. I used to bait the idiots, but now I can't be bothered.

"

I don't get very many messages so I can't even indulge in some sport with the idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often delete my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often delete my own"

When i view my own profile it says I mailed myself 11 months ago.

And I don't know how. ...

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I usually at least read it

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I wonder how many of you on receiving a message either delete it without reading it or just leave it unread? "

I read all my mail and read.tbe person's profile first then decide.to send a kind response to those who have not just looked at my pics. Unfortunately 99% of those messages do not warrant a response.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I will often delete without reading. I look at the profile first and if they don't match what my profile says I'm looking for I don't open the message. "

This

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I often delete my own

When i view my own profile it says I mailed myself 11 months ago.

And I don't know how. ... "

Curiouser and curiouser....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I leave them unread for a day or two then bulk delete. Less chance of getting them whining that I deleted it."

No wonder I have been waiting for your reply!

On a more serious note; if you bulk delete does it show unread or deleted?

I am yet to receive a mail from the ladies... I get replies but not first time message. I do get from some guys asking to suck my black cock (that get's the ladies treatments - delete!)

Finally, when I see my message has been read and deleted, I hit the block button, just to make sure i don't send anymore to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wonder how many of you on receiving a message either delete it without reading it or just leave it unread?

I read all my mail and read.tbe person's profile first then decide.to send a kind response to those who have not just looked at my pics. Unfortunately 99% of those messages do not warrant a response."

Is the quality of 99% of your messages that dire?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never delete without reading ..never know what you might miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often delete my own

When i view my own profile it says I mailed myself 11 months ago.

And I don't know how. ...

Curiouser and curiouser.... "

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I answered all my messages today I think. I've hidden myself again and closed my filters so I don't get any more. I do try to answer everyone

That's a reasonable approach. I can understand the rationale in deleting the one liners or where the profiles have minimal information too, as well as not responding to messages from far away."

I made myself searchable today,within ten minutes I had 5 messages,half an hour later that had trebled plus the conversations. It's time consuming but my choice to allow men to message me. When it gets too much I hide myself again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deleted many without reading them, click profile first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I answered all my messages today I think. I've hidden myself again and closed my filters so I don't get any more. I do try to answer everyone

That's a reasonable approach. I can understand the rationale in deleting the one liners or where the profiles have minimal information too, as well as not responding to messages from far away.

I made myself searchable today,within ten minutes I had 5 messages,half an hour later that had trebled plus the conversations. It's time consuming but my choice to allow men to message me. When it gets too much I hide myself again. "

That's one way of keeping things under control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I answered all my messages today I think. I've hidden myself again and closed my filters so I don't get any more. I do try to answer everyone

That's a reasonable approach. I can understand the rationale in deleting the one liners or where the profiles have minimal information too, as well as not responding to messages from far away."

I've had some fantastic sex with men who sent a one liner and don't have more than one pic. I've had some not so fantastic sex with men who have lots of non cock pics,sent a long opening message and seemed interesting. Sexual chemistry is only really evident in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I answered all my messages today I think. I've hidden myself again and closed my filters so I don't get any more. I do try to answer everyone

That's a reasonable approach. I can understand the rationale in deleting the one liners or where the profiles have minimal information too, as well as not responding to messages from far away.

I've had some fantastic sex with men who sent a one liner and don't have more than one pic. I've had some not so fantastic sex with men who have lots of non cock pics,sent a long opening message and seemed interesting. Sexual chemistry is only really evident in person. "

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


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That's a reasonable approach. I can understand the rationale in deleting the one liners or where the profiles have minimal information too, as well as not responding to messages from far away."

every response is reasonable ...its their profile wheather you agree with it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often leave them unread for a day or two lately. When i'm meeting i'll read and delete them pretty quickly because i need to keep on top of my inbox.

I never read mails from profiles with all cock pics, unless they've also sent me pics. I often hope they have sent me something more than cock pics in the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often delete my own

When i view my own profile it says I mailed myself 11 months ago.

And I don't know how. ...

Curiouser and curiouser....

Yep! "

More than one person on here has blocked themselves

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I will often delete without reading. I look at the profile first and if they don't match what my profile says I'm looking for I don't open the message. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

That's a reasonable approach. I can understand the rationale in deleting the one liners or where the profiles have minimal information too, as well as not responding to messages from far away.

every response is reasonable ...its their profile wheather you agree with it or not "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many of you on receiving a message either delete it without reading it or just leave it unread? "

I reply to all first messages. Subsequent messages may get replied to or read then deleted. I don't leave them unread because the yellow 'unread message' icon looks untidy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often delete my own

When i view my own profile it says I mailed myself 11 months ago.

And I don't know how. ... "

You can message yourself from your profile, or via the forums. The forums message you get is cool actually, looks different from any other message you get on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site automatically deletes messages if you haven't read them within a couple of weeks. Sometimes it might simply be that the person you messaged had an inbox of doom & didn't reach your message in time

B x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The site automatically deletes messages if you haven't read them within a couple of weeks. Sometimes it might simply be that the person you messaged had an inbox of doom & didn't reach your message in time

B x"

An inbox of doom? I've not heard that one before

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex

I don't read messages until I'm likely to reply to them (or I will mark it as unread) as I prefer not to reply until I have time to chat properly - just a thing.

I do just delete messages from strangers that just say "hi how are you" or if they're from obviously fake profiles or the kinds of couples who live 300 miles away and clearly just wanna go on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We read all our messages because the truth is we hardy get any

We probably get 2-3 a week, most from our friends keeping contact but apart from that nothing. I find it strange that some Cpls have to bulk delete messages daily, we have our filters on and as a general rule work very well.

Maybe it's so simply no one like us

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I wonder how many of you on receiving a message either delete it without reading it or just leave it unread?

I read all my mail and read.tbe person's profile first then decide.to send a kind response to those who have not just looked at my pics. Unfortunately 99% of those messages do not warrant a response.

Is the quality of 99% of your messages that dire?"

Oh yes!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I delete most as I do seem to get the most odd messages at times or just "hi" messages or really quite cras messages.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I also delete most. I scroll down and read the first few words. The majority of mine are few word messages, 'Hi' or the equally as eloquent, 'fancy a fuck.'

I have active filters and yet over the weekend I received 230 messages.

If a pic grabs my eye (I am shallow like that) or they have typed something that relates to what is in my profile then I will respond.

I have decided not to respond to questions about the motorbike (in one of my pics). I don't know how fast it goes or how much one costs second hand. I don't care how much the insurance would be for a 56 year old from Staines etc. The bike needs it's own profile I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also delete most. I scroll down and read the first few words. The majority of mine are few word messages, 'Hi' or the equally as eloquent, 'fancy a fuck.'

I have active filters and yet over the weekend I received 230 messages.

If a pic grabs my eye (I am shallow like that) or they have typed something that relates to what is in my profile then I will respond.

I have decided not to respond to questions about the motorbike (in one of my pics). I don't know how fast it goes or how much one costs second hand. I don't care how much the insurance would be for a 56 year old from Staines etc. The bike needs it's own profile I think. "

That's just really made me giggle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also delete most. I scroll down and read the first few words. The majority of mine are few word messages, 'Hi' or the equally as eloquent, 'fancy a fuck.'

I have active filters and yet over the weekend I received 230 messages.

If a pic grabs my eye (I am shallow like that) or they have typed something that relates to what is in my profile then I will respond.

I have decided not to respond to questions about the motorbike (in one of my pics). I don't know how fast it goes or how much one costs second hand. I don't care how much the insurance would be for a 56 year old from Staines etc. The bike needs it's own profile I think.

That's just really made me giggle x"

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"I often delete my own

When i view my own profile it says I mailed myself 11 months ago.

And I don't know how. ... "

I mailed myself 6 years ago lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete my sent items. That way my inbox and sent box are for the most part empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op no longer on site.

Interested in getting more views on this

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