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By *rs s 85 OP Woman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Sorry to post this, I'm due to have a coil fitted tomorrow, not just for contraceptive reasons but also for medical reasons, I like men to go ' deep' and love lots of foreplay does anyone else have one and does it effect anything to do with sex its potentially really putting me off having one!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've had the mirena for 15 years and never had a guy say anything and I've never felt anything. Good luck

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By *rs s 85 OP Woman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Oh really!! This is so reassuring, absolutely bricking it having it done but really don't want it to intefere with my sex life either, thank you

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

A couple of men have mentioned that they felt the strings when fingering me, but no-one has ever been stabbed in the cock

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Oh really!! This is so reassuring, absolutely bricking it having it done but really don't want it to intefere with my sex life either, thank you "
the o my thing is you may not feel like sex first couple of days, I had like bad period pains, but to be honest I forget its there.

However, other people may have had different experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hubby could feel the strings when it was first inserted but since then I've met with much larger guys and none have mentioned being able to feel anything.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

You can get the strings trimmed if they are catching on whoever you're playing with.

If they've been cut to a decent length in tbe first place that may only happen if he's particularly endowed and you're in a position that allows him to get particularly deep.

The strings soften after a while too, so if it is an issue to begin with occasionally it should improve.

As far as the coil itself, if you can feel it or feel any discomfort it's wrongly fitted and needs attention immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just commenting to be a rebel :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hubby could feel the strings when it was first inserted but since then I've met with much larger guys and none have mentioned being able to feel anything."

Lol!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Oh, and apart from feeling a bit period crampy for a short while (less than 2 days) after it didn't cause any pain.

One word of warning - when it's being fitted you may feel a little bit like a glove puppet! It's not very dignified and can be a bit uncomfortable but not painful.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Only problem I have is with spotting. I had it fitted as I was having a period every two weeks.

No problems with it otherwise. As previously said though you may experience cramps in first couple of days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a nightmare with mine.. tried a couple of times. Had one dislodged... Partners could feel the strings and I was in constant agony..

So had the implant instead

However I know most people say they are great x

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I've managed to catch a few in past bit of discomfort was told hormones may be affected too with these in Im told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've managed to catch a few in past bit of discomfort was told hormones may be affected too with these in Im told"

Ftlong I'm.not surprised really

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Lol ftlong just a username 9" actual size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A medical point of view..... The actual coil is the other side of your cervix....don't care how big the guy is, he ain't going there when having sex so should never be a problem.

Not all coils have "strings" but even those that do these are soft and, again, should be no problem/discomfort etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to post this, I'm due to have a coil fitted tomorrow, not just for contraceptive reasons but also for medical reasons, I like men to go ' deep' and love lots of foreplay does anyone else have one and does it effect anything to do with sex its potentially really putting me off having one! "

I had mine fitted for

Medical reason, it was put in at hospital and I was given a general! No problems with it, occasionally spotting, but so far so good

Good luck x

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

"A medical point of view..... The actual coil is the other side of your cervix....don't care how big the guy is, he ain't going there when having sex so should never be a problem.

Not all coils have "strings" but even those that do these are soft and, again, should be no problem/discomfort etc."

I've had Mirenas for 14 years with no problems at all. If the strings "tickle" your man you can get them cut shorter. Otherwise, you won't know you've got it, unless, of course, your periods stop

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I couldn't have one. They tried to fit one, I was in absolute agony, felt like someone was fucking me hard with a red hot poker, so I had the injection instead.

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By *lue BelleWoman
over a year ago

Caernarfon. North Wales

Iv has mine for nearly 5 yrs best thing I ever did. (medical reason) It did hurt to have it fitted and a couple of days cramps but you soon get over that. Only one person has ever commented that he could feel it and that was only when I was on top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get your string cut too short, tis best for them to be twirled around themself rather than a short pokey bit

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

I am so relieved to have got a mirena too. Also stopped my periods - utter bliss.

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By *lue BelleWoman
over a year ago

Caernarfon. North Wales

"I am so relieved to have got a mirena too. Also stopped my periods - utter bliss.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Just be aware that if you have a copper coil rather than a mirena it can cause a lot of problems with periods.

I had mine removed after my periods got very heavy, painful and started lasting upto 10 days

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Just be aware that if you have a copper coil rather than a mirena it can cause a lot of problems with periods.

I had mine removed after my periods got very heavy, painful and started lasting upto 10 days"

Mine just hot a little heavier for about 3 periods then settled back down again. The hormones in the mirena don't agree with me.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

"Just be aware that if you have a copper coil rather than a mirena it can cause a lot of problems with periods.

I had mine removed after my periods got very heavy, painful and started lasting upto 10 days

Mine just hot a little heavier for about 3 periods then settled back down again. The hormones in the mirena don't agree with me."

I had mine for two years.The longer it was in there, the worse my periods got. It got to the stage where I was taking time off work every month because of the pain and how heavy it was. It was a relief to get it taken out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had no issues with mine at all. Just some spotting at the beginning.

The only bad side I've heard is from a friend who had a cock piercing and it caught on his partner's coil threads. Pulled the coil completely out. He always removed his piercing after that !

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Mrs S this thread just shows that there's a wide variety of experiences with coils. I'm sure it'll all be fine apart from a bit of discomfort and loss of dignity (it's tricky to be dignified in stirrups).

The important thing is to use the aftercare service if you feel you need it. Discomfort and some cramping is fine, pain or a temperature is not. And if Mr S encounters the threads go back to get them trimmed.

Above all DO NOT panic or stress about this, in the vast majority of cases it's routine with no problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Merina is fine - no comments, other than the unpredictability of periods/spotting for the first 3/6 months

Hurts like a bitch when they are putting it in tho x

Sara

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took a painkiller before going to have it put in and I didn't actually find it uncomfortable. I will be having another Mirena when this gets to the end of it's lifespan. It's been the best form of contraception I've ever had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a merina put in on Consultants decision for heavy and painful periods. Assured me at hospital it was the best thing since sliced bread and I would love it.

It caused bleeding for months, the worst pain I have ever felt, robbed me of my libido. Cysts on my ovaries, breast pain so bad I had to have strong painkillers on prescription.

So it wasnt the cure all miracle that the hospital assured me.

Had it taken out after several months and now I feel like I used to. I had forgotten how bright I used to feel.

For some it works, for others it doesnt. I think hospitals/Gp's should make sure every woman having one in knows every fact.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Had a merina put in on Consultants decision for heavy and painful periods. Assured me at hospital it was the best thing since sliced bread and I would love it.

It caused bleeding for months, the worst pain I have ever felt, robbed me of my libido. Cysts on my ovaries, breast pain so bad I had to have strong painkillers on prescription.

So it wasnt the cure all miracle that the hospital assured me.

Had it taken out after several months and now I feel like I used to. I had forgotten how bright I used to feel.

For some it works, for others it doesnt. I think hospitals/Gp's should make sure every woman having one in knows every fact.

That's why I had a copper one. They put me on the mini pill for a while which is the same hormones and I was either angry or weeping for six weeks!

Some people have issues but they settle down in the first couple of months. I couldn't have continued to see if they settled down - I would have either been arrested or sectioned!

The copper coil has no hormones. There is a chance it can make your bleeds heavier but that wasn't my experience.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Getting the coil was the best thing for me, I had horrendous bleeding for a couple of years. No idea of the cause, but the coil has solved it.

Mr is vwe and he's not had an issue with the strings at all

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Also, it was on a par with having a smear for me, so slight discomfort and that was it.

I occasionally have light spotting and sometimes a discharge instead of a period

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I've got the mirena coil. Not a problem with it.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Had a merina put in on Consultants decision for heavy and painful periods. Assured me at hospital it was the best thing since sliced bread and I would love it.

It caused bleeding for months, the worst pain I have ever felt, robbed me of my libido. Cysts on my ovaries, breast pain so bad I had to have strong painkillers on prescription.

So it wasnt the cure all miracle that the hospital assured me.

Had it taken out after several months and now I feel like I used to. I had forgotten how bright I used to feel.

For some it works, for others it doesnt. I think hospitals/Gp's should make sure every woman having one in knows every fact.

Very similar to this.

I hated the thing! It made me soo ill, blinding headaches, exhaustion, joint and back pains. And as a contraceptive is was perfect, my libido was non existent even when I did have the energy.

Then I had problems getting it removed, my GP wouldn't do it, even though they put it in. I had to go to a family planning clinic and only when I told them I had googled how to remove it myself and I would, did they take the bloody thing out, but they weren't happy about it

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By *rs s 85 OP Woman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Cricky very mixed reviews then!! After building myself up for it, it's been cancelled now! It's to treat hormone levels but I've also read that this can make them worse.... All this cause I've lost alot of weight!! Thank you for all your advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a marina fitted after having my girl. Buggered my hormones up! Got bad depression thankfully it came out after 8weeks on its own.

Need to look into other options now though. who has experience with the implants??

I'm scared of getting another coil but need something as hubby and I don't want any more at this time.

Mrs P x

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I had a marina fitted after having my girl. Buggered my hormones up! Got bad depression thankfully it came out after 8weeks on its own.

Need to look into other options now though. who has experience with the implants??

I'm scared of getting another coil but need something as hubby and I don't want any more at this time.

Mrs P x "

What about a hormone free copper coil? Everything else has some level of hormones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one for 5 years and the ex always complained he could feel it. I solved the problem by divorcing him and getting the 3 yearly implant lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had my implant for 2 years almost now. Never had a problem with it. No periods for almost a year after insertion. And you can only feel it if you poke around looking for it. My daughter is on her second 3 yearly implant. Best invention for contraception. Taking it out they give you local anaesthetic and the incision is tiny, about the same width of your little finger nail if not smaller.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A coil can affect a marriage. I remember my ex wife having one fitted. And every time she crossed her legs she turned the telly over. Tut the rows we had

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"A coil can affect a marriage. I remember my ex wife having one fitted. And every time she crossed her legs she turned the telly over. Tut the rows we had

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oi... she said for ladies only mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 year implant was horrific. I was great and happy and wonderful then bam! Horrid. Never again.

The doctor who took it out was lovely and said all things like this can work so differently from one woman to the next it is often really trial and error! Look at how different people's experiences here have been.

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By *he one you wantMan
over a year ago

kidsgrove

"Mrs S this thread just shows that there's a wide variety of experiences with coils. I'm sure it'll all be fine apart from a bit of discomfort and loss of dignity (it's tricky to be dignified in stirrups).

Above all DO NOT panic or stress about this, in the vast majority of cases it's routine with no problems.

Being the actual Mr s, I don't mind my cock being tickled

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Just to give the guys something to read...

You know when you get that urge to eat something just because it's there?

And That's why I'm no longer a gynaecologist..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had mine fitted in November last year, as was having a period every two weeks.The doc said "oh you are at that age now," bitch! In the past I have tried the pill and injection and hated the side effects. Since having the coil it took 3 months for my body to adjust and for my periods to settle. Now I do not know how I managed without it. It is great in my opinion. Go for it. Can't feel the thread at all and the best thing, no period at for nearly 2 months.

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

"Just to give the guys something to read...

You know when you get that urge to eat something just because it's there?

And That's why I'm no longer a gynaecologist..

I. Am.never. Seeing. Another. Gynaecologist. Ever.

Ugh. suggest you go into upper gi or ent instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a Mirina coil fitted after my son was born. Sorry to say, it was 11 months of hell. My ex whinged coz he could feel the threads and I had them cut short but he reckoned he could still feel them jabbing the end of his cock. (He is huge though). I had other issues though too; but on the plus side for you, I was one of the very few women who have problems with it. Get it fitted, try it out for a while and hopefully you'll be part of the 99% of women who have no problems at all.

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