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When meets don't work out

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By *iss lipsyanddipsy OP   Couple
over a year ago

meath

What s your _iews need a bit of advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U mean after the event or while it's happening?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you share more ? As in , in what way did it not work out ?

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

social or play?

bleedin' nora, this is like give us a clue!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it Colonel Mustard in the library with a candlestick??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had a bad meet.

Had one or two where I wasn't attracted and didn't have sex.

Pics didn't quite match up shall we say.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"What s your _iews need a bit of advice"

Entirely depends on what went wrong at one end of the spectrum I would advise forgetting it and moving on at the other call the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might be about a couple judging by her status?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When good meets go bad.

A Fox Network reality show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What s your _iews need a bit of advice"

Completely vague and useless request without any details.

Didn't work out because they didn't turn up?

Because they were not the person in the pictures or the pics were out of date?

Because they turned up d*unk or on drugs?

Because they turned up with thier kids?

Because they were pushy and offensive?

Because they thought you dint look like your pics, or you were d*unk, or they found you pushy and offensive?

You just didn't click with each other?

You got cold feet?

They got cold feet?

There's a million ways a meet might not work out and a million different bits of advice for each so you might need more detail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you do don't name & shame.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Hard to advise without knowing whats gone wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bad odours maybe? erm they enjoyed the meet you didn't? it was your mam?

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Not had a bad meet.

Had one or two where I wasn't attracted and didn't have sex.

Pics didn't quite match up shall we say. "

Me too, I've been honest, and than I've left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not had a bad meet.

Had one or two where I wasn't attracted and didn't have sex.

Pics didn't quite match up shall we say.

Me too, I've been honest, and than I've left. "

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By *rMrsProseccoCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Tell me about it we have had 2 meets and neither lead to proper full on action first the one last night ended in woman getting cold feet during it and basically walking away due to trust issues with hubby. But left us feeling very dejected and wondering if it's for us. We are obviously picking the wrong people we really liked both couples we met the 2nd we invested many weeks and months of messages.and they are still messaging us saying they want to be friends was kinda looking for friends with benifits. Thinking of sticking to camming

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By *iss lipsyanddipsy OP   Couple
over a year ago

meath

While is hapning

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"While is hapning "

If things are making you uncomfortable or you don't like it bring things to a halt.

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By *iss lipsyanddipsy OP   Couple
over a year ago

meath

Yes that's it pics didn't match up and I let that bit go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me about it we have had 2 meets and neither lead to proper full on action first the one last night ended in woman getting cold feet during it and basically walking away due to trust issues with hubby. But left us feeling very dejected and wondering if it's for us. We are obviously picking the wrong people we really liked both couples we met the 2nd we invested many weeks and months of messages.and they are still messaging us saying they want to be friends was kinda looking for friends with benifits. Thinking of sticking to camming "

This is why I don't play with couples.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would politely show them the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not had a bad meet.

Had one or two where I wasn't attracted and didn't have sex.

Pics didn't quite match up shall we say. "

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have key words to let the other know something is up.. although if I was really uncomfy I'd just say something x

We once made the mistake of carrying on and it took us a while to sort out whether we would meet at houses again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's exactly why we have a social meet first.....been caught out a couple of times!

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By *iss lipsyanddipsy OP   Couple
over a year ago

meath

Ok after all that no 1 can c what I posted sorry about that I sent it privately will have to put it back up now sorry folks

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By *iss lipsyanddipsy OP   Couple
over a year ago

meath

It was him

Her other half that was not happy with my hubby telling her she was gorgeous don't think

He liked that at all

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By *iss lipsyanddipsy OP   Couple
over a year ago

meath


"Whatever you do don't name & shame. "
I didn't Hun and won't thanks

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Yes that's it pics didn't match up and I let that bit go "

That was perhaps the main mistake, you overlooked that dishonesty. If the could represent a false sense of self through pics what made you think they would be respectful during play?

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By *iss lipsyanddipsy OP   Couple
over a year ago

meath

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Might be an idea to sort this out with the couple or admin if they're saying things about you. You are actually saying things about them too and we only have one side of the story.

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By *iss lipsyanddipsy OP   Couple
over a year ago

meath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not had a bad meet.

Had one or two where I wasn't attracted and didn't have sex.

Pics didn't quite match up shall we say.

Sorry "
giggidy

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By *iss lipsyanddipsy OP   Couple
over a year ago

meath

Ok will do thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be an idea to sort this out with the couple or admin if they're saying things about you. You are actually saying things about them too and we only have one side of the story. "
how can i report someone if they have blocked me?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Might be an idea to sort this out with the couple or admin if they're saying things about you. You are actually saying things about them too and we only have one side of the story. how can i report someone if they have blocked me?"

If youve still got a message from them you can report via the message

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By *iss lipsyanddipsy OP   Couple
over a year ago

meath

I don't Hun I deleted them but no who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be an idea to sort this out with the couple or admin if they're saying things about you. You are actually saying things about them too and we only have one side of the story. how can i report someone if they have blocked me?

If youve still got a message from them you can report via the message "
no messages deleted and tried fabd pics but they were gone

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Might be an idea to sort this out with the couple or admin if they're saying things about you. You are actually saying things about them too and we only have one side of the story. how can i report someone if they have blocked me?

If youve still got a message from them you can report via the message no messages deleted and tried fabd pics but they were gone "

If you remember tge usernsme you could use tge contwct link.to discuss it privately with admin

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