FabSwingers.com forum: Abusive Messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm lucky not to have had many on here (other sites were a different matter). I have Borderline Personality Disorder, I can't stand face pics of myself - which is my prerogative. I am constantly harassed for them, to me sex is sex; even if I am in the minority. For my post to be described as "vile", speaks volumes about some guy's proirity of looks over intelligence, humour, and of course, sexual ability.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Abusive messages aren't nice.

I have to say though that on here I prioritise looks because you can't tell about the other things unless you meet the person.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Report them every time

It's the only way

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

To be honest most people won't meet without seeing a face picture

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks, I did. I understand many people go on looks, but great sex doesn't depend on appearance for me - even when I was a size 12!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If people ask for a face picture, even though you have said you won't provide them, then just move on. They aren't going to be the people you want to meet.

I ask to see a face picture so that I know who I am going to meet. If their profile states they will never provide one then I move on to someone else.

Report any abuse.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

You can't be harrassed by a lot of people only asking you once. That's by definition.

You cannot be contacted more than once if you send a message saying - no thank you - and then block.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Thanks, I did. I understand many people go on looks, but great sex doesn't depend on appearance for me - even when I was a size 12!"

I agree

I meet people who treat me nicely

Not the "beautiful people"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few abusive messages off guys, I just block them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

True. I have met some genuine people (past accounts) without face pics.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

What photos you put up are your own affair, but a couple of very poor generic pics of a vagina isn't going to engender much of an interest.

I would never meet on the strength of your pics personally.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Appearance is everything in getting sex.

Ask a peacock.

No attraction no sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's right, casual sex means for me, looks are not important. Its just a fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Harassed by a variety - always block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't have sex with someone i wasn't attracted too I have tried but I just couldn't I have to fancy em

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks, I did. I understand many people go on looks, but great sex doesn't depend on appearance for me - even when I was a size 12!

I agree

I meet people who treat me nicely

Not the "beautiful people""

I think you misunderstand attraction then

I don't necessarily go for "the beautiful people" whatever or whoever they are but I am not here to form a relationship I am here to have nsa sex with people I find physically (and for me facially in particular)attractive. I wont be having sex with an attractive horrible person or with an unattractive (to me) person that I do like. You may think me shallow but it works for me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"That's right, casual sex means for me, looks are not important. Its just a fuck

Great. Well you two get together then.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Report if you think abusive and block is the best option.

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