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By *ivemeyoursoul OP Woman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

got easier to get,love got harder to find...

Is this maybe true?!

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By *ugbythighs82Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"got easier to get,love got harder to find...

Is this maybe true?!"

I thought the exact same thing... and then I ended up in a long term relationship with somebody I met on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love has always been harder to find.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the harder you look, maybe the more difficult it is to achieve.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"got easier to get,love got harder to find...

Is this maybe true?!"

Love was always harder. There are two halves of a soul and 6 billion people on the planet to sift through until the other half is found. Staggering odds

Whereas being bisexual I am sexually compatible with atleast 5 billion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"got easier to get,love got harder to find...

Is this maybe true?!"

I would agree with that yes

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"got easier to get,love got harder to find...

Is this maybe true?!"

No I don't think it is.

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By *ivemeyoursoul OP Woman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"got easier to get,love got harder to find...

Is this maybe true?!

Love was always harder. There are two halves of a soul and 6 billion people on the planet to sift through until the other half is found. Staggering odds

Whereas being bisexual I am sexually compatible with atleast 5 billion

I wish I was bisexual,you have more choice

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By *ugbythighs82Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

when you meet somebody, whether it's on fab, in a bar, through a freind. You just know if the potential to be together is there.

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By *ivemeyoursoul OP Woman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

but if single people stopped just meeting for sex we would have more time to concentrate on fulfilling our emotional needs, rather than just our physical needs. Then the physical needs would come within the loving relationship.

Maybe I'm just talking rubbish...

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By *ugbythighs82Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"but if single people stopped just meeting for sex we would have more time to concentrate on fulfilling our emotional needs, rather than just our physical needs. Then the physical needs would come within the loving relationship.

Maybe I'm just talking rubbish..."

Agreed, I don't understand how people can have sex with somebody they don't have a connection with.

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By *ivemeyoursoul OP Woman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"the harder you look, maybe the more difficult it is to achieve."

So you just keep your fingers crossed they turn up on your doorstep one day,don't you have to be active and look for it?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

In theory yes, in practice it is very hard to find love I agree, especially 'second time around'.

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By *ivemeyoursoul OP Woman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Maybe I'm just talking rubbish...

Agreed, I don't understand how people can have sex with somebody they don't have a connection with."

Haven't a lot of us done that though without knowing a great lot about someone.

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By *ivemeyoursoul OP Woman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"got easier to get,love got harder to find...

Is this maybe true?!

I thought the exact same thing... and then I ended up in a long term relationship with somebody I met on here."

That's good,I'm thinking that could be a bit of a minefield though,new relationship,jealousy and so forth.

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By *ugbythighs82Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

True, but I need to at least like the person. Some people will fuck somebody who they don't like as a person. Each to there own I guess

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By *ugbythighs82Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *ugbythighs82Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"got easier to get,love got harder to find...

Is this maybe true?!

I thought the exact same thing... and then I ended up in a long term relationship with somebody I met on here.

That's good,I'm thinking that could be a bit of a minefield though,new relationship,jealousy and so forth."

Yeah we thought that, but we're both happy not meeting for the time being.

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By *ivemeyoursoul OP Woman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"True, but I need to at least like the person. Some people will fuck somebody who they don't like as a person. Each to there own I guess"

It's kinda desperate to have sex with someone you don't even like,but as you say each to there own.

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By *ivemeyoursoul OP Woman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"got easier to get,love got harder to find...

Is this maybe true?!

I thought the exact same thing... and then I ended up in a long term relationship with somebody I met on here.

That's good,I'm thinking that could be a bit of a minefield though,new relationship,jealousy and so forth.

Yeah we thought that, but we're both happy not meeting for the time being. "

That's good,you have to establish your own relationship first,that's what's important. Refreshing to know you can find it in any place really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't believe in love. I do believe in having a connection and building a rapport with people and that's easy to do on here.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"got easier to get,love got harder to find...

Is this maybe true?!

Love was always harder. There are two halves of a soul and 6 billion people on the planet to sift through until the other half is found. Staggering odds

Whereas being bisexual I am sexually compatible with atleast 5 billion

I wish I was bisexual,you have more choice

Maybe you are but you just don't know yet

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I think that some close themselves off in order to have more NSA sex. Love requires you to be open, if only to the possibility. Plus romantic love hurts.

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By *oLimFunMan
over a year ago

Exploring You

I think the problem is now a days people aren't always what they seem so they show love and feelings for you and entice you in just to get what they want and then go.

Not saying everyone is, but seems like it was easier in the old times

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Maybe I'm just talking rubbish..."

I've often wondered whether if people had less casual sex it would increase desires for relationships.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Many people who are in love with a partner don't have sex with that partner before marriage.

Others of course still have sex with their girlfriend

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I think the problem is now a days people aren't always what they seem so they show love and feelings for you and entice you in just to get what they want and then go.

Not saying everyone is, but seems like it was easier in the old times

It wasn't but I do think expectations have changed. Most people will still fall in love with someone who lives or works close to them. However, we can all look much further than we used to. The internet provides ways of connecting with people or just seeing other sorts of people.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I do think its harder now but not because of casual sex.

People are making more demands(I'm not saying this is wrong. But especially with the internet, its like a tick box.

You tick all your preferences so it narrows it right down. Its fine wanting a 6ft 2 blonde haired athletic guy between 30/35 but you've also got to find one with your same values and beliefs. I know for a fact if I'd had a tick box I would never have met jay.

Also peoples lives are busier and they don't have the same amount of time to socialise.

Many years ago you where just looking for a husband\wife to get on with and raise a family.

Much more to it now.

But I still don't think finding love was ever easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't look for love how are you going to find it. Been single over 6 years now, I can't pretend I'm not looking or wanting a boyfriend cos it's all I want!

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By *ivemeyoursoul OP Woman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"got easier to get,love got harder to find...

Is this maybe true?!

Love was always harder. There are two halves of a soul and 6 billion people on the planet to sift through until the other half is found. Staggering odds

Whereas being bisexual I am sexually compatible with atleast 5 billion

I wish I was bisexual,you have more choice

Maybe you are but you just don't know yet

ooh now there's a thought

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By *ivemeyoursoul OP Woman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I think that some close themselves off in order to have more NSA sex. Love requires you to be open, if only to the possibility. Plus romantic love hurts.

Very true,I think that's sometimes why I come here rather than a proper dating site. I don't always like the thought of having to sit down and have a conversation about my life. Food for thought!

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By *ivemeyoursoul OP Woman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"If you don't look for love how are you going to find it. Been single over 6 years now, I can't pretend I'm not looking or wanting a boyfriend cos it's all I want! "

It's having someone to share your life with,making plans,holding hands going for a walk,sharing the mundane every day things,being tactile with someone,being silly with someone.

Being single can have it's plus points,but being in a close relationship has to outweigh that.

Will I be in a relationship again who knows. I think as you get older you know what shit you won't put up with anymore,so maybe you do get more choosey.

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