FabSwingers.com forum: The return of the gentleman

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,

In the bar - Gentleman

In the street calling a cab - Gentleman

Cab ride home - Gentleman

On her doorstep - Gentleman

In her bedroom - not so much lol

Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha. You're singing my song.

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By *agan_PairCouple
over a year ago

portchester

Manners, maketh, man.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to think i have always been a gentleman.

Perhaps we could get back to a time when more females behaved like a lady.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good luck

You don't need luck when you have good character, maners cost nothing, but they can get you the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer being a sophisticated ladies bit of rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are maners?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn't pick up a brush like that.....

Not everyone thinks the same even in a place such as this.

The lowest common denominator is not necessarily the one to use....

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By *agan_PairCouple
over a year ago

portchester

"What are maners? "

Saying thankyou, standing at the table when the lady enters or leaves, not pointing out minor spelling errors in a petty fashion. Things like that really.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Whoops, waits with baited breath

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Some of us never went away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It doesn't take brains to be a gent, I can't spell but I'm polite about it, even if someone should try to score points on my lack of education

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,

In the bar - Gentleman

In the street calling a cab - Gentleman

Cab ride home - Gentleman

On her doorstep - Gentleman

In her bedroom - not so much lol

Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some of us never went away "

Good man, top form

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gentlemen Dave here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the gentleman will make a comeback when there aren't so many women favoring vulgar, loudmouthed bastards.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Nowt wrong with a gentleman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can see the fab league of exemplary gentlemen being formed lol

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'm always a gentleman where the ladies are concerned

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Perhaps we could get back to a time when more females behaved like a lady."

There's plenty of us here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps we could get back to a time when more females behaved like a lady.

There's plenty of us here

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,

In the bar - Gentleman

In the street calling a cab - Gentleman

Cab ride home - Gentleman

On her doorstep - Gentleman

In her bedroom - not so much lol

Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it

Love a gent x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love a man to be a gentleman, not to the extreme, just the simple things, opening doors, offering to pay (even though I would go halfs), ladies first, listen as well as talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see the fab league of exemplary gentlemen being formed lol"

Can i be exempt, please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gayyyyyyyyy

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Almost every man I meet here and in my day to day life is a gentleman. There are the odd few who aren't but the truly are in the minority.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You've only got to read some threads on here and see what some of the women say about being treated like a "lady" its a wonder the guys arnt scared off.

I love being treated like a lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gayyyyyyyyy

Yes that's right, just because a man is gay, it in no way means he can't be a gentleman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You've only got to read some threads on here and see what some of the women say about being treated like a "lady" its a wonder the guys arnt scared off.

I love being treated like a lady

That's because you ARE a lady

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I only ever met gentle men on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The return of?

Some of us never went away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like to think i have always been a gentleman.

Perhaps we could get back to a time when more females behaved like a lady."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been a gentleman .....outside of the bedroom that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the gentleman will make a comeback when there aren't so many women favoring vulgar, loudmouthed bastards. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see the fab league of exemplary gentlemen being formed lol"

What a lovely idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can see the fab league of exemplary gentlemen being formed lol

What a lovely idea

Isn't it though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello ladies.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,

In the bar - Gentleman

In the street calling a cab - Gentleman

Cab ride home - Gentleman

On her doorstep - Gentleman

In her bedroom - not so much lol

Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it

Do women generally feel unsafe in men's company? I don't think things have changed in as far as there have always been some men in whose company a woman wont be safe but I don't personally feel unsafe in the company of a man or men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,

In the bar - Gentleman

In the street calling a cab - Gentleman

Cab ride home - Gentleman

On her doorstep - Gentleman

In her bedroom - not so much lol

Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it

Love a gent x

Me too...till the bedroom door closes

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,

In the bar - Gentleman

In the street calling a cab - Gentleman

Cab ride home - Gentleman

On her doorstep - Gentleman

In her bedroom - not so much lol

Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it

I've felt unsafe a few times but that was with ex's who thought it was fun to use me as a punch bag however it has taught me now to fear no one

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Have met some real gentlemen on FaB soo they are not quite extinct

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,

In the bar - Gentleman

In the street calling a cab - Gentleman

Cab ride home - Gentleman

On her doorstep - Gentleman

In her bedroom - not so much lol

Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it

Some men are definitely cunts though. I've seen them, they exist!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My b\f is typical old fashioned gent. He treats me like a queen stands up when I leave the table, always finishes his food same time as me never before and a million other things, I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,

In the bar - Gentleman

In the street calling a cab - Gentleman

Cab ride home - Gentleman

On her doorstep - Gentleman

In her bedroom - not so much lol"

No I'm gentle in the bedroom too - though if she wants wine, she'll have to drink it out of my mouth.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I went on a date a while ago and he opened the car door for me and the resturant door it was a refreshing change

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

"I do love a man to be a gentleman, not to the extreme, just the simple things, opening doors, offering to pay (even though I would go halfs), ladies first, listen as well as talk "

I don't understand why a man should offer to pay ...I thought women wanted equality ...why don't you offer to pay ...he might like it ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,

In the bar - Gentleman

In the street calling a cab - Gentleman

Cab ride home - Gentleman

On her doorstep - Gentleman

In her bedroom - not so much lol

Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it

Some men are definitely cunts though. I've seen them, they exist!

Yep, I think I said that only in a more ladylike fashion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like to think i have always been a gentleman.

Perhaps we could get back to a time when more females behaved like a lady."

And why don't you tell us how women should behave?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a cunt is not a male only trait. Some women are cunts too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fruitcake...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Being a cunt is not a male only trait. Some women are cunts too. "

I agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Being a cunt is not a male only trait. Some women are cunts too. "

This also is true.

I think we should respect each other and the rest will follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have met some real gentlemen on FaB soo they are not quite extinct

Have to agree the age off chivalry is not dead.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Being a cunt is not a male only trait. Some women are cunts too. "

Class post

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

By being a gentleman, you gain respect for yourself, that is how you gain respect from others, and learn to respect others too

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"By being a gentleman, you gain respect for yourself, that is how you gain respect from others, and learn to respect others too

I think you achieve all that by showing respect and any gender can do that.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Are you a gentleman if you let your fellow wankers cum first when spunking over a lady in a bukakee session?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always a gentleman, always cum last

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Being a cunt is not a male only trait. Some women are cunts too. "

Indeed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"By being a gentleman, you gain respect for yourself, that is how you gain respect from others, and learn to respect others too

I think you achieve all that by showing respect and any gender can do that."

But showing respect for all people no mater the gender race religeon or sexual orientation and being a man makes you a gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you a gentleman if you let your fellow wankers cum first when spunking over a lady in a bukakee session?"

Unless playing soggy biscuit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But showing respect for all people no mater the gender race religeon or sexual orientation and being a man makes you a gentleman"

Come again?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you a gentleman if you let your fellow wankers cum first when spunking over a lady in a bukakee session?"

1, as long as you don't spunk on said fellow wankers, I'm sure everything will be fine.

2, you are a gent, for spun king over a LADY in said fashion

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But showing respect for all people no mater the gender race religeon or sexual orientation and being a man makes you a gentleman

Come again? "

Thank you sir, don't mind if I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1, as long as you don't spunk on said fellow wankers, I'm sure everything will be fine.

2, you are a gent, for spun king over a LADY in said fashion

Have you been drinking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you a gentleman if you let your fellow wankers cum first when spunking over a lady in a bukakee session?"

Just means you're not an alpha

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By *ngel delight 69Woman
over a year ago

Torquay

How nice would that be lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well then,let the gentle folk stay in their own circle of friends and the cunts can fuck off and be cuntish to each other. It was nice knowing you all

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"By being a gentleman, you gain respect for yourself, that is how you gain respect from others, and learn to respect others too

I think you achieve all that by showing respect and any gender can do that.

But showing respect for all people no mater the gender race religeon or sexual orientation and being a man makes you a gentleman"

I can't disagree with that but I do disagree with your implication that men no longer treat women with respect, its not something I've noticed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Well then,let the gentle folk stay in their own circle of friends and the cunts can fuck off and be cuntish to each other. It was nice knowing you all

but which group are we in?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't disrespect woman, I just don't respect them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a cunt is not a male only trait. Some women are cunts too.

This also is true.

I think we should respect each other and the rest will follow"

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I do love a man to be a gentleman, not to the extreme, just the simple things, opening doors, offering to pay (even though I would go halfs), ladies first, listen as well as talk

I don't understand why a man should offer to pay ...I thought women wanted equality ...why don't you offer to pay ...he might like it ?"

I did & it flabbergasted him after previous partners of his had never done so.

After almost 3 years we moved in together & housing costs are split equally. However he is the gent & carries bags, opens doors, all the things i fell in love with him for

Mrs WD40

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I've always been taught to pay my own way and that includes paying towards a meal on a date. When I've offered on occasions the men have looked offended some have said don't be silly. I tend to insist on paying half when I don't think there is a spark etc as I don't want the bloke to pay for the whole meal when I'm unlikely to ever set eyes on him again.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I like to treat woman as equals x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I like to treat woman as equals x"

And that in my opinion is the true definition of a gentleman.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I can see the fab league of exemplary gentlemen being formed lol

What a lovely idea

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I'm a LEG man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like to think i have always been a gentleman.

Perhaps we could get back to a time when more females behaved like a lady.

And why don't you tell us how women should behave?"

I did say "a time when MORE females behaved like a lady"

All too often I see females adopting this so called ladette culture.gathering in gangs,intimidating others,fighting,cursing,vulgar displays of misplaced impression.all very unlady like in my opinion.

It's not just some men who have become ungentlemanly,but some females are becoming more unlady like.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Almost every man I meet here and in my day to day life is a gentleman. There are the odd few who aren't but the truly are in the minority.

Me too. It's always lovely to meet true gentlemen. They are strong enough in themselves to accept women as equal but different.

The accusations of not being ladylike because of being a feminist will no doubt emerge on this thread so I may not read beyond this post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer people to be themselves. Just because a man opens a door or pays for a meal doesn't mean he doesn't have the capacity to be a cunt. The same goes for women.

I don't want to have to restrict my actions so they fit into some stereotypical what's right or wrong. I'd like to be able to decide that for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Almost every man I meet here and in my day to day life is a gentleman. There are the odd few who aren't but the truly are in the minority.

Me too. It's always lovely to meet true gentlemen. They are strong enough in themselves to accept women as equal but different.

The accusations of not being ladylike because of being a feminist will no doubt emerge on this thread so I may not read beyond this post.

Interesting point, however I think that the two aren't mutually exclusive. Being a gentleman is about manners and respect, the same as a lady. Neither have relevance to being a feminist

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"Manners, maketh, man."

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Interesting point, however I think that the two aren't mutually exclusive. Being a gentleman is about manners and respect, the same as a lady. Neither have relevance to being a feminist"

I got told by my feminist pal that i was sexist because I held the door open for her.

My response was that I do it for everyone, i'm just polite. Chip on her shoulder.

Not all feminists are like that though, but among the younger generation, that superficial brand of feminism is the most prominent.

I don't agree with the ideology in general, although I often agree with the ultimate goals, I do not agree with the dogma.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'm going to bite my lip and make another bed..... Don't know if I'll last tho.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Interesting point, however I think that the two aren't mutually exclusive. Being a gentleman is about manners and respect, the same as a lady. Neither have relevance to being a feminist

I got told by my feminist pal that i was sexist because I held the door open for her.

My response was that I do it for everyone, i'm just polite. Chip on her shoulder.

Not all feminists are like that though, but among the younger generation, that superficial brand of feminism is the most prominent.

I don't agree with the ideology in general, although I often agree with the ultimate goals, I do not agree with the dogma. "
its not just the young ones I can assure you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'll stay a vulgar bastard im just a mean bean

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"I'm going to bite my lip and make another bed..... Don't know if I'll last tho."

Don't bite your lip, discuss, that's how ideas are shared and progress is made.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Interesting point, however I think that the two aren't mutually exclusive. Being a gentleman is about manners and respect, the same as a lady. Neither have relevance to being a feminist

I got told by my feminist pal that i was sexist because I held the door open for her.

My response was that I do it for everyone, i'm just polite. Chip on her shoulder.

Not all feminists are like that though, but among the younger generation, that superficial brand of feminism is the most prominent.

I don't agree with the ideology in general, although I often agree with the ultimate goals, I do not agree with the dogma. its not just the young ones I can assure you.

Oh I know, a lot more prominent though. The 'old breed' had more specific goals.

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