FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone else use escorts?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anybody else use them (either independent or in parlours)?

I find that when I'm really really horny to a point where wanking doesn't help, and I can't get a meet on here or elsewhere (which is regular) I sometimes give in and pay for it.

Personally I've seen a few dozen ladies over the past few years and have had very positive experiences and have found that the large majority are NOT doing it to put food on the table or fuel a drug habit.

Met some great English girls, also some great Romanians too. Obviously not every experience is good but the majority are. And of course with escorts, protection is a must for your own health.

So guys, instead of complaining endlessly about not getting replies, go and see an escort, you won't regret it.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Never done it myself, but not cause there's anything wrong with it. I'm just a cheapskate haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anybody else use them (either independent or in parlours)?

I find that when I'm really really horny to a point where wanking doesn't help, and I can't get a meet on here or elsewhere (which is regular) I sometimes give in and pay for it.

Met some great English girls, also some great Romanians too. Obviously not every experience is good but the majority are. And of course with escorts, protection is a must for your own health.

So guys, instead of complaining endlessly about not getting replies, go and see an escort, you won't regret it."

Are ya getting commission there fella?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you bare back with Escorts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt paying for sexual favours illegal?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Isnt paying for sexual favours illegal?"

Nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isnt paying for sexual favours illegal?"
No its not, but yes if done on the streets but fine in flats.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anybody else use them (either independent or in parlours)?

I find that when I'm really really horny to a point where wanking doesn't help, and I can't get a meet on here or elsewhere (which is regular) I sometimes give in and pay for it.

Met some great English girls, also some great Romanians too. Obviously not every experience is good but the majority are. And of course with escorts, protection is a must for your own health.

So guys, instead of complaining endlessly about not getting replies, go and see an escort, you won't regret it.

Are ya getting commission there fella?"

Haha no, but there is still a big stigma about escorts that is even present in the swinging community.

I think it's an undeserved stigma

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I know EXACTLY what you mean.

If you can't afford a prostitute use a woman from FAB.

There's loads of folk wont see the harm in what you've just said.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Incidentally .......... as she wont have escorted you anywhere just use the correct terminology which is prostitute.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you bare back with Escorts?"

Didn't read my post did you?

'And of course with escorts, protection is a must for your own health'

Barebacking with escorts isn't a risk worth taking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isnt paying for sexual favours illegal?No its not, but yes if done on the streets but fine in flats."

Learn something everyday

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Incidentally .......... as she wont have escorted you anywhere just use the correct terminology which is prostitute."

She may have escorted him from the door to the sofa or bed, but I agree with both of your posts.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"I know EXACTLY what you mean.

If you can't afford a prostitute use a woman from FAB.

There's loads of folk wont see the harm in what you've just said."

Who said that...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to pay for the services of a classy lady who sounds posh, but who talks utter filth in the bedroom.

Im a sucker for a posh bird who talks dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isnt paying for sexual favours illegal?No its not, but yes if done on the streets but fine in flats.

Learn something everyday

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That's right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anybody else use them (either independent or in parlours)?

I find that when I'm really really horny to a point where wanking doesn't help, and I can't get a meet on here or elsewhere (which is regular) I sometimes give in and pay for it.

Met some great English girls, also some great Romanians too. Obviously not every experience is good but the majority are. And of course with escorts, protection is a must for your own health.

So guys, instead of complaining endlessly about not getting replies, go and see an escort, you won't regret it.

Are ya getting commission there fella?

Haha no, but there is still a big stigma about escorts that is even present in the swinging community.

I think it's an undeserved stigma

I don't think it's about stigma but um okay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather have a woman desire me for me. Wit, charm, character, body. Not the contents of my wallet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I felt the need (and could spare the cash) I'd have no hesitation in paying for an escort.

I'd prefer a proper one though where you go out for the night and she comes back to your place and spends the night - but those type come with a rather large price tag attached unfortunately.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"Rather have a woman desire me for me. Wit, charm, character, body. Not the contents of my wallet. "

Tell me when you find one haha

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Rather have a woman desire me for me. Wit, charm, character, body. Not the contents of my wallet. "

Your wallet may be witty, charming, full of character and have a great body (of notes).

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"If I felt the need (and could spare the cash) I'd have no hesitation in paying for an escort.

I'd prefer a proper one though where you go out for the night and she comes back to your place and spends the night - but those type come with a rather large price tag attached unfortunately.

Buy cheap buy twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rather have a woman desire me for me. Wit, charm, character, body. Not the contents of my wallet.

Your wallet may be witty, charming, full of character and have a great body (of notes).

haha, i actually bet it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a need to.

I have a friend who does and he has qualms about it and is very upfront

It's choice.

And op good on you being upfront

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you bare back with Escorts?"

No worse than bare back with people off here and I reckon an escort would get tested far more regularly!

No glove no love, doesn't matter who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather spend my money going to a swingers club or a normal club have a drink/laugh and see how it turns out,

But have fun with the escorts if that's what you need

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Good for you

enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you bare back with Escorts?

No worse than bare back with people off here and I reckon an escort would get tested far more regularly!

No glove no love, doesn't matter who you are."

I agree wrap it up before you slap it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Because it would do nothing for me.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I know EXACTLY what you mean.

If you can't afford a prostitute use a woman from FAB.

There's loads of folk wont see the harm in what you've just said.

Who said that...?"

It's inferred not stated explicitly.

And I also agree with the sentiment.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"you won't regret it."

I take issue with that statement. I know two people that have regretted the experience both for different reasons. They both went down the professional route too with an independant escort

One got robbed of his wallet, phone and car keys, the other caught gential warts and yes he used a condom but unfortunately condoms dont cover the scrotum and a person can have caught gential warts and be contagious with them for up to 3 months before any physical signs of the warts appear, a bit like how chicken pox is contagious 2 weeks before the spots present.

Of course this could happen swinging too so im not going with the stigma of escorts being filthy prostitutes and crack whores.

Im merely saying, the only reason you havent felt the need to regret your experiences is you havent had a bad one yet.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Who said that...?

It's inferred not stated explicitly.

And I also agree with the sentiment. "

It really isn't..

If anything he inferred the opposite; if you can't get the cream of the crop here at fab then escorts aren't such a bad back up.

Haters gunna hate though and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so do you just go in there, take the clothes off + start banging immediatly?

dont you need some time to warm up, and how do you warm up if theres no real foreplay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you won't regret it.

I take issue with that statement. I know two people that have regretted the experience both for different reasons. They both went down the professional route too with an independant escort

Of course this could happen swinging too so im not going with the stigma of escorts being filthy prostitutes and crack whores.

Im merely saying, the only reason you havent felt the need to regret your experiences is you havent had a bad one yet.

Wouldn't it be awkward if it wasn't the escort who gave him the warts ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alot of the pornstars do abit of escorting on the side

its a good way to bang one of ur idols

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"you won't regret it.

Im merely saying, the only reason you havent felt the need to regret your experiences is you havent had a bad one yet.

That only applies when taken out of context though.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"you won't regret it.

Im merely saying, the only reason you havent felt the need to regret your experiences is you havent had a bad one yet.

That only applies when taken out of context though."

Was it taken out of context though? or was ot.just and open minded way of looking at the statement? )00000

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said that...?

It's inferred not stated explicitly.

And I also agree with the sentiment.

It really isn't..

If anything he inferred the opposite; if you can't get the cream of the crop here at fab then escorts aren't such a bad back up.

Haters gunna hate though and all that."

Really?

If someone is that desperate for a fuck I can think of about 4 absolute shit hole bars in town where I live where someone could pull and it wouldn't be that hard. ....

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"you won't regret it.

I take issue with that statement. I know two people that have regretted the experience both for different reasons. They both went down the professional route too with an independant escort

Of course this could happen swinging too so im not going with the stigma of escorts being filthy prostitutes and crack whores.

Im merely saying, the only reason you havent felt the need to regret your experiences is you havent had a bad one yet.

Wouldn't it be awkward if it wasn't the escort who gave him the warts ... "

Well she contacted him to inform him once her warts appeared and was diagnosed, which was decent of her i bet most wouldnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said that...?

It's inferred not stated explicitly.

And I also agree with the sentiment.

It really isn't..

If anything he inferred the opposite; if you can't get the cream of the crop here at fab then escorts aren't such a bad back up.

Haters gunna hate though and all that.

Really?

If someone is that desperate for a fuck I can think of about 4 absolute shit hole bars in town where I live where someone could pull and it wouldn't be that hard. ...."

alot of the escorts are seriously hot man. you aint finding that in shithole bars lmfao

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

"I would love to pay for the services of a classy lady who sounds posh, but who talks utter filth in the bedroom.

Im a sucker for a posh bird who talks dirty

That's my selling point when I'm working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so do you just go in there, take the clothes off + start banging immediatly?

dont you need some time to warm up, and how do you warm up if theres no real foreplay?"

You do what you and she/he agrees to. It's pretty much like meets on here.

You aren't forced to do anything you don't want to just because someone is paying for you. You try find a time that suits you both, ask for what you want, arrange the meet. Pay and get up to stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said that...?

It's inferred not stated explicitly.

And I also agree with the sentiment.

It really isn't..

If anything he inferred the opposite; if you can't get the cream of the crop here at fab then escorts aren't such a bad back up.

Haters gunna hate though and all that.

Really?

If someone is that desperate for a fuck I can think of about 4 absolute shit hole bars in town where I live where someone could pull and it wouldn't be that hard. ....

alot of the escorts are seriously hot man. you aint finding that in shithole bars lmfao"

Don't go to shithole bars then.

If guys want to dick an escort that's fine.

For me personally it would do absolutely nothing for me.

I see it as a "fuck & go" and I'm not interested in that at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So guys, instead of complaining endlessly about not getting replies, go and see an escort, you won't regret it."

Well....guys

listen to the man! Looks like there is a hope

Ps If some peps on here would start charging for their services they would be millionaires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you won't regret it.

I take issue with that statement. I know two people that have regretted the experience both for different reasons. They both went down the professional route too with an independant escort

Of course this could happen swinging too so im not going with the stigma of escorts being filthy prostitutes and crack whores.

Im merely saying, the only reason you havent felt the need to regret your experiences is you havent had a bad one yet.

Spot on.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Was it taken out of context though? or was ot.just and open minded way of looking at the statement? )00000"

Well yeah it was a bit.

Put into context with the rest of the sentence, it's pretty clear the sentiment was just about the ease of casual sex with prostitutes.

You could regret any number of things in any number of situations. You may as well say don't ever use the phrase 'you won't regret it'.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Do you bare back with Escorts?

Didn't read my post did you?

'And of course with escorts, protection is a must for your own health'

Barebacking with escorts isn't a risk worth taking."

How do you know that people you.meet from swinging sites, dating sites or in bars are disease free? Not everyone gets tested.

Oh, and some of those who meet on sites like this for fun may also be selling via other sites.

Assuming that escorts are more likely to carry disease than other hook ups is very risky.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

It really isn't..

If anything he inferred the opposite; if you can't get the cream of the crop here at fab then escorts aren't such a bad back up.

Haters gunna hate though and all that.

Really?

If someone is that desperate for a fuck I can think of about 4 absolute shit hole bars in town where I live where someone could pull and it wouldn't be that hard. ...."

Not a clue what your point is..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me the idea behind using an escort would be if she possessed those fantasy attributes you like

whether its monster tits, a massive ass/tiny waist, jessica rabbit like curves in general or just that pornstar you like watching or watched/wanked to as a yute

i wouldnt just hire any lady selling her services because i cant get laid anywhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isnt paying for sexual favours illegal?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really isn't..

If anything he inferred the opposite; if you can't get the cream of the crop here at fab then escorts aren't such a bad back up.

Haters gunna hate though and all that.

Really?

If someone is that desperate for a fuck I can think of about 4 absolute shit hole bars in town where I live where someone could pull and it wouldn't be that hard. ....

Not a clue what your point is.. "

My point is.

What you said was suggestive of the only way someone can get fucked is either on here or with an escort, I am suggesting you would be wrong in saying that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just goes to show that we are not all true swingers on here - some guys definitely are just out for a quick shag - so let them do it - and just keep blocking them when they message you with their " fancy a shag" type messages lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Was it taken out of context though? or was ot.just and open minded way of looking at the statement? )00000

Well yeah it was a bit.

Put into context with the rest of the sentence, it's pretty clear the sentiment was just about the ease of casual sex with prostitutes.

You could regret any number of things in any number of situations. You may as well say don't ever use the phrase 'you won't regret it'. "

which is why i dont use it.

you dont regret anything until after youve done it and its gone wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it taken out of context though? or was ot.just and open minded way of looking at the statement? )00000

Well yeah it was a bit.

Put into context with the rest of the sentence, it's pretty clear the sentiment was just about the ease of casual sex with prostitutes.

You could regret any number of things in any number of situations. You may as well say don't ever use the phrase 'you won't regret it'.

which is why i dont use it.

you dont regret anything until after youve done it and its gone wrong "

That isnt true I regret doing stuff that didnt necessarily go wrong.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

My point is.

What you said was suggestive of the only way someone can get fucked is either on here or with an escort, I am suggesting you would be wrong in saying that.

Not at all. I was just saying that the OP wasn't being detrimental to any of the women on here with what he said.

I don't use escorts. I also have waay more sex with people in real life than on here.

It's not easy for everyone to go out and pull in bars though, some come here thinking it's a shortcut. Then they get disappointed when they find out that's not really how it works. The OP was suggesting that escorts are a convenient alternative, and looking for discussion around the matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just goes to show that we are not all true swingers on here - some guys definitely are just out for a quick shag - so let them do it - and just keep blocking them when they message you with their " fancy a shag" type messages lol"

What is a true swinger then?

Do they have blonde hair and blue eyes and a fondness for bratwurs?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Was it taken out of context though? or was ot.just and open minded way of looking at the statement? )00000

Well yeah it was a bit.

Put into context with the rest of the sentence, it's pretty clear the sentiment was just about the ease of casual sex with prostitutes.

You could regret any number of things in any number of situations. You may as well say don't ever use the phrase 'you won't regret it'.

which is why i dont use it.

you dont regret anything until after youve done it and its gone wrong

That isnt true I regret doing stuff that didnt necessarily go wrong."

Well i dont hence my opinion in fact i rarely regret anything i just look at it as a learning experience.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What is a true swinger then?

Do they have blonde hair and blue eyes and a fondness for bratwurs?"

I like Bratwurst. Two out of three ain't bad.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

which is why i dont use it.

you dont regret anything until after youve done it and its gone wrong "

Well that's fine, each to their own. So you are really just making a comment about the phrase 'you won't regret it' rather than anything specific about escorting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date... "

Really?

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

I like Bratwurst. Two out of three ain't bad.

Its all about the currywurst!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date... "

very open and honest post

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Yeah I think swinging and paying for sex are 2 very different things.

My issue is not with the act itself, but I would always perceive that the women are not there out of choice. They might be there out of necessity, coercion etc. I might be wrong, but you would find it hard to convince me otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to own an escort now I've got a corsa

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?"

I thought that. Its true that an escort is paid to make you feel wanted etc but at the end of the day They dont really want you they are only paid to want you.

If they were a true professional and did really desire you they wouldnt be able to have you as a client.

Its a fake form of desire and thats i believe is some of the stigma

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date... "

Thanks for sharing, I bet most people on here have never knowingly met one (like me) or have only met them by paying for their services.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"so do you just go in there, take the clothes off + start banging immediatly?

dont you need some time to warm up, and how do you warm up if theres no real foreplay?"

No different from the "meet today" lot or the "parked in layby and my balls need emptying" brigade. How much foreplay do you think is involved there?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"so do you just go in there, take the clothes off + start banging immediatly?

dont you need some time to warm up, and how do you warm up if theres no real foreplay?

No different from the "meet today" lot or the "parked in layby and my balls need emptying" brigade. How much foreplay do you think is involved there?"

Isn't driving foreplay?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"so do you just go in there, take the clothes off + start banging immediatly?

dont you need some time to warm up, and how do you warm up if theres no real foreplay?"

I am not getting engaged to her

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Who said that...?

It's inferred not stated explicitly.

And I also agree with the sentiment.

It really isn't..

If anything he inferred the opposite; if you can't get the cream of the crop here at fab then escorts aren't such a bad back up.

I have to agree thats how I read it too.

As an aside....before I get to the bottom of the thread I bet there will a post about having a different car that an Escort.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Oh there it is

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Who said that...?

It's inferred not stated explicitly.

And I also agree with the sentiment.

It really isn't..

If anything he inferred the opposite; if you can't get the cream of the crop here at fab then escorts aren't such a bad back up.

I have to agree thats how I read it too.

As an aside....before I get to the bottom of the thread I bet there will a post about having a different car that an Escort."

You were correct the poster now owms a corsa

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Who said that...?

It's inferred not stated explicitly.

And I also agree with the sentiment.

It really isn't..

If anything he inferred the opposite; if you can't get the cream of the crop here at fab then escorts aren't such a bad back up.

Haters gunna hate though and all that."

Cream of the crop?

No, you're right. Something else entirely is being inferred. And it's just as unpalatable.

Work it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rather have a woman desire me for me. Wit, charm, character, body. Not the contents of my wallet.

Tell me when you find one haha

I'm talking to women on here and they haven't asked for money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My point is.

What you said was suggestive of the only way someone can get fucked is either on here or with an escort, I am suggesting you would be wrong in saying that.

Not at all. I was just saying that the OP wasn't being detrimental to any of the women on here with what he said.

I don't use escorts. I also have waay more sex with people in real life than on here.

It could be a decent discussion... probably not on here though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?"

Really what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said that...?

It's inferred not stated explicitly.

And I also agree with the sentiment.

It really isn't..

If anything he inferred the opposite; if you can't get the cream of the crop here at fab then escorts aren't such a bad back up.

Haters gunna hate though and all that.

Cream of the crop?

No, you're right. Something else entirely is being inferred. And it's just as unpalatable.

Work it out. "

What am I missing?

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

No, you're right. Something else entirely is being inferred. And it's just as unpalatable.

Work it out. "

I don't have the time nor the inclination, but thanks for the riddle

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

It could be a decent discussion... probably not on here though... "

Definitely not on here.. So much censorship and judgement for a supposedly sexually liberated community.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

TBH I commend the OP for saying his take on things.

The amount of messages I receive that make me feel like they think I am a free prostitute is unbelievable, just because they are in my city awaiting to go offshore and I am on fab.

They expect me to just roll up after sending 'I'm in such and such hotel' with no other information, what do they expect? Me to just go and grab my coat? I don't think so. (Oh and I haven't read the whole thread in case I have gone off on a tangent)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isnt paying for sexual favours illegal?No its not, but yes if done on the streets but fine in flats."

And bungalows.

Other residential accomodation types are available too.

ps AFAIK it's only legal if there are no more than two "escorts" in any one building, after that it becomes an illegal brothel.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

ps AFAIK it's only legal if there are no more than two "escorts" in any one building, after that it becomes an illegal brothel."

How do prominent gentlemen's clubs get around it?

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over a year ago

I assume escorts are meeting for money and not an exchange of sexual pleasures.

If you can't pleasure them, pay them so that they'll pretend that you have.

If that does it for you, then all is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont you need some time to warm up, and how do you warm up if theres no real foreplay?

No different from the "meet today" lot or the "parked in layby and my balls need emptying" brigade. How much foreplay do you think is involved there?"

never tried a layby, but yeah 'hello' usually works for me!

guess you could squeeze her tits a bit,spank her arse - whatever floats the boat

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

The reason that I get nothing, sexually from either escorts or strippers is that they are about the sexualisation of money, rather than a person.

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By *ichn74Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Can't see a problem???You have needs so do they,Adults having sexual fun we all need that.

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over a year ago

"TBH I commend the OP for saying his take on things.

The amount of messages I receive that make me feel like they think I am a free prostitute is unbelievable, just because they are in my city awaiting to go offshore and I am on fab.

I'm always tempted to reply to these guys with a pricelist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love these threads when some people get on their high horses. 'Swingers are better than escorts'.

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over a year ago

"No different from the "meet today" lot or the "parked in layby and my balls need emptying" brigade. How much foreplay do you think is involved there?

Isn't driving foreplay?

it was in the old editions of Escort/Fiesta -her hand on the gearstick + all that!

well the ones I could still read after prising the pages apart. usually ripping one so you only got half the story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I assume escorts are meeting for money and not an exchange of sexual pleasures.

If you can't pleasure them, pay them so that they'll pretend that you have.

If that does it for you, then all is good. "

Funnily enough, in a recently published survey (by Swansea University i believe) amongst those women who were selling sex, a high number did rank gaining sexual pleasure for themselves quite highly.

'Spose if yer gonna do it you may as well enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ps AFAIK it's only legal if there are no more than two "escorts" in any one building, after that it becomes an illegal brothel.

How do prominent gentlemen's clubs get around it?"

Presumably because they're not owned or the main residence of the woman selling sex?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"TBH I commend the OP for saying his take on things.

The amount of messages I receive that make me feel like they think I am a free prostitute is unbelievable, just because they are in my city awaiting to go offshore and I am on fab.

I'm always tempted to reply to these guys with a pricelist.

I normally respond with 'good for you' or 'I'll just grab my coat' takes them about 30 minutes to realise I'm being sarcastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TBH I commend the OP for saying his take on things.

The amount of messages I receive that make me feel like they think I am a free prostitute is unbelievable, just because they are in my city awaiting to go offshore and I am on fab.

and most of them I wouldn't look twice at in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could afford to I would use male escorts. Work out what I want,look up one who does it,meet in a hotel and get my couple of hours of sexual satisfaction. Not much different to here except I get exactly what I want or he doesn't get paid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?"
I think the really? was questioning whether men would spend £100 on a first date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I assume escorts are meeting for money and not an exchange of sexual pleasures.

If you can't pleasure them, pay them so that they'll pretend that you have.

If that does it for you, then all is good. "

I love sex and cum pretty quick, so long as the guy is doing stuff i like.

Am sure there are some women who will do anything and pretend they like it just because they want the money (and they probably don't get regulars for it), but they are there to pleasure a paying client after agreeing on what they will do together and both are happy with what's agreed. Doesn't matter if they get pleasure, unless the client wants that, so long as the paying customer gets what he wants and the escort is happy to give that to him. Also, if women don't enjoy their clients time they tend to not do repeat meets either, they have enough guys to pick and choose from, much like on here.

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Escorts and swinging can be a blurry line sometimes, think of the gang bangs with £60 admission fees.

Also the tales of guys thinking they have an entitlement after paying for entry to a club.

Swinging should be a meeting of two or more equals for fun, escorts can provide the GFE so many crave for an hour or two that month.

Where escorting worries me is when someone is doing it against their free will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TBH I commend the OP for saying his take on things.

The amount of messages I receive that make me feel like they think I am a free prostitute is unbelievable, just because they are in my city awaiting to go offshore and I am on fab.

I'm always tempted to reply to these guys with a pricelist.

I normally respond with 'good for you' or 'I'll just grab my coat' takes them about 30 minutes to realise I'm being sarcastic

Lol, i just ignore them but yeah can see the fun in winding them up maybe.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"TBH I commend the OP for saying his take on things.

The amount of messages I receive that make me feel like they think I am a free prostitute is unbelievable, just because they are in my city awaiting to go offshore and I am on fab.

and most of them I wouldn't look twice at in a club."

Neither would I and obviously you get the same ones!

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

ps AFAIK it's only legal if there are no more than two "escorts" in any one building, after that it becomes an illegal brothel.

How do prominent gentlemen's clubs get around it?

Presumably because they're not owned or the main residence of the woman selling sex?

Well there's one I can think of in Leeds. Not mentioning names, but it's a blatant brothel operating on a main road..

I always thought it was down to the terminology used and not the number of women present.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I could afford to I would use male escorts. Work out what I want,look up one who does it,meet in a hotel and get my couple of hours of sexual satisfaction. Not much different to here except I get exactly what I want or he doesn't get paid. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it really that much different to "importing a mail order bride?"

OK, time and cost may differ but what the 'eck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I assume escorts are meeting for money and not an exchange of sexual pleasures.

If you can't pleasure them, pay them so that they'll pretend that you have.

If that does it for you, then all is good.

Funnily enough, in a recently published survey (by Swansea University i believe) amongst those women who were selling sex, a high number did rank gaining sexual pleasure for themselves quite highly.

'Spose if yer gonna do it you may as well enjoy it. "

Again, I assume that's a perk of the job. The exchange of money is what really matters.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I once asked an escort "if she did anal..?" She said "yes...but it would cost £90..!"

"ninety pounds,!! thats a bit steep!! " I said...

"tight arse " she replied..

i said "in that case,, go on then.."

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over a year ago

"TBH I commend the OP for saying his take on things.

The amount of messages I receive that make me feel like they think I am a free prostitute is unbelievable, just because they are in my city awaiting to go offshore and I am on fab.

and most of them I wouldn't look twice at in a club.

Neither would I and obviously you get the same ones!

I do lol. Usually just delete and block.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Escorts and swinging can be a blurry line sometimes, think of the gang bangs with £60 admission fees.

Also the tales of guys thinking they have an entitlement after paying for entry to a club.

Swinging should be a meeting of two or more equals for fun, escorts can provide the GFE so many crave for an hour or two that month.

Where escorting worries me is when someone is doing it against their free will. "

Swinging and prostitution are 2 completely different things! Swinging is a relationship choice where a couple have decided that they will not be sexually monogamous.

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over a year ago

"I once asked an escort "if she did anal..?" She said "yes...but it would cost £90..!"

"ninety pounds,!! thats a bit steep!! " I said...

"tight arse " she replied..

i said "in that case,, go on then.."

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Swinging and prostitution are 2 completely different things! Swinging is a relationship choice where a couple have decided that they will not be sexually monogamous. "

Different in practice, yet ethically why does the presence of money change anything.

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over a year ago

"I once asked an escort "if she did anal..?" She said "yes...but it would cost £90..!"

"ninety pounds,!! thats a bit steep!! " I said...

"tight arse " she replied..

i said "in that case,, go on then.."

Or alternatively, as the guy said "if i'd known yer arse was that tight i'd have given you the extra £20 you asked for"

She replied "If i'd have known you did have the extra £20 i'd have taken my tights off."

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Does anybody else use them (either independent or in parlours)?

I find that when I'm really really horny to a point where wanking doesn't help, and I can't get a meet on here or elsewhere (which is regular) I sometimes give in and pay for it.

Met some great English girls, also some great Romanians too. Obviously not every experience is good but the majority are. And of course with escorts, protection is a must for your own health.

So guys, instead of complaining endlessly about not getting replies, go and see an escort, you won't regret it."
. Good post and a very sensible one as well. A lot more efficient that sending out endless emails as well.

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Swinging and prostitution are 2 completely different things! Swinging is a relationship choice where a couple have decided that they will not be sexually monogamous.

Different in practice, yet ethically why does the presence of money change anything.

Also does that mean all the single people both m+ f on here are not swingers? Does a couple breaking up mean you cannot be called a swinger?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Swinging and prostitution are 2 completely different things! Swinging is a relationship choice where a couple have decided that they will not be sexually monogamous.

Different in practice, yet ethically why does the presence of money change anything.

So you're agreeing that they are different then.

The presence of money does change things. Do you see women illegally trafficked to become swingers? Do you see people turn to swinging to feed a drug addiction? Do you see men physical threatening and abusing women into swinging? Do you see poor communities in other parts of the world selling their daughters into swinging?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Swinging and prostitution are 2 completely different things! Swinging is a relationship choice where a couple have decided that they will not be sexually monogamous.

Different in practice, yet ethically why does the presence of money change anything.

Also does that mean all the single people both m+ f on here are not swingers? Does a couple breaking up mean you cannot be called a swinger?"

How do You define swingers then?

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Do I see women being forced into swinging?

Pretty sure there will be some with abusive partners who do this sort of thing.Or those who go along with it because it keeps a roof over their head.

Traffiking is wrong, never pretended it wasn't

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Swinging and prostitution are 2 completely different things! Swinging is a relationship choice where a couple have decided that they will not be sexually monogamous.

Different in practice, yet ethically why does the presence of money change anything.

So you're agreeing that they are different then.

Ok so..

Firstly escorting and street prostitution are two totally different things.

Secondly human trafficking and any form of prostitution are two totally separate things.

Thirdly sexual exploitation in poverty stricken areas doesn't just affect women.

Finally yes i have seen women coerced into swinging by their partners.

The drug thing is a non-sequitur, the drug addiction is the problem, women tend to sell sex to fund it, men tend to steal.

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

How do You define swingers then? "

If someone wishes to use the label they are free to, there is no book saying you cease being a swinger if you were in a swinging couple that breaks up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?"

I do NOT expect a man to spend £100 on a first date!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I assume escorts are meeting for money and not an exchange of sexual pleasures.

If you can't pleasure them, pay them so that they'll pretend that you have.

If that does it for you, then all is good.

Funnily enough, in a recently published survey (by Swansea University i believe) amongst those women who were selling sex, a high number did rank gaining sexual pleasure for themselves quite highly.

'Spose if yer gonna do it you may as well enjoy it.

Again, I assume that's a perk of the job. The exchange of money is what really matters."

I have pro dommed at times and even tho i dont ofter sex i love being paid of cum on a subs face. I dont care what the guy looks like are how old he is i will cum 99% of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?

I do NOT expect a man to spend £100 on a first date!!"
True, just have a cheap pizza or big mac, a date shouldn't need to cost your shirt of lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?

I do NOT expect a man to spend £100 on a first date!!True, just have a cheap pizza or big mac, a date shouldn't need to cost your shirt of lol."

Chips and curry sauce and a bottle of beer.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?

I do NOT expect a man to spend £100 on a first date!!"

Your personal expectations don't change the fact that most blokes will pay for the meal and drinks. Easily get up to a hundred quid or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?

I do NOT expect a man to spend £100 on a first date!!

Your personal expectations don't change the fact that most blokes will pay for the meal and drinks. Easily get up to a hundred quid or so. "

Nah

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Swinging and prostitution are 2 completely different things! Swinging is a relationship choice where a couple have decided that they will not be sexually monogamous.

Different in practice, yet ethically why does the presence of money change anything.

So you're agreeing that they are different then.

Ok so..

Firstly escorting and street prostitution are two totally different things.

Secondly human trafficking and any form of prostitution are two totally separate things.

Thirdly sexual exploitation in poverty stricken areas doesn't just affect women.

Finally yes i have seen women coerced into swinging by their partners.

The drug thing is a non-sequitur, the drug addiction is the problem, women tend to sell sex to fund it, men tend to steal. "

You didn't ask about the difference between different forms of prostitution, you asked about money.

As lots of people are trafficked into prostitution, I see them therefore as fundamentally linked

Sexual exploitation does affect both sexes, but I think most people would agree it affects women and girls more than it affects men and boys.

Selling your body to feed a drug addiction is not the same as swinging.

Swinging is consensual, so if anyone is coerced into it, then it's not swinging. In the same way that cheating and swinging are not the something.

So you honestly think prostitution is the same as swinging?

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

with escorts you are not paying for sex, you are paying for their time. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"with escorts you are not paying for sex, you are paying for their time. xxx

..... and how much is that? ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?

I do NOT expect a man to spend £100 on a first date!!True, just have a cheap pizza or big mac, a date shouldn't need to cost your shirt of lol.

Chips and curry sauce and a bottle of beer.

"
Yes a curry would be nice mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?

I do NOT expect a man to spend £100 on a first date!!True, just have a cheap pizza or big mac, a date shouldn't need to cost your shirt of lol.

Chips and curry sauce and a bottle of beer.

Yes a curry would be nice mmmmm

Hahaha.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

How do You define swingers then?

If someone wishes to use the label they are free to, there is no book saying you cease being a swinger if you were in a swinging couple that breaks up."

No you seem to be confused (because you think the lines are blurred) between swinging and prostitution. So how do you define each of those words?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?

I do NOT expect a man to spend £100 on a first date!!

Your personal expectations don't change the fact that most blokes will pay for the meal and drinks. Easily get up to a hundred quid or so. "

That was my point!

I never said I expected a £100 date either just that it can be very expensive.

Look at it this way if a guy makes a say 200 mile round trip for a meet that lasts a few hours all that different to a man handing over say £120 for a girl to come to him for an hour?

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over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?

I do NOT expect a man to spend £100 on a first date!!

Your personal expectations don't change the fact that most blokes will pay for the meal and drinks. Easily get up to a hundred quid or so.

That was my point!

I never said I expected a £100 date either just that it can be very expensive.

Look at it this way if a guy makes a say 200 mile round trip for a meet that lasts a few hours all that different to a man handing over say £120 for a girl to come to him for an hour? "

The dynamics would be different surely?

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over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?

I do NOT expect a man to spend £100 on a first date!!

Your personal expectations don't change the fact that most blokes will pay for the meal and drinks. Easily get up to a hundred quid or so.

That was my point!

I never said I expected a £100 date either just that it can be very expensive.

Look at it this way if a guy makes a say 200 mile round trip for a meet that lasts a few hours all that different to a man handing over say £120 for a girl to come to him for an hour? "

Which guy has the company car?

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over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?

I do NOT expect a man to spend £100 on a first date!!

Your personal expectations don't change the fact that most blokes will pay for the meal and drinks. Easily get up to a hundred quid or so.

That was my point!

I never said I expected a £100 date either just that it can be very expensive.

Look at it this way if a guy makes a say 200 mile round trip for a meet that lasts a few hours all that different to a man handing over say £120 for a girl to come to him for an hour?

The dynamics would be different surely? "

Absolutely, far more air resistance in driving than riding reverse cowgirl. D'oh.

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

How do You define swingers then?

If someone wishes to use the label they are free to, there is no book saying you cease being a swinger if you were in a swinging couple that breaks up.

No you seem to be confused (because you think the lines are blurred) between swinging and prostitution. So how do you define each of those words?"

Educate me since you are both clearly well informed

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over a year ago

" to a man handing over say £120 for a girl to come to him for an hour? "

£120 quid for 1 fucking hour?...

The fuck. ...

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over a year ago

" to a man handing over say £120 for a girl to come to him for an hour?

£120 quid for 1 fucking hour?...

The fuck. ...

That's the cheap price.

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over a year ago

" to a man handing over say £120 for a girl to come to him for an hour?

£120 quid for 1 fucking hour?...

The fuck. ...

The fuck and maybe some extras for that

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over a year ago

" to a man handing over say £120 for a girl to come to him for an hour?

£120 quid for 1 fucking hour?...

The fuck. ...

Price of a first date like.

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over a year ago

" to a man handing over say £120 for a girl to come to him for an hour?

£120 quid for 1 fucking hour?...

The fuck. ...

Hmmmmmmm 4 mins , let's see, that's £8

Affordable.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

How do You define swingers then?

If someone wishes to use the label they are free to, there is no book saying you cease being a swinger if you were in a swinging couple that breaks up.

No you seem to be confused (because you think the lines are blurred) between swinging and prostitution. So how do you define each of those words?

Educate me since you are both clearly well informed"

OK, maybe I'll rephrase the question.

Would You join a website called Fab Prostitutes?

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By *igerandKittenCouple
over a year ago

London

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?

I do NOT expect a man to spend £100 on a first date!!"

In London a first date can easily cost that much. A meal, couple of drinks. Then add in parking or even public transport costs and you will be in and around that mark.

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

you could spend more than 120 squids in a nightclub and walk out with nothing more than a headache. at least with a escort you get what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?

I do NOT expect a man to spend £100 on a first date!!

In London a first date can easily cost that much. A meal, couple of drinks. Then add in parking or even public transport costs and you will be in and around that mark."

I must be a very cheap date.

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By *igerandKittenCouple
over a year ago

London

" to a man handing over say £120 for a girl to come to him for an hour?

£120 quid for 1 fucking hour?...

The fuck. ...

Hmmmmmmm 4 mins , let's see, that's £8

Affordable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?

I do NOT expect a man to spend £100 on a first date!!

In London a first date can easily cost that much. A meal, couple of drinks. Then add in parking or even public transport costs and you will be in and around that mark."

Don't be silly,the lady won't drink, and save you any taxi fares lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do find this cost thing amusing.

When a couple visits a club it would appear that they can do so on a shoestring lol

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By *igerandKittenCouple
over a year ago

London

"Ex escort here. From a small period of life at 21.

The agency I worked for is reputable, mainly English girls and insists on regular check ups.

Why do men pay for escorts when they could pull in a dive bar as someone posted?

Because a good escort makes you feel wanted, desired and allows you to fulfil your desires. Not worry about whether your adequate or can make her cum. She can make herself cum very easily generally.

I don't see why there is a stigma to it. Most men would spend more than the hourly cost on a first date...

Really?

Really what?

I do NOT expect a man to spend £100 on a first date!!

In London a first date can easily cost that much. A meal, couple of drinks. Then add in parking or even public transport costs and you will be in and around that mark.

I must be a very cheap date. "

Or maybe just have very different expectations.

I'm sure there can be dates that are cheaper and ones that are more expensive.

But £100 is a good baseline.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

You didn't ask about the difference between different forms of prostitution, you asked about money.

Well we were talking about escorting specifically, yet all your comments related to street prostitution.

As lots of people are trafficked into prostitution, I see them therefore as fundamentally linked

Sexual exploitation does affect both sexes, but I think most people would agree it affects women and girls more than it affects men and boys."

Well obviously they are linked, that doesn't mean that both are ethically wrong though. Yes i can agree about more women being affected, what's your point though?

Selling your body to feed a drug addiction is not the same as swinging.

Never said it was.

Swinging is consensual, so if anyone is coerced into it, then it's not swinging. In the same way that cheating and swinging are not the something."

Semantics. The point is you can still have sex with a women being coerced, by being a swinger.

So you honestly think prostitution is the same as swinging? "

No not once did i say that. I was saying why does no strings casual sex becoming suddenly immoral when money comes into play?