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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend

Does anyone think 'no meets in a year' people should be deleted from the site?

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

There's lots of reasons why people not meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean people who aren't verified? They might be shagging other unverified people every day for all you know!!

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Does anyone think 'no meets in a year' people should be deleted from the site? "

Only if they post whining threads about getting no meets on here

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"No

There's lots of reasons why people not meet

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No there isn't lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

There's lots of reasons why people not meet

No there isn't lol"

Family

Work

Loss of mojo

Can't be arsed

Might only use the site to keep in touch with friends

Etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

There's lots of reasons why people not meet

No there isn't lol"

I beg to differ ! Also some people choose not to show their verification summary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be quite honest. If I was on here for a year with no meets. I would delete myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No people use the site for what they want not what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

There's lots of reasons why people not meet

No there isn't lol"

I've seen 2 disabled guys on here who don't/can't meet, should they not be on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i had no meets for longer than two weeks, and it wasn't by choice, then i would delete myself.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

No

Because this site isn't JUST about finding people for sex

Oddly enough!

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I knew someone who hadn't had a meet on the site but met someone and started dating from work, unfortunately things didnt work out after 14 months of being together, after a while he wanted to get back into the scene but alas he had no meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op,why does it concern you.are you having problems ignoring them?

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

There can be plenty reasons why people haven't met.

Or maybe that should be APPEAR not to have met. What proof would you want that people have in fact met.

Stand by your beds for inspection?

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"No

There's lots of reasons why people not meet

No there isn't lol"

Reason to keep them

How about they paid their money?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"To be quite honest. If I was on here for a year with no meets. I would delete myself "

I agree.

As a single guy no meets in a year would work so hard against getting any....

Self delete and start again but no automatic delete..that's a step too far.

People can decide for themselves not to meet if they see such a profile

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"No

There's lots of reasons why people not meet

No there isn't lol

I've seen 2 disabled guys on here who don't/can't meet, should they not be on here?"

I know a mod who hasnt met anyone for well over two years. She defintely shouldnt be on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. I spoke to someone who never had a meet for over a year.

Some people just like camming too.

It's horses for courses. They're not hurting anyone.

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend

Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they are meeting, people they have already met and doesn't fancy writing a 12th very?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook"

Make me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook"

That is bollocks im afraid.

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook

Make me "

Can't you've blocked us

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook

That is bollocks im afraid."

Coming from someone who has blocked us, what you afraid of?

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook"

Rubbish

I don't use Facebook at all

But I've seriously got hundreds of friends on here

What's wrong with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook"

What if I don't use Facebook ?

I pay my site supporters fee if I choose not to meet I wouldn't delete my profile because I love reading shit in the forums lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook

That is bollocks im afraid.

Coming from someone who has blocked us, what you afraid of? "

Spiders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've not met anyone for play in over a year. Guess we better do one now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see what the problem is,if there's something about someones profile you don't like,don't contact them

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Ok I'll get me fab bags packed then

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook

Rubbish

I don't use Facebook at all

But I've seriously got hundreds of friends on here

What's wrong with that?

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But you have loads of verifications so your not the problem xx

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"We've not met anyone for play in over a year. Guess we better do one now? "

We didn't meet anyone for 8 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know profiles that say been on over a year, they could have been on here for 3 years with no meets. THE BLOODY PISS TAKERS, how very dare they!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've not met anyone for play in over a year. Guess we better do one now?

We didn't meet anyone for 8 months."

Tick rock get your arses in to gear before you expire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've not met anyone for play in over a year. Guess we better do one now?

We didn't meet anyone for 8 months."

You gonna leave with us then?

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook

Rubbish

I don't use Facebook at all

But I've seriously got hundreds of friends on here

What's wrong with that?

But you have loads of verifications so your not the problem xx"

It shouldn't be a problem for anyone with none tho

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook

What if I don't use Facebook ?

I pay my site supporters fee if I choose not to meet I wouldn't delete my profile because I love reading shit in the forums lol "

Your right you've paid and should be on here, just on a separate level to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone think 'no meets in a year' people should be deleted from the site? "

Nope, don't understand how that would be an improvement at all but then again I'll meet unverified members too.

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By *exykinkyfuncplCouple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

no why should they everyone takes a break from swinging some women take a year or 2 off for babies or whatever get real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook

What if I don't use Facebook ?

I pay my site supporters fee if I choose not to meet I wouldn't delete my profile because I love reading shit in the forums lol

Your right you've paid and should be on here, just on a separate level to us "

I'm pleased you approve lol

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"You know profiles that say been on over a year, they could have been on here for 3 years with no meets. THE BLOODY PISS TAKERS, how very dare they!! "

Yes!

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"We've not met anyone for play in over a year. Guess we better do one now?

We didn't meet anyone for 8 months.

You gonna leave with us then? "

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

It's 4yrs since we last met anyone

Mind you, we're a right pair of munters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone think 'no meets in a year' people should be deleted from the site? "

Our veri's are very few ,it doesn't mean we're not meeting. . There are other sites. .

So my answer . . No!

Her

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"no why should they everyone takes a break from swinging some women take a year or 2 off for babies or whatever get real "

Babies are shit, we're here for sex!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I can think of far better things to get excited over. This doesn't even qualify as a 1st world problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook"

Always wondered who made the rules on what was what......and here you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a narrow attitude.

This site is for people.

For people to use how THEY want to use it.

Swinging is about individuals with individual tastes, desires and passions.

No one should have that small pleasure taken away because someone else "thinks they have no right to be here because they haven't had a meet in a year".

The membership exists for the members. All of them.

If the members want to meet, excellent.

If they just want to chat and find like minded souls, excellent.

If they want to use the forums and gain a greater understanding of their desires and sexuality, excellent.

If they want to do nothing more than look at the pretty pictures, excellent.

It's called freedom of choice.

Who died and made you the meet police? Thank god you're not the membership monitor......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no why should they everyone takes a break from swinging some women take a year or 2 off for babies or whatever get real

Babies are shit, we're here for sex!"

No ..... Babies shit !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no why should they everyone takes a break from swinging some women take a year or 2 off for babies or whatever get real

Babies are shit, we're here for sex!"

So go and have sex, leave everyone else to whatever they want to do and be quiet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook

What if I don't use Facebook ?

I pay my site supporters fee if I choose not to meet I wouldn't delete my profile because I love reading shit in the forums lol

Your right you've paid and should be on here, just on a separate level to us "

Above ground level suits me fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they've not met..I see the same people regularly most of the time, I don't verify each time otherwise there'd be a million veris!

Just pass them by if you don't like it, no need to pass judgment

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Does anyone think 'no meets in a year' people should be deleted from the site?

Nope, don't understand how that would be an improvement at all but then again I'll meet unverified members too. "

But your from Bolton, so not sure you have a vote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no why should they everyone takes a break from swinging some women take a year or 2 off for babies or whatever get real

Babies are shit, we're here for sex!"

What an amazing quote! That's actually pretty hilarious in it's own misguided 'just d*unk most of a bottle of vodka' way

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

No everyone as a right to be here for their own reasons, it has frig all to do with ypu or anyone else.

The problems actually really easy to solve and heres how;

If you dont like it you just pass those profiles by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Babies are shit, we're here for sex!"

You flunked biology didn't you, sex makes babies.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

What about people who haven't met anyone for 4 weeks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone think 'no meets in a year' people should be deleted from the site?

Nope, don't understand how that would be an improvement at all but then again I'll meet unverified members too.

But your from Bolton, so not sure you have a vote "

What are you guys on ? Can I have some ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook

Always wondered who made the rules on what was what......and here you are"

What he said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about people who haven't met anyone for 4 weeks? "

Change your profile to virgin status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No everyone as a right to be here for their own reasons, it has frig all to do with ypu or anyone else.

The problems actually really easy to solve and heres how;

If you dont like it you just pass those profiles by."

Your not meeting, you have no rights...plus your having a baby and apparently they're pretty shit too......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about people who haven't met anyone for 4 weeks? "
I once went 4 days !!! Never again

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"What about people who haven't met anyone for 4 weeks?

Change your profile to virgin status. "

Sucks to be the OP then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about people who haven't met anyone for 4 weeks? "

Your ok....eleven months you can still be her for....plenty time yet

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"What about people who haven't met anyone for 4 weeks? I once went 4 days !!! Never again "

My kind of guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm, wtf is going on in this topic?

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"What about people who haven't met anyone for 4 weeks?

Your ok....eleven months you can still be her for....plenty time yet "

No me!!! - I am slutty and met last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all know its aimed at single men here, yeah yeah, we know its easy for couples and women, next lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I have take cocks for the ladies that aren't meeting ?

Taking one for the team so to speak ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook

Rubbish

I don't use Facebook at all

But I've seriously got hundreds of friends on here

What's wrong with that?

But you have loads of verifications so your not the problem xx"

There is NO problem.

People with no meets are not the problem.

Too many idiots are the problem.

I know, irony.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"No everyone as a right to be here for their own reasons, it has frig all to do with ypu or anyone else.

The problems actually really easy to solve and heres how;

If you dont like it you just pass those profiles by.

Your not meeting, you have no rights...plus your having a baby and apparently they're pretty shit too...... "

Oh yea forgot that!

how dare i choose to take a break while I have a baby?

Im obviously not a true swinger because apparently they are just here for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I have take cocks for the ladies that aren't meeting ?

Taking one for the team so to speak ??"

What if I take ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not in the rules that you have to meet

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I now meet the ones on my veris on repeat prescription...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about people who haven't met anyone for 4 weeks?

Your ok....eleven months you can still be her for....plenty time yet

No me!!! - I am slutty and met last week "

O.p would be proud!

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"What about people who haven't met anyone for 4 weeks?

Your ok....eleven months you can still be her for....plenty time yet

No me!!! - I am slutty and met last week

O.p would be proud! "

Yeah but once they bump everyone else off the site they will try to get rid of me too

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth

Mmm no! Some people come on here to meet, realise A LOT of people on here are genuine mental cases (or men pretending to be couples ), and then just stay for forum banter or cams. It's really none of your business what others do on the site though!

If you're just 'here for sex', stop posting stuff on the forums, and go find some sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No everyone as a right to be here for their own reasons, it has frig all to do with ypu or anyone else.

The problems actually really easy to solve and heres how;

If you dont like it you just pass those profiles by.

Your not meeting, you have no rights...plus your having a baby and apparently they're pretty shit too......

Oh yea forgot that!

how dare i choose to take a break while I have a baby?

Im obviously not a true swinger because apparently they are just here for sex "

Honestly, I don't know....look at you...blocking up the internets so real salt of the earth swingers can't get through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about people who haven't met anyone for 4 weeks?

Your ok....eleven months you can still be her for....plenty time yet

No me!!! - I am slutty and met last week

O.p would be proud!

Yeah but once they bump everyone else off the site they will try to get rid of me too "

At least you'll make it to the end!

Oh....wait.....I has a meet last week too....best ask for another veri though as I've met her before....then I can make it to the end with you! We'll watch each others backs

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"What about people who haven't met anyone for 4 weeks?

Your ok....eleven months you can still be her for....plenty time yet

No me!!! - I am slutty and met last week

O.p would be proud!

Yeah but once they bump everyone else off the site they will try to get rid of me too

At least you'll make it to the end!

Oh....wait.....I has a meet last week too....best ask for another veri though as I've met her before....then I can make it to the end with you! We'll watch each others backs "

I would rather watch your front

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone think 'no meets in a year' people should be deleted from the site?

Nope, don't understand how that would be an improvement at all but then again I'll meet unverified members too.

But your from Bolton, so not sure you have a vote "

Neither do you! Still don't understand how it would be an improvement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why, they may just like cams and chatting......lot of shy people who like to look but don't meet....just because some people are luck enough to meet every week does not give them the right to try and stop people who don't meet... Typical of some people on here... If your not in the CLICK go away !!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

If I met someone and then didn't have sex with them, should I self destruct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook

That is bollocks im afraid."

Swinging isn't just about "sex" it's also to have a laugh and natter with like minded people. We have meets with others in a specific club near Manchester and loads are not on Fab...so what ? Does that mean we are banned from Fab...

Think some people have got the wrong idea of swinging and what Fab represents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a wonder you get meets with such a selfish attitude of " it my rule and I will tell you my opinions but don't care about yours " tell you what, just stick to your friend and don't stick your nose into what others are doing on here... Another know it all who thinks the make the rules....just let people do what they want... Either that or go make your own swinging site for all the CLICKY group who shag everything and anything xxx

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Nope, this site is just for sex, that's what Swinging is. If you want to stay in touch with friends then go for Facebook

That is bollocks im afraid.

Swinging isn't just about "sex" it's also to have a laugh and natter with like minded people. We have meets with others in a specific club near Manchester and loads are not on Fab...so what ? Does that mean we are banned from Fab...

Think some people have got the wrong idea of swinging and what Fab represents"

If we wanted a social we'd just see our friends, this is for sex xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

Maybe on that note it is time to close.

To the OP....the best thing to do is not to contact people with no meets for a year or more and then the site will work how you want it.

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