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"it is too easy to be signed off too sick to work thats the problem. I have been working for the last 24 years and studying to improve my carear. I have clincal depression that i am not ashamed of saying, it can and is being controlled by the right medication but any doctor would sign me off work for 6 months. There is always something u can do for a job unless u are very ill. " So glad you can say your not ashamed of having clinical depression. A lot of people have some form of mental illness at some stage in their life and its only by telling others and not feeling ashamed about it that helps people understand. I have bipolar type 2. It was only recently diagnosed correctly. I been on and off medication for 20 year. Mainly my fault cos i didnt want to be seen as different and partly cos doctors couldnt diagnose it properly due to me hiding everything at consultations as i wanted to seem 'normal'. but now i just think stuff what others think and want to get on with my life rather than make my self suffer. Medication controlling it along with CBT and regular consultations. And now i understand myself im starting to find confidence i never knew i had. I may be 36 but im catching up with missed years. Im out of the MI closet and proud! Lol | |||
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"You should have reported him. It is the duty of every honest citizen to report those abusing the system in this shameful way. If a rogue salesman came to your house trying to flog you stolen household items you would report him without even thinking about it and benefit cheats are no different - they are stealing from every honest taxpayer." I said something to the staff at the desk when I got my voucher. The reply Its not our place to judge. No, but you can look down your nose at me, because I couldn't afford the £40 train journey for an interview. | |||
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"You should have reported him. It is the duty of every honest citizen to report those abusing the system in this shameful way. If a rogue salesman came to your house trying to flog you stolen household items you would report him without even thinking about it and benefit cheats are no different - they are stealing from every honest taxpayer. I said something to the staff at the desk when I got my voucher. The reply Its not our place to judge. No, but you can look down your nose at me, because I couldn't afford the £40 train journey for an interview. " It's a poor system that passes the buck and turns a blind eye to blatant abuse. Write to your local MP and tell him/her what you experienced. Don't let it slide as it's the kind of apathy you experienced first hand that allows this sort of thing to continue and no amount of posturing by ministers in parliament can effect changes if these useless bureaucrats on the front line continue to turn a blind eye. | |||
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"I know we all moan about "big brother" etc and people watching everything we do..apparantly . But its down to every taxpayer and honest person to bloody report people who claim when they shouldnt. Why the hell should they get away with it ? And yes..it is OUR buisness . Its our bloody money going towards their fags, beer and holidays etc. Maybe...just maybe ... they wont be so cocky if they think even more people are gonna dob them in. " Yes, yes in total agreement. Its our money that is being wasted after all. | |||
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"Ive been off work long term with depression(im type 2 bipolar) as from august i had to apply for ESA as work did not pay full sick pay after a certain amount of time. Having to go to the job centre and hand in sick notes and go for interviews about when i would be fit for normal work, i could see people who were desperate to get work and back to work but being told they maybe OVER QUALIFIED for that position. Hardly an incentive to get people back to work and support them with extra benefits. Especially when next to them chav and shel suit were happy to take handouts and openly admit they go on holidays abroad and nights out all the time! " I do feel for you - and it does show that not every situation is the same - and it is easy to judge somebody without knowing all the circumstances, for example if you have a long term illness which is not clearly visible to others. | |||
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"What supplier are you with that you only pay £21.50 a week for water, elec and gas? I'm gonna change." 1 bed flat £10 Electric EDF £5.00 Gas British Gas £6.50 Water Southern water and a large store of candles lol | |||
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"I've just had to go on benefits due to splitting up with Hubby, as I am unable to work because of health reasons I will be getting ESA which is paid at the same rate as JSA, the government say that this payment of £65 per week is enough for a single person to live on, not all of my rent is paid for me so I have to top it up out of my benefit, so lets see how it works, Rent top up £10.00 Gas, Electric, water £21.75 Food and shopping £25.00 TV licence £ 3.00 Internet and phone £ 6.25 Contents and life insurance £ 5.60 Total £71.60 Obviously the Government must be right, as you can see. " it is not a new figure is it?,it's the same that the old outgoing crew used up until they departed leaving us all in the mire. | |||
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