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one for the ladys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do you get pissed off if you meet a guy say 2 or 3 times then they dont get in contact........

or is it just the way it is? x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt bother us as its just nsa fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its swinging and not dating site ,, and its rear to have play mates that end up good friends .... Most looking to move on to the next person. jo xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i dont want dating hun but if you both enjoy the sex why not carry on?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it's just the way it is..

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

.

It's like when you are contacted all enthusiastic, can't wait to meet, you're ideal, then zilch.

But just move on, they obviously have and so must we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont want dating hun but if you both enjoy the sex why not carry on?"
because some men think thay get to close if that carry on ,, and run , thats why,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what a qoute....... and it says one for the ladys

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it's just the way it is.. NSA fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so its the big c word then......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what a qoute....... and it says one for the ladys"
I have over the years meet men ,,, some alot then it stop ,,,,, and found out it was because thay could not handle it . So thay moved on and s did i ... and the sex was out of this world. jo xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks jo hun xxx

well iam off packing my bags and looking for my next one

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

for some guys it is a numbers game.

some may not handle the emotional

connection well.

some may be scared for getting hurt.

probably a lot of the same concerns that the ladies face.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

why should this be just "one for the ladies"??? This is most certainly not an gender-bound issue!

guys can experience exactly the same thing, whereby they meet someone a few times and the female backs off (speaking from experience).

The vast majority of us here are looking for NSA fun, anything more is a whole different issue.

(just my tuppence worth) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_muma yes your right ,,, its not just the ladys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you get pissed off if you meet a guy say 2 or 3 times then they dont get in contact........

or is it just the way it is? x x "

if he was really hot, most certainly and there are guys who probably feel the reverse (excuse expression)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say this is more one for the men....

....not sure how a woman can give you a male slant on this, just their own personal experiance.

i personally believe it's the thrill of the chase. i dont doubt they mean everything they say, but the newness has then gone and they need that thrill again.

good luck finding what it is you are looking for x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Let's face it... if we were all happy to keep meeting the first decent shag we met, most of us would have left after the first week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be disappointed, however, at the end of the day, it is NSA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not just some of the men who are like this, in my personal opinion.

I think that it is easy to get too attatched if you keep meeting the same person (I Did) and had to distance myself, recently.

Also, they do say (whoever They are), that variety is the spice of life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you get pissed off if you meet a guy say 2 or 3 times then they dont get in contact........

or is it just the way it is? x x "
Maybe you come across as needy, that can be a turn off for some men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite like to remain friends with some.. and then i9t is the very essence of swinging that you do move to others... so either is ok as long as it is mutual?

Would not like clingy people as I might feel responsible for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be disappointed, however, at the end of the day, it is NSA. "

I agree with Pearl, but if your lucky you will make friends and meet up with when it suits you both and for as long as you want to - sex can get better when you get to know someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of all the meets I have, no one has stayed in touch, I thought I was ok bedroom wise!! LOL

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