FabSwingers.com forum: is it just me?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok I realise that every so often you'll get the occasional "crazy" one on here that will pester you with messages but...

A week ago a guy sent me really nasty abusive messages for ignoring him. I eventually replied and pointed out I had loads of messages and hadn't got his yet to reply to plus stupidly apologised. He continued to be abusive so reported and Blocked. All was fine and looked like his account was deactivated. 2 days later another guy did the same. Was a bit suss messaged a bit and then thought this is the same guy. Called his bluff. Turns out? Same guy. He deletes his account . again all good. Now tonight he's back again under another name, still pestering me to add him and told him where to go and yup. .. he's deleted his account again.

can't be arsed with this idiot contacting me every day with a new account can admin not see or check the IP number or do I just need to keep blocking this cockwomble?

What also amazes me is he a manages to get a meet verification within hours just so he can message me to say "look how goody veri is... add me!!!"

is his verification a fake account?

help please...x

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Blocking newbies from contacting you will help

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

It could be a fake veri, but if he has been on here before then it could be real.If you use your filters to block newbies from mailing you he won't be able to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Blocking newbies from contacting you will help "

thank you new to this too. Lol!..x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It could be a fake veri, but if he has been on here before then it could be real.If you use your filters to block newbies from mailing you he won't be able to"

thanks. ..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sounds like a charmer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry i can't help...but..."cockwomble"??

I'm gonna use that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's plenty that could be done, based on device I'd, IP, email. But you could just block messages from non site supporters:he isn't going to keep paying for an account to be blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry i can't help...but..."cockwomble"??

I'm gonna use that

It's one of my favourites

OP how about blocking messages from new members? If he has to wait a week or two weeks or however long each time I'd wager it'll become boring for him very fast

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry i can't help...but..."cockwomble"??

I'm gonna use that

it's my fave word!! Lol...x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He sounds like a charmer. "

Real charmer lol!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's plenty that could be done, based on device I'd, IP, email. But you could just block messages from non site supporters:he isn't going to keep paying for an account to be blocked. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's plenty that could be done, based on device I'd, IP, email. But you could just block messages from non site supporters:he isn't going to keep paying for an account to be blocked. "

thanks found the block newbies bit...x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry i can't help...but..."cockwomble"??

I'm gonna use that

It's one of my favourites

OP how about blocking messages from new members? If he has to wait a week or two weeks or however long each time I'd wager it'll become boring for him very fast "

changed my settings new to this too but thought I had covered everything Obviously not. Lol!! Thanks for your message. Hopefully he wont be in touch again. X xx

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Cockwomble?! Not heard that one before. Genuinely made me laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry i can't help...but..."cockwomble"??

I'm gonna use that

It's one of my favourites

OP how about blocking messages from new members? If he has to wait a week or two weeks or however long each time I'd wager it'll become boring for him very fast

changed my settings new to this too but thought I had covered everything Obviously not. Lol!! Thanks for your message. Hopefully he wont be in touch again. X xx

Good luck, I'm sure he'll get bored with it soon

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By *aaLaaWoman
over a year ago

Pontesbury

I love cockwomble, great visual imagery.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

as suggested above (block newbies.. and non supporters) , this may be a little hassle for you, but you can also change your age requirements every day or 2 for a while til he gets bored and fooks off

(one day, change your filters so no-one outside age 42 can message you.. next day change to age 86.. etc. he cannot change age more than once...)

just a thought to play with the amoeba for a bit

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

I just don't understand these fucktards, do they really think that by sending you a foul and abusive message you are suddenly going to swoon and fall at his feet??

Whilst I appreciate the advice given here, and understand that your safety is of upmost importance and understand how annoying these chumps are, I can't help feeling a little sad that they stopped me (and other genuine guys) from contacting people. It almost feels as though they have won somehow, as I'm sure they are only here to piss people off.

Sorry for the behaviour of my fellow gender, but we aren't all walking around with our brains in our testicles!!

Hope things improve for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry i can't help...but..."cockwomble"??

I'm gonna use that

I love it too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God bless the Knights on their white Chargers

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cockwomble?! Not heard that one before. Genuinely made me laugh!

I use it everyday!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"as suggested above (block newbies.. and non supporters) , this may be a little hassle for you, but you can also change your age requirements every day or 2 for a while til he gets bored and fooks off

(one day, change your filters so no-one outside age 42 can message you.. next day change to age 86.. etc. he cannot change age more than once...)

just a thought to play with the amoeba for a bit

he always uses the same age. 38

and the same message title. Mot very smart. Lol! X

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

And there highlights the age old 'spoil it for everyone else' thing good look though hope he gets bored of it soon

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"And there highlights the age old 'spoil it for everyone else' thing good look though hope he gets bored of it soon "

How has it spoilt it for everyone else? It's clear that the guy in question is a complete tit but not sure why that would change opinions on other guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I realise that every so often you'll get the occasional "crazy" one on here that will pester you with messages but...

can't be arsed with this idiot contacting me every day with a new account can admin not see or check the IP number or do I just need to keep blocking this cockwomble?

What also amazes me is he a manages to get a meet verification within hours just so he can message me to say "look how goody veri is... add me!!!"

is his verification a fake account?

help please...x"

Most IP addresses automatically change every 24 hours, best to set filters so newbies can't contact.

Is the veri he has from same account all the time, it's possible he has a cpls account and verifying himself which is against site rules so could also report that if that's the case.

Otherwise all you can do is tell admin what's happening and block without getting into conversation with him

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By *a35ukMan
over a year ago

Hailsham

"And there highlights the age old 'spoil it for everyone else' thing good look though hope he gets bored of it soon

How has it spoilt it for everyone else? It's clear that the guy in question is a complete tit but not sure why that would change opinions on other guys? "

Do you answer every guy who messages you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And there highlights the age old 'spoil it for everyone else' thing good look though hope he gets bored of it soon

How has it spoilt it for everyone else? It's clear that the guy in question is a complete tit but not sure why that would change opinions on other guys?

Do you answer every guy who messages you "

How is that even a related question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's getting verified within hours of being on here, chances are he has another (master) profile which is verified, which he uses to verify his other 'fake' profile.

If you report to admin, point this out, then they may well be able to look at who;s verifying these accounts.

Just a thought.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"And there highlights the age old 'spoil it for everyone else' thing good look though hope he gets bored of it soon

How has it spoilt it for everyone else? It's clear that the guy in question is a complete tit but not sure why that would change opinions on other guys?

Do you answer every guy who messages you "

No I don't but my profile clearly states im not looking for new playmates at the moment so why should I answer anyone that hasn't even bothered reading it?

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

"And there highlights the age old 'spoil it for everyone else' thing good look though hope he gets bored of it soon

How has it spoilt it for everyone else? It's clear that the guy in question is a complete tit but not sure why that would change opinions on other guys? "

Because if people have to use filters, hide profile or even (as some do) leave the site then more reasonable decent guys can't message, not saying he changes opinions about other guys but the risk of him setting up a new profile means a simple block doesn't do the trick

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok I realise that every so often you'll get the occasional "crazy" one on here that will pester you with messages but...

can't be arsed with this idiot contacting me every day with a new account can admin not see or check the IP number or do I just need to keep blocking this cockwomble?

What also amazes me is he a manages to get a meet verification within hours just so he can message me to say "look how goody veri is... add me!!!"

is his verification a fake account?

help please...x

Most IP addresses automatically change every 24 hours, best to set filters so newbies can't contact.

Is the veri he has from same account all the time, it's possible he has a cpls account and verifying himself which is against site rules so could also report that if that's the case.

Otherwise all you can do is tell admin what's happening and block without getting into conversation with him"

it was a different veri from last time. But I wouldn't be surprised if he does have a few fake accounts.

I've changed my settings to no newbies which is a shame as I was 1 just a few weeks ago myself and we've all got to start somewhere. X

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