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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So frustrating.

if I don't put a meet up or I just want a shag I have men falling at my feet.

Put a request up for a social and everyone's disappeared!

Bloody Nora!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh that stays kinda reads "I want a bloke to buy me food"

Not saying that's what it is but it's so common on here that most blokes will see that invitation for a social as basically being used for a free meal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So frustrating.

if I don't put a meet up or I just want a shag I have men falling at my feet.

Put a request up for a social and everyone's disappeared!

Bloody Nora!"

Many a time I have put a meet ad up and I get a great deal of interest, drum roll, for other days

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"So frustrating.

if I don't put a meet up or I just want a shag I have men falling at my feet.

Put a request up for a social and everyone's disappeared!

Bloody Nora!"

Its always the same... Lol

I get plenty of mail when im not free yet when i am none of the people who mail asking are about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tbh that stays kinda reads "I want a bloke to buy me food"

Not saying that's what it is but it's so common on here that most blokes will see that invitation for a social as basically being used for a free meal"

I've stated in my meet request I don't want a free meal and will pay for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh that stays kinda reads "I want a bloke to buy me food"

Not saying that's what it is but it's so common on here that most blokes will see that invitation for a social as basically being used for a free meal

I've stated in my meet request I don't want a free meal and will pay for myself. "

Fair enough I just saw the status tbh

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Tbh that stays kinda reads "I want a bloke to buy me food"

Not saying that's what it is but it's so common on here that most blokes will see that invitation for a social as basically being used for a free meal"

Blimey is it? Blooming eck. We didn't know that, would a bloke think that about a couple?

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By *ocketrocket80Man
over a year ago

Walsall

I think you've just lucked out today as I'm sure there are plenty of guys and/or couples that would go out for a social.

May well be the good weather that's encouraged people to go out for the day unless they're unfortunately working.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To be fair, I suppose it depends on what you mean by social. If it is a social to see if you get on enough to meet at a later date ( or the same night ) for sex then you would probably have some luck with that, if it is a social to pass the time because you are bored maybe not so much luck with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I wouldn't go on a social with someone I wasn't looking to have sex with at some point.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I don't think your meet request says that though, it just looks like you fancy a night out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would have thought it would have been obvious due to the nature of the site...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It's bank holiday Monday people are getting ready to go back to work or got kids etc. I don't think its the meet itself I just think it's the wrong time I guess. You will of course get the chancers who will ask if sex is included in said social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should see the site from a single mans view, we would be happy if women fall on our feet from a meet request lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have thought it would have been obvious due to the nature of the site..."
id piggy bck you round Leeds for a day out! Nsa. I read your profile and you do state you pay your own way blah blah so see guys DO rea profiles! only prob i found was age prefs and distance! if it makes you feel better ive had 3 no shows last 8 days so "there's always someome worse off"

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I would have thought it would have been obvious due to the nature of the site..."

Obviously not or I wouldn't have given you my view on it the way I did. Obviously others may think different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen status for chargers, lifts to and from places. Rooms to rent , guys offering to pay for drinks .

I personally would be mortally offended if a girl offered to pay half , on a first time especially if I asked her to meet me

The problem is that you don't know on the first date , if either party is sufficiently solvent for any particular place and will just cause embarrassment

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have seen status for chargers, lifts to and from places. Rooms to rent , guys offering to pay for drinks .

I personally would be mortally offended if a girl offered to pay half , on a first time especially if I asked her to meet me

The problem is that you don't know on the first date , if either party is sufficiently solvent for any particular place and will just cause embarrassment

"

Would you really? That's interesting because even though we're a couple we have had men offer to wine and dine us at their expense, we always refuse because it's possible that they will think we are obliged to return the favour with sex, women dining with you alone might feel the same way. This isn't a reflection on you but on the no strings nature of encounters here. If I were to meet as a single woman I would always offer to pay half because I would want to meet you on equal terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if we were closer I'd be more than happy to take you out for a social x three years above your age limit n about 100 miles distance has fucked it tho lol

You look gorgeous btw x

Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh that stays kinda reads "I want a bloke to buy me food"

Not saying that's what it is but it's so common on here that most blokes will see that invitation for a social as basically being used for a free meal

I've stated in my meet request I don't want a free meal and will pay for myself.

Fair enough I just saw the status tbh "
I would never ever expect a fella to pay for me - if he offered then fine but otherwise I pay my way

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