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Do you believe peoples verifications??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have recently met someone with brilliant verifications and thought I was in for an amazing night.

What I got was propably my worst meet.

He just wanted his needs met and not mine and it has led me to think I must be strange as the other women have said how amazing he is??

Anyone else experienced the same??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet, but I know what you mean, you can see some women have 20 veris saying how good they were and lasted for hours in bed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's his profile name and i'll have a look see if i've met him./

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

No I can't say I have..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be you love!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I have recently met someone with brilliant verifications and thought I was in for an amazing night.

What I got was propably my worst meet.

He just wanted his needs met and not mine and it has led me to think I must be strange as the other women have said how amazing he is??

Anyone else experienced the same??"

Sex is something that happens between two people - one mans meat is another mans poison.

I like someone to be verified because it means I feel that they are more likely to actually turn up, other than that I believe little of what is written.

It is for this reason that I have mine hidden.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

No never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take much notice of verifications, but everyone I've met has lived up to expectations.....but then I chat for a long time before agreeing to meet, so don't need to rely on the words of strangers.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"

What's his profile name and i'll have a look see if i've met him./ "

Canis what's his face I believe

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

All verifications is tell you they met someone. You should never judge your meet or your expectations of that meet by what has gone before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He probably asked for the veri while he was with her and likely told her what to say.

That's what I think when I see overly sycophantic verifications.

I bet I'd be right too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh maybe I been lucky but all my guys have been Superman in my eyes.

I really think its al about taking the time a little bit before hand getting to know before jumping into bed.

Follow your gut instinct and you cant go far wrong. x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've never had any sexual contact with a vacuum cleaner, so it's a bit hard to tell to be honest

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"He probably asked for the veri while he was with her and likely told her what to say.

That's what I think when I see overly sycophantic verifications.

I bet I'd be right too. "

Do people do that? No one I have ever met has

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"He probably asked for the veri while he was with her and likely told her what to say.

That's what I think when I see overly sycophantic verifications.

I bet I'd be right too. "

I can't imagine what I'd write of someone had the temerity to "tell me what to say"....

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"He probably asked for the veri while he was with her and likely told her what to say.

That's what I think when I see overly sycophantic verifications.

I bet I'd be right too.

Do people do that? No one I have ever met has "

Me neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv met loads but not played with everyone ,but I always say if I have or not when I leave a verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some yes. Mine? Erm yup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He probably asked for the veri while he was with her and likely told her what to say.

That's what I think when I see overly sycophantic verifications.

I bet I'd be right too.

I can't imagine what I'd write of someone had the temerity to "tell me what to say".... "

Not me either.

But that's the only reason I can think of.

Some of the veris I've read just screams of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He probably asked for the veri while he was with her and likely told her what to say.

That's what I think when I see overly sycophantic verifications.

I bet I'd be right too.

Do people do that? No one I have ever met has "

I've never come across it either....most that I meet aren't bothered with verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I don't really take much notice of them,what's good for one person won't be the same for the next

Ive seen particular people give everyone they meet almost the same ones word for word and I love it when I come across a profile with one of theirs on it because I know what its going to say before Ive even read it

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By *ozzy87Man
over a year ago

Crawley

Kinda hope people at least believe the stamina part of 1 of my veri's!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its totally different with one person to the next. I thought verifications was to prove they are genuine. I dont get my hopes up from others comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sort of similar.

One guy i'd met had gushing veris, going on about how nice looking he was and idk what else but he sounded too good to miss, wasn't impressed when i met him and didn't think much of his looks at all, his personality was weird as well. Fair amount of his meets were repeat veris as well so a fair few people were well into him, i didn't want a repeat meet so told him as he was leaving- seeing as he asked to see me again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you was a crap shag?

Just saying like

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need too take them with a pinch of salt, and use them as a general guide, or for simply whether they will turn up, how open minded and adventurous they may be at a push, but not that you will get the experience mentioned in them.. everybody is different and responds differently in any given situation, it is part of what makes things exciting, for me at least to know that every experience is different.. for the opening poster, i think it is sad you didn't get his full 100% effort at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't take much notice of verifications, but everyone I've met has lived up to expectations.....but then I chat for a long time before agreeing to meet, so don't need to rely on the words of strangers."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was looking for a really good guy, so I was left very disappointed. Good job hubby saved it when I got home x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you left hubby a verification expressing your grattitude young lady!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can't leave him one as we both us the same up addy lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Use not us ooopsy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dib dib dob, Scout's Honour :

I promise to write only honest veri's for anyone i should meet, you can edit if you wish. Or simply not show.

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By *ngel delight 69Woman
over a year ago

Torquay

Verifications just mean they actually met someone. But it is horses for courses really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not quite the same thing but my ex was the office stud so i thought at the time (virginal me) - a few of the girls had been with him and when we started going out as a couple they were envious - good in bed was the word about town - years later i now know different so the office girls 'veris' were crap - id scare him out of the bedroom now not that id go there

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've never met anyone I didn't enjoy meeting but it does usually take me a while to meet someone. I don't put too much store in what other people have to say about those I may meet since I like to use my own judgement. I'd like to hope the same is true of those meeting me, particularly since I don't ask for verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never met anyone I didn't enjoy meeting but it does usually take me a while to meet someone. I don't put too much store in what other people have to say about those I may meet since I like to use my own judgement. I'd like to hope the same is true of those meeting me, particularly since I don't ask for verifications."

I think this is the best way to approach things, i don't see why verifications are so important, i prefer too meet people who don't put too much stock in them, a nice one is appreciated but not required. I also think if you take the time before meeting you can avoid the worst ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All verifications is tell you they met someone. You should never judge your meet or your expectations of that meet by what has gone before. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is a connection. If it's there great but if it's not it can't be forced. I wouldn't doubt yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can have a shag with someone with no connection still tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have a shag with someone with no connection still tho "

Ok I'm game stud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have a shag with someone with no connection still tho

Ok I'm game stud. "
Thanks nice

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

well I certainly hope all of mine are quite an accurate guide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently met someone with brilliant verifications and thought I was in for an amazing night.

What I got was propably my worst meet.

He just wanted his needs met and not mine and it has led me to think I must be strange as the other women have said how amazing he is??

Anyone else experienced the same??"

Yes loads of times.. so its not just you..

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think they are mostly reliable, but I always bear in mind they are based on how both parties got on and they may not get on with me quite as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you. I was really feeling it was me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently met someone with brilliant verifications and thought I was in for an amazing night.

What I got was propably my worst meet.

He just wanted his needs met and not mine and it has led me to think I must be strange as the other women have said how amazing he is??

Anyone else experienced the same??

Yes loads of times.. so its not just you.. "

Yes.. Me.. Left in such a hurry I broke my best wedges! Then got lost in a housing estate on foot..m

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have a shag with someone with no connection still tho "

Omg no...

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

Lets face it....have you ever seen a bad verification ??

Not worth reading them.....i'm nice though (biased opinion)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have a shag with someone with no connection still tho

Omg no... "
I done it loads of time lol x

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

I don't pay much notice to veris. For me, it means they are actively meeting.

Though recently I've had to for my own piece of mind. Long story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have a shag with someone with no connection still tho

Omg no... I done it loads of time lol x"

Yeah but you have no scruples shag. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have a shag with someone with no connection still tho

Omg no... I done it loads of time lol x

Yeah but you have no scruples shag. ... "
Whats scruples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lets face it....have you ever seen a bad verification ??

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I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have a shag with someone with no connection still tho

Omg no... I done it loads of time lol x

Yeah but you have no scruples shag. ... Whats scruples? "

You don't need to worry about it.

You don't have any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't take much notice of verifications, but everyone I've met has lived up to expectations.....but then I chat for a long time before agreeing to meet, so don't need to rely on the words of strangers."

Same here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And look it up in the dictionary

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I don't pay much notice to veris. For me, it means they are actively meeting.

Though recently I've had to for my own piece of mind. Long story! "

You can't say that without telling the story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"He probably asked for the veri while he was with her and likely told her what to say.

That's what I think when I see overly sycophantic verifications.

I bet I'd be right too.

Do people do that? No one I have ever met has

Me neither "

Me neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And look it up in the dictionary "
lol it doesn't give a clear meaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have different standards and expectations. You should always take them with a pinch of salt (except mine...mine are all completely accurate).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And look it up in the dictionary lol it doesn't give a clear meaning "

It means your not fussy .. As long as they like your six pack

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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago

In amongst the Unicorns & fairy dust


"I don't take much notice of verifications, but everyone I've met has lived up to expectations.....but then I chat for a long time before agreeing to meet, so don't need to rely on the words of strangers.

This "
This plus me Mrs Robinson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And look it up in the dictionary lol it doesn't give a clear meaning

It means your not fussy .. As long as they like your six pack "
Ah yes and your right there, they need to like my 6pack

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By *nfinity1Man
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

Back on topic....... My verifications are all real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take much notice of them. I make my own music when I'm with a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all you need to do is not display any non excellent verifications. its easy to edit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently met someone with brilliant verifications and thought I was in for an amazing night.

What I got was propably my worst meet.

He just wanted his needs met and not mine and it has led me to think I must be strange as the other women have said how amazing he is??

Anyone else experienced the same??"

Yes!! When I was on here before. Also I find it funny that they say how hot/good looking they are! I know everyone has different tastes, but Iv learnt to verifications with a pinch of salt. Let's face it who is going to write a bad one!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have recently met someone with brilliant verifications and thought I was in for an amazing night.

What I got was propably my worst meet.

He just wanted his needs met and not mine and it has led me to think I must be strange as the other women have said how amazing he is??

Anyone else experienced the same??"

I've been here seven years and still find it strange people rely on the opinions of total strangers to decide whether they meet another stranger or not.

If I like someone I always meet socially first. I've dodged a few bullets that way, and these guys had glowing verifications.

That said, I've used verifications to not meet people i.e. they've met people who only play bareback.

It works for me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"He probably asked for the veri while he was with her and likely told her what to say.

That's what I think when I see overly sycophantic verifications.

I bet I'd be right too.

Do people do that? No one I have ever met has "

I wouldn't be surprised as I've seen threads where people have complained they couldn't leave a verification and it turns out because it's the same internet connection.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I never read verifications and think..'They must be good coz XXX says so'. I use them more of a guide as to if they are going to actually turn up or not.

I dont really read them, i prefare to see the summery instead coz that tells me much more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't usually put much faith in other people's veri's, but when every single one had VWE then I sort of believed it. I was left to assume I'm using a different yard stick to everyone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to believe veris; mine are all pretty accurate so why not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I should do the social first after some thought on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently met someone with brilliant verifications and thought I was in for an amazing night.

What I got was propably my worst meet.

He just wanted his needs met and not mine and it has led me to think I must be strange as the other women have said how amazing he is??

Anyone else experienced the same??"

We have, but on another site, and a while ago. The guy had excellent veri's!-We chatted for ages arranged to meet at his.. drove for miles, walked in and walked straight back out again . Yuk!yuk!yuk! . . This girl doesn't like playing in a shithole . . Lesson learnt

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I don't always believe them. Even a social meet doesn't always help (if you can get a social meet)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you believe everyone's veris everyone will have:

The most suckable cock

The sweetest tasting pussy

Can fuck for hours

Etc

Personally I hate graphic veris

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


"If you believe everyone's veris everyone will have:

The most suckable cock

The sweetest tasting pussy

Can fuck for hours

Etc

Personally I hate graphic veris "

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By *enie MeenieMan
over a year ago

Crawley Down

Mmm i tend to look at the person leaving the veri's to see if they are real!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you believe everyone's veris everyone will have:

The most suckable cock

The sweetest tasting pussy

Can fuck for hours

Etc

Personally I hate graphic veris "

I definitely prefer too read less graphic verifications too, i don't want too see a blow by blow, actually the best in my opinion say something about personality or company whilst implying naughtiness was enjoyed by all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. In fact I don't know how people can even bring themselves to write such hyperbolic bullshit without vomiting in their own mouths sometimes.

Overly glowing verifications are likely to have the opposite effect on me, it suggests to me they tend to meet sycophantic little drips and/or territory markers, in which case they're probably not going to like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you believe everyone's veris everyone will have:

The most suckable cock

The sweetest tasting pussy

Can fuck for hours

Etc

Personally I hate graphic veris

I definitely prefer too read less graphic verifications too, i don't want too see a blow by blow, actually the best in my opinion say something about personality or company whilst implying naughtiness was enjoyed by all."

Some are like reading a short graphic novel

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I know for a fact mine are all completely true.....I wrote them all myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know for a fact mine are all completely true.....I wrote them all myself "
Yes you bought me four cans of fosters for writing yours

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

A couple once copied a verification I'd written for someone and gave it to someone else,it was by pure coincidence I came across it on another guys profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently met someone with brilliant verifications and thought I was in for an amazing night.

What I got was propably my worst meet.

He just wanted his needs met and not mine and it has led me to think I must be strange as the other women have said how amazing he is??

Anyone else experienced the same??"

Yes must be something down our way lol. Bev met a guy a few weeks ago and to read his veris and his profile youd think he could fuck for hours,

Reality proved us wrong bev had him really hard twice and he cum almost straight away both fucks didnt last as long as it took to write this l

A nd before u detectives get to work hes not on our veris that would take longer than the meet

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We do give verifications some credence and for us they are a decent starting point but they're just that, a starting point. It's the way we converse that determines whether we'd like to meet them or not and if the meet isn't very good then we take 50% of the blame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what you have to remember on here...your the best meet someones had until the next one comes along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you believe everything in the Daily Mail ? Same goes for Veris

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I know for a fact mine are all completely true.....I wrote them all myself Yes you bought me four cans of fosters for writing yours

Her"

Shhhhhh don't tell em all gssss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. I was really feeling it was me xx"

I even went on friends recommendations before too. They told me that this guy was amazing... And in one case I recommended to someone else based on what others had said.... Needless to Say it was like we had invited the wrong person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. In fact I don't know how people can even bring themselves to write such hyperbolic bullshit without vomiting in their own mouths sometimes.

Overly glowing verifications are likely to have the opposite effect on me, it suggests to me they tend to meet sycophantic little drips and/or territory markers, in which case they're probably not going to like me "

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By *rs TootyWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Don't think I've seen a bad re_iew, for obvious reasons.

Everyone is different in bed, what's great to one is cr*p to another.

Best veri I saw was.. Nice guy.. Can't get more non committal if you tried obviously not all that in the sack but she didn't wanna refuse to veri him

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By *eshzMan
over a year ago

0151

I never wrote a veri that I wasn't comfortable in saying in a face-to-face conversation.

I try as much as possible to have a social meet be it via the messaging option here or whatsapp or a social drink, I write the personality that I encounter, I have found everyone can perform sex acts... but what was that personality attraction that got interested me in wanting to get to know the person. But I feel no matter what is written, always and this is more important for ladies is to do your own due diligence, by having a social discussion...the meet doesn't have to happen immediately.

I know I might sound really old fashion a crank for saying the following but if people genuinely found others with the intention of getting to know them as friends 1st, and then possibly a play, and not just jump in straight away... they can save themselves potentially a lot of headache/heartache/disappointment.

This is just my opinion though... I could be doing things wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone a couple of years ago who wanted to write his verification for me. I said I was quite capable of writing my own. I also know of another person who would approve or edit verifications before they were sent and displayed. Hardly a true reflection of what a person thinks of her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If all the verifications say the same thing ..... like : omg amazing fuck. Wow they suck like a drill. Can bang their tits till Tuesday. Then it's obviously an indication of that persons ego. Use common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use them.as mothing more than a guide if folk will not chat on phone as well then I will not meet.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"He probably asked for the veri while he was with her and likely told her what to say.

That's what I think when I see overly sycophantic verifications.

I bet I'd be right too. "

Does that really happen?

Nobody has ever told me what to write

A few, after we had met, sent a message asking if I wouldn't mind writing one for them but they still did not tell me what I should write

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I believe or doubt them, but sometimes you will see a common theme that can give an indication of what they like. Also, some people will click better than others...it's not necessarily that they are a crap shag just maybe there isn't the same level of compatibility/experience/comfort/attraction with different people.

Thing is all a verification is intended to do is tell us that the person turned up and was of the correct sex for the profile, not provide a re_iew of each performance with a detailed analysis of acts undertaken.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"We do give verifications some credence and for us they are a decent starting point but they're just that, a starting point. It's the way we converse that determines whether we'd like to meet them or not and if the meet isn't very good then we take 50% of the blame. "

Pretty much this

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No, not really as I don't believe much that is written

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I wouldn't say I believe or doubt them, but sometimes you will see a common theme that can give an indication of what they like. Also, some people will click better than others...it's not necessarily that they are a crap shag just maybe there isn't the same level of compatibility/experience/comfort/attraction with different people.

Thing is all a verification is intended to do is tell us that the person turned up and was of the correct sex for the profile, not provide a re_iew of each performance with a detailed analysis of acts undertaken. "

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I wouldn't say I believe or doubt them, but sometimes you will see a common theme that can give an indication of what they like. Also, some people will click better than others...it's not necessarily that they are a crap shag just maybe there isn't the same level of compatibility/experience/comfort/attraction with different people.

Thing is all a verification is intended to do is tell us that the person turned up and was of the correct sex for the profile, not provide a re_iew of each performance with a detailed analysis of acts undertaken. "

Exactly this; that they are somewhat reliable and are the sex stated on the profile; especially important when meeting a couple or a woman as very few women pretend to be men on this site

I don't use it as a 'f**k grading' system as my expectations may be very different from the person leaving the verification

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes, I've discovered that my taste is very different to some people, and I have only learned what to avoid by trial and error.......hopefully! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will give a brief description of a man's personality,as I perceived it,how he was with me. I might add a little tidbit of something I especially liked about the man,it's going to be read by other women thinking of meeting the man after all. I may have had a fantastic time with a man it doesn't mean every other women after me will,but if I've had a great time I will say so. If he's vwe or has something I think needs verifying,I will write that too. Just showing up isn't always what people want to know,they don't have to take my word for anything though,the proof of the pudding is in the eating,and we all have different tastes. I've verified a few people who had been on here a while with no joy,to find that after the verification they get more interest and meets

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I only look at verifications as part of an overall picture before deciding if I want to meet somebody. I also look at what the verifications have in common in general terms for example if somebody is perceived to be sociable.

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