FabSwingers.com forum: Your longest 'dry spell'

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Since you first lost your virginity, what's the longest amount of time you have gone between sex?

My longest is 6 months. I bet that can be beat quite easily!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Well over a year

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

5 months. Can't say I missed it lol

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Three years.... in hospital

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

over a year

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

20 minutes

my balls were like a bulls, full to the brim and overflowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 years

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

18 months while away on active service.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its since October, 5 months ago, but as I am moving to spain next year. I don't do so much meetings anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"18 months while away on active service."

Well it wasn't very active then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think maybe 3 months?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"18 months while away on active service.

Well it wasn't very active then

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By *ranthamThroatMan
over a year ago

Grantham.

"Since you first lost your virginity, what's the longest amount of time you have gone between sex?

My longest is 6 months. I bet that can be beat quite easily!"

Longest...years because was working too hard overseas and on call 24/7 for months at a time so had no inclination, this year, so far, over 3 months but prepared to wait for the right offer so it could be a long time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mine (him) was about 2 weeks after J gave birth

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By *ady SalfordWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

When I got shut of my last ex, I became celebate for 4 yrs and then for the last 3 yrs sex mad haha

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By *now white1000Woman
over a year ago

York

8 years

but then half of that time i wasn't looking and was in a dead marriage.

since then the longest dry spell will have been about 10 months

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I think if you are very young and lost your virginity a comparatively short time ago then proportionately 6 months is a long time.

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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

If you include wanking, hardly any time at all.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It's ongoing ill2 let you know

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

5 years and I was in a relationship

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Mine was 2 years, but I was in a dead relationship.

On here my average is about 3 months+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 3 years. I was on my own with kids.

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

8 years

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

"18 months while away on active service."

With a name like that you're are/were in the Navy. Er, exactly how active is the service when you're sat on a ship miles from the nearest bullets? Don't you mean while you had an 18 month holiday.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

About a month... It was torture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 years after my last daughter was born. My wife had really bad depression. And didn't want sex at all.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"18 months while away on active service.

With a name like that you're are/were in the Navy. Er, exactly how active is the service when you're sat on a ship miles from the nearest bullets? Don't you mean while you had an 18 month holiday. "

Bit harsh is it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I joined Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always feels longer but a good few years.

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By *ridmusCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

"Since I joined Fab

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years. Ex girlfriend wasn't interested in sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 years!

I was too traumatized by the relationship and when it ended I feared that he had put me off sex for life!

Really, really didn't want to go near another man for a very long time and it just snowballed! Before I knew it, 6 years had gone by.......at least I got lots of other thing sorted in my life, so it wasn't wasted time.........entirely!!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

4 Years or thereabouts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of years without having sex in between, but the last few have also been very patchy, if not quite matching that distance over ten years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple of years without having sex in between, but the last few have also been very patchy, if not quite matching that distance over ten years ago."

My BEST period was around late 2008-most of 2009, I'm not sure if I'd just found my 'groove' or the scene was simply doing a lot better at the time than it is now (interesting this period was just prior to the recession?), but through that time I was having at least one meet per month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 3yrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"10 years. Ex girlfriend wasn't interested in sex."

Wow, that'd be an instant deal breaker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure really. But it would have been around the time when I was 18 - 20 as I wasn't at all that bothered about it. There were a couple of girls in the pub that would oblige if it got very desperate so probably about a month or so.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I'm on my longest dry spell at the moment. It's self inflicted as I am not happy with the way I look at moment.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

14 years and a some months. It ended five years ago and since then the longest has been just short of 3 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 weeks after casearean with my son.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 months 2 weeks 3 days lol first part of afghan tour

Made up for it on R and R

Lucky the second part of tour was only 10 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 years....my ex didnt find.me attractive...even before that we hardly had sex......I'm making up for it now though.....

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

10 years

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

"18 months while away on active service.

Well it wasn't very active then

Very good

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

14 years in my marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, never counted, maybe 4/5 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After my ex and I split, I cared more for bringing my kids up than meeting someone and think it was about 10 yrs. As to here, November I think and got too busy working to have the time. Now I'm working less I've kind of lost the inclination to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years! This time it's currently 7 months since I last had sex.

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

18 months .....

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"18 months ..... "
well I wouldn't mind helping you sort that out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 months while I was married. We'd get to about the 9 month mark before I kicked off and I'd get the 'pity fuck'. I was stuck in this never ending cycle for 12 years. I was monogamous to my asexual husband until we just grew apart. I've loved the single life since!

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

4 years after my marriage ended. I was too busy learning to be a single mum, keeping on top of uni studies and earning enough money to keep my house. Then things went a bit manic for a couple of years and currently it's 14 months since i last had fun due to a genetic disfiguring illness. In fact it's likely that'll be it for me now as I can't really see anyone finding me attractive again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I got shut of my last ex, I became celebate for 4 yrs and then for the last 3 yrs sex mad haha

Same here...ex messed me up so decided to throw myself into work and shun all sexual thoughts...now back with a vengeance x

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Mmm probably a couple of years, my current dry spell has lasted about 4 or 5 months, anyone fancy ended it for me lol, the good news is as you get older your not so bothered about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6 years!

I was too traumatized by the relationship and when it ended I feared that he had put me off sex for life!

I could have written this - same length of time as well. 6 years had suddenly whizzed by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years while going through depression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just gone 2 year lol and it seems like bloody yesterday!! On holiday soon so if I don't have sex on holiday I'm hanging my cock up tbh ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"14 years in my marriage"

Wow!!! Did you at some point just accept it would never happen again?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

The last 8 months of my relationship with my ex.

After we split up the longest has been about 2 weeks, until the end of Feb this year... I had 5 weeks of no sex after having an op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"10 years. Ex girlfriend wasn't interested in sex.

Wow, that'd be an instant deal breaker!"

I had Love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 months currently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 months and counting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18yrs i was a priest

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Two years ,that was a few years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3yrs xx

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By *heMambaMan
over a year ago

Selly Oak

7 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 years! Before i went for a divorce. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still a virgin lol. Its true tho cause I've never been with a woman lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 years after separated from my ex, my longest dry spell since then is about 3wks

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By *igandanneCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Three weeks in hospital and i was dieing for a drink after the first week in there

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