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I had a message yesterday asking how I felt about punching, as in face and stomach, she went on to say that it's her fantasy to be really beaten up.
Now I'm not going to be all judgemental and go on about how it's digusting, personal choice is just that, but it made me wonder, what is the strangest thing anyone has asked you to do in bed (or car or woods lol) that you just couldn't do? | |||
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"wow, seems a bizarre request." I'd be running for the door  | |||
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"Dunno about personal choice but I'd be very worried about them doing am about turn and being on the receiving end of an assault charge the next day! " Exactly this!! | |||
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I had a message yesterday asking how I felt about punching, as in face and stomach, she went on to say that it's her fantasy to be really beaten up.
Now I'm not going to be all judgemental and go on about how it's digusting, personal choice is just that, but it made me wonder, what is the strangest thing anyone has asked you to do in bed (or car or woods lol) that you just couldn't do?"No chance Next thing you know police knocking your door | |||
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"Dunno about personal choice but I'd be very worried about them doing am about turn and being on the receiving end of an assault charge the next day! " I agree with this. Something psychologically disturbing about those wanting to be really beaten and confusing it with sex. How many seconds until the uber liberal 'each to their own' phrase it bandied around ? | |||
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"I've had messages on here about wanting to get me pregnant, use them as a toilet and another mentioned her pet Alsatian.. " How low can you stoop !! ?? To a daschund ! Boom Boom ! | |||
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"Dunno about personal choice but I'd be very worried about them doing am about turn and being on the receiving end of an assault charge the next day! " by the sound of the request it would more likely be a charge of GBH or attempted murder | |||
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"Yeah the whole police thing is a very real danger, but not first on the list of reasons I declined, shame of it is that the user is no longer on site, and I just get a horrible feeling some guy has got the same mesage and gone "that will fucking do me!" Or worse but strange requests are in abundance on sites like this " I have no proof, only experience, but I don't know of any single male that would want to beat up a woman. | |||
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"I've had a request to hold her neck tightly during the act but i couldn't do it...couldn't finish the job after that either! i'm far too vanilla for any of that stuff! " Oh I've got no problem with a bit of choking, but then I am in control enough not to hurt anyone | |||
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"I've had a request to hold her neck tightly during the act but i couldn't do it...couldn't finish the job after that either! i'm far too vanilla for any of that stuff! Oh I've got no problem with a bit of choking, but then I am in control enough not to hurt anyone " Why choke another human being | |||
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"Actually it was something I did do which made me really wish I didn't and make me dislike the guy. He make me puke by gagging me on his cock. I could of stopped it by saying the safeword but I guess I wanted to impress him. It went on for a long time. I disliked him after as he obviously had his own pleasure in mind and no thought for me. Not a very good Dom in my opinion. " 2 points, the safe word is there for a reason, if you are uncomfortable with anything then use it, don't hold back because you think you will disapoint him, and secondly he should have made this point clear, a Dom never wants to make anyone do something against their will | |||
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"I've had a request to hold her neck tightly during the act but i couldn't do it...couldn't finish the job after that either! i'm far too vanilla for any of that stuff! Oh I've got no problem with a bit of choking, but then I am in control enough not to hurt anyone Why choke another human being " It's a fair question but not one that can be answered on the forums a better question is why someone likes to be choked it's psycological mor than anything | |||
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"Actually it was something I did do which made me really wish I didn't and make me dislike the guy. He make me puke by gagging me on his cock. I could of stopped it by saying the safeword but I guess I wanted to impress him. It went on for a long time. I disliked him after as he obviously had his own pleasure in mind and no thought for me. Not a very good Dom in my opinion. 2 points, the safe word is there for a reason, if you are uncomfortable with anything then use it, don't hold back because you think you will disapoint him, and secondly he should have made this point clear, a Dom never wants to make anyone do something against their will" Don't worry I've learnt my lesson. I was quite new to it then. | |||
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"Yeah the whole police thing is a very real danger, but not first on the list of reasons I declined, shame of it is that the user is no longer on site, and I just get a horrible feeling some guy has got the same mesage and gone "that will fucking do me!" Or worse but strange requests are in abundance on sites like this I have no proof, only experience, but I don't know of any single male that would want to beat up a woman. " Unfortunately it has happened! I remember reading a thread on 'worst meets' , and along with the whines and humorous anecdotes was a woman who agreed to be restrained by a meet! She was beaten and left tied up - she needed 10 stitches! I do believe the verification process etc makes meeting people safer than the 'real' world - but nothing is infallible! And yes - I've had some very odd requests - including guys wanting to be my slave. Xx | |||
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"Yeah the whole police thing is a very real danger, but not first on the list of reasons I declined, shame of it is that the user is no longer on site, and I just get a horrible feeling some guy has got the same mesage and gone "that will fucking do me!" Or worse but strange requests are in abundance on sites like this I have no proof, only experience, but I don't know of any single male that would want to beat up a woman. Unfortunately it has happened! I remember reading a thread on 'worst meets' , and along with the whines and humorous anecdotes was a woman who agreed to be restrained by a meet! She was beaten and left tied up - she needed 10 stitches! I do believe the verification process etc makes meeting people safer than the 'real' world - but nothing is infallible! And yes - I've had some very odd requests - including guys wanting to be my slave. Xx" 19 stitches - not 10! X | |||
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"I've had a request to hold her neck tightly during the act but i couldn't do it...couldn't finish the job after that either! i'm far too vanilla for any of that stuff! Oh I've got no problem with a bit of choking, but then I am in control enough not to hurt anyone Why choke another human being It's a fair question but not one that can be answered on the forums a better question is why someone likes to be choked it's psycological mor than anything " I'd agree. | |||
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"Yeah the whole police thing is a very real danger, but not first on the list of reasons I declined, shame of it is that the user is no longer on site, and I just get a horrible feeling some guy has got the same mesage and gone "that will fucking do me!" Or worse but strange requests are in abundance on sites like this I have no proof, only experience, but I don't know of any single male that would want to beat up a woman. Unfortunately it has happened! I remember reading a thread on 'worst meets' , and along with the whines and humorous anecdotes was a woman who agreed to be restrained by a meet! She was beaten and left tied up - she needed 10 stitches! I do believe the verification process etc makes meeting people safer than the 'real' world - but nothing is infallible! And yes - I've had some very odd requests - including guys wanting to be my slave. Xx 19 stitches - not 10! X" I think once you get past 10 everything else is irrelevant. There was a thread yesterday with a woman saying her fantasy was to be blindfolded outside and left for anyone who fancied a fuck to fuck her ( im paraphrasing ) I hope it never gets past fantasy. Women always assume it will be 'safe' males. Instead they get lunatics who _iew women with sexual desire as worthless. I guess if it's organised it's not as horny. | |||
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"Dunno about personal choice but I'd be very worried about them doing am about turn and being on the receiving end of an assault charge the next day! I agree with this. Something psychologically disturbing about those wanting to be really beaten and confusing it with sex. How many seconds until the uber liberal 'each to their own' phrase it bandied around ?" Well... surely it is "each to their own"? There's more of this type of fantasy about than I realised. I have a friend who declined a similar request. Unfortunately she will probably find someone to do it then she can see this self destructive fantasy for what it is. Anybody insane enough to do this to her deserves all they get. But it's still down to choice, on both their parts. | |||
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