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"Is it wrong to have had 8 meets in over 5 months ??? "some have that a week just dont show all veris | |||
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"If it's within your own moral compass then no. If you feel it's wrong then yes. Stop looking for outside affirmation and ask yourself the questions. " this | |||
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"If it's within your own moral compass then no. If you feel it's wrong then yes. Stop looking for outside affirmation and ask yourself the questions. " Me personally doesn't think it's wrong, I am just asking a normal question xx | |||
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"Yes, you're slacking and not putting the effort in! Some folk just coast on here... "Haha I'm not a slacking But find it hard to get genuine men xx | |||
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"Yes, you're slacking and not putting the effort in! Some folk just coast on here...
Haha I'm not a slacking
But find it hard to get genuine men xx"Isn't that the case in the real world also though | |||
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"Yes, you're slacking and not putting the effort in! Some folk just coast on here...
Haha I'm not a slacking
But find it hard to get genuine men xx"I'll regret this but ....... What's a genuine man ? | |||
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"on the other thread, no said it was wrong. They pointed out that you were having fun on the site and sometimes when people who are successful start to moan about how difficult it is at times, they get met by "I have to agree and this second thread seems too much like attention seeking now. Any sympathy I had to start with in your first thread has evaporated.  | |||
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"Is it wrong to have had 8 meets in over 5 months ??? "lucky you i have had none | |||
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"Is it wrong to have had 8 meets in over 5 months ???
lucky you i have had none"Well don't start a thread about it | |||
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"on the other thread, no said it was wrong. They pointed out that you were having fun on the site and sometimes when people who are successful start to moan about how difficult it is at times, they get met by "I wasn't moaning about how many meets I've had, I was asking does it not infuriate ppl when they get let down for a meet  | |||
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"Is it wrong to have had 8 meets in over 5 months ???
lucky you i have had none
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"on the other thread, no said it was wrong. They pointed out that you were having fun on the site and sometimes when people who are successful start to moan about how difficult it is at times, they get met by
I have to agree and this second thread seems too much like attention seeking now. Any sympathy I had to start with in your first thread has evaporated. " | |||
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"Nope, if I had the time, I'd cram the buggers in like sardines. " Meets or penises ? | |||
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"on the other thread, no said it was wrong. They pointed out that you were having fun on the site and sometimes when people who are successful start to moan about how difficult it is at times, they get met by
I wasn't moaning about how many meets I've had, I was asking does it not infuriate ppl when they get let down for a meet "But as voluptuous virago said you didn't actually ask anything. | |||
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"Yes, you're slacking and not putting the effort in! Some folk just coast on here...
Haha I'm not a slacking
But find it hard to get genuine men xx
Isn't that the case in the real world also though "In the 22 yrs I've gone out, I've never been picked up in a bar or club lol | |||
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"Yes, you're slacking and not putting the effort in! Some folk just coast on here...
Haha I'm not a slacking
But find it hard to get genuine men xx
I'll regret this but .......
What's a genuine man ?"Some1 who actually turns up for a meet and doesn't treat you like a piece of meat | |||
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"Nope, if I had the time, I'd cram the buggers in like sardines. Meets or penises ?" Ohhh mizz crumpet, you never fail 
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"Yes, you're slacking and not putting the effort in! Some folk just coast on here...
Haha I'm not a slacking
But find it hard to get genuine men xx
I'll regret this but .......
What's a genuine man ?
Some1 who actually turns up for a meet and doesn't treat you like a piece of meat "Won't find em on here! | |||
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"on the other thread, no said it was wrong. They pointed out that you were having fun on the site and sometimes when people who are successful start to moan about how difficult it is at times, they get met by
I have to agree and this second thread seems too much like attention seeking now. Any sympathy I had to start with in your first thread has evaporated. "Pahahaha I'm not seeking attention that's for sure, just asking a question that obviously has got out of context | |||
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"Is it wrong to have had 8 meets in over 5 months ??? "Why would it be wrong? If it's happened like Tha for you and you're happy, then just enjoy. | |||
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"Nope, if I had the time, I'd cram the buggers in like sardines. " Hahaha xx | |||
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"Yes, you're slacking and not putting the effort in! Some folk just coast on here...
Haha I'm not a slacking
But find it hard to get genuine men xx
I'll regret this but .......
What's a genuine man ?
Some1 who actually turns up for a meet and doesn't treat you like a piece of meat "Now lets see. On Fab they look at pics and see if you are tasty.... ( you can see where im going ) On Fab they nip out to collect you ( are we there yet ? ) On Fab they unwrap you sling you on the counter and get you good and hot and if you are to their liking they will eat you. Sounds like meat to me. | |||
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"Yes, you're slacking and not putting the effort in! Some folk just coast on here...
Haha I'm not a slacking
But find it hard to get genuine men xx"A man is a man.. Unless he's transgender... Genuinely male. Aim for that, not the drama of tales of their lives. | |||
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"Ok that came out wrong.... Meeting people once you've arranged is always a good thing but if you are looking for romance.... Hmmmm. Maybe state you require chocolates and rose petals before you meet?" Ok I've concluded I sound like a bitch, I'll just grab my coat. Good luck OP  | |||
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"Is it wrong to have had 8 meets in over 5 months ??? "nope infact I would love to have those satistics | |||
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"Yes, you're slacking and not putting the effort in! Some folk just coast on here...
Haha I'm not a slacking
But find it hard to get genuine men xx
I'll regret this but .......
What's a genuine man ?"me I am a genuine man
But how do I prove it to potential meets is the question??? | |||
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"Yes, you're slacking and not putting the effort in! Some folk just coast on here...
Haha I'm not a slacking
But find it hard to get genuine men xx
I'll regret this but .......
What's a genuine man ?
Some1 who actually turns up for a meet and doesn't treat you like a piece of meat
Won't find em on here! "Sorry beg to differ there is some guys who treat girls just right | |||
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"Ok that came out wrong.... Meeting people once you've arranged is always a good thing but if you are looking for romance.... Hmmmm. Maybe state you require chocolates and rose petals before you meet?" Haha if I wanted romance I wouldn't be on fab, not looking for a relationship but plenty of naughty fun | |||
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"substitute Tesco for Fab ...... same thing. Other supermarkets are available." Why are you being petty now ? | |||
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"Yes, you're slacking and not putting the effort in! Some folk just coast on here...
Haha I'm not a slacking
But find it hard to get genuine men xx
I'll regret this but .......
What's a genuine man ?
Some1 who actually turns up for a meet and doesn't treat you like a piece of meat
Won't find em on here!
Sorry beg to differ there is some guys who treat girls just right " | |||
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"Is it wrong to have had 8 meets in over 5 months ??? "Yes!!! of course it is, are you a part time swinger? throw yourself into it with greater gusto woman! | |||
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"substitute Tesco for Fab ...... same thing. Other supermarkets are available." So you like being treated like a piece of meat...shame and I thought you was wiser | |||
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"substitute Tesco for Fab ...... same thing. Other supermarkets are available. So you like being treated like a piece of meat...shame and I thought you was wiser " Who's being petty now?! You should really look up the word hypocrite. Can't really call others out when you are acting the same. | |||
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"substitute Tesco for Fab ...... same thing. Other supermarkets are available. So you like being treated like a piece of meat...shame and I thought you was wiser Who's being petty now?! You should really look up the word hypocrite. Can't really call others out when you are acting the same. "Shit love get off your high horse before you have a nose bleed lol | |||
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"substitute Tesco for Fab ...... same thing. Other supermarkets are available. So you like being treated like a piece of meat...shame and I thought you was wiser Who's being petty now?! You should really look up the word hypocrite. Can't really call others out when you are acting the same.
Shit love get off your high horse before you have a nose bleed lol "No thanks its quite a good _iew to watch your down fall. Although it's already been achieved very effectively. | |||
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"If everyone can resist responding. ( I will be ) There will be nothing for certain people to feed on the only kind of attention they can get. " Well you know your own desires and needs, so do I and find that some men and women are let downs. Have a nice day | |||
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"Nope, if I had the time, I'd cram the buggers in like sardines. " LOL | |||
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"Is it wrong to have had 8 meets in over 5 months ??? "Don't really know what you wanted to achieve by asking this question, especially on two threads, but it seems to me you like a bit of arguing. Hope this has made you happy. | |||
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"Is it wrong to have had 8 meets in over 5 months ???
Don't really know what you wanted to achieve by asking this question, especially on two threads, but it seems to me you like a bit of arguing.
Hope this has made you happy."Do feck like arguing, but that's all I've had back at me ! No am not happy of the results | |||
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"Right......enough bickering......... Fancy a shag? "go on then because you put it so nicely | |||
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"lol I would be happy with 8 meets in 5 years "Sadly...... you'll have to swap the position of those numbers. | |||
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"Right......enough bickering......... Fancy a shag?
go on then because you put it so nicely "Be gentle then | |||
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"lol I would be happy with 8 meets in 5 years "Aww bless but I'm not doing much better. Ive one had one this year. | |||
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"lol I would be happy with 8 meets in 5 years
Sadly...... you'll have to swap the position of those numbers."Yes so, 5 years 8 meets? | |||
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"Right......enough bickering......... Fancy a shag? "Heated discussions always make me horny, I'm in | |||
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"lol I would be happy with 8 meets in 5 years
Aww bless but I'm not doing much better. Ive one had one this year. "That's not to bad, still one better than me. | |||
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"lol I would be happy with 8 meets in 5 years
Sadly...... you'll have to swap the position of those numbers.Yes so, 5 years 8 meets? "No you cheated! You changed the words too ........ | |||
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"lol I would be happy with 8 meets in 5 years
Sadly...... you'll have to swap the position of those numbers.Yes so, 5 years 8 meets?
No you cheated! You changed the words too ........ "That's right I did, wasn't sure myself lol | |||
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"Right......enough bickering......... Fancy a shag?
Heated discussions always make me horny, I'm in "i wouldnt mind being just-in! | |||
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"on the other thread, no said it was wrong. They pointed out that you were having fun on the site and sometimes when people who are successful start to moan about how difficult it is at times, they get met by "Exactly
I think it sspeaks volumes that the OP has taken my comment totally out of context in what appears to be little more than an attempt to garner the support and sympathy that she didn't get on her other thread | |||
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"Right......enough bickering......... Fancy a shag?
go on then because you put it so nicely
Be gentle then"of course I'd take my time with you for sure | |||
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"Right......enough bickering......... Fancy a shag?
go on then because you put it so nicely
Be gentle then
of course I'd take my time with you for sure "Not me you wouldn't | |||
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"Right......enough bickering......... Fancy a shag?
go on then because you put it so nicely
Be gentle then
of course I'd take my time with you for sure
Not me you wouldn't "oh my....  | |||
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"Right......enough bickering......... Fancy a shag?
go on then because you put it so nicely
Be gentle then
of course I'd take my time with you for sure
Not me you wouldn't
oh my.... "I can't take pain | |||
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"Right......enough bickering......... Fancy a shag?
go on then because you put it so nicely
Be gentle then
of course I'd take my time with you for sure
Not me you wouldn't
oh my....
I can't take pain "no pain my dear just pleasure | |||
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"Well this went well " I have been for a lovely walk along the beach and it's still going on. | |||
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"on the other thread, no said it was wrong. They pointed out that you were having fun on the site and sometimes when people who are successful start to moan about how difficult it is at times, they get met by
Exactly
I think it sspeaks volumes that the OP has taken my comment totally out of context in what appears to be little more than an attempt to garner the support and sympathy that she didn't get on her other thread"Well it didn't really work out for her that why though, thanks to some  | |||
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"Well this went well
I have been for a lovely walk along the beach and it's still going on."I've had a lovely roast dinner and been laughing with family | |||
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"Right......enough bickering......... Fancy a shag? "Oh ok,,jeez you talked me into it
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"I've got no dinner No eggs Am I moaning? Yes I bloody am! "oh go on then you can come to mine for dinner
also how do you want you're eggs in the morning? | |||
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"Is it wrong to have had 8 meets in over 5 months ??? "why would you seek other folks opinions on how much play you have, if your happy with that level and clearly that you have met that many times would suggest you are who cares..? its your choice.. almost like you are seeking validation or wanting others to set what they think is right for you which is bizarre.. or you are insecure perhaps..? | |||
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"I've got no dinner No eggs Am I moaning? Yes I bloody am!
oh go on then you can come to mine for dinner
also how do you want you're eggs in the morning? "Made out of chocolate | |||
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"I've got no dinner No eggs Am I moaning? Yes I bloody am!
oh go on then you can come to mine for dinner
also how do you want you're eggs in the morning?
Made out of chocolate "got ya off to the shops I go | |||
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"I think if you take every comment to heart on here you would be rocking in the corner. " this | |||
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"The best way to deal with the world of fab is to just have fun. Don't worry about what everyone else thinks. As for the fourms again don't take it all to seriously I've had plenty of negative comments and I've written plenty too. Now I just go with the flow and take fab for what i wanted it to be in the first place plenty of fab fun xxx"that is a very fair comment | |||
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"The best way to deal with the world of fab is to just have fun. Don't worry about what everyone else thinks. As for the fourms again don't take it all to seriously I've had plenty of negative comments and I've written plenty too. Now I just go with the flow and take fab for what i wanted it to be in the first place plenty of fab fun xxx
that is a very fair comment "Well said | |||
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"The best way to deal with the world of fab is to just have fun. Don't worry about what everyone else thinks. As for the fourms again don't take it all to seriously I've had plenty of negative comments and I've written plenty too. Now I just go with the flow and take fab for what i wanted it to be in the first place plenty of fab fun xxx
that is a very fair comment
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"The best way to deal with the world of fab is to just have fun. Don't worry about what everyone else thinks. As for the fourms again don't take it all to seriously I've had plenty of negative comments and I've written plenty too. Now I just go with the flow and take fab for what i wanted it to be in the first place plenty of fab fun xxx
that is a very fair comment
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"The best way to deal with the world of fab is to just have fun. Don't worry about what everyone else thinks. As for the fourms again don't take it all to seriously I've had plenty of negative comments and I've written plenty too. Now I just go with the flow and take fab for what i wanted it to be in the first place plenty of fab fun xxx
that is a very fair comment
Well said
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"Ps its only taken four months x" as they say, 'keep it UP' | |||
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"I think if you take every comment to heart on here you would be rocking in the corner. " *rocks quietly in the corner* | |||
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"I think if you take every comment to heart on here you would be rocking in the corner. *rocks quietly in the corner*" medication, yoga and a pot of Evostick to sniff if I am really struggling | |||
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"I think if you take every comment to heart on here you would be rocking in the corner. *rocks quietly in the corner* medication, yoga and a pot of Evostick to sniff if I am really struggling" Damn, I wondered why the Prittstick wasn't having any effect. | |||
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" I wondered why the Prittstick wasn't having any effect. " those golden teenage years | |||
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"Haha thanks Love my life and my naughty cougar ways "I found it very difficult to get in the right head space for fab especially as I have social anxiety disorder. One on one or a few people and in fine but lots of people n I panic or close down. Going to the supermarket is a nightmare! | |||
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"Is it wrong to have had 8 meets in over 5 months ??? "It's not a fucking race..or a competition. That's not many. Depends if any of them were repeat meets. I like to think I'd meet my meets more than once if we got on well enough. | |||
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"Is it wrong to have had 8 meets in over 5 months ???
It's not a fucking race..or a competition.
That's not many. Depends if any of them were repeat meets.
I like to think I'd meet my meets more than once if we got on well enough. "
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"Haha thanks Love my life and my naughty cougar ways
I found it very difficult to get in the right head space for fab especially as I have social anxiety disorder. One on one or a few people and in fine but lots of people n I panic or close down. Going to the supermarket is a nightmare! "Stick to what you feel comfortable with. Don't feel bad about it, be happy and have fun. x | |||
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"Well this went well
I have been for a lovely walk along the beach and it's still going on."Dug the best part of a 3x2 10ft trench in the garden, planted onions, chives, ice lettuce and sweet Williams, walked two miles to and from the gym, did a 45 minute workout and this drama has continued over two threads...first world problems! | |||
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"Yes, you're slacking and not putting the effort in! Some folk just coast on here...
Haha I'm not a slacking
But find it hard to get genuine men xx
I'll regret this but .......
What's a genuine man ?"Ooooh harsh | |||
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"Well this went well
I have been for a lovely walk along the beach and it's still going on.
Dug the best part of a 3x2 10ft trench in the garden, planted onions, chives, ice lettuce and sweet Williams, walked two miles to and from the gym, did a 45 minute workout and this drama has continued over two threads...first world problems! "Oh I might do some planting tomorrow | |||
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"Haha thanks Love my life and my naughty cougar ways
I found it very difficult to get in the right head space for fab especially as I have social anxiety disorder. One on one or a few people and in fine but lots of people n I panic or close down. Going to the supermarket is a nightmare!
Stick to what you feel comfortable with. Don't feel bad about it, be happy and have fun. x"I do now had a few teething probs but now am settled am loving it xcx | |||
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