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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Since you joined has this site provided you with what you hoped for or not.?

Me first - yes on the whole, met some real nice guys and made some good friends for life I hope.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm doing champion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm doing champion "

That statement works so well with that avatar......

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I'm doing champion "

The wonder horse ?

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I'm doing champion

The wonder horse ? "

And now we know why the avatar works so well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its full of time wasters and people that think they are better than everyone else. Also full of keyboard warriors.feel like I'm wasting my time here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the most part yes... The reality doesn't match the expectation, but then when does fantasy match reality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's always been a bit of an uphill battle for me, then it felt like an upwall battle, these days it feels like an up OUTCROP battle where said outcrop is made of smooth, highly greased plastic and my fingers are partially melted butter.

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's served me well, both as half of a couple and now as a single.

Still to find a female buddy or more, would love to explore more fantasys as half of a couple again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes totally had some really great meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's plenty of available sex on here I just don't want it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't really have any expectations. I only joined to chat to one guy on here and didn't expect to get messaged because it's a swinging site, i didn't think there'd be loads of singles on here.

I think i'm sad at how easy it is for people to cheat on someone over the internet. But only know about it because people are more honest about it on here, other sites are probably the same but they hide it. Wasn't expecting it though.

I'm not talking about genuine swingers who know each other are fucking others, i mean the ones who don't.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

What I want changes from time to time but yes, in general, I've been successful in finding what I'm looking for, whatever that is at the time, here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a realist,I have found exactly what I was expecting to on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

heartbreak and dissapointment when it comes to men

but i enjoy the online social community that is the forum so stick around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I signed up with no expectations. No game plans.

...and i'm still the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"heartbreak and dissapointment when it comes to men

but i enjoy the online social community that is the forum so stick around "

The forum is the only reason I'm still on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waits for Colin's reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Waits for Colin's reply! "

Who's Colin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it havent worked out for me. I gues the perfect dream can never be realised in reality. But on the other hand I enjoy using the forum and chat room and upload pics and also made loads of online friends here x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the whole yes it has. A few curve balls and near misses have been thrown in for good measure too. I have no regrets about the experiences I've had. I hope to continue the exploration in the near future. I see no reason that Fab, or rather the people on here, won't be able to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im colin the police..

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

90% or there about have been what we're looking for meet wise. The difficulty in finding what we want was massively underestimated effort wise on our part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im colin the police.. "

Really?

I'm Colin you out on that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm doing champion

The wonder horse ?

And now we know why the avatar works so well! "

oh i say

love this site -having a blast just wish more free time to see everybody - ultimate bonus was meeting W plus friends we share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is what it is, just like life, some ups, some downs, come across some right bellends and then there are some lovely members.

I've not regretted the ride so far

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's been great and I didn't have such high expectations, as like to not over estimate things. My needs change and my main surprise has been the amount of effort that coping with simple inbox and admin can warrant.

I've got to know some lovely people though some family tragedies curtailed things for a while. So I've been a bit disengaged at times, not able to put as much in as I'd like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is what it is, just like life, some ups, some downs, come across some right bellends and then there are some lovely members.

I've not regretted the ride so far "

Where you to?

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

As soon as I took the pressure off myself of actually trying to find a meet I've really started to relax and enjoy being here.

Just having fun on the forums from now on and if anything else happens then that's just a bonus. Have come across some really nice people on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As soon as I took the pressure off myself of actually trying to find a meet I've really started to relax and enjoy being here.

Just having fun on the forums from now on and if anything else happens then that's just a bonus. Have come across some really nice people on the forums. "

and

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Iv seen more cock avatars than I expected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is what it is, just like life, some ups, some downs, come across some right bellends and then there are some lovely members.

I've not regretted the ride so far

Where you to?"

Currently on the sofa

I'm in the Rhondda at the min.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Predominantly we joined to explore our sexual boundaries and have fun...seeing that we are now closer than ever and stronger as a couple as a result, we have definitely found what we hoped to!

We've had experiences that we've learnt a lot from, made some amazing friends, and have just got home from a social that has us both ridiculously excited about the next meet

Fab is awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry that should have come with a *smugcouple warning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im enjoying my fab life xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im colin the police..

Really?

I'm Colin you out on that!

"

im colin your bluff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As soon as I took the pressure off myself of actually trying to find a meet I've really started to relax and enjoy being here.

Just having fun on the forums from now on and if anything else happens then that's just a bonus. Have come across some really nice people on the forums. "

Pretty much the same for me really, had no expectations when I joined so it's worked okay for me so far. I chat to a few people regularly and quite enjoy the forums, if anything more happens it happens, no pressure or expectations, just take things as they are.

I can't take myself seriously which helps on here, I think most of those who have some sort of problem with the site have unattainable expectations and would benefit from chilling out and going with the flow a bit more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah i mostly find myself resenting sex now. Which is a shame.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Ba da ba ba ba - I'm lovin' it*. : )

*- other fast food references are available.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

It's been a roller-coaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't met anyone yet. I'm shy in person, maybe it's the fear of rejection but on here, am surprised with what I've said to women, and what they've said back. In a good way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We expected nothing coming in, but it has provided us with a lot of entertainment. Plus we've met some really nice people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly yes

I've met some great people, had a few party invites and generally had a good time on here

I've had a few disappointments too but the good times greatly out weigh the bad that's why I'm still here

Would like to meet someone local for regular meets, that's not happened yet, had a few offers but not from anyone where its worked out

But we can't have it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, but it's a fun site too be on

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By *ridmusCouple
over a year ago

sheffield


"As soon as I took the pressure off myself of actually trying to find a meet I've really started to relax and enjoy being here.

Just having fun on the forums from now on and if anything else happens then that's just a bonus. Have come across some really nice people on the forums. "

My sentiments exactly...

And great pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I signed up to verify a couple of friends, and was overwhelmed by messages. This was in July last year, after a Stint of 9 months in Madrid. I arranged a couple of meets but got cancelled on last minute over the summer. I went back to uni in Sept, and swore myself off relationships, sex, men, women, etc.

Three weeks into term a certain blithering idiot, his words, not mine, has moved into my house more or less, and has taken up a special place in my life. 6 months later and its gone so fast, met a lovely couple and had my first foursome, started involving a close friend in our sexy times too, my attitudes to love and sex have changed, and one thing my mum noticed since ive been back in London: I'm not comfort eating anywhere near as much as I used to. So you could say, in an indirect way, fab had helped me to lose weight too! (and he likes LONG walks in the countryside so there's that element of 10 mile walks too).

It doesn't come without its own issues, jealous women and crazy exes, but on the whole its been an amazing experience, so much more than I ever bargained for! Especially considering I was there to verify a friend!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I've met people I probably would never meet in ordinary circumstances and become firm friends, had experiences that others only dream about.

Thank you Fab

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"As soon as I took the pressure off myself of actually trying to find a meet I've really started to relax and enjoy being here.

Just having fun on the forums from now on and if anything else happens then that's just a bonus. Have come across some really nice people on the forums.

My sentiments exactly...

And great pics! "

Thanks. Great pics yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since you joined has this site provided you with what you hoped for or not.?

Me first - yes on the whole, met some real nice guys and made some good friends for life I hope. "

Yes it has provided me with what I wanted most of the time.

I have realised though that often the fantasy is much better than real life in certain situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've yet to attain my ultimate desire, but the journey is highly enjoyable.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

It has exceeded my expectations...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I joined seven years ago seeking compatible playmates and that's exactly what I found. The last meet I had in November 2013 is snoring beside me.

Through the site I've discovered clubs, something I enjoy with the other half.

There's still plenty of six around, I just don't want it at present.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As soon as I took the pressure off myself of actually trying to find a meet I've really started to relax and enjoy being here.

Just having fun on the forums from now on and if anything else happens then that's just a bonus. Have come across some really nice people on the forums. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met A which I think was a great thing So more than met my expectations

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"heartbreak and dissapointment when it comes to men

but i enjoy the online social community that is the forum so stick around

The forum is the only reason I'm still on here!"

Why did you go off sex?

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"As soon as I took the pressure off myself of actually trying to find a meet I've really started to relax and enjoy being here.

Just having fun on the forums from now on and if anything else happens then that's just a bonus. Have come across some really nice people on the forums. "

This ^^^ I this, totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its what you make of it!

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"I joined seven years ago seeking compatible playmates and that's exactly what I found. The last meet I had in November 2013 is snoring beside me.

Through the site I've discovered clubs, something I enjoy with the other half.

There's still plenty of six around, I just don't want it at present."

I prefer the 69 to the six

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never expected to be contacted by so many girls or couples. that was a pleasant suprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its what you make of it!

"

True. I have good days and bad days. I try to be nice to people and I am learning to live with rejection. I have met some lovely people and some not so lovely ones. Still here though. I do enjoy the forums more than some of the random messages I get.

If I was more proactive I could meet more often but I would rather have a few good friends than a hundred aquaintances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came here because we wanted to go to clubs And the forums and club re_iews kept us up to date on what's happening out there.

However by using the site tools and keeping in touch with people we have met along the way the site presents a lot of opportunities that sadly we can't find the time to do as much as we want.

The site works well for us but we are in a lucky position of choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just reading through the thread its interesting how many women and couples are saying yes, and how many guys are saying kinda and no

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yeah....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be naive, was expecting a bit more. I'm certainly no male model, but I'm polite, clean, discreet, may even say dapper. But rarely even get a reply to my messages, which don't just consist of 'hi'. So I think I may just have to concede I'm not for it, not the other way around, not bitter, I guess I just don't stand out from the rest?

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I am having a ball!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far I am really liking this site, I haven't been here long, but I have had some great chats, met some fantastic people. Next step is visiting a club for me, so I will take my time, plus I expect nothing from anybody on this site.

I haven't changed, I have been open and honest, and I think that has helped me to be fair

Have acted out some fantasies, but still have alot more to try

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes. I use it as and when I want. It's pretty much perfect.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I am having a ball!

"

Just the one?

Or do you mean you're collecting souvenirs?

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I am having a ball!

Just the one?

Or do you mean you're collecting souvenirs? "

I like to think she means it more in the sense of the Black Lace song...

We're having a gangbang, we're having a ball

We're having a gangbang, up again'st the wall!...etc

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I am having a ball!

Just the one?

Or do you mean you're collecting souvenirs?

I like to think she means it more in the sense of the Black Lace song...

We're having a gangbang, we're having a ball

We're having a gangbang, up again'st the wall!...etc "

That's exactly what I mean.

Souvenir collecting is frowned upon isn't it?

As should quoting Black Lace songs!

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I am having a ball!

Just the one?

Or do you mean you're collecting souvenirs?

I like to think she means it more in the sense of the Black Lace song...

We're having a gangbang, we're having a ball

We're having a gangbang, up again'st the wall!...etc

That's exactly what I mean.

Souvenir collecting is frowned upon isn't it?

As should quoting Black Lace songs!

"

Weird thing is that's now the second time I've quoted Black Lace lyrics in a post. I think I may have a serious problem

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Fab is what it is, just like life, some ups, some downs, come across some right bellends and then there are some lovely members.

I've not regretted the ride so far "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been great for me met some fantastic people and made some great friends . Saying that have met my fair share of nut jobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally different to my expectations!

When I was single I loved going and pulling in a nightclub. I love the chase.

And it's virtually impossible to find "the chase" buzz here.

Being married doesn't help though.

But most guys are "hi yeah I'd fuck ya" and then I'm not interested. That doesn't turn me on in the slightest.

Having said that there's a couple of guys I chat to who are more like mates and I do get excited by the fact that at any point the mood of our conversations can change to something incredibly hot and flirty.

My favourite Fab buddy so far was a guy who just wanted repeat social meets just looking for new mates in the area. The complete lack of any expectation of anything more made me desperate to fuck him. He couldn't believe I was even interested in him like that for some reason, and that turned me on more!

But finding meets like that is rare.

I am looking forward to going to a club for the first time with my husband though.

And a spontaneous MFM with my husband was hot for different reasons, no chase required on that one!

I do prefer a psychological connection though, not just physical. And that takes time.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I think it all depends on your expectations, I've met some great people in my time here.

But my local feeds are full of people i would never want to meet and I'm sure I am on some as well

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Totally different to my expectations!

When I was single I loved going and pulling in a nightclub. I love the chase.

And it's virtually impossible to find "the chase" buzz here.

Being married doesn't help though.

But most guys are "hi yeah I'd fuck ya" and then I'm not interested. That doesn't turn me on in the slightest.

Having said that there's a couple of guys I chat to who are more like mates and I do get excited by the fact that at any point the mood of our conversations can change to something incredibly hot and flirty.

My favourite Fab buddy so far was a guy who just wanted repeat social meets just looking for new mates in the area. The complete lack of any expectation of anything more made me desperate to fuck him. He couldn't believe I was even interested in him like that for some reason, and that turned me on more!

But finding meets like that is rare.

I am looking forward to going to a club for the first time with my husband though.

And a spontaneous MFM with my husband was hot for different reasons, no chase required on that one!

I do prefer a psychological connection though, not just physical. And that takes time."

Ladies like this is what makes fab for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

found a few meets - one started out a bit disappointing but because of someone else on here it turned into the best night recently....

so on the whole yes, I am enjoying being on fab...it works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met a few who I am happy to call friends who I would never have met any other way. A few others - but oh so much time wasted chatting to those who have no intention of meeting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am having a ball!

"

lucky you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im struggling for meets. i get lots of profile _iews but no messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no.

A female friend got me on here. She gets a decent amount of meets and sold it to me lol.

After being here a while I realised the reality. I've adjusted accordingly.

Does that answer the question or not I dunno.

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By *immy2xMan
over a year ago

aberdeen/inverness/ highlands

Im not gay pr bi. I came here with the expectation of lots of uncomplicated sex. But its hard here for nice average looking guys when the ladies are here specifically to fulfill certain fantasies that often involves threesomes with oyher guys, hence thr meed i think for a single guy to be at least a bit bi here.

I get much more action on dating sites which is a shame cause there i have to lie about my intentions and people can get hurt. But thats just how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had no idea what to expect when I joined. I love that I've chatted to, and met people, who otherwise I never would have if I hadn't signed up.

The patter on the forums is brilliant and something I enjoy, but as for anything else is a bonus…forget that! There's way too many fantastic people to met not to make an effort.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I joined seven years ago seeking compatible playmates and that's exactly what I found. The last meet I had in November 2013 is snoring beside me.

Through the site I've discovered clubs, something I enjoy with the other half.

There's still plenty of six around, I just don't want it at present.

I prefer the 69 to the six "

stupid autocorrect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since you joined has this site provided you with what you hoped for or not.?

Me first - yes on the whole, met some real nice guys and made some good friends for life I hope. "

Personally i had no expectations when i joined and i was pleasantly surprised and decided the old way of swinging was the old way this was easier

now 7 years on no issues, i use the site when i want to and meet when i want to

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I use the site as and when I want to, sometimes to chat, sometimes to meet, sometimes to attend parties and socials and I find it has met my expectations. Let s face it I would not have been here for the length of time that I have.

I would say that some of the disappointment single guys may experience can be associated with not having completed their profiles and possibly only presenting cock shots.

Same with some couples looking for the elusive single bi-female : As somebody else said on a different thread a few days ago....

If you look at your own profile - would you meet that person based on what you are seeing/ reading? If the answer is anything less than an overwhelming "Yes" then maybe the profile needs an update?

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