FabSwingers.com forum: my apologies !!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The other week I was completely stupid and made a comment in the forums about a fellow poster !!!! that comment was neither called for nor funny.

I was banned and rightly so.

Therefore I humbly and sincerely aplogise not only to the person my crass comment was aimed at but to all the people who may have read what I said.

thanks

Andy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if u were banned, how come u are back on here? sorry, not sure how bans work

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

bans are not infinite - they are like time outs to consider what you did!!! lol

looks like jimmy spent his time wisely and learnt his lesson. Well done Jimmy and welcome back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well done for being so open on your apology!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if u were banned, how come u are back on here? sorry, not sure how bans work "
... Was obviously only banned for a few days 10 maybe same thing happend to me oops we live n Learn a guess

* sits in crypt *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bans are not infinite - they are like time outs to consider what you did!!! lol

looks like jimmy spent his time wisely and learnt his lesson. Well done Jimmy and welcome back

ah, thanks hun x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"bans are not infinite - they are like time outs to consider what you did!!! lol

looks like jimmy spent his time wisely and learnt his lesson. Well done Jimmy and welcome back

ah, thanks hun x"

always happy to help

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

welcome back and a firm handshake to you for posting this.

we all feck up at times, me included and always good to see humility.

many don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well its nice your taking the time to say sorry. Why do people get nasty to others when most of the time thay dont know in s and outs ,,, I think at times people go on how thay felt and what somthing or someone done to them and it comes back and make them think about how hurt how mad thay was. Maybe not sure. Or just get out of bed the wrong side in the morning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't have mentioned it. If you felt the need to apologise then apologise to the person involved, those of us on the forums don't need to be involved, even after the fact!

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton

"bans are not infinite - they are like time outs to consider what you did!!! lol

looks like jimmy spent his time wisely and learnt his lesson. Well done Jimmy and welcome back

bans can be infinite

we were banned for about 3 months , for saying that another person was talking "bull shit"

where others are banned a week for saying far worse

it is not an easy job for the moderators who have to keep the peace , and im sure sometimes it can be a thankless task

but i am gratefull for the work they do in keeping the forums running smoothly

it seems to mirror the judicial system of everyday life where one person can get sent to prison for stealing a loaf of bread , and another gets a £30 fine

both sets of punishment are seen as fair by the judge administering them at the time

as for the person sent to prison it of course will help there cause if for example they have networking contacts to the appeal board when they ask for early release , just like a banned member on here might ask another for assistence when they meet at a club event

anyway ............. just like the OP , i have learnt my lesson and under no circumstances whatsoever will ever say anything nasty to another member

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't have mentioned it. If you felt the need to apologise then apologise to the person involved, those of us on the forums don't need to be involved, even after the fact!"

That's you

This is me

and the reason I posted a forum apology is because there were other people on that particular post that were upset/annoyed/disapointed.

And I thought this was best place to say sorry.

Not looking for your blessing but I take on board your opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes a big man to put up an apology. Hand claps and appreciation are due.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"Personally I wouldn't have mentioned it. If you felt the need to apologise then apologise to the person involved, those of us on the forums don't need to be involved, even after the fact!

That's you

This is me

and the reason I posted a forum apology is because there were other people on that particular post that were upset/annoyed/disapointed.

And I thought this was best place to say sorry.

Not looking for your blessing but I take on board your opinion.

Well done you. It takes a man to stand up and apologise to a person direct. It takes even more to put an apology up in the forum for all to see and comment.

We do get it wrong sometimes and you post something then think after da,n I shouldnt have said that or could have said it better.

I applaud you and your apology has probably covered all those concerned that were upset anout your original comment.

Well done hunny xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done for apologising, I also think that we all say things without thinking sometimes, unfortunately when we type it then words are there to stay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't have mentioned it. If you felt the need to apologise then apologise to the person involved, those of us on the forums don't need to be involved, even after the fact!

That's you

This is me

and the reason I posted a forum apology is because there were other people on that particular post that were upset/annoyed/disapointed.

And I thought this was best place to say sorry.

Not looking for your blessing but I take on board your opinion.

You don't have to take anything on board just as I don't have to understand your need to dig up yesterdays news.

That's the beauty of open public forums: you can agree to disagree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The other week I was completely stupid and made a comment in the forums about a fellow poster !!!! that comment was neither called for nor funny.

I was banned and rightly so.

Therefore I humbly and sincerely aplogise not only to the person my crass comment was aimed at but to all the people who may have read what I said.

thanks

Andy"

If you offended somebody publicly (I was not aware) - I think you have taken a positive step to put things right IMHO - and you have balls to do so - personally I admire that in a man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes a big man to apologise xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Just a quick thing to point out.

NO ONE gets banned for anything trivial....sometimes bans are giving out for a one off abuse if it is really bad......but most people will get only get a ban after been given a couple of chances.

The last comment you made is probably just the icing on the cake......so when people say " I only said this and I got banned" they have normally conveniently forgotten a few other comments beforehand.

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton

perhaps it might be a good idea to have a secret code , so we could insult eachother without it seeming obvious

11 = thick as 2 planks

( * ) = you are a tit

3 ~~~ = talking out ur arse

00 = bollocks

tw@ = twat

___m_(o)(o)_m___ = nosey bastard

you never know it might catch on

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"perhaps it might be a good idea to have a secret code , so we could insult eachother without it seeming obvious

11 = thick as 2 planks

( * ) = you are a tit

3 ~~~ = talking out ur arse

00 = bollocks

tw@ = twat

___m_(o)(o)_m___ = nosey bastard

you never know it might catch on

nah it wont - we all know what each other really is though

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