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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone gives you a verification I understand this does not automatically entitle you one back. However do you always veri the person back? If not why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would verify them back, I have given verifications and not had one back, just some people don't do it or they didn't think much of me! X

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

If I don't verify someone it's because they were either not as they described themselves in their profile or they were rude in some way.

If they are just as described and perfectly pleasant but I don't fancy them they get a veri from me.

Anyone who gets pushy because I haven't written one is being rude so has just made it definite that they won't get one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to give as well as receive

but ... If you receive a veri From a busy social event it's not always possible to keep track of who, what, when and where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always verify, .. If they choose not to verify us..So be it. Not a lot you can do about it really.. Perhaps their opinion, of the rendezvous is totally different from yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just plain don't..... Simple enough but no matter.

I verify most meets but even I dont do all.

Not everyone I have met has verified me....but cab moaning about it.....I got way too many anyway! (No, really I have)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone gives you a verification I understand this does not automatically entitle you one back. However do you always veri the person back? If not why? "

I only veri them if I had a good time. (If it was a meet and fuck)

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Yes we will always leave a verification if someone turns up and matches their profile pics etc.

Whether they choose to display it or return one is up to them.

The only time we won't is if someone says they don't like them and for us not to verify them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always leave a veri i reckon if they dont return a veri they dont like me or they got no manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just plain don't..... Simple enough but no matter.

I verify most meets but even I dont do all.

Not everyone I have met has verified me....but cab moaning about it.....I got way too many anyway! (No, really I have)"

We know....you do tend to love pointing them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's right not everyone you meet will verify you. Happened few times to me. I don't send one back as a rule of thumb

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We always verify.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer the op....I always leave a veri either first or as a response to one I've gotten but have been known not to get them back...I'm not so fussed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been left veris and have left them for others.

I've never asked for one though and anyone who has met me will attest to that....

..and I've never NOT been left one either yet.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

A few couples I've met are just not into verifications at all, so I've neither given them one (veri that is!) nor expected one back, and I don't expect to give or get another one for repeat visits either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's right not everyone you meet will verify you. Happened few times to me. I don't send one back as a rule of thumb "

So you're always taking and not giving ? How long would you wait for a veri to arrive ?

Do you ever veri first ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always leave a veri i reckon if they dont return a veri they dont like me or they got no manners "

We always used to leave veris.

I loved writing them and receiving them.

But...recently, they've been causing us nothing but grief! People contacting us about who we've met and why we met them!?

So, maybe that's why others don't bother with them either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bugger , I don't do veris as lost of mine would show as they are nearly all from people I've meet at socials. I have given done back but again funny ones, I defiantly don't do any for play meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's right not everyone you meet will verify you. Happened few times to me. I don't send one back as a rule of thumb

So you're always taking and not giving ? How long would you wait for a veri to arrive ?

Do you ever veri first ? "
lol, if they give one back I give one back to. Prob would wait few weeks. YEs I did veri someone first as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to leave a Veri but sometimes at Clubs or Parties I'm such a fuckin Babe Magnet i cant possibly remember all their names

GenuineGuy Gimp

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I ask if they want one and even then it is just to confirm that they are who they say they are, no gory details. I don't display play veris so am not bothered if I don't get one back, I show a couple so people can see I am still alive once a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv got a couple of decent veris that show im who I say I am, not fussed about anymore, I don't like the 1s that go into a lot of sexual detail, so wouldn't display any like that if I was left 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We try to leave a Veri but sometimes at Clubs or Parties I'm such a fuckin Babe Magnet i cant possibly remember all their names

GenuineGuy Gimp "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont do em dont want em and lots on here are the same. They know im genuine and i know they are and some of us dont want nosey arsed timewasters peeking at who we meet and when! there over rated and of very little value to many.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well de-friended and ignored just as I apologised. Learning curv! This is a first not gonna lie ego is bruised but oh well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always leave a veri i reckon if they dont return a veri they dont like me or they got no manners "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone gives you a verification I understand this does not automatically entitle you one back. However do you always veri the person back? If not why? "

On our old profile we verified everyone who verified us, if it was a good meet. If it wasn't then we still verified them as they were at least genuine (fairs fair) but perhaps it was what we didn't say in the veri. We never gave someone a great write up if they we didn't feel it fair.

We only failed to verify one guy by return simply because of the rude and arrogant we he told us we would verify him and how we would do so. Perhaps that was just his American ways lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has taken the time to leave me a veri,then I feel it's only right that I leave a veri in return.

Saying that,when I do leave someone a veri I don't automatically expect one back, everyone has different views on veri's and its everyone's personal preference wether they leave you one or display the one you leave them.

Personally I hate crude veri's which go into full detail of what happened on the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always left one for anyone who has left me one, I think the only time I wouldn't is if we'd not got on well or if there had been something wrong with the meet in some way (which hasn't happened). There are people I've verified who never sent one back, so perhaps I'm a shit shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ask for a verification and only write one if I'm asked to. If someone writes me one I will write them one. If someone doesn't have a verification or a very old one I will ask if they want one and let them know they don't have to write one back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would happily return any verification but I choose my words carfully pending on the person if it was a bad meet I would be civil as at least they turned up so they are somewhat genuine.

If the meet blew my mind I would leave an amazing verification for that person

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We always veri, just feels right to for us, a polite appreciation of the time taken out to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always verify a meet as I think its common courtesy and to me, they're to say the person is who they say they are and are genuine. I never go into graphic detail but am always polite and civil even if it wasn't a great meet. Some don't verify back which is fine but I do think its a little rude but I won't lose any sleep over it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one meet, she hasn't given me a veri I remain veri less lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it as a courtesy thing - as long as they are who they say they are etc etc. If I don't get one back then I don't get one back - I don't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send one back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont always verify a social - if we have played we do - we dont always get one back but its nice when you do - some havent verified us and we have met and played a few times - its no biggy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always leave a verification just annoying the fact that we say "polite person genuine etc" then they put every single detail of what happened in that meet. :/

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The problem with mainly playing at clubs is that many guys there aren't on Fab so I dont get verified and look like I don't meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always verify them back, sometimes it takes me a while to think of what i wanna put because i don't want to write a porn story. But yeah i would presume veris are important to them if they write them.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I've had a couple of meets I have chosen not to verify.

I'm a big believer in "If you can't say something nice..."

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