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"Are you secret MP's doing a survey before the elections? " No. Just wanting a lively debate! | |||
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"Are you secret MP's doing a survey before the elections? No. Just wanting a lively debate! " Sorry I was joking saw your thread about zero hours and now this...enjoy the debate | |||
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"No idea. But the have them in Australia, France, Belgium, France and Germany. No doubt Thatcher will be blamed for them all. Is it not a sign that the poor get poorer, while the rich get richer?" Its a sign that some people need help. Someone becoming wealthy does not mean that someone becomes poor. People who believe that probably believe that angels get their wings when a bell rings. | |||
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"No idea. But the have them in Australia, France, Belgium, France and Germany. No doubt Thatcher will be blamed for them all." Wrote twice France, you love secretly France? | |||
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"No idea. But the have them in Australia, France, Belgium, France and Germany. No doubt Thatcher will be blamed for them all. Is it not a sign that the poor get poorer, while the rich get richer? Its a sign that some people need help. Someone becoming wealthy does not mean that someone becomes poor. People who believe that probably believe that angels get their wings when a bell rings." You've been watching that film Ben. Clarence might have been right! | |||
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" Wrote twice France, you love secretly France? " Yoda also you are talking like, yes? | |||
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"No idea. But the have them in Australia, France, Belgium, France and Germany. No doubt Thatcher will be blamed for them all. Is it not a sign that the poor get poorer, while the rich get richer? Its a sign that some people need help. Someone becoming wealthy does not mean that someone becomes poor. People who believe that probably believe that angels get their wings when a bell rings." Tell me then, where does someone's wealth come from then? | |||
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"Good points you've made. Societies throughout the world are imperfect and will always require welfare safety nets - like food banks , clothe banks etc...... And it's inevitable that these facilities are going to get abused by some. Also , as far as the rich getting richer _iewpoint is concerned, it was he ( yes J Clarkson!!) who wrote recently in the Times making the point that you don't make yourself more beautiful by taking a stick to those more attractive than you !!!! ........ " Surely the answer is for some of the super rich's wealth to filter down, benefitting all of society? | |||
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"I fully support food banks and donate to my local bank every time.i go shopping. Its sad that in a country such as ours that we need such vital things. we need change !!" Do their existence belie the assertion of a 'booming' economy? | |||
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"Good points you've made. Societies throughout the world are imperfect and will always require welfare safety nets - like food banks , clothe banks etc...... And it's inevitable that these facilities are going to get abused by some. Also , as far as the rich getting richer _iewpoint is concerned, it was he ( yes J Clarkson!!) who wrote recently in the Times making the point that you don't make yourself more beautiful by taking a stick to those more attractive than you !!!! ........ Surely the answer is for some of the super rich's wealth to filter down, benefitting all of society? " Doesn't it already? I'm assuming the super rich pay super taxes, spend more etc helping the economy. I don't believe that because you have a lot you should give it away to those less fortunate. | |||
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"I fully support food banks and donate to my local bank every time.i go shopping. Its sad that in a country such as ours that we need such vital things. we need change !! Do their existence belie the assertion of a 'booming' economy? " Yes they do. Here in North Wales , the minimum wage is the average. Low wages and zero hour contracts here show that the booming economy is something that's happening else where | |||
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"Good points you've made. Societies throughout the world are imperfect and will always require welfare safety nets - like food banks , clothe banks etc...... And it's inevitable that these facilities are going to get abused by some. Also , as far as the rich getting richer _iewpoint is concerned, it was he ( yes J Clarkson!!) who wrote recently in the Times making the point that you don't make yourself more beautiful by taking a stick to those more attractive than you !!!! ........ Surely the answer is for some of the super rich's wealth to filter down, benefitting all of society? Doesn't it already? I'm assuming the super rich pay super taxes, spend more etc helping the economy. I don't believe that because you have a lot you should give it away to those less fortunate." See if you can watch "The Super rich v Us" on the iplayer or some much. Documentary showing how most of the bank bail out money had gone to the Super rich and not trickled down It is a worldwide problem, leading to greater and greater civil unrest. Even some of the Super rich are of the mind that they have to share the wealth a bit - or face the consequences | |||
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"Good points you've made. Societies throughout the world are imperfect and will always require welfare safety nets - like food banks , clothe banks etc...... And it's inevitable that these facilities are going to get abused by some. Also , as far as the rich getting richer _iewpoint is concerned, it was he ( yes J Clarkson!!) who wrote recently in the Times making the point that you don't make yourself more beautiful by taking a stick to those more attractive than you !!!! ........ Surely the answer is for some of the super rich's wealth to filter down, benefitting all of society? Doesn't it already? I'm assuming the super rich pay super taxes, spend more etc helping the economy. I don't believe that because you have a lot you should give it away to those less fortunate. See if you can watch "The Super rich v Us" on the iplayer or some much. Documentary showing how most of the bank bail out money had gone to the Super rich and not trickled down It is a worldwide problem, leading to greater and greater civil unrest. Even some of the Super rich are of the mind that they have to share the wealth a bit - or face the consequences " | |||
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"Good points you've made. Societies throughout the world are imperfect and will always require welfare safety nets - like food banks , clothe banks etc...... And it's inevitable that these facilities are going to get abused by some. Also , as far as the rich getting richer _iewpoint is concerned, it was he ( yes J Clarkson!!) who wrote recently in the Times making the point that you don't make yourself more beautiful by taking a stick to those more attractive than you !!!! ........ Surely the answer is for some of the super rich's wealth to filter down, benefitting all of society? " In a perfect society yes, BUT..we live in a far from perfect society, Is it those in need who decide where this added Wealth would be distributed and how or those that havnt had to wonder where their own next meal or council tax payment is coming from. Some very poor people start their own Companies in the hope of becoming successful and after years f struggling are fortunate to succeed and become very comfortably off..Are we then to take their hard earned Money by force. We are all equal, Its just that some are more equal than others Chairman Gimp | |||
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"I think some people need then during a crisis, and there's allways been something like them around they arnt new, and communities used to look after people a little more, we used to lend food or have mates and their kids around for dinner when we knew they where struggling. Problem is its hard to spot the ones that need it from the regular known faces locally who use it after they have spent all their money on booze/fags/xboxgames/a wicked night out in the club/drugs (Not just people on dole, not benefit bashing here) Or local one has publicly said they know this is an issue but would rather give everyone food rather than miss someone in real need. I get that but it does help some of the idiots be idiots." I have been directly involved with an agency who gives food bank vouchers to people in need and there is a limit on how many times in six months they can be issued to the same person which I believe is twice. If a parent has d*unk or smoked the food money the vouchers are often given to the kids if they are over 16 . | |||
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"Good points you've made. Societies throughout the world are imperfect and will always require welfare safety nets - like food banks , clothe banks etc...... And it's inevitable that these facilities are going to get abused by some. Also , as far as the rich getting richer _iewpoint is concerned, it was he ( yes J Clarkson!!) who wrote recently in the Times making the point that you don't make yourself more beautiful by taking a stick to those more attractive than you !!!! ........ Surely the answer is for some of the super rich's wealth to filter down, benefitting all of society? " It does, it's called tax. How the Government spends it is the concern for us all. In answer to your opening post, better that society is able to step up and fill the gaps rather than having people go hungry. Someone commented about xboxes, booze, cable tv etc, give them up to help with bills. If you can't find a local job then be prepared to travel to get one. Be determined and don't take no for an answer. Deliver your application in person to the company. Think about that job flipping burgers, if you're doing it already then apply for your bosses position. Don't blame Thatcher blame Blair & Brown. They got us into this mess being too close to the money in the first place. Blair has carried on in his post PM role, Brown at least keeping himself to himself relatively speaking. The brave back themselves to start a business, the successful pay taxes, the prudent take advantage, quite legally, of the tax system while the corrupt abuse. As in business, as in life. Few are born super rich. Everyone started with nothing sometime. It's the coalition that has closed more of the Labour tax loopholes. I'm not a politician either. | |||
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"I.think.we are all to blame. Be interesting to.know how many who.use these have sky or virgin. Phone contracts etc we value these things too much" Ok stupid question i know but what has a phone contract gotto do with a Foodbank Gimp | |||
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"I.think.we are all to blame. Be interesting to.know how many who.use these have sky or virgin. Phone contracts etc we value these things too much Ok stupid question i know but what has a phone contract gotto do with a Foodbank Gimp" You shouldn't have a phone contract if at any time in the future it might be remotely possible that you might fall on hard times. If you do you should stop paying it and render yourself unable to be contacted for job opportunities etc. Because if you are poor you must suffer | |||
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"back in the day neighbours used to make sure nobody went that hungry if they could help it - i know not the whole point youre making but that way of thinking is somewhat lacking these days " Because people are intrinsically selfish. "I have but don't want to share" | |||
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"How do people feel about them? And whose fault is it that they exist in today's Britain?" i feel left out i cant get a voucher because im a circus dwarf and i blame the clangers! | |||
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"I.think.we are all to blame. Be interesting to.know how many who.use these have sky or virgin. Phone contracts etc we value these things too much Ok stupid question i know but what has a phone contract gotto do with a Foodbank Gimp You shouldn't have a phone contract if at any time in the future it might be remotely possible that you might fall on hard times. If you do you should stop paying it and render yourself unable to be contacted for job opportunities etc. Because if you are poor you must suffer" Its weird where we live, The jobcentre insists the unemployed carry out a minimum of four hours online job searching five days a week, So you have to have Internet and a Laptop/PC, They also insist on contacting you via emails, And to top it all if they ring and you dont answer for any reason they wont ring back and will stop that weeks benefits so a Mobile is virtually essential if your out at a foodbank or handing out CV's. Its a Mad world run by Crazy people Gimp | |||
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"I.think.we are all to blame. Be interesting to.know how many who.use these have sky or virgin. Phone contracts etc we value these things too much" Some of them will have, but that's what normal people do? And many of them will be getting proper advice on how to get their expenses down. We didn't have that stuff, i had a mobile my sister bought me that i couldn't even afford to top up, but at least she could phone me. | |||
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"Think its really sad that we need them and soup kitchens but after volunteering for a while at 1 in manchester i felt very humbled by it n bloody angry that we have people in this country in this day n age on n below the bread line that would bloody starve without these life saving places TOTAL DISGRACE WHEN WE WASTE BILLIONS ON WARS WE SHOULD NEVER HAVE BEEN IN IN THE FIRST PLACE just my opinion as have lost friends n seen friends family's touched by losses in the so called war on terror" | |||
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"No idea. But the have them in Australia, France, Belgium, France and Germany. No doubt Thatcher will be blamed for them all. Is it not a sign that the poor get poorer, while the rich get richer?" true , blame this goverment , for screwing the poor wile the rich get richer , | |||
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"Someone I know quite well had to use a food bank... And I'm all for them BUT the person who got the voucher for a food parcel smokes cigarettes and cannabis..... Now I've been on the bones of my arse on benefits with 4 kids and at no point was there no food, gas or electric or rags on their backs..... But then I don't have addictions... Surely someone somewhere must realise that there should be choices made for more deserving people.... Before anyone kicks off.. This person I know is "looking after" my 15 year old daughter, who I send money for and buy all her things for, so I'm not just generalizing " Much as i agree people should make better choices, we live in a society that doesn't starve people to death if it can help it. | |||
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"In order to access the food bank here you need a voucher issued by the Job Centre or Social Work department. The vast majority of vouchers are as a result of a Job Centre admin cock up or sanction. In a country like this, it is a disgrace." I have to agree with you its an absolute fxxking disgrace , | |||
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"Someone I know quite well had to use a food bank... And I'm all for them BUT the person who got the voucher for a food parcel smokes cigarettes and cannabis..... Now I've been on the bones of my arse on benefits with 4 kids and at no point was there no food, gas or electric or rags on their backs..... But then I don't have addictions... Surely someone somewhere must realise that there should be choices made for more deserving people.... Before anyone kicks off.. This person I know is "looking after" my 15 year old daughter, who I send money for and buy all her things for, so I'm not just generalizing Much as i agree people should make better choices, we live in a society that doesn't starve people to death if it can help it. " Yes and that's good but adults are choosing drink/fags/ drugs over feeding their kids..... How can that be allowed?? | |||
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"No idea. But the have them in Australia, France, Belgium, France and Germany. No doubt Thatcher will be blamed for them all. Is it not a sign that the poor get poorer, while the rich get richer? true , blame this goverment , for screwing the poor wile the rich get richer , " this | |||
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"Someone I know quite well had to use a food bank... And I'm all for them BUT the person who got the voucher for a food parcel smokes cigarettes and cannabis..... Now I've been on the bones of my arse on benefits with 4 kids and at no point was there no food, gas or electric or rags on their backs..... But then I don't have addictions... Surely someone somewhere must realise that there should be choices made for more deserving people.... Before anyone kicks off.. This person I know is "looking after" my 15 year old daughter, who I send money for and buy all her things for, so I'm not just generalizing Much as i agree people should make better choices, we live in a society that doesn't starve people to death if it can help it. Yes and that's good but adults are choosing drink/fags/ drugs over feeding their kids..... How can that be allowed?? " Addictions are like that, they take priority to people over everything else. Most people will prioritse sorting out the most demanding need (food) and then help them with the other stuff later, if they want that. And that's what is happening, someone else has taken responsibility for them so they don't have to. Next step might be a bit more extreme if they don't help themselves. | |||
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"How do people feel about them? And whose fault is it that they exist in today's Britain?" You are demonstrating a very negative outlook today. Try to be a bit more positive and look for good news instead of bad. Here for example... UK's economic growth for 2014 revised up http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-32126975 If you constantly dwell on bad news, negative press and pessimism your whole personality will adopt a negative, beaten and despairing aspect. Monty Python had it right.. Always look on the bright side of life. | |||
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"Someone I know quite well had to use a food bank... And I'm all for them BUT the person who got the voucher for a food parcel smokes cigarettes and cannabis..... Now I've been on the bones of my arse on benefits with 4 kids and at no point was there no food, gas or electric or rags on their backs..... But then I don't have addictions... Surely someone somewhere must realise that there should be choices made for more deserving people.... Before anyone kicks off.. This person I know is "looking after" my 15 year old daughter, who I send money for and buy all her things for, so I'm not just generalizing Much as i agree people should make better choices, we live in a society that doesn't starve people to death if it can help it. Yes and that's good but adults are choosing drink/fags/ drugs over feeding their kids..... How can that be allowed?? Addictions are like that, they take priority to people over everything else. Most people will prioritse sorting out the most demanding need (food) and then help them with the other stuff later, if they want that. And that's what is happening, someone else has taken responsibility for them so they don't have to. Next step might be a bit more extreme if they don't help themselves." I know, my own mother was a heroin addict and she stole the tv and video from me and my dad (they had separated and she "needed somewhere to stay" aka needed to steal something).... Not saying I'm perfect COs I'm far far from it.... But I couldn't imagine putting anything or anyone in front on my kids most basic of needs there is no easy answer.... Just makes me sad on sooo many levels.... I'm very angry with my mum for choosing drugs over me.....uuuggghhh | |||
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"How do people feel about them? And whose fault is it that they exist in today's Britain? You are demonstrating a very negative outlook today. Try to be a bit more positive and look for good news instead of bad. Here for example... UK's economic growth for 2014 revised up http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-32126975 If you constantly dwell on bad news, negative press and pessimism your whole personality will adopt a negative, beaten and despairing aspect. Monty Python had it right.. Always look on the bright side of life." My reality is harsh. As is the reality for many in Britain. If you're doing well, count yourself lucky. Yes, I've talked about food banks - they do exist, after all - and zero hours contracts - these had a very bad effect on my life (as well as several of my teaching colleagues). Why shouldn't I? According to your posts, these things are the fault of individuals, not the government. I disagree I actually used to be a Conservative voter when young but then a harsher reality hit me. I then saw how intrinsically selfish Conservative policies are and how self absorbed their supporters are | |||
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"How do people feel about them? And whose fault is it that they exist in today's Britain? You are demonstrating a very negative outlook today. Try to be a bit more positive and look for good news instead of bad. Here for example... UK's economic growth for 2014 revised up http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-32126975 If you constantly dwell on bad news, negative press and pessimism your whole personality will adopt a negative, beaten and despairing aspect. Monty Python had it right.. Always look on the bright side of life. My reality is harsh. As is the reality for many in Britain. If you're doing well, count yourself lucky. Yes, I've talked about food banks - they do exist, after all - and zero hours contracts - these had a very bad effect on my life (as well as several of my teaching colleagues). Why shouldn't I? According to your posts, these things are the fault of individuals, not the government. I disagree I actually used to be a Conservative voter when young but then a harsher reality hit me. I then saw how intrinsically selfish Conservative policies are and how self absorbed their supporters are" I've helped make up Christmas food parcels for families who had very little, when Labour were in power. So I 'm not sure you can solely blame the government. I agree with food banks, I also agree with individuals being responsible for themselves. A short term solution when times are hard. It's not relatively long really since we had The Workhouse - I'm glad that we are more humane nowadays. Like another poster stated - years ago, communities would have looked out for each other more. You'd know if someone had fallen on hard times and needed a little help. It's sad that so much food is wasted when others are going hungry. | |||
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" I don't believe that because you have a lot you should give it away to those less fortunate." Don't take this the wrong way but that has to be one of the most miserably disgustingly selfish statements I've ever read. | |||
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"How do people feel about them? And whose fault is it that they exist in today's Britain? You are demonstrating a very negative outlook today. Try to be a bit more positive and look for good news instead of bad. Here for example... UK's economic growth for 2014 revised up http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-32126975 If you constantly dwell on bad news, negative press and pessimism your whole personality will adopt a negative, beaten and despairing aspect. Monty Python had it right.. Always look on the bright side of life." Quick cover your hands over your eyes and all the bad things will go away. | |||
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"How do people feel about them? And whose fault is it that they exist in today's Britain? You are demonstrating a very negative outlook today. Try to be a bit more positive and look for good news instead of bad. Here for example... UK's economic growth for 2014 revised up http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-32126975 If you constantly dwell on bad news, negative press and pessimism your whole personality will adopt a negative, beaten and despairing aspect. Monty Python had it right.. Always look on the bright side of life. Quick cover your hands over your eyes and all the bad things will go away." Whistle 'Always look on the bright side' and all society's ills go away! Alternatively say "Pull up the ladder, Jack. I'm alright!" | |||
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"There is a local Sikh temple not far from me. Provides free lunch everyday for the vulnerable and elderly in the community. Paid for by the congregation at large and gives me a bit of faith in human nature. I think there is more we could and should be doing as communities to support and help those less fortunate without stigmatising them." This is a big part of the Sikh faith. My mum runs a similar thing out of her local Catholic Church (not just for parishioners.) | |||
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