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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone bother with this warning? Do you just carry on regardless and message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

There is a guy who sends me the same message almost everyday

I know for a fact that he doesn't

Can't speak for anyone else

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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago

In amongst the Unicorns & fairy dust


"Does anyone bother with this warning? Do you just carry on regardless and message them."

I don't come accross this message very often but if I do I always adhere to it yes

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

Stop ...carry on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry what was the question I got distracted by Tyrian minx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can speak for my self I have sent a message some times but it would to be to say that I appreciate iam not what your looking for but just want to sayyyy ..... (followed by compliment) and leave it there. again I don't think there's a problem with expressing to some one if you find them

attractive pretty sexy or beautiful. not enough people pay people compliments nowadays x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone bother with this warning? Do you just carry on regardless and message them."

Always - its just another redundant feature on the site that serves no practical purpose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry what was the question I got distracted by Tyrian minx "

Something about stop & search i think...i had the same issue

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By *ntimatediscretionMan
over a year ago

eaglescliffe

stop. look and listen...and always use the green cross code...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wots the worst they can do x's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't read anyway

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

If it's a reply by mail to something from the forum... then I ignore it and carry on messaging.

If it was someone I was planning to mail witha view to meeting then I wouldn't mail them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Course they ignore it, not like anything will happen to them if they do.

Am sure loads it does put them off as well though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Course they ignore it, not like anything will happen to them if they do.

Am sure loads it does put them off as well though."

It has prevented me from messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I ignore it lol

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

certainly makes me think, and sometimes I stop because I've thought better of it. But on the whole my approach isn't likely to be anything but charming so I go ahead anyhow, after all they can delete it and block me should they so desire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a guy who sends me the same message almost everyday

I know for a fact that he doesn't

Can't speak for anyone else "
sorry i will stop pinky promise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Course they ignore it, not like anything will happen to them if they do.

Am sure loads it does put them off as well though.

It has prevented me from messaging."

Yeah knew it would for some guys, and likely a lot more guys than we think because they aren't messaging so we won't actually know. It's only the ones who ignore it who stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand what you mean

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I must have an invisible stop and think message in my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever see it when messaging women or couples, and I'm not messaging them to proposition them, but about something else (e.g. a forum thread or a where did you get your corset from type question) so no it doesn't stop me.

If a man said they weren't looking for women and I'd been messaging to try and meet them, yeah I'd respect it and stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'm a rebel

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"If it's a reply by mail to something from the forum... then I ignore it and carry on messaging.

If it was someone I was planning to mail witha view to meeting then I wouldn't mail them "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know W if hes in the chatroom sometimes just sends a message - sometimes we have written a note previously - but no disasters yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said above...if it's forum related I quite often do.

I ignored the warning with a couple who'd posted a meet once...landed up having two meets with them, so now I do occasionally ignore it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"There is a guy who sends me the same message almost everyday

I know for a fact that he doesn't

Can't speak for anyone else sorry i will stop pinky promise? "

Yeah.....junking up my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I stated very clearly on my profile that I'm in a monogamous relationship and no longer interested in meeting the number of messages I've had asking for meets has probably quadrupled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since I stated very clearly on my profile that I'm in a monogamous relationship and no longer interested in meeting the number of messages I've had asking for meets has probably quadrupled!"

Always the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop ...carry on! "

Hahahaha!

Mark and Lard on Radio 1?.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop ...carry on!

Hahahaha!

Mark and Lard on Radio 1?..... "

Lol do you remeber them , crashing radio 1 ; taking the piss out of the madonna track

They did make me Laff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since I stated very clearly on my profile that I'm in a monogamous relationship and no longer interested in meeting the number of messages I've had asking for meets has probably quadrupled!"

It still says 'looking for women...' etc.... You still show up on searches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since I stated very clearly on my profile that I'm in a monogamous relationship and no longer interested in meeting the number of messages I've had asking for meets has probably quadrupled!

It still says 'looking for women...' etc.... You still show up on searches. "

Because I've not hidden my profile. I credited people with the intelligence to not message me requesting meets etc when it quite clearly states that I'm not interested.

If I become single again at some point I might just leave it on there!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since I stated very clearly on my profile that I'm in a monogamous relationship and no longer interested in meeting the number of messages I've had asking for meets has probably quadrupled!

It still says 'looking for women...' etc.... You still show up on searches.

Because I've not hidden my profile. I credited people with the intelligence to not message me requesting meets etc when it quite clearly states that I'm not interested.

If I become single again at some point I might just leave it on there!... "

Fabsters... intelligence....

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