FabSwingers.com forum: Pre meet phone call

By *ere-for-my-convenience OP Woman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I won't meet without a phone call first

I'm into spontaneous meets so for me just a short call tells me if I'm interested or not

Unless it's at a club and it's a "well if I see you there come say hello"

Do you need a phone call first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never. Only been stood up once, and he was just an arse - a phone call would have made no difference. But then I don't really talk to my normal friends on the phone either so it's not something I associate with any indicator of being genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really, in fact we very rarely give our number out, usually just give our kik out and message about an hour before saying are you still ok to meet,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, But I don't do spontaneous meets,

I don't think I would meet a Woman just by hearing her voice

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't need a call, although texts will be swapped to make sure the phone numbers are correct. I find men who badger me between arranging a meet and the actual meet very off-putting. Just turn up and wahey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, never. Only been stood up once, and he was just an arse - a phone call would have made no difference. But then I don't really talk to my normal friends on the phone either so it's not something I associate with any indicator of being genuine. "

This is how we think, if someone is going to stand you up, there going to stand you up whether you speak to them on the phone or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. But for me it's a "voice check"

.. Just making sure they don't sound like Mr Bean lol

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

We usually just Whatsapp to confirm attendance and what-not. No need to phone for us.

If it ends up being a wash-out we just chalk it down and look forward.

Plenty more sexy fish in the sea!!

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Just out of interest, whats your phone bill?

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By *ere-for-my-convenience OP Woman
over a year ago

West Midlands

It's not about being stood up

Its just so that I actually hear the way the person actually speaks to me

It's always a brief chat

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By *ere-for-my-convenience OP Woman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Yes. But for me it's a "voice check"

.. Just making sure they don't sound like Mr Bean lol

Thank you

Thought I was a bit odd then

So glad one person has agreed with me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not about being stood up

Its just so that I actually hear the way the person actually speaks to me

It's always a brief chat

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I don't always need a phone call,Ill always offer one

What I won't do is arrange a meet without a phone number and the majority of the time ive spoken via whatsapp too so feel fairly confident about the person,its rare for me to now have a spontaneous meet outside of a club setting with someone I don't already know though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not about being stood up

Its just so that I actually hear the way the person actually speaks to me

It's always a brief chat

Seems to be about connecting. There's a dating tip where, if I got you're number, make a casual flirty call to you, whilst your standing next to me. To help you feel comfortable talking to me and break the ice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't meet without a phone call first

I'm into spontaneous meets so for me just a short call tells me if I'm interested or not

Unless it's at a club and it's a "well if I see you there come say hello"

Do you need a phone call first? "

Nope - never have and never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't meet without a phone call first

I'm into spontaneous meets so for me just a short call tells me if I'm interested or not

Unless it's at a club and it's a "well if I see you there come say hello"

Do you need a phone call first? "

As standard...get a better sense of the person over the phone. An essential for me before a meet for me.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I won't meet without a phone call first

I'm into spontaneous meets so for me just a short call tells me if I'm interested or not

Unless it's at a club and it's a "well if I see you there come say hello"

Do you need a phone call first? "

No we very rarely speak on the phone before a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No not really, in fact we very rarely give our number out, usually just give our kik out and message about an hour before saying are you still ok to meet,

"
this

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By *ere-for-my-convenience OP Woman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I won't meet without a phone call first

I'm into spontaneous meets so for me just a short call tells me if I'm interested or not

Unless it's at a club and it's a "well if I see you there come say hello"

Do you need a phone call first?

As standard...get a better sense of the person over the phone. An essential for me before a meet for me."

I agree

It's kind of different for couples because they have each other I suppose

That's my opinion

I just need to hear that he doesn't sound serial killer ish

Which I know seems ridiculous and it probably is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've spoken to some on the phone beforehand, the majority tho is via whatsapp. I tend to build up a rapport with someone first before I meet and so far never been stood up & luckily no Mr Beans either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just out of interest, whats your phone bill?"

Random question of the day....

Well I have a contract with loads of data and unlimited texts and I don't make many calls, that's just for family really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a must do for me but sometimes a quick hello is nice if only to confirm logistics and all that. All the messaging options mentioned above work equally well... well when they work themselves haha!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I wouldn't say I need a phone call, but I am more than willing to swap numbers and if I am travelling, I ask for their number or the meet ain't happening.

Some people have said they don't give out their number, but how cheap can you get a play phone for ffs

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nope... I don't give out my number until I've met someone... and know that I want to keep in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes.

But not to verify if they are genuine or not.

I'm a southerner. .I sound boring.

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

As a couple - we always have a fem-fem call before a meet - to be sure a) there's an actual female on the other end and that they are b) consenting and c) have approved the pair of us, even if the male has done most of the mail exchange. We suffered our fair share of fakes before insisting, and nowadays if a few mins for a phone call is too much effort for someone they probably aren't going to be putting in much effort into a meet with us either.

It's probably somewhat different for singles though!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Some people have said they don't give out their number, but how cheap can you get a play phone for ffs

Nothing to do with the price... I have my phone, my work phone and often a work on call phone.. I really don't need or want another one

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Good god no, even after we have had sex I am reluctant to give my mobile number out....

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By *ere-for-my-convenience OP Woman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Some people have said they don't give out their number, but how cheap can you get a play phone for ffs

Nothing to do with the price... I have my phone, my work phone and often a work on call phone.. I really don't need or want another one "

I have a fuck phone

Plus others

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Some people have said they don't give out their number, but how cheap can you get a play phone for ffs

Nothing to do with the price... I have my phone, my work phone and often a work on call phone.. I really don't need or want another one "

It just ruins the line of your outfits with all those extra bulges

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Some people have said they don't give out their number, but how cheap can you get a play phone for ffs

Nothing to do with the price... I have my phone, my work phone and often a work on call phone.. I really don't need or want another one "

Buy a bigger handbag

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Some people have said they don't give out their number, but how cheap can you get a play phone for ffs

Nothing to do with the price... I have my phone, my work phone and often a work on call phone.. I really don't need or want another one

It just ruins the line of your outfits with all those extra bulges

I have enough bulges from the belly and the arse without adding more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to schedule a phone call....there are some accents that would put us completely off. Its also a good indication of how well we'd get on in person...if we're struggling to chit chat on the phone then its likely we'd struggle in person.

If all goes well on the phone then we set up a meet, and as the phone call kinda works like a 'first date' then further meets feel a lot more relaxed and comfy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't meet without a phone call first

I'm into spontaneous meets so for me just a short call tells me if I'm interested or not

Unless it's at a club and it's a "well if I see you there come say hello"

Do you need a phone call first?

As standard...get a better sense of the person over the phone. An essential for me before a meet for me.

I agree

It's kind of different for couples because they have each other I suppose

That's my opinion

I just need to hear that he doesn't sound serial killer ish

Which I know seems ridiculous and it probably is "

It's not. It's what makes you feel comfortable and men whom you meet should respect that

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

yes wdnt give out my address online .need to speak to someone first

otherwise every timewasting fuckwit 4 miles around would have my address

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give out my number until I've met them and want to keep in contact

Due to a nutter once constantly texting and ringing me from numerous numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was chatting to a girl via audio on cam so gave number and we had some seriously filthy fun

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Never do phone calls but then I sound like a nervous idiot who can barely string a sentence together on the phone - I am much better in real life

That said we have plenty of veris so I don't need to prove I exist and I have my husband with me - always - and it would be an extremely stupid man to try and take him on so I know I am safe....if I were a single female I might feel very different.

We do swap numbers for what's app and only arrange a meet if we are both happy with the 'feel' of the people we intend to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to have a f/f call just to confirm we're both actually females. Not that fussed about people having my number as it's easy to block than it used to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to call, but have been stood up twice after the call ? must be my accent?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Being partially deaf I find phone calls difficult. I prefer texting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't meet without a phone call first

I'm into spontaneous meets so for me just a short call tells me if I'm interested or not

Unless it's at a club and it's a "well if I see you there come say hello"

Do you need a phone call first?

As standard...get a better sense of the person over the phone. An essential for me before a meet for me.

I agree

It's kind of different for couples because they have each other I suppose

That's my opinion

I just need to hear that he doesn't sound serial killer ish

Which I know seems ridiculous and it probably is

It's not. It's what makes you feel comfortable and men whom you meet should respect that"

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"As a couple - we always have a fem-fem call before a meet - to be sure a) there's an actual female on the other end and that they are b) consenting and c) have approved the pair of us, even if the male has done most of the mail exchange. We suffered our fair share of fakes before insisting, and nowadays if a few mins for a phone call is too much effort for someone they probably aren't going to be putting in much effort into a meet with us either.

It's probably somewhat different for singles though!"

This is what I'm thinking we should start doing. But I don't want to give out my number either, so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give out my number to strangers at all due to a bad experience of being stalked by someone who hacked into everything including my personal stuff. My number linked him into my facebook account in which he even knew my surname and had pleasure of randomly texting me my surname. He even tracked me down to almost my exact address. Kik is definitely the way to go. X

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I have regretted it when I have not, so I always intend to.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I won't meet without a phone call first

I'm into spontaneous meets so for me just a short call tells me if I'm interested or not

Unless it's at a club and it's a "well if I see you there come say hello"

Do you need a phone call first? "

I need a 'dwarf-check' first

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