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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you receive a message off someone who has the same name as a family member, what do you do? I personally can't sleep with someone who has the same name as my little brother (Harry), or my Dad (David - but Dave's fine?)

How many other people experience this? Do the same family names in swinging/sexual partners bother you? Are there any people you won't consider sleeping with, based on their name alone?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

No not at all

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Only young men with the same name as my son.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you receive a message off someone who has the same name as a family member, what do you do? I personally can't sleep with someone who has the same name as my little brother (Harry), or my Dad (David - but Dave's fine?)

How many other people experience this? Do the same family names in

swinging/sexual partners bother you? Are there any people you won't consider sleeping with, based on their name alone?

"

Im the same i would never date or go with any one whos name is the same as my parents or family member

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

It's not people's real names that put me off, it's some of the usernames that do

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

How very interesting...

Ax

I have no problems in separating same names on here with family members,but I suppose I am just an old tart!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry but somebody called fist doesn't stand a chance with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you receive a message off someone who has the same name as a family member, what do you do? I personally can't sleep with someone who has the same name as my little brother (Harry), or my Dad (David - but Dave's fine?)

How many other people experience this? Do the same family names in swinging/sexual partners bother you? Are there any people you won't consider sleeping with, based on their name alone?

"

Yes...i personally tend to avoid the 'princesses, divas & Lady...(Add your preferred initial here)' types.

Oh & if you got the same name as my mum, that's a little off putting to me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry but somebody called fist doesn't stand a chance with me"

I dont go for the women on here that call themselves sluts or the slave ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you receive a message off someone who has the same name as a family member, what do you do? I personally can't sleep with someone who has the same name as my little brother (Harry), or my Dad (David - but Dave's fine?)

How many other people experience this? Do the same family names in swinging/sexual partners bother you? Are there any people you won't consider sleeping with, based on their name alone?

Yes...i personally tend to avoid the 'princesses, divas & Lady...(Add your preferred initial here)' types.

Oh & if you got the same name as my mum, that's a little off putting to me too "

Oh & 'Mistress' is another one i tend to laugh at

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

I have no problem with names, I've slept with a Ann a Lorraine and Elaine and a Cheryl, the names of my mum, sister,grandmother and daughter, at the end of the day they are just tag's we have to identify ourselves, they are not a representation of the people whom use them.

would you eat a bacon sandwich if you knew the pig was called by the same name as a family member ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not people's real names that put me off, it's some of the usernames that do "

Any feedback or comments on my username?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not people's real names that put me off, it's some of the usernames that do

Any feedback or comments on my username? "

seems ok if your name is ken and that is a big cock hidden in your pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not people's real names that put me off, it's some of the usernames that do "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not people's real names that put me off, it's some of the usernames that do

Any feedback or comments on my username? "

Reminds me of Barbie and coronation street

Neither are good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not people's real names that put me off, it's some of the usernames that do "
I know that one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have no problem with names, I've slept with a Ann a Lorraine and Elaine and a Cheryl, the names of my mum, sister,grandmother and daughter, at the end of the day they are just tag's we have to identify ourselves, they are not a representation of the people whom use them.

would you eat a bacon sandwich if you knew the pig was called by the same name as a family member ?

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I think a lot of my personal kinks and preferences go towards the more extreme sides of role play, such as, but not limited to daddy/daughter role play, which is why if I slept with a guy called David (which is my dad's name), and was to act out that fantasy with him, that would be too weird... Also I don't want to really think about my family when I'm having sex?!

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By *bovethekneeCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire / Herefordshire


"It's not people's real names that put me off, it's some of the usernames that do "

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Real names don't put me off but some of the usernames do..they can be quite gross..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family names don't bother me, exes names do though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I could go with someone with the same name as my daughter. Joining in with a guy with the same name as my son would be odd too. Luckily they both have unusual names so I'm safe!

I have one super hot name where that alone is a turn on. And one name that could never be replaced so would put me off as it would never feel right.

God I'm weird!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"It's not people's real names that put me off, it's some of the usernames that do "

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Ah...now i see why they're so scared of me...

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"It's not people's real names that put me off, it's some of the usernames that do "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"When you receive a message off someone who has the same name as a family member, what do you do? I personally can't sleep with someone who has the same name as my little brother (Harry), or my Dad (David - but Dave's fine?)

How many other people experience this? Do the same family names in swinging/sexual partners bother you? Are there any people you won't consider sleeping with, based on their name alone?

"

Real names: no, user names: yes!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It's not people's real names that put me off, it's some of the usernames that do "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've not had anyone contact us who has the same name as anyone in my family...but I think yes it would put me off. Wouldnt be able to help the mental association, and yep completely agree that I wouldnt want to inadvertantly have a family member pop into my head during sexy shenanigans!

What we have found annoying though is couples that use fake names...so for weeks we've been chatting to/messaging/thinking about a couple, and in our heads they are 'a' and 'b'...then get to a social and it's 'oh yeah btw thats not our real names we're actually 'c' and 'd'. By that time the fake names have taken root and we cant think of them as any other name lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not people's real names that put me off, it's some of the usernames that do "

Same here! Some are awful - both male and female!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No people's real names haven't put us off, so far.

Usernames - Yes they have.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Nope

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Must confess to being a bit shallow here but yes, usernames have an impact. I like those that are original and either funny or make me think but then of course, what we consider amusing or interesting varies from person to person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone with the same name as my ex,I didn't ever say his name.

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

Kind of the same for us. If a male we like the look of shares a name with a dad or brother it's a no-no for us. We haven't had too many fems over to worry about it but we suspect it will apply all the same.

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By *smCouple
over a year ago

Liskeard

I can't meet guys with the same name as my late husband. Just doesn't feel right.

Strangely though when I point this out , they are quick to say well my names really ?...... Lol

Usernames have put me off before . The really , to me , gross ones , like pussy ripper.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"What we have found annoying though is couples that use fake names...so for weeks we've been chatting to/messaging/thinking about a couple, and in our heads they are 'a' and 'b'...then get to a social and it's 'oh yeah btw thats not our real names we're actually 'c' and 'd'. By that time the fake names have taken root and we cant think of them as any other name lol."

I even have nicknames for people's usernames, for example Fabio is Mr T to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my username puts everyone off lol but feck it u dangleberrys! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband, my sisters husband and my dad share the same name!!

I'm over it now lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I think my username puts everyone off lol but feck it u dangleberrys! Lol"

Try changing yer username to Dangleberry then

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells


"It's not people's real names that put me off, it's some of the usernames that do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my username puts everyone off lol but feck it u dangleberrys! Lol

Try changing yer username to Dangleberry then "

HAHA! U clegnut! I cant it would be like fab suicide ha

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I can't date anyone named rob.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts


"I can't date anyone named rob. "

And I've not come across anyone on here that I want to meet named rob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you receive a message off someone who has the same name as a family member, what do you do? I personally can't sleep with someone who has the same name as my little brother (Harry), or my Dad (David - but Dave's fine?)

How many other people experience this? Do the same family names in swinging/sexual partners bother you? Are there any people you won't consider sleeping with, based on their name alone?

"

I can understand this as there was a girl at work who had sex with a boy who has my name. I didn't touch her in case she got a reputation for having the two of us.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I think my username puts everyone off lol but feck it u dangleberrys! Lol

Try changing yer username to Dangleberry then

HAHA! U clegnut! I cant it would be like fab suicide ha"

Go upmarket and have a double barreled name then, I think Dangleberry-Clegnut has quite an air of sophistication about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my username puts everyone off lol but feck it u dangleberrys! Lol

Try changing yer username to Dangleberry then

HAHA! U clegnut! I cant it would be like fab suicide ha

Go upmarket and have a double barreled name then, I think Dangleberry-Clegnut has quite an air of sophistication about it "

Im tempted! What about wonder winnet lol? Thankfully I dont think people no what they are haha! Its disgusting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would you believe there is some people on here who think i am actualy Spartacus the gladiator/slave general who led a revolt against the roman republic 1000s of years ago..? yeah there is..tis why I don't get many dates on here because they must think im going to kick off and start fighting with everyone and cause a fucking big uproar..thats my excuse anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

really hot guy I turned down a while back, as same name as my deceased son. the name just has too many memories attached, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the name playing with shit face lol

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