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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

as a single guy my confidence is fading a little.

I have been to various clubs and events and I have issues in maintaining an erection in group activities or same room play.

As I'm on heart medication don't want to take Viagra so would appreciate any advise to maintain standards

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Not an easy one, but you could put in some work on your profile; try pics that show you in your best light - remember it is essentially the first thing people judge you on.

Clubbing can be a slow thing, but one on one play in a private room may be your best bet.

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By *upcake68Woman
over a year ago

Ely


"but one on one play in a private room may be your best bet. "

Maybe the glare of others on you isn't helping your situation, i agree with the above, good luck!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

its not just you, have been to clubs with guys that have the same problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PC muscle exercises, stay off the alcohol and testosterone boosting foods (Google it!) and a nice lady on your own. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rope!

Don't use a reef knot

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

There is an age for men where just seeing a woman from 100m away results in a boner alas seems to fade and on demand by command does not work.

A good kissing and touchy feel couple of minutes usually suffice alas not always available in club situations.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Enjoy group situations without being the centre of it, start gently kissing /soft swing & you will gradually get back into it.

Do non pressure meets & like someone else as said lay off the drink.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never drink when at clubs/events as I drive there. Also I'm not a pushy guy, as long as the lady enjoys herself my needs will take a back seat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PC muscle exercises, stay off the alcohol and testosterone boosting foods (Google it!) and a nice lady on your own. Good luck! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough break man!

Try not to focus on it, more pressure you put on yourself to perform less likely it will happen. Prob best to get your confidence back on a 121 basis before going in on the group stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a cock ring perhaps?

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By *ig Boy FunMan
over a year ago

Camden

apart from the already given advice about keeping fit, healthy. A cock ring can also help too, they are cheep and easly put on as needed. They work better than comdoms which use tightening of base to improve erections

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Talk to your doctor?

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