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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you have one and if so what and think you're ever overcome it.?

Me first - heights and think I never will.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Mushrooms but I have recently tackled it and eaten a dish full of wild mushrooms. I'm not planning to repeat the exercise and I still think they are evil but I didn't get sick or die.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clowns not got a hope !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is snakes....I hate them and have no idea why. I'm that bad that I check the toilet and have to ensure bathroom door is always shut, even went through a stage of thinking they'd slither up the outside wall and in through an open window lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Water

I have no idea why, I dont recall having a bad experience with water as a child

I physically break into cold sweats and start shaking if I see pools etc

I doubt I'll ever over come it, I have had full on panic attacks in the past when people have tried to force me to go in, I have lashed out and really hurt people trying to make them let go of me

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Moths and butterflies...I don't think I'll ever overcome it, I've been known to ask work colleagues to remove either from the workplace and last time I had to swipe one of those huge, hairy moths in my house (which the fecking cat brought in), I threw a tea towel on it, jumped up and down on it for a minute or two wearing my walking boots, put marigolds on to remove the remains into a new bin bag and then threw up in the loo...hopeless case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is snakes....I hate them and have no idea why. I'm that bad that I check the toilet and have to ensure bathroom door is always shut, even went through a stage of thinking they'd slither up the outside wall and in through an open window lol.

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Perhaps If you live in the African plains or in the out back of Australia you might even get a tarantula Too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snakes , heights and defo mother in laws yuk

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

worms and slugs , bloody nightmare gardening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"worms and slugs , bloody nightmare gardening "
Don,t Forget the centipede,s or the Earwigs..

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Spiders!...little crawling fuckers...i cant stand em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be scared of spiders. Think it was learned behaviour because when i was little i loved bugs and watching them do their thing and i wasn't scared of spiders then.

I heamorraged and crashed once, not really been scared of anything since. Also have PTSD that's a lot better now, so don't really feel emotions like fear any more, they're blocked out.

I'm still not keen on creepy clowns but don't see many of those knocking about so it's ok, i don't need to get over that.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"worms and slugs , bloody nightmare gardening Don,t Forget the centipede,s or the Earwigs.. "
oh yuck thanks for reminding me lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is snakes....I hate them and have no idea why. I'm that bad that I check the toilet and have to ensure bathroom door is always shut, even went through a stage of thinking they'd slither up the outside wall and in through an open window lol.

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That reminded me of the time my snake went up the back of the fire

Had to get a guy from the gas board to come take my fire out to try and get the snake out

Noone told him when they sent him out he just had the job down as taking the fire out and cleaning it, when he took the fire off I got a heat lamp and put it infront of the fire to try and attract the snake, the guy asked what I was doing so I told him, he nervously looked up the back of the fire, made eye contact and said jesus how big is it, i said about 14 ft, he shot out the front door and refused to come and put the fire back on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"worms and slugs , bloody nightmare gardening Don,t Forget the centipede,s or the Earwigs.. oh yuck thanks for reminding me lol x"
hahaha..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clowns and heights and spiders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her - naked midgets/dwarves

Him- clowns and frogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Him cotton wool

Her spiders and rats lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clowns. Hate hate hate them!!! Heeby jeebs!!!!!...x

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By *onConformistLikeUMan
over a year ago

Chorley

I'm not irrationally claustrophobic but the thought of being trapped without anyone knowing scares the shit out of me... should we be telling the interwebs out darkest fears....I'm actually even more scared of winning the lottery and having to retire to a tropical island.

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Having a proper job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is snakes....I hate them and have no idea why. I'm that bad that I check the toilet and have to ensure bathroom door is always shut, even went through a stage of thinking they'd slither up the outside wall and in through an open window lol.

That reminded me of the time my snake went up the back of the fire

Had to get a guy from the gas board to come take my fire out to try and get the snake out

Noone told him when they sent him out he just had the job down as taking the fire out and cleaning it, when he took the fire off I got a heat lamp and put it infront of the fire to try and attract the snake, the guy asked what I was doing so I told him, he nervously looked up the back of the fire, made eye contact and said jesus how big is it, i said about 14 ft, he shot out the front door and refused to come and put the fire back on "

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I don't like spiders but I wouldn't say it was a phobia...

Slugs on the other hand... I get a bit of a cold sweat if I have to go out and it's dark and rainy. HATE the popping and the way your feet slide when you step on ones you couldn't see.

But don't have the same problem with snails... Go figure.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Her - naked midgets/dwarves

Him- clowns and frogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stairs for me n both times ive seriously injured myself have been due to falling down em im convinced I either died on stairs in my last life or i will in this life x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

And, as much as I hate to admit it, clowns are one of mine too.

Yet I have no idea why.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairy people! Bodily hair on shoulders and a back makes me freak out.

Yes, snakes is another one. Thankfully they seem to have better things to do than slither around my house.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Spiders.

And polystyrene.

A

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Moths *shudder*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like spiders but I wouldn't say it was a phobia...

Slugs on the other hand... I get a bit of a cold sweat if I have to go out and it's dark and rainy. HATE the popping and the way your feet slide when you step on ones you couldn't see.

But don't have the same problem with snails... Go figure.

- Amy. x"
Amazes me how many snails can lay under cover before Comeing out at night over the years They can chomp their way through a Lot Of plant life Includeing yer garden Plants them and slugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is snakes....I hate them and have no idea why. I'm that bad that I check the toilet and have to ensure bathroom door is always shut, even went through a stage of thinking they'd slither up the outside wall and in through an open window lol.

That reminded me of the time my snake went up the back of the fire

Had to get a guy from the gas board to come take my fire out to try and get the snake out

Noone told him when they sent him out he just had the job down as taking the fire out and cleaning it, when he took the fire off I got a heat lamp and put it infront of the fire to try and attract the snake, the guy asked what I was doing so I told him, he nervously looked up the back of the fire, made eye contact and said jesus how big is it, i said about 14 ft, he shot out the front door and refused to come and put the fire back on "

Poor guy. Think I'd have wet myself lol.

I took my daughter to meet some exotic animals just before Christmas, was happily stroking a meerkat to turn around almost face to face with a python. I did brave it and touch its tail after my daughter held it but I was shaking the whole time we were there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scales! Fear is terrible x

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Cath this time - peeing in the dark, flushing toilets ( i still do it though) stairs, dead spiders, woodlice, answering an unknown number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is snakes....I hate them and have no idea why. I'm that bad that I check the toilet and have to ensure bathroom door is always shut, even went through a stage of thinking they'd slither up the outside wall and in through an open window lol.

That reminded me of the time my snake went up the back of the fire

Had to get a guy from the gas board to come take my fire out to try and get the snake out

Noone told him when they sent him out he just had the job down as taking the fire out and cleaning it, when he took the fire off I got a heat lamp and put it infront of the fire to try and attract the snake, the guy asked what I was doing so I told him, he nervously looked up the back of the fire, made eye contact and said jesus how big is it, i said about 14 ft, he shot out the front door and refused to come and put the fire back on

Poor guy. Think I'd have wet myself lol.

I took my daughter to meet some exotic animals just before Christmas, was happily stroking a meerkat to turn around almost face to face with a python. I did brave it and touch its tail after my daughter held it but I was shaking the whole time we were there. "

They feel quite nice, they can get a little clammy if to cold but if at the right temperature I think they feel nice, really soft, they have a bad reputation but its unjustified in my opinion, I used to do volantry work at the local reptile rescue when I lived back home and foster the over spill at my home till the animals were rehomed, I love them but the look on some peoples faces when they came to my home made me realise not everybody shares my love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

heights ...though I'm so bad that even if I'm watching a movie and its got a view from a high building it makes me uncomfortable ..

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Chicken s running around I just freeze and freak out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"heights ...though I'm so bad that even if I'm watching a movie and its got a view from a high building it makes me uncomfortable .."

Yeah I get you.

I cant go above 3rd floor in a building without starting to panic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"heights ...though I'm so bad that even if I'm watching a movie and its got a view from a high building it makes me uncomfortable ..

Yeah I get you.

I cant go above 3rd floor in a building without starting to panic. "

Highs don't bother me I can happily look over the edge of a cliff, its hitting the floor if I fall I'm weary of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate bee's. Always have and always will

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By *eyondCuriousWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

1. Snakes - after reading some of these posts about them i now can't put my feet on the floor!!!

2. Being tickled

Her

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

I'm still a diagnosed phobophobe

Everything and anything potentially

Luckily for me it's not cocks and men lol

Oh and I have wonderful coping strategies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clowns here to.due to been squirted with water by one when I was little.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

Swingers - I can't help but imagine I'm going to be attacked by a load of Swingers and be forced into having all sorts of weird but wonderful sex with them! Terrified, totally terrified!

Yes I know, my doctor has already told me, its a totally irrational fear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swingers - I can't help but imagine I'm going to be attacked by a load of Swingers and be forced into having all sorts of weird but wonderful sex with them! Terrified, totally terrified!

Yes I know, my doctor has already told me, its a totally irrational fear "

Don't worry it will never happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Him cotton wool

Her spiders and rats lol "

Glad cotton wool is not just me. The crunching noise when you compress it makes my teeth sing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Butterflies. Total nasty bastards I can't abide them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have one and if so what and think you're ever overcome it.?

Me first - heights and think I never will."

Hate heights...recently watched some videos of these russian dudes climbing cranes with no safety harness!!

Left my palms a bit sweaty!

Biggest fear is climbing a tall structure (like a crane) then having to climb back down...i'm taking out a mortgage for a helicopter rescue if i have too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People walking up behind me all sorts of stuff starts going through my head to the point that I stop to let him or her overtake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently overcame my fear of snakes so thats one down anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with those who hate cotton wool, especially when it goes anywhere near my mouth.. Makes the dentist an even more difficult experience!

And in no particular order..

Moths/Butterflies

Wasps

Birds

Clowns

Spiders

Cats

So not much really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

horses! scared stiff of them! got worse over the years..and now,when the bloody rugby's on,they park the horse vans right by my flat...have to do a massive detour to the shops! evil eyes! evil plans in their stupid dumb heads!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Masks. Clowns. Midgets. Dwarfs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you have one and if so what and think you're ever overcome it.?

Me first - heights and think I never will.

Hate heights...recently watched some videos of these russian dudes climbing cranes with no safety harness!!

Left my palms a bit sweaty!

Biggest fear is climbing a tall structure (like a crane) then having to climb back down...i'm taking out a mortgage for a helicopter rescue if i have too! "

yeah even though its online I still start to panic watching those vids how irrational is that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flowers! Freek me the fck out after "day of the triffids" I can't touch em!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possessive men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possessive men "

I'm with you. Possessive people are blumin horrible. I get headaches thinking about it, mind you they'll not like me as I am the independent sort to happily bugger off abroad etc when I want.

I'm not one for the insecure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wasps, I just panic. and touching polystyrene makes me vomit.

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