FabSwingers.com forum: is it good to show all your veri's

By *enie Meenie OP Man
over a year ago

C town.

i'm pretty openminded but i get put off reading about someone having hundreds of meets within days maybe im just jealous lols .but it can look a bit umm trashy ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then don't meet them....

It's their profile and their choice to show how, when and the type of meets they have.

As for your comment "hundreds of meets within days...." slightly exaggerated.

Ever thought that if they do show a number of meets in an evening that there happened to be a cracking Social going on somewhere?

Not everyone meets for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think somebody is only as good as their last meet so I only show my last one and don't think anybody is put off by them, think we're all aware people meet for sex on here so don't see how it would put anybody off.

Some choose not to show them for whatever reason but that's their choice

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I doubt if anyone can have hundreds of meets within days of joining.

Tell me, is it men who has the meets or women that put you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then don't meet them....

It's their profile and their choice to show how, when and the type of meets they have.

As for your comment "hundreds of meets within days...." slightly exaggerated.

Ever thought that if they do show a number of meets in an evening that there happened to be a cracking Social going on somewhere?

Not everyone meets for sex."

most of mine are socials

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I don't show mine if they are too graphic or I wouldn't meet again. I don't like to see too many either normally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But on the other hand loads of guys find it a huge turn on...

None of mine are socials. Also mine are hidden, also many of my meets are repeat meets, also many guys don't verify me every time we meet, also not all guys i've met have verified me, also i meet guys from other sites. Guess how many meets i've had in the past 6 months?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then don't meet them....

It's their profile and their choice to show how, when and the type of meets they have.

As for your comment "hundreds of meets within days...." slightly exaggerated.

Ever thought that if they do show a number of meets in an evening that there happened to be a cracking Social going on somewhere?

Not everyone meets for sex."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show any of mine, because it's nobody's business who I fuck and people can take it or leave it. If I had 300 and I wanted to show them all I would - same approach, people can take it or leave it.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

No i'm sick of cleaning up all the piss off the lamp posts

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By *enie Meenie OP Man
over a year ago

C town.

ok maybe meant meets within days of eachother to be fair social meets thats cool and yeah each to their own etc but when you read the pure nasty ones and someones got it up for all to see i think i'd be worried about sti's... but thats just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No what happens in Lisa stays in Lisa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when you read the pure nasty ones and someones got it up for all to see i think i'd be worried about sti's... but thats just me "

only takes one person to give an STI anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose to show mine, not that they are graphic they just show what a lovely lady I am lol x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"ok maybe meant meets within days of eachother to be fair social meets thats cool and yeah each to their own etc but when you read the pure nasty ones and someones got it up for all to see i think i'd be worried about sti's... but thats just me "

Is this womens or mens profiles you are reading?

You can catch an STD from one person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem showing mine. if someone has a problem with them it's their problem, not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to.

I switched them off.

More hassle than its worth. . The pure bitchiness on here.

It's my fucking business who I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*just to add.

I don't mind mine (ones ive left) being shown... I just don't show them on mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok maybe meant meets within days of each other"

What about people who are verified by more than one guy a day for sex? Despite actually fucking more guys than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to.

I switched them off.

More hassle than its worth. . The pure bitchiness on here.

It's my fucking business who I meet. "

See. ..i don't care. If people want to be bitchy they can go fuck themselves. It won't bother me one bit. ...more amuse me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to.

I switched them off.

More hassle than its worth. . The pure bitchiness on here.

It's my fucking business who I meet.

See. ..i don't care. If people want to be bitchy they can go fuck themselves. It won't bother me one bit. ...more amuse me

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By *enie Meenie OP Man
over a year ago

C town.

Yeahhh i guess im bein a bit too moany maybe i should go get some sunshine lols n go back to living a sheltered lifestyle

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By *enie Meenie OP Man
over a year ago

C town.

Too be honest if u want to have sex with lots of people in a day its coool but i dont think u need to tell everyone is what im saying lols

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too be honest if u want to have sex with lots of people in a day its coool but i dont think u need to tell everyone is what im saying lols"

And maybe people don't want to hear your opinion on how they run their profile. ..is all I'm saying

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Trashy?

Better words are

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Accessible

Sociable

Friendly

Reliable

Trashy isn't something I think I would associate with anyone on or off Fab

And quite frankly it says more about you than it ever could about those who are clearly "Trashy" like me with 54 verifications in less than 10 weeks

Some of the meets were social

Some with friends of over a decade

Ner ner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it off putting as well, so I tend to stay clear of them myself however for me its each to their own. It's no different to the lads in the changing room talking about 'how many chicks he smashed on Sat night' some women take pride in their conquests like a bloke would.

This is why I display mine constantly! Lol

You can't please all the people all the time...so why bother trying.

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By *rigidhippieMan
over a year ago

York

I have one veri, which isn't shown as they have left the site..

Cause of this(I think) I get no meets.

In the 2 yrs I've been on I've had one fs meet and 6 face to face( in pubs and clubs) successes.

It seems I don't come across well in cyber space.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show l mine

I don't show multiple from same people and I don't show graphic ones

Or the ones that say I'm a crap shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't show l mine

I don't show multiple from same people and I don't show graphic ones

Or the ones that say I'm a crap shag. "

You have veri's that say you was a crap shag?! Thats fucked up! Are you still friends with them too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trashy?

Better words are

Successful

Accessible

Sociable

Friendly

Reliable

Trashy isn't something I think I would associate with anyone on or off Fab

And quite frankly it says more about you than it ever could about those who are clearly "Trashy" like me with 54 verifications in less than 10 weeks

Some of the meets were social

Some with friends of over a decade

Ner ner

I prefer the word. Greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the ones that say I'm a crap shag. "

Are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trashy?

Better words are

Successful

Accessible

Sociable

Friendly

Reliable

Trashy isn't something I think I would associate with anyone on or off Fab

And quite frankly it says more about you than it ever could about those who are clearly "Trashy" like me with 54 verifications in less than 10 weeks

Some of the meets were social

Some with friends of over a decade

Ner ner

Ha!

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

PS I find that the fact I meet lots of men (obviously not just from Fab) actually echourages far more people to contact me than it puts off

After all, I'm not on here to bake cakes am I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But on the other hand loads of guys find it a huge turn on...

12 ?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I used to.

I switched them off.

More hassle than its worth. . The pure bitchiness on here.

It's my fucking business who I meet.

See. ..i don't care. If people want to be bitchy they can go fuck themselves. It won't bother me one bit. ...more amuse me

If they go fuck themselves though they can't leave themselves a veri!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trashy?

Better words are

Successful

Accessible

Sociable

Friendly

Reliable

Trashy isn't something I think I would associate with anyone on or off Fab

And quite frankly it says more about you than it ever could about those who are clearly "Trashy" like me with 54 verifications in less than 10 weeks

Some of the meets were social

Some with friends of over a decade

Ner ner

Accessible...lol

I just hope you ladies are in line with recent disability regulations permitting wheelchair access! Although judging by your avatar I see you've already got that covered...Daaaayum!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the ones that say I'm a crap shag.

Are you?

Totally.

Want a try ???

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I have two or three really personal ones that I won't show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I avoid showing multiples or those who I really didn't want to encounter again

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I have two or three really personal ones that I won't show "

This

Otherwise we don't have an issue with showing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had quite a few couples get quite odd about our veri's...not meeting us because of people we've met, stopping conversations because of a new friend we've added, and have even had one couple cancel a social with us after we posted a veri from another couple.

We've discovered an odd few cliques around here...so decided to just hide our friends list and only display one veri...far too much hassle otherwise

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"We've had quite a few couples get quite odd about our veri's...not meeting us because of people we've met, stopping conversations because of a new friend we've added, and have even had one couple cancel a social with us after we posted a veri from another couple.

We've discovered an odd few cliques around here...so decided to just hide our friends list and only display one veri...far too much hassle otherwise

A good plan!

Never understood why there's an option to show your friends list!

How is who you decide to be 'friends' with at all relevant to anyone else?

There'll always be those that adopt a 'guilt by association' policy re friends lists and veris. Since people aren't necessarily looking to meet the meets that others have had - unless there's a reasonable explanation (open details of BB meets, drug references, extreme activities etc.) I don't see the need to make judgements. People can meet who they like. It's called freedom of choice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show all of mine I just pick a random few

I dont show the summary either as I have ovet 200 but a huge amount of those are people I have never played with but who I have met at socials or bumped into at a club but obviously not having them on show people can't read that and i dont want people judging me thinking I've shagged them all

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

You will never know how many veries people don't show though unless they display the verification summary .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'm pretty openminded but i get put off reading about someone having hundreds of meets within days maybe im just jealous lols .but it can look a bit umm trashy .."
Weve had around 60 meets in 5 years....does that meet your requirements ? played with around a third of those as majority are social and see type meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the only time it puts us off is when its one (or more) sometimes almost everyday - but thats because we want to meet people that do this for occasional fun not as part of the normal working day - each to their own and all that but that would be the only reason - lots of veris can be one a month over years of being on here and/or socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Showing my veri's has cost me two meets this week

Getting on well with one until she saw my veri's then she turned into the fucking SS with all her questions, needless to say have deleted her messages and have no intention of meeting her now which is a shame because we could have had fun ....... but not at the expense of me explaining myself to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Showing my veri's has cost me two meets this week

Good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet

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was I good ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet

Awwww shucks ....... thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet

was I good ?

Oh yes Indeedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet

Awwww shucks ....... thanks

We only had coffee..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'm pretty openminded but i get put off reading about someone having hundreds of meets within days maybe im just jealous lols .but it can look a bit umm trashy .."

That's why we don't show all.ours , we are so classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet

Awwww shucks ....... thanks

We only had coffee..

That's how GOOD I am baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Showing my veri's has cost me two meets this week

So irksome when that happens.

Some proper obsessives on here - and more often than not, the ones you'd least expect to be

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I rarely read them and never ask for them. I tend to display a couple just to prove that I actually exist but I'm not really bothered by other people's. Unless they have repeat ones from the same person; that always seems a bit 'hands off, he or she is mine!' to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet

was I good ?

Oh yes Indeedy

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I know. I always am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Showing my veri's has cost me two meets this week

So irksome when that happens.

Some proper obsessives on here - and more often than not, the ones you'd least expect to be"

I wouldn't mind but she messaged ME first ...... Her loss and most definitely not mine

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I have a lot of veris but only show a few and no repeats (which a lot of mine are) I am a couple of parties lined up over the next few weeks and I will be verified by four or five or even more people and couples at each party - it doesn't mean I have had sex with all of them......well I will have sex with some of them obviously - rude not to

My point is you can't tell how many people I have had sex with from my veris - only how many people I have met according to my summary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet

Awwww shucks ....... thanks

We only had coffee..

no dunking then ?

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By *eubenesqueWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Then don't meet them....

It's their profile and their choice to show how, when and the type of meets they have.

As for your comment "hundreds of meets within days...." slightly exaggerated.

Ever thought that if they do show a number of meets in an evening that there happened to be a cracking Social going on somewhere?

Not everyone meets for sex."

nice point, well made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet

Awwww shucks ....... thanks

We only had coffee..

no dunking then ?

I did dunk my balls on her head in a hotel bar some months later .... is that what you meant?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I don't show mine if they are too graphic or I wouldn't meet again. I don't like to see too many either normally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But on the other hand loads of guys find it a huge turn on...

12 ? "

Eeh you don't know me very well. But thanks for playing.

I had 9 meets within the first 2 days of joining fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too be honest if u want to have sex with lots of people in a day its coool but i dont think u need to tell everyone is what im saying lols"

I'm not telling right now, but showing them attracts the guys who love that sort of stuff and i want to attract those guys. I have a very sexy inbox when i do show them.

You can not like other peoples lifestyles if you want. When you do this it helps enforce that the way you think and run your life is better or right, when really it's just different. It also helps you remain or become the type of person you want to be and this is ok. Think it was just the slagging off of people who made different, and just as justifable, choices as yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We quite like it if there are a few varies... As means that they are more likely to get on with us.

We at the moment look like angels... But if we tallied up all our old veries from other profiles both together and single we would definitely be on some peoples avoid list. We have also had Meets recently that haven't left us one or us them.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

"I rarely read them and never ask for them. I tend to display a couple just to prove that I actually exist but I'm not really bothered by other people's. Unless they have repeat ones from the same person; that always seems a bit 'hands off, he or she is mine!' to me..."

This

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

"Trashy?

Better words are

Successful

Accessible

Sociable

Friendly

Reliable

Trashy isn't something I think I would associate with anyone on or off Fab

And quite frankly it says more about you than it ever could about those who are clearly "Trashy" like me with 54 verifications in less than 10 weeks

Some of the meets were social

Some with friends of over a decade

Ner ner

Accessible...lol

I just hope you ladies are in line with recent disability regulations permitting wheelchair access! Although judging by your avatar I see you've already got that covered...Daaaayum!!

Cheeky boy haha

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

"Trashy?

Better words are

Successful

Accessible

Sociable

Friendly

Reliable

Trashy isn't something I think I would associate with anyone on or off Fab

And quite frankly it says more about you than it ever could about those who are clearly "Trashy" like me with 54 verifications in less than 10 weeks

Some of the meets were social

Some with friends of over a decade

Ner ner

Accessible...lol

I just hope you ladies are in line with recent disability regulations permitting wheelchair access! Although judging by your avatar I see you've already got that covered...Daaaayum!!

Cheeky boy haha

"
bump

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

For me, I prefer a few veris to ensure a bloke or couple is actually as they say, although i have met unverified people too on occasion...if someone thinks I have too many veris then fair dos, I'm not gonna have a clue if they've passed me by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet

Awwww shucks ....... thanks

We only had coffee..

no dunking then ?

No but I did make him blush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet

Awwww shucks ....... thanks

We only had coffee..

no dunking then ?

I did dunk my balls on her head in a hotel bar some months later .... is that what you meant?

Such a knob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP what do you consider to be an acceptable number of veris, over an acceptable period of time? I'm interested in your criteria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I happily show mine. But have had feedback from those I have verified saying men was contacting them asking how they managed a meet. Thought verification was to prove we are who we say we are and recommend if any good .

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By *enie Meenie OP Man
over a year ago

C town.

Ah its fiiiine as long as you are all happy who am i to care about how it looks

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

"Ah its fiiiine as long as you are all happy who am i to care about how it looks "

Likewise lmao

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By *enie Meenie OP Man
over a year ago

C town.

U can be naughty and remain classy depends how u carry yourself i guess and i would still respect anyone who chooses to live their life how they want

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

"U can be naughty and remain classy depends how u carry yourself i guess and i would still respect anyone who chooses to live their life how they want

Read my verifications

I'm as classy as they come honey

Shagging many men doesn't make me less classy at all

or the other wonderful ladies here on fab actually

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By *enie Meenie OP Man
over a year ago

C town.

It wasnt personal im sure u r all lovely x

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