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"On here you mean? " yeah .you take time to send someone a message and all you get back is one word .I'd rather nothing at all.or thanks but no thanks | |||
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"On here you mean? yeah .you take time to send someone a message and all you get back is one word .I'd rather nothing at all.or thanks but no thanks " I think it's the standard 'I'm not interested but don't want to say no thanks so I'll be quick and hope they go away' response x | |||
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"Hang on.....you're getting replies and you're complaining about it?! " yes I like to converse lol | |||
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"Hang on.....you're getting replies and you're complaining about it?! yes I like to converse lol " You're such an all-star | |||
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"If we get a "Howz u?" message we always try to reply with a shorter message in the same spirit as the original. It is only polite. " Sometimes I read a message, even one that's a few sentences, and the only way to respond is with a very brief answer. Guys on here often make statements telling me a lot but they have jumped the conversation ahead of where I want it to be. I want to begin by establishing if we're both interested in meeting, I don't want to enter into flirty or filthy chat with someone who I may turn down. So if I send a brief or even one word message I am replying and keeping communication open but refusing to be drawn into chat that isn't pertinent to me. If you get a reply and it isn't "I love your profile meet me immediately" or "no thanks" then see it as a positive. But... Word your follow up message carefully. If the second message is full of sexual demands or if it's arsey then I will back off completely. | |||
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"Where's the petsonalities .that's what I want to see .that doesn't come across with one word .I need my mind stimulated to :0) " Personalities** | |||
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"On here you mean? yeah .you take time to send someone a message and all you get back is one word .I'd rather nothing at all.or thanks but no thanks " I dunno what the problem is here . We get messages with a pic attached asking if we want to meet , and either answer yes or no . A one word answer which is often taken very well . | |||
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"Where's the petsonalities .that's what I want to see .that doesn't come across with one word .I need my mind stimulated to :0) " Then ask questions and word your message in such a way that it warrants more than a one word answer. | |||
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