FabSwingers.com forum: wots wrong with people?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i dont get this site. Its called fabswingers but yet the people on here?? Are they real? Cus iv asked and asked and asked infact iv nearly begged people on here, even on my friends list but still....NOTHING..they say on there profiles we want this,that,and the other..oh oh oh and they want to meet today i send them a massage and still NOTHING??? Now im not being a big head when i say this but i think im ok looking. But i have looked at the men on other peoples profiles that they have had "good" times with and omg?!! Ok im not saying all of u but my god people...and i have to BEG?!

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By *eizvollWoman
over a year ago

in my own little world :-)

Have tin hats for sale over here - oh and it must be my turn to share the popcorn! Comfy seat anyone???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe ya bein toooo pushy .... ya cant make folks fancy ya ,, even if there ya pals ,,,

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Well you're obviously doing something wrong when you contact people.... begging might not be the best move.

Or may be some might be put off by the thought of hours of non-stop giggery-poking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont get this site. Its called fabswingers but yet the people on here?? Are they real? Cus iv asked and asked and asked infact iv nearly begged people on here, even on my friends list but still....NOTHING..they say on there profiles we want this,that,and the other..oh oh oh and they want to meet today i send them a massage and still NOTHING??? Now im not being a big head when i say this but i think im ok looking. But i have looked at the men on other peoples profiles that they have had "good" times with and omg?!! Ok im not saying all of u but my god people...and i have to BEG?!"

You left EXACTLY the same post about three days ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather than to assume the others are in the wrong, pershaps the OP should think about his approach and delivery.

Take notes and learn from those who allegedly have less going for them than yourself perhaps?

They must be doing something right!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I have had another read of your profile and I'll be honest with you....I like an all night session with a variety of activities .... but the thought of just being fucked for a couple of hours......... ouch my hips are aching just at the thought of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had another read of your profile and I'll be honest with you....I like an all night session with a variety of activities .... but the thought of just being fucked for a couple of hours......... ouch my hips are aching just at the thought of it."

Not just a couple of hours... five hours of non-stop banging? I'd need a gallon of lube and two hip replacements to endure that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you will find that a lot of people on here haven't got 5 or so hours to play due to family commitments etc and to say about leaving somewhere without cuming puts pressure on people, which doesn't make for a relaxing fun play, so they think why bother and they will pick someone else who they don't feel under pressure with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it seemed like a 'I need to fuck for hours and hours and dont really give a shit if you dont like it' sorta profile tbh. Hardly surprising nobody has said, "oo gee, come on then you considerate big boy!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember that profile now!

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

I read the same thing. Tasket he time to talk and see where it goes.

Sue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

o dear i wonder wher this thread is going.........

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Your current status won't help things either.... may I recommend trying the Magic ‘Current Status’ Generator

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

its not that they have all said no. And i know i carnt make people like me. But i only just change my profile im thinking about just taking all the txt off and putting something like im very boring i have a small cock oh and i cum in 10 mins any takers??. And by doing that they would have all the fun and id leave with a hard on

plus im not saying id be fucking for hrs thats just start to finish there's lots of stuff that get done in that time frame

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"its not that they have all said no. And i know i carnt make people like me. But i only just change my profile im thinking about just taking all the txt off and putting something like im very boring i have a small cock oh and i cum in 10 mins any takers??. And by doing that they would have all the fun and id leave with a hard on

plus im not saying id be fucking for hrs thats just start to finish there's lots of stuff that get done in that time frame"

It doesn't read that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very simple. Have a wank 1/2 an hour before your meet then you'll have sorted the 'problem' out beforehand - figuratively speaking.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"It's very simple. Have a wank 1/2 an hour before your meet then you'll have sorted the 'problem' out beforehand - figuratively speaking.

He'll be late for the meet if he only starts 1/2 an hour before

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By *eizvollWoman
over a year ago

in my own little world :-)

Am I the only one who thinks the profile is pushy, agressive and arrogant? And all about what he wants?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only one who thinks the profile is pushy, agressive and arrogant? And all about what he wants?"

You are not alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only one who thinks the profile is pushy, agressive and arrogant? And all about what he wants?"

i concur but not jut the profile...

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By *eizvollWoman
over a year ago

in my own little world :-)

"Am I the only one who thinks the profile is pushy, agressive and arrogant? And all about what he wants?

i concur but not jut the profile..."

You're right there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your current status won't help things either.... may I recommend trying the Magic ‘Current Status’ Generator

Aw... Pretty please... If I are really good... And I promise NOT to poke your gigerry for hours... Will you work your magic on my "Current Status"... (Wheres the pleading smiley when you need one..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok iv now changed my profile. Is that better?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"....... i send them a massage and still NOTHING??? ........"

Try sending them a mEssage instead instead of a mAssage and you might get replies from them and then a meet or two!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Now im not being a big head when i say this but i think im ok looking. But i have looked at the men on other peoples profiles that they have had "good" times with and omg?!! Ok im not saying all of u but my god people...and i have to BEG?!"

Not being big headed but you are better than everyone else according to that statement !

Have you thought perhaps that the people they have met are thier choice of people to meet because that is the type they go for ?

Not everyone wants young guys, old guys, six packs, large guys, tall guys, short guys, according to you they should all seek one type of guy - your type.

Perhaps you are begging too much, maybe that comes accross as a bit desperate, most people don't like desperate.

Maybe it's the way you approach them, I dunno I haven't seen how you approach people just trying to see where we can help.

When I was single I considered myself successfull in getting meets, my mail box was never busy but now and again I got some nice invites and some great meets. I always put that down to having a good sense of humour and a personality people found pleasing.

On the rare occasions I contacted people I read thier profile, only contacted those looking for my category (old git) sent them an honest mail that I put some thought into with a smuttering of humour and the information they needed to decide to meet me or not.

My profile always contained the same and I hope reflected my personality after all my profile was my shop window.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looking. But i have looked at the men on other peoples profiles that they have had "good" times with and omg?!! Ok im not saying all of u but my god people...and i have to BEG?!"

Netty here

I don't wish to offend but desperation isn't attractive and being pushy gets you nowhere. Don't want to be rude, but if you want and answer, here's a little tip........

From what i have read maybe its your attitude not your looks that is hindering your chances. Yes most of the people are real, you get the odd saddo faker but most of them are. However, many on here think they want to swing but they are just fantasists and get thrills from the thought but don't actually want to swap. wish they would tell us this lol, so we dont waste our time. Also many women want other women or cpls not single guys and most couples want women or other cpls. just a little advice x x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

begging is not a good look.

speak yourself up rather than speak others down is more attractive.

(with confidence not arrogance tho)

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"o dear i wonder wher this thread is going.........

Down down down as the song says by (gets phone out to check msg from son) Flo Rida

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looking. But i have looked at the men on other peoples profiles that they have had "good" times with and omg?!! Ok im not saying all of u but my god people...and i have to BEG?!"

Netty here

I don't wish to offend but desperation isn't attractive and being pushy gets you nowhere. Don't want to be rude, but if you want and answer, here's a little tip........

From what i have read maybe its your attitude not your looks that is hindering your chances. Yes most of the people are real, you get the odd saddo faker but most of them are. However, many on here think they want to swing but they are just fantasists and get thrills from the thought but don't actually want to swap. Wish they would tell us this lol, so we dont waste our time. Also many women want other women or cpls not single guys and most couples want women or other cpls. just a little advice x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember your profile from one of your last posts - made me feel like you really need a prostitute as it was all about you getting your satisfaction - if the woman wouldn't be up for 5 hours of fucking then she was a waste of time! This revised profile screams 'lazy' on for over a year and one line. You have had some really good advise that you've chosen to ignore. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with Zoe said also ,begging is not good either.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I can't believe none of the ugly guys have taken offence to this thread.

If I was one of the ugly guys getting all the action I would at least post on this thread mocking the OP for his futile handsomeness.

Come on ugly guys it's your time to shine!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

okay.... let make a point by asking 2 really simple question....

1)if you know there are loads and loads of people out there how does your ad and profile leap out from all the others?

2)knowing what you know from question 1..... hand on heart would you answer your own profile???? really????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Frank's profile photo does not do him justice. He is amazing - intelligent, polite,"

Taken from the verification on your profile. And if it is true (an I'm not implying it isn't) then it is a shame that your old profile and comments on this thread make you come across as the total opposite. You seem pushy, arrogant, non to bright and self obsessessed in my opinion. I can't speak for the women of Fab, maybe some people like those traits but I doubt it - maybe you should work on making your online persona more like your real life one?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

begging - so not an attractive, welcoming trait. and you question why you are not getting the meets you think you so rightly deserve.

Sorry, but wake up and smell the coffee!! No female, in their right mind will give you a second glance from your original profile and especially not fom this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my contribution for what it's worth - the most aesthetically pleasing person can be made ugly by attitude and arrogance alone

something for the OP to think about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh, Franksta, your profile is pap ! It tells us nothing about you .. unless we ask of course. Fair play, it is up to you what you choose yo put in your profile, but if you choose to put one line of text, if that's the best effort you can manage, why should anyone rush to want to meet you.

In your OP you talked about 'begging' ! begging ffs ! What's that all about ? If someone doesn't want to know you, then that's it - no matter how much you 'beg' they ain't gonna change their minds.

And as for people being real ... we are real, as I'm sure the vast majority of others are also real, but just because e don't want to meet you - doesn't make us fakes ...

Get a grip of yourself !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its just having the time to sort the date and times out ,, lol xx jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe that is where I am going wrong. Maybe I should start to beg and brag about my staying power. After 26789 "no thanks" or non-responses, maybe I should change tack. Begging it is for me. "Please miss, can I have some more"......

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Maybe that is where I am going wrong. Maybe I should start to beg and brag about my staying power. After 26789 "no thanks" or non-responses, maybe I should change tack. Begging it is for me. "Please miss, can I have some more"......"

LLF Dundee, is this what prompted your last mail to me xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *ondafirestormMan
over a year ago

heckington

Well i have met quite a few ladies but i know where this guy is comming from as there are lot of people put (need cock,dont care about looks etc)you contact them have good chat etc and nothing ever comes of it,even though i have decent verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well i have met quite a few ladies but i know where this guy is comming from as there are lot of people put (need cock,dont care about looks etc)you contact them have good chat etc and nothing ever comes of it,even though i have decent verifications."

because they are the fakes!!!!! and the people who just get of on the rush that people want to meet them etc but never actually meet people

i dont even bother with profile like that

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By *ondafirestormMan
over a year ago

heckington

Who are fakes?the ones who chat then dont meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i am not saying that, people can simply just change thier mind.

its the people who are obviously just picture collectors. it tends to be easy to spot profiles that are

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By *ondafirestormMan
over a year ago

heckington

Well i say fuck them,shouldnt be on a site like this,why not just go to a readers wives type site?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

" there are lot of people put (need cock,dont care about looks etc)."

And that doesnt set alarm bells ringing???

If people actually respond to profiles like that, then I reckon they pretty much deserve to be jerked around...

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By *ondafirestormMan
over a year ago

heckington

Well us guys see that as a green light lol lol lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Well us guys see that as a green light lol lol lol"

Well more fool you guys for believing it to be genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" there are lot of people put (need cock,dont care about looks etc).

And that doesnt set alarm bells ringing???

If people actually respond to profiles like that, then I reckon they pretty much deserve to be jerked around..."

Bless...as if!! The only bells going off is in their balls - then they wonder!!

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By *ondafirestormMan
over a year ago

heckington

Yep im a fool lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Yep im a fool lol"

I rest my case

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By *ondafirestormMan
over a year ago

heckington

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing wrong with Franco 's profile .

Its just s bit small unlike the man himself .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plus im not saying id be fucking for hrs thats just start to finish there's lots of stuff that get done in that time frame"

your profile lacks photos , when i wanna meet i look for a guy with a good few pics face body and cock shot and a smile in a photo is always a good thing .... not keen on meeting sum1 who looks like they might mug me lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

You beg??????!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by the fact this is the same thread as one a few days ago and you have admitted to literally begging it is pretty obvious its you and not what the thread title says....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong, I have a work out schedule, and like to think of myself, while not drop dead gorgeous, as alright looking. But I'd say to be honest I've had a lot more meets happen as a result of what goes on in my head. Patience, imagination and above all a cheery persona that enjoys chatting even if boots are not being knocked tends to come across a lot better to ladies than the Incredible Hulk anouncing his visit by caving your front door into pieces with his bulk, before snarling "Me want to smash your back doors in too!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Don't get me wrong, I have a work out schedule, and like to think of myself, while not drop dead gorgeous, as alright looking. But I'd say to be honest I've had a lot more meets happen as a result of what goes on in my head. Patience, imagination and above all a cheery persona that enjoys chatting even if boots are not being knocked tends to come across a lot better to ladies than the Incredible Hulk anouncing his visit by caving your front door into pieces with his bulk, before snarling "Me want to smash your back doors in too!"

He has it

Yes a 6 pack is attractive to many, rugged good looks won't do you any harm but at the end of the day a personality will get you laid

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

He has it

Yes a 6 pack is attractive to many, rugged good looks won't do you any harm but at the end of the day a personality will get you laid

"
oi mister..not necessarily some of us are shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has it

Yes a 6 pack is attractive to many, rugged good looks won't do you any harm but at the end of the day a personality will get you laid

Why,thank you don't mind if I do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes begging is bad, in reply to earlier comments I never do it. Until now ha ha Please someone mail me and fuck my brains out please please please ! My other approaches dont work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is nothing wrong with Franco 's profile .

Its just s bit small unlike the man himself .

Thing is, a few hours ago the OP's profile was not the one posted now, if you go back to the beginning of the thread you will get a gist of the original and why he was having a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LLF Dundee, is this what prompted your last mail to me xxxxxxxxxxxxx"

Aye well, it might have been Wendy, but you deleted the mail with no response.

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