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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it a guy thing?

Are they not that interested?

Is it because my husband gets added to all kik conversations?

I have chatted to a few guys recently on kik and no matter what I say they reply with 2-3 word answers at best.

I feel like I'm having to make the effort in the conversation to keep it going?

I think I've answered my own question. They aren't that interested are they.

Or are they?

Are they just nervous and not very verbal?

I dunno, maybe it's a different reason for each guy who does this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

(To add, my husband gets added so he can read the messages if he chooses. But he doesn't get involved in the conversation as he's busy chatting up women anyway. It's more of a trust/reassurance thing between us.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess yes as he can read the msgs maibe that's why lol.

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley


"Is it a guy thing?

Are they not that interested?

Is it because my husband gets added to all kik conversations?

I have chatted to a few guys recently on kik and no matter what I say they reply with 2-3 word answers at best.

I feel like I'm having to make the effort in the conversation to keep it going?

I think I've answered my own question. They aren't that interested are they.

Or are they?

Are they just nervous and not very verbal?

I dunno, maybe it's a different reason for each guy who does this?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do more than one word answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume they aren't interested if I get one word answers. either way I can't be arsed chatting to people that don't chat back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows for sure ~ maybe it's a combination of the guys you're choosing to converse with and / or your OH reading them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I assume they aren't interested if I get one word answers. either way I can't be arsed chatting to people that don't chat back."

I should just do this. But I have a FB who is very one word-y on kik and doesn't shut up on person.

So I don't know how to take it really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you just give your hub your kik password that way he can check if he wants? Can't imagine I would be as open on a group chat x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Yes

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Oh

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Maybe not always

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By *lshere77Man
over a year ago

Wigan

Poomtang

thats one word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had only very chatty guys on kik. Have noticed it all tends to be sex based chat with most of them. The ones who don't chat sex always meet up, and are also proper chatty.

I think mainly guys use kik for wanking and trading pics. This is why i stopped using it, same for whatsapp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a guy thing?

Are they not that interested?

Is it because my husband gets added to all kik conversations?

I have chatted to a few guys recently on kik and no matter what I say they reply with 2-3 word answers at best.

I feel like I'm having to make the effort in the conversation to keep it going?

I think I've answered my own question. They aren't that interested are they.

Or are they?

Are they just nervous and not very verbal?

I dunno, maybe it's a different reason for each guy who does this?"

I've had this happen on the reverse side, infuriating isn't it xx

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If it feels like hard work I just give up especially on here.

I've had some really good looking men interested, but my god trying to have a conversation? If it feels like pulling teeth, I ignore and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We notice this too. Courtney tends to talk on kik more and we notice that single guys can be one-wordy. They also often expect to be contacted instead of doing the contacting...we prefer a two-way conversation so we usually just let those conversations naturally end...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why don't you just give your hub your kik password that way he can check if he wants? Can't imagine I would be as open on a group chat x"

I tried that but when he logs into my account on my phone it boots me off kik and I lose all the conversations.

I might just show him my phone periodically. It might be easier these days.

He's having the same trouble with women getting annoyed that I am on the group chat.

Neither of us say a word in the other's conversation, it's just our name at the top.

Bit annoying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it feels like hard work I just give up especially on here.

I've had some really good looking men interested, but my god trying to have a conversation? If it feels like pulling teeth, I ignore and move on! "

YES! Some that do it are absolutely gorgeous! It's very annoying.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"If it feels like hard work I just give up especially on here.

I've had some really good looking men interested, but my god trying to have a conversation? If it feels like pulling teeth, I ignore and move on!

YES! Some that do it are absolutely gorgeous! It's very annoying."

Oh it is I agree! But then I think what would trying to have naked chats on my sofa would be like? Makes me shudder lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you just give your hub your kik password that way he can check if he wants? Can't imagine I would be as open on a group chat x

I tried that but when he logs into my account on my phone it boots me off kik and I lose all the conversations.

I might just show him my phone periodically. It might be easier these days.

He's having the same trouble with women getting annoyed that I am on the group chat.

Neither of us say a word in the other's conversation, it's just our name at the top.

Bit annoying."

I would hold back chatting to a man if his wife was on the group chat regardless if they joined in or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember Ladies that sometimes that 23 sentence message has actually only asked one question and the answer "Yep" was all it took....

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runs of to hide in the nuclear bunker....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We read each other's messages on Fab anyway. I never thought I'd ever use this line, but isn't it a swinging site, not a dating site?

Tbh I'd probably feel the same as a single woman. But they are told upfront and don't have to stick around and chat.

To be fair lots of guys aren't bothered and I've had some incredibly sexy conversations.

From the sounds of things some single guys are just like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago


"If it feels like hard work I just give up especially on here.

I've had some really good looking men interested, but my god trying to have a conversation? If it feels like pulling teeth, I ignore and move on! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 2 friends from here on Kik who I chat with, Sometimes daily, Its mainly day to day things but sometimes it does get a bit flirty

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By *ogamuffinMan
over a year ago

slough


"I have 2 friends from here on Kik who I chat with, Sometimes daily, Its mainly day to day things but sometimes it does get a bit flirty

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yeah i am the same, its good to talk as BT say, lol

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

No, it's not a guy thing. I've cut short a few conversations when all I'm getting is a few uninteresting words.

About to do so with one now. Wouldn't mind but I didn't even initiate contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, it's not a guy thing. I've cut short a few conversations when all I'm getting is a few uninteresting words.

About to do so with one now. Wouldn't mind but I didn't even initiate contact."

uhuh....

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"No, it's not a guy thing. I've cut short a few conversations when all I'm getting is a few uninteresting words.

About to do so with one now. Wouldn't mind but I didn't even initiate contact.

uhuh.... "

Ha. We've messaged under a previous profile. You know how to communicate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P's if you do not want to post publicly message me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he is giving you 1 word responses he isn't interested.

And as per hubby being in on the messages, that has never bothered me.

The last couple I met (well the wife, he stayed at home and we just sent pics back to him) ...he just randomly whatsapps me and we just about stuff.

Motorbikes

Cars

Even male leg hair

Chat about Porn too

We've chatted all sorts. It doesn't bother me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"P's if you do not want to post publicly message me xx "

um yeah thanks for the totally unsolicited and unnecessary dropping of your Kik address. It was very in keeping with the tone of the discussion.

In answer to the op I use Kik loads as its easier to chat on there and I use it as a conversation medium. As the old phrase goes maybe they're just not that into you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is to short direct approach is worth a try to many people pussy foot around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got rid of kik as even when I was trying to get a convo it was very onesided from women so I guess it works both ways tbh if it's effort then just give up unless their is some sort of connection then just say oi you reply like a sloth ! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus I find snapchat better because i rekon you can gauge more of a personality and no I don't use it for dick pics ! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any hard work due to a one liner is not worth an answer.

Why waste effort if they dont.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snapchat is purely for pic collectors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me I have a laugh on there tbh I've only had one women send me a pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life is to short direct approach is worth a try to many people pussy foot around "

I think you mean too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a guy thing?

Are they not that interested?

Is it because my husband gets added to all kik conversations?

I have chatted to a few guys recently on kik and no matter what I say they reply with 2-3 word answers at best.

I feel like I'm having to make the effort in the conversation to keep it going?

I think I've answered my own question. They aren't that interested are they.

Or are they?

Are they just nervous and not very verbal?

I dunno, maybe it's a different reason for each guy who does this?"

I think its because they cant wank and type at the same time they will chat just enough to keep you going in the hope of pics or vids i dont think there on there for the chat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kik and most of these Apps are just pointless juvenile nonsense really and I cant be arsed with them.

Would rather pick up the phone and chat.

You can tell more about a person in 2 mins off real convo then 10 hours on Kik ect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kik and most of these Apps are just pointless juvenile nonsense really and I cant be arsed with them.

Would rather pick up the phone and chat.

You can tell more about a person in 2 mins off real convo then 10 hours on Kik ect. "

Exactly!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the people and the connection, if its a topic that you're not both interested in then it's hard. If I'm not very chatty though I have been challenged on it in the past. There's usually a reason, but then sometimes the chemistry just isn't there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the other way round for me so my interest drops after asking 5 em questions and only getting yes or no

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By *aly82Man
over a year ago

Norwich

I am with LionLeo..... Perhaps we are just unlucky who we end up talking too??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have used kik, to arrange with my travel club buddy as it's easy to do that way, also used Skype and what's app with others. And sometimes just a single word answer is all that's needed.

When contacting new people the longer the conversation goes on the more chance of a meet will be in place. But that's just personal opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the other way round for me so my interest drops after asking 5 em questions and only getting yes or no "

I'm guilty of this if a guy starts asking the "what are you into?" "What's the kinkiest thing you've done?" etc type questions or it begins to feel like it's turning into some sort of interview then I will give short one word answers. It bores me.

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By *aly82Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"It's the other way round for me so my interest drops after asking 5 em questions and only getting yes or no

I'm guilty of this if a guy starts asking the "what are you into?" "What's the kinkiest thing you've done?" etc type questions or it begins to feel like it's turning into some sort of interview then I will give short one word answers. It bores me. "

So what kind of questions/chat would you prefer?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the other way round for me so my interest drops after asking 5 em questions and only getting yes or no

I'm guilty of this if a guy starts asking the "what are you into?" "What's the kinkiest thing you've done?" etc type questions or it begins to feel like it's turning into some sort of interview then I will give short one word answers. It bores me.

So what kind of questions/chat would you prefer?"

Just a chat that naturally flows. ...could be about anything. That to me signifies some sort of connection.

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By *aly82Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Scarlet but then if it starts like that ie 2/3 reply then it becomes very hard to find a way to make the conversation flow.

And before you think I am not one to send a cock photo within that first few replies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To update: I've just learnt that it's worth calling a someone out on it and asking if they are interested or not.

It's an approach I'd definitely recommend for the future. It has good results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scarlet but then if it starts like that ie 2/3 reply then it becomes very hard to find a way to make the conversation flow.

And before you think I am not one to send a cock photo within that first few replies."

I'm more interested in those that don't struggle to make the conversation flow. ....simple

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By *aly82Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Scarlet but then if it starts like that ie 2/3 reply then it becomes very hard to find a way to make the conversation flow.

And before you think I am not one to send a cock photo within that first few replies.

I'm more interested in those that don't struggle to make the conversation flow. ....simple "

Totally understand that and respect that; would I want to chat to someone that there is no flow to the conversation.. No.

But I also understand that it can be very hard for people to find someone to have that with, especially on fab where everything seems to be done at 100 miles an hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scarlet but then if it starts like that ie 2/3 reply then it becomes very hard to find a way to make the conversation flow.

And before you think I am not one to send a cock photo within that first few replies.

I'm more interested in those that don't struggle to make the conversation flow. ....simple

Totally understand that and respect that; would I want to chat to someone that there is no flow to the conversation.. No.

But I also understand that it can be very hard for people to find someone to have that with, especially on fab where everything seems to be done at 100 miles an hour."

Yes i understand it's hard for some. ..but there are enough that i don't struggle to converse with and those are the ones I'll concentrate on. It's just another one of my selection criteria. Not everyone likes to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a nice chat with a couple who were both on kik, it was between me and his wife. The hubby was just there to keep an eye on what was being said, which I have no problems with at all. To be honest he never really said anything.

Having your hubby included on the group chat , wouldn't put me of chatting on kik to anyone.

I can be a little shy to start work, both on line and in person but one that goes am very chatty.

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By *aly82Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Scarlet but then if it starts like that ie 2/3 reply then it becomes very hard to find a way to make the conversation flow.

And before you think I am not one to send a cock photo within that first few replies.

I'm more interested in those that don't struggle to make the conversation flow. ....simple

Totally understand that and respect that; would I want to chat to someone that there is no flow to the conversation.. No.

But I also understand that it can be very hard for people to find someone to have that with, especially on fab where everything seems to be done at 100 miles an hour.

Yes i understand it's hard for some. ..but there are enough that i don't struggle to converse with and those are the ones I'll concentrate on. It's just another one of my selection criteria. Not everyone likes to chat "

Hey if chat isn't working people can always try "show me your tits/cock etc".

But I agree, it should be something that flows. By the way is this a conversation?? Ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I should just do this. But I have a FB who is very one word-y on kik and doesn't shut up on person.

So I don't know how to take it really?"

I just don't see the point in KIK.

Surely a verbal conversation is much more important? What is the advantage in messaging over speaking?

Any kind of messaging can become very boring very quickly for me yet I can talk on the phone or better still in person for hours.

You could probably put me in the one word message camp if I used KIK, but it would have little or no reflection on my level of interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To update: I've just learnt that it's worth calling a someone out on it and asking if they are interested or not.

It's an approach I'd definitely recommend for the future. It has good results. "

Well yes I'd agree, ask a direct question to the person who you want the answer from..

Have fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to love a good natter on KiK. I rarely use it anymore now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's more comfortable knowing that he is in on the convo as it shows that you have a happy and open relationship and that trust is present.

Just be careful as they may be hiding something on their end and not wanting to get caught out using it, hence a quick one word answer.

Then again, they may just be a little shy in front of hubby, especially if they haven't been in the situation before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if you ask open ended questions, e.g. "Tell me about . . . " monosyllabic answers aren't an option. I do think it's a guy thing (sometimes) - I've learned the open ended question technique from dealing with my (neandrathal) son LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I should just do this. But I have a FB who is very one word-y on kik and doesn't shut up on person.

So I don't know how to take it really?

I just don't see the point in KIK.

Surely a verbal conversation is much more important? What is the advantage in messaging over speaking?

Any kind of messaging can become very boring very quickly for me yet I can talk on the phone or better still in person for hours.

You could probably put me in the one word message camp if I used KIK, but it would have little or no reflection on my level of interest."

Kik is really handy if you are multi-tasking.

I'd never have the disposable free time to chat on the phone for hours!

I can also send a sneaky message or three while my kids are in the house. But I wouldn't want to have even a social chat over the phone - I'm sure me shouting things like "Put that down! Leave the dog alone! Don't sit on his neck! A Hoover is not a light saber!" would really add to the mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP if you ask open ended questions, e.g. "Tell me about . . . " monosyllabic answers aren't an option. I do think it's a guy thing (sometimes) - I've learned the open ended question technique from dealing with my (neandrathal) son LOL "

Hahaha you and me both!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the other way round for me so my interest drops after asking 5 em questions and only getting yes or no

I'm guilty of this if a guy starts asking the "what are you into?" "What's the kinkiest thing you've done?" etc type questions or it begins to feel like it's turning into some sort of interview then I will give short one word answers. It bores me. "

fair play if there trying to jump straight into sex talk but I've had it with the most normal of questions like hiya love what's your name then ...... Can't say ...... Ok why ...... Just can't ......... Where you from ....... Lancashire no shit Sherlock lancashires massive place by that Time it's convo delete cya later lol maybe I should be more patient but convo is a 2 way thing for me I like to know that there genuinely interested in me aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To update: I've just learnt that it's worth calling a someone out on it and asking if they are interested or not.

It's an approach I'd definitely recommend for the future. It has good results. "

did he offer an insight into why his replies were all short?!

Every conversation we've been asked to move off of here and onto whatsapp or kik has floundered.

For us Whatsapp only seems to work as a group conversation after we've all already met for a social.

We've only tried chatting to one couple on Kik and the conversation just fizzled out, even though conversation on here started great

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To update: I've just learnt that it's worth calling a someone out on it and asking if they are interested or not.

It's an approach I'd definitely recommend for the future. It has good results.

did he offer an insight into why his replies were all short?!

Every conversation we've been asked to move off of here and onto whatsapp or kik has floundered.

For us Whatsapp only seems to work as a group conversation after we've all already met for a social.

We've only tried chatting to one couple on Kik and the conversation just fizzled out, even though conversation on here started great "

Says he just doesn't like talking on kik. But will talk like a normal person, in err.. person.

I had visions of a meet where he only gives one word answers to anything I said! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I should just do this. But I have a FB who is very one word-y on kik and doesn't shut up on person.

So I don't know how to take it really?

I just don't see the point in KIK.

Surely a verbal conversation is much more important? What is the advantage in messaging over speaking?

Any kind of messaging can become very boring very quickly for me yet I can talk on the phone or better still in person for hours.

You could probably put me in the one word message camp if I used KIK, but it would have little or no reflection on my level of interest.

Kik is really handy if you are multi-tasking.

I'd never have the disposable free time to chat on the phone for hours!

I can also send a sneaky message or three while my kids are in the house. But I wouldn't want to have even a social chat over the phone - I'm sure me shouting things like "Put that down! Leave the dog alone! Don't sit on his neck! A Hoover is not a light saber!" would really add to the mood. "

I just wouldn't feel the need to message you when you're busy with your children. I'd much prefer a 2 minute chat when you were free.

Some women want to constantly text or message, that can be very annoying and come across as needy and for some immature.

I just think it can be flawed to measure interest by the length or regularity of messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I should just do this. But I have a FB who is very one word-y on kik and doesn't shut up on person.

So I don't know how to take it really?

I just don't see the point in KIK.

Surely a verbal conversation is much more important? What is the advantage in messaging over speaking?

Any kind of messaging can become very boring very quickly for me yet I can talk on the phone or better still in person for hours.

You could probably put me in the one word message camp if I used KIK, but it would have little or no reflection on my level of interest.

Kik is really handy if you are multi-tasking.

I'd never have the disposable free time to chat on the phone for hours!

I can also send a sneaky message or three while my kids are in the house. But I wouldn't want to have even a social chat over the phone - I'm sure me shouting things like "Put that down! Leave the dog alone! Don't sit on his neck! A Hoover is not a light saber!" would really add to the mood.

I just wouldn't feel the need to message you when you're busy with your children. I'd much prefer a 2 minute chat when you were free.

Some women want to constantly text or message, that can be very annoying and come across as needy and for some immature.

I just think it can be flawed to measure interest by the length or regularity of messages.

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Nope neeeever free when you have kids!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Nope neeeever free when you have kids!"

That's not true or you'd never meet anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seriously? I wouldn't meet and play with a guy after a two minute phone conversation.

I prefer longer messaging here and there over time. It makes the build up more intense and makes the meet so much better.

But that's just the way my mind works. Do what works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made lots of girls very happy on kik but never got a meet off it and one word answers are a good sign they are chatting to someone else at the same time, probably thoese who are sending explicit pics and vids.

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over a year ago


"Seriously? I wouldn't meet and play with a guy after a two minute phone conversation.

I prefer longer messaging here and there over time. It makes the build up more intense and makes the meet so much better.

But that's just the way my mind works. Do what works for you."

I wasn't being funny with you, I was just answering your opening post. Just like the guy you've been messaging has said, I don't enjoy using KIK or messaging when verbal conversations are an option. It's just an honest response.

I wasn't criticising your personal preference just suggesting that one word answers are not always a definite indicator of interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of guys are all talk when they're hard but when it gets real and they're actually chatting to someone they have nothing to say for themself

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over a year ago

I'd feel weird if someone invited their partner into the conversation and we weren't planning on having sex. That would make me not interested personally.

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over a year ago

I'd feel uncomfortable messaging you knowing that your partner is watching us, maybe the men feel the same way. If your other half wants to read the messages, can't he do that from your phone instead? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One word responses also happen on here a lot

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