FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

breeders!!

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just how flipping many of them are there on here? Personally I think its disgusting, but for some reason I seem to get a lot of messages from them, just tend to delete and block, but the idea makes me feel sick!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excuse my ignorance, but what is a "breeder"?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ot monkey71Couple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Great band the breeders though I have a feeling that aint what this post is about.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing a 'breeder' is someone that wants to impregnate you (if you're F) or be impregnated by you (if you're M). I've had a couple of requests in the past, too.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excuse my ignorance, but what is a "breeder"?"

Couples who ask men to get them pregnant or men asking women and couples if they can get them pregnant

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excuse my ignorance, but what is a "breeder"?

Couples who ask men to get them pregnant or men asking women and couples if they can get them pregnant "

Thanks. All seems pretty odd to me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few requests, I've told them I'd rather get my tubes tied than be impregnated by a stranger

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think it is more of a fantasy than a reality for most people. Should you reply asking them about how they intend to pay child maintenance and would 1 weekend in 4 be enough visiting rights and can you met your kids' prospective grandparents I daresay YOU'LL be thought the weird one.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I think a lot of it is pure fantasy talk from watching too much porn

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

3 times in the last 8 days I have been asked when I ovulate!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own in my opinion. However it's a bit much trying to get random people involved.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 times in the last 8 days I have been asked when I ovulate!! "

Thats a short period of time, glad your ON the ball

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't i get these sort of messages. ...clearly I'm not breeding material. ...even for a fantasy! !!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 24/03/15 13:40:50]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or a bull to breed the husbands wife as he watches then he cleans up the creampie mmmmm

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or a bull to breed the husbands wife as he watches then he cleans up the creampie mmmmm "

Ultimate fantasy for many a cuckold couple. .....operative word there. ...fantasy. ...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or a bull to breed the husbands wife as he watches then he cleans up the creampie mmmmm

Ultimate fantasy for many a cuckold couple. .....operative word there. ...fantasy. ..."
YEs but who sais it don't happened behind closed doors?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there not right in the head , can't believe they exist

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex only for me; no one gets impregnated and I'm protected from other potential issues.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or a bull to breed the husbands wife as he watches then he cleans up the creampie mmmmm "

So would you breed someone else's wife?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or a bull to breed the husbands wife as he watches then he cleans up the creampie mmmmm

Ultimate fantasy for many a cuckold couple. .....operative word there. ...fantasy. ...YEs but who sais it don't happened behind closed doors?"

I'm not saying it doesn't happen but I very much doubt the it really happens that often.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or a bull to breed the husbands wife as he watches then he cleans up the creampie mmmmm

So would you breed someone else's wife?"
I might consider it if they were a mature couple, but not sure, its a fantasy of mine tho.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or a bull to breed the husbands wife as he watches then he cleans up the creampie mmmmm

Ultimate fantasy for many a cuckold couple. .....operative word there. ...fantasy. ...YEs but who sais it don't happened behind closed doors?

I'm not saying it doesn't happen but I very much doubt the it really happens that often. "
That's right its not like its every week, maibe few times a year I recon.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lutmeup500Woman
over a year ago

London

WTF. Fycked up.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is more of a fantasy than a reality for most people. Should you reply asking them about how they intend to pay child maintenance and would 1 weekend in 4 be enough visiting rights and can you met your kids' prospective grandparents I daresay YOU'LL be thought the weird one. "

This

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WTVF holy shit that made me gip in my mouth a bit n shiver for any child conceived by that kind of irresponsible action i know the whole each to there own but that is beyond weird even for fab ffs askin random swingers that makes me think needs a mental health check up n should they be allowed to have children n would deffo delete n block if i got 1

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I think it is more of a fantasy than a reality for most people. Should you reply asking them about how they intend to pay child maintenance and would 1 weekend in 4 be enough visiting rights and can you met your kids' prospective grandparents I daresay YOU'LL be thought the weird one.

This "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay a secy lady can get ke pregnant but I am stubborn so may need several attempts

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I think it is more of a fantasy than a reality for most people. Should you reply asking them about how they intend to pay child maintenance and would 1 weekend in 4 be enough visiting rights and can you met your kids' prospective grandparents I daresay YOU'LL be thought the weird one. "

I've actually replied like this

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just how flipping many of them are there on here? Personally I think its disgusting, but for some reason I seem to get a lot of messages from them, just tend to delete and block, but the idea makes me feel sick! "

whats a breeder?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just how flipping many of them are there on here? Personally I think its disgusting, but for some reason I seem to get a lot of messages from them, just tend to delete and block, but the idea makes me feel sick!

whats a breeder?"

Read the whole thread and you'll find out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or a bull to breed the husbands wife as he watches then he cleans up the creampie mmmmm

So would you breed someone else's wife?I might consider it if they were a mature couple, but not sure, its a fantasy of mine tho."

But would you be willing to pay child maintenance etc?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or a bull to breed the husbands wife as he watches then he cleans up the creampie mmmmm

So would you breed someone else's wife?I might consider it if they were a mature couple, but not sure, its a fantasy of mine tho.

But would you be willing to pay child maintenance etc?"
No, but was hoping the couple would be in their late 50's earlie 60's so abit of less of a chance, but as you say I prob wouldn't wanna go thru with it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or a bull to breed the husbands wife as he watches then he cleans up the creampie mmmmm

So would you breed someone else's wife?I might consider it if they were a mature couple, but not sure, its a fantasy of mine tho.

But would you be willing to pay child maintenance etc?No, but was hoping the couple would be in their late 50's earlie 60's so abit of less of a chance, but as you say I prob wouldn't wanna go thru with it."

If you're not willing to pay for your own child then no, don't do it

Women go through the menopause in their 50's so there would be no chance of them getting pregnant

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That said there is a website called donar daddys where couples or females are looking for sperm donors, and often they want a normal method for planting the seed....... and then often no contact with you again

Seems all a bit odd to me, if I fathered a child I'd want to be involved in their life.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

It's clearly personal choice

Why pay the NHS or a private clinic when you can choice your sperm donor here and have zero contact afterwards?

Everyones a winner

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

When people's desperation to have a child kicks in some will do anything to have a child. It's a horrible feeling to have but for me Id rather go down the clinic/sperm donation route than asking some bloke off a sex site for his sperm.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or a bull to breed the husbands wife as he watches then he cleans up the creampie mmmmm

So would you breed someone else's wife?I might consider it if they were a mature couple, but not sure, its a fantasy of mine tho.

But would you be willing to pay child maintenance etc?No, but was hoping the couple would be in their late 50's earlie 60's so abit of less of a chance, but as you say I prob wouldn't wanna go thru with it.

If you're not willing to pay for your own child then no, don't do it

Women go through the menopause in their 50's so there would be no chance of them getting pregnant"
That's good there is no chance in the 50's but yes as you say, prob wouldn't do it just incase, but its a good fantasy to have.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cam in here expecting this to be a rant about having just heard what some gay people call straight people lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's clearly personal choice

Why pay the NHS or a private clinic when you can choice your sperm donor here and have zero contact afterwards?

Everyones a winner "

Because they can rule out any defects, hereditary disease or conditions the person has.

How would you feel if the person who got you pregnant passed on something like downs syndrome or a heart condition onto your child? Pretty sure you'd think twice then

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cam in here expecting this to be a rant about having just heard what some gay people call straight people lol"

Haha! Oh you couldn't be more wrong lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

I think it's fantasy mostly with a very rare few taking things further. The motivations for taking it further (apart from the kickin' n screamin' obvious) will always be a mystery.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 times in the last 8 days I have been asked when I ovulate!! "

Reply with a request to see their bank statements, plus a minimum of £30k put into a new account to help cover the child's upbringing...

Usually results in a deafening silence....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I do agree though most use it as a fantasy I think like the thought of getting someone pregnant but may never act on it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"It's clearly personal choice

Why pay the NHS or a private clinic when you can choice your sperm donor here and have zero contact afterwards?

Everyones a winner

Because they can rule out any defects, hereditary disease or conditions the person has.

How would you feel if the person who got you pregnant passed on something like downs syndrome or a heart condition onto your child? Pretty sure you'd think twice then "

Just a note: Down Syndrome is a genetic abnormality and, in vast amount of cases, isn't inherited and while some heart conditions are hereditary, it's usually caused by a genetic mutation that neither parent may have.

Just saying...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's clearly personal choice

Why pay the NHS or a private clinic when you can choice your sperm donor here and have zero contact afterwards?

Everyones a winner

Because they can rule out any defects, hereditary disease or conditions the person has.

How would you feel if the person who got you pregnant passed on something like downs syndrome or a heart condition onto your child? Pretty sure you'd think twice then

Just a note: Down Syndrome is a genetic abnormality and, in vast amount of cases, isn't inherited and while some heart conditions are hereditary, it's usually caused by a genetic mutation that neither parent may have.

Just saying..."

You get my point though, you wouldn't let someone impregnate you if they had something that could be passed on to the child lol

Just saying

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm guessing my services would be redundant. Snipped years ago!

Unless of course they need a "fluffer"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's clearly personal choice

Why pay the NHS or a private clinic when you can choice your sperm donor here and have zero contact afterwards?

Everyones a winner

Because they can rule out any defects, hereditary disease or conditions the person has.

How would you feel if the person who got you pregnant passed on something like downs syndrome or a heart condition onto your child? Pretty sure you'd think twice then

Just a note: Down Syndrome is a genetic abnormality and, in vast amount of cases, isn't inherited and while some heart conditions are hereditary, it's usually caused by a genetic mutation that neither parent may have.

Just saying...

You get my point though, you wouldn't let someone impregnate you if they had something that could be passed on to the child lol

Just saying"

I haven't had my husbands complete karyotype documented yet, the sneaky bugger could have anything lodged in chromosomes that I don't know about! Lil shite !!

In other words, you take almost the same chance as you do with most people !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"It's clearly personal choice

Why pay the NHS or a private clinic when you can choice your sperm donor here and have zero contact afterwards?

Everyones a winner

Because they can rule out any defects, hereditary disease or conditions the person has.

How would you feel if the person who got you pregnant passed on something like downs syndrome or a heart condition onto your child? Pretty sure you'd think twice then

Just a note: Down Syndrome is a genetic abnormality and, in vast amount of cases, isn't inherited and while some heart conditions are hereditary, it's usually caused by a genetic mutation that neither parent may have.

Just saying...

You get my point though, you wouldn't let someone impregnate you if they had something that could be passed on to the child lol

Just saying"

I do.

Most times, it's families with no history of either. It was just one of those things.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"It's clearly personal choice

Why pay the NHS or a private clinic when you can choice your sperm donor here and have zero contact afterwards?

Everyones a winner

Because they can rule out any defects, hereditary disease or conditions the person has.

How would you feel if the person who got you pregnant passed on something like downs syndrome or a heart condition onto your child? Pretty sure you'd think twice then

Just a note: Down Syndrome is a genetic abnormality and, in vast amount of cases, isn't inherited and while some heart conditions are hereditary, it's usually caused by a genetic mutation that neither parent may have.

Just saying...

You get my point though, you wouldn't let someone impregnate you if they had something that could be passed on to the child lol

Just saying

I haven't had my husbands complete karyotype documented yet, the sneaky bugger could have anything lodged in chromosomes that I don't know about! Lil shite !!

In other words, you take almost the same chance as you do with most people !"

Made me giggle!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Why are we obsessed with perfection

Just because we can eliminate thing's should we

My best friends daughters is downs syndrome

She's attended college

Got married

Had a baby

She's amazing

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just how flipping many of them are there on here? Personally I think its disgusting, but for some reason I seem to get a lot of messages from them, just tend to delete and block, but the idea makes me feel sick! "

They should buy some chickens, they can see the breeding and have a tasty dinner at the end

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Why are we obsessed with perfection

Just because we can eliminate thing's should we

My best friends daughters is downs syndrome

She's attended college

Got married

Had a baby

She's amazing

"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is more of a fantasy than a reality for most people. Should you reply asking them about how they intend to pay child maintenance and would 1 weekend in 4 be enough visiting rights and can you met your kids' prospective grandparents I daresay YOU'LL be thought the weird one. "

Can I try to get you pregnant tina?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"3 times in the last 8 days I have been asked when I ovulate!!

Reply with a request to see their bank statements, plus a minimum of £30k put into a new account to help cover the child's upbringing...

Usually results in a deafening silence....

"

hahahaha! definitely trying that 1 next time! had the occasional message over the time iv been on here but 3 in 8 days grossed me out, joys of spring I gues....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

This is a real thing!?! Really!? Miss C. Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a real thing!?! Really!? Miss C. Xx "

Yes breeding is real - you and I wouldnt be here without it!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a real thing!?! Really!? Miss C. Xx

Yes breeding is real - you and I wouldnt be here without it!

"

Lol!! Till I joined here I had no idea either!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay a secy lady can get ke pregnant but I am stubborn so may need several attempts "

lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's a sexual kink for most things these days!

From what I know (which is very limited) around the 'Breeding' fetish, its a very small minority. I think most on here are just after creampie fun but still have a healthy birth control method.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of it is pure fantasy talk from watching too much porn"
Yes I think your right .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So when do you ???

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So when do you ??? "

no bloody idea, as and when my body feels like it I think!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I think it is more of a fantasy than a reality for most people. Should you reply asking them about how they intend to pay child maintenance and would 1 weekend in 4 be enough visiting rights and can you met your kids' prospective grandparents I daresay YOU'LL be thought the weird one.

Can I try to get you pregnant tina? "

Yes please

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"This is a real thing!?! Really!? Miss C. Xx

Yes breeding is real - you and I wouldnt be here without it!

"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i should be too old to breed

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

It's disgusting.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's clearly personal choice

Why pay the NHS or a private clinic when you can choice your sperm donor here and have zero contact afterwards?

Everyones a winner

Because they can rule out any defects, hereditary disease or conditions the person has.

How would you feel if the person who got you pregnant passed on something like downs syndrome or a heart condition onto your child? Pretty sure you'd think twice then

Just a note: Down Syndrome is a genetic abnormality and, in vast amount of cases, isn't inherited and while some heart conditions are hereditary, it's usually caused by a genetic mutation that neither parent may have.

Just saying...

You get my point though, you wouldn't let someone impregnate you if they had something that could be passed on to the child lol

Just saying

I haven't had my husbands complete karyotype documented yet, the sneaky bugger could have anything lodged in chromosomes that I don't know about! Lil shite !!

In other words, you take almost the same chance as you do with most people !"

i just meant strangers, not your partner, but they can get tested for such things, although I dunno how much it costs

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Just how flipping many of them are there on here? Personally I think its disgusting, but for some reason I seem to get a lot of messages from them, just tend to delete and block, but the idea makes me feel sick! "

Obnoxious and lacking originality, the guys who've messaged with this strange request. Like I'm thick enough or desperate to be aroused by this request.

Block, delete and move on.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my gay son calls straight people breeders

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had it a couple of times. Some asking for a meet, us to say no thanks and their reply to be, but I'll make sure I get you pregnant. As if that's going to make us say OK then. What is wrong with some people?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's clearly personal choice

Why pay the NHS or a private clinic when you can choice your sperm donor here and have zero contact afterwards?

Everyones a winner

Because they can rule out any defects, hereditary disease or conditions the person has.

How would you feel if the person who got you pregnant passed on something like downs syndrome or a heart condition onto your child? Pretty sure you'd think twice then "

You don't pass on downs syndrome ...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's clearly personal choice

Why pay the NHS or a private clinic when you can choice your sperm donor here and have zero contact afterwards?

Everyones a winner

Because they can rule out any defects, hereditary disease or conditions the person has.

How would you feel if the person who got you pregnant passed on something like downs syndrome or a heart condition onto your child? Pretty sure you'd think twice then

Just a note: Down Syndrome is a genetic abnormality and, in vast amount of cases, isn't inherited and while some heart conditions are hereditary, it's usually caused by a genetic mutation that neither parent may have.

Just saying...

You get my point though, you wouldn't let someone impregnate you if they had something that could be passed on to the child lol

Just saying

I haven't had my husbands complete karyotype documented yet, the sneaky bugger could have anything lodged in chromosomes that I don't know about! Lil shite !!

In other words, you take almost the same chance as you do with most people !

i just meant strangers, not your partner, but they can get tested for such things, although I dunno how much it costs "

You can only be tested for the genetic diseases you ask to be tested for. No one is gonna take each of your chromosomes and disect them looking for the smallest of mutations or missing part, it would cost an extortionate amount of money and also take years. That said, if some billionaire decided too scientists can only search for those genetic conditions we know the chromosomal location for, some genetic diseases and their point on the genetic spectrum remain unknown.

The beauty of human life. We're freakin awesome when you think about it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This whole idea. . Even as a fantasy. . puts me right off.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just how flipping many of them are there on here? Personally I think its disgusting, but for some reason I seem to get a lot of messages from them, just tend to delete and block, but the idea makes me feel sick! "

With you on this, if it's not fantasy, they're irresponsible and morally bankrupt, what the block button is here for.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hyblueEyesMan
over a year ago

Daventry

No chance of me breeding. A section of my tubes was taken after an abnormal growth was discovered. However I am more than happy to help you practice the procedure HaHahahaha

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

I'd only be interested if I had first dibs for Bitty lol x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd only be interested if I had first dibs for Bitty lol x"

ewwwww

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi All,

Just to put my input into this.

Those people who want to "breed" for the sake of it, I have my doubts about.

Then there are two other areas that are not so clear cut.

The only people who can really comment on this are females who are struggling to start a family. The tragedy of this, the pain, the stress, the hurt, the embarrassment, the mental health, the effect on work and many more issues is very real and, frankly, if you have had children then you really don't even come close to understanding this. Adoption is not the same.

When a couple have fertility problems and the problem is with the male e.g. low sperm count, poor motility etc then it is a valid option. So many people leave conception too late nowadays and the options are limited and expensive.

To fill that huge hole in a couple's life - and I mean huge, then there really isn't a massive problem in deliberately arranging conception with another male. So many children are conceived from one night stands and no one moans too much.

From the male point of view, believe me when I say that, if I had to choose between being the sperm donor or the dad, I know which one I would go for.

Personally, I have two, three or four children. Two have definitely been sired from my sperm, the other two may or may not be. But it doesn't matter. I am dad to four of them. I have also helped two childless couples to conceive.

There is much I can say on the subject but you really have to understand the life that a childless couple leads. It isn't pleasant.

As I said at the start. To breed for fun is madness. To breed for a reason is a very valid way of filling a huge hole in people's life.

Gary

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FREE SPUNK!!!! yes that is right today only free spunk available! excellent swimmers backstroke champions 2014 get yours today FREE TODAY ONLY ! T&Cs apply other flavours are availablle this is a non refundable transaction.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

Dunno about the biggest mass murderer in history, but I killed 50 million of my brothers & sisters to get here lol!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get asked

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we are not agreeing with the principle at all but my hubby is infertile founs that out when he was 21 so we have to consider donor adoption or fostering! Id we pick the donor route its slightly drawn put and just as unethical really when you think of the process....guy wanking into a cup (could be anyone who fancies the 30 quid)

I read even as far back as christ 2000 years ago a christian man would let his wife be impregnated by another man to carry on there hier!

Obviously things have changed and for us we would deffinitly of done it but the following reasons stop us!

1 how would u explain to family who know u have had problems that you are suddenly pregnant! Could lie and say weve been to clinic but we beleive in truth!

2 same principle with child! We would have to tell the child if it was a donor eventually its the right thing to do!....telling the child that someone slept with your mum bcos daddy cudnt have kids is a moral headfuck!

So there u go untill you experience infertility u canr really comment as it develops depression, puts strain on a relationship! Although we have got stronger recently!

ITS LIKE MOURNING THE DEATH OF A CHILD YOU HAVENT EVEN HAD!

People should not joke or fantasise about this bcos its a very emotional and heartbreaking affair! However i do sympathise with couples who have thought about letting sumone sleep with the fem to get pregnant! Xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I never get asked "

I have been ask , and yes I did more than once ,

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi All,

Just to put my input into this.

Those people who want to "breed" for the sake of it, I have my doubts about.

Then there are two other areas that are not so clear cut.

The only people who can really comment on this are females who are struggling to start a family. The tragedy of this, the pain, the stress, the hurt, the embarrassment, the mental health, the effect on work and many more issues is very real and, frankly, if you have had children then you really don't even come close to understanding this. Adoption is not the same.

When a couple have fertility problems and the problem is with the male e.g. low sperm count, poor motility etc then it is a valid option. So many people leave conception too late nowadays and the options are limited and expensive.

To fill that huge hole in a couple's life - and I mean huge, then there really isn't a massive problem in deliberately arranging conception with another male. So many children are conceived from one night stands and no one moans too much.

From the male point of view, believe me when I say that, if I had to choose between being the sperm donor or the dad, I know which one I would go for.

Personally, I have two, three or four children. Two have definitely been sired from my sperm, the other two may or may not be. But it doesn't matter. I am dad to four of them. I have also helped two childless couples to conceive.

There is much I can say on the subject but you really have to understand the life that a childless couple leads. It isn't pleasant.

As I said at the start. To breed for fun is madness. To breed for a reason is a very valid way of filling a huge hole in people's life.

Gary

"

What about childless single women, do they not get a say?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

I don't have all the answers, nor even a view on many aspects of the subject. So many of the comments portrayed the subject in black and white.

My post was targeted at one specific niche - that of childless couples due to fertility problems.

The are many other views. Mine was just that things aren't black and white.

Gary

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^^^ single women should get a say but u wudnt from an i.v.f clinic!! X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Mon Amor,

I agree with much of what you said.

With regards to the truth, sometimes white lies are no bad things. It is my name on all my bairns certificates. That is where the dad, not the sperm donor's, name should be.

Gary

PS. This will probably be my last post on the subject. I'm just going out and will be busy afterwards

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top