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Flakey McFlakington

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many chances do you give someone who flakes on you? Not just meets but friends too. I have bwen cutting out some dead wood lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As in someone who gets crumbly chocolate all over your window seat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive pushed a lot of people out of my life over the past few years - events have toughened me up and im sick of being mrs nice all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many chances do you give someone who flakes on you? Not just meets but friends too. I have bwen cutting out some dead wood lately."

i would give you loads of chances

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think everyone has a limit. I am always giving people benefit of the doubt but starting to lose patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just binned my driving instructor. Constantly changing appointments, cancelling for other customers.

Well I was a customer too!

If people don't add anything to your life, they can go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a point where you look at what you're putting in, for the return you're given, and you wonder if its actually becoming detrimental to your own well-being.

When you realise that you're the only one nurturing a friendship, its often time to stop feeding it. You can become the enabler for someone's 'flakiness'.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

On here? I can be fairly intolerant a d have no patience for being messed around

In the real world I have more tolerance and would maybe just give them a bit of time to do their own thing and not be so involved with them for a while,then see where it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut a few out recently, I don't expect to chat all the time but if they can't even be bothered to acknowledge a boatbook message they can FRO

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A saying I live by 'Never make someone a priority that makes you an option'.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

On here i tend to cut people off quickly if they mess me about,but i'm more tolerant with friends in real life.

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