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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone actually believe this??

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not nice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I believe more in fate that it wasn't meant to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was about 14, perhaps - but then I grew up and realised I was just envisioning what Hollywood films had ingrained into my malleable mind.

It's absolutely not true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hate the phrase it's like saying if your not selfish ruthless and greedy you won't get anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate the phrase it's like saying if your not selfish ruthless and greedy you won't get anywhere. "

unless it means in a sexual sense?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate the phrase it's like saying if your not selfish ruthless and greedy you won't get anywhere.

unless it means in a sexual sense? "

If it's in the sexual sense, sometimes be selfish, always be ruthless and for 'eavens sake always be greedy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it rings true the statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Duh, obviously.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer the term "Nice Guys Cum Last" as we need all the positive marketing we can get lol

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Does anyone actually believe this?? "

I used to.

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Not in general. You can't always win though and when I don't I try not to look for any deeper meaning which would change my nice settings. I'm baddass at times

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK


"We prefer the term "Nice Guys Cum Last" as we need all the positive marketing we can get lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always made a conscious effort to treat people with respect, honesty and fairness. In the past some people have abused that kindness, those are the people that aren't in my life anymore. Just because I'm nice and kind doesn't mean I'm weak

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Does anyone actually believe this?? "

No....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always made a conscious effort to treat people with respect, honesty and fairness. In the past some people have abused that kindness, those are the people that aren't in my life anymore. Just because I'm nice and kind doesn't mean I'm weak"
Exactly, never mistake kindness for weakness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a Gentleman, I always let the lady come first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell that to Mo Farrah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell that to Mo Farrah"

I always endeavour to cum last with a partner. And I'm nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes they are often thought less of also there are men who pretend to be nice and fool a lot of people, they also lie to themselves and are deluded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I Deffo agree. To nice for my own good sometimes

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate


"I hate the phrase it's like saying if your not selfish ruthless and greedy you won't get anywhere. "

Unfortunately that is exactly how the world works.

Now if you break away from the mindset of measuring success by material wealth, then one can be entirely 'nice', selfless, and ultimately content.

However in this age of consumerism and commercialism. Nice guys definitely finish last..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not in a race.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nice i have a wonderful gf , a wonderful job , a wonderful son and a wonderful lifestyle . And I've gone through life without upsetting people (bruce) .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.... it's an urban myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the business world, nice guys come closer to last than first - & in the political world also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice as in a push over. Yes

Nice as in generous, compassionate, responsible. No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmmmmmmm not really sure tbh coz i think my guy is nice n an all round good egg with just a hint of sexy bad boy that keeps me on me toes n makes me go squishy

I guess it depends on how the term nice is being used

How nice is too nice? n does someones niceness get on ya nerves or creep you out kinda thingy if that makes any sense to anyone but me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no I don't I love nice people ........as I would hate a nasty bad boy who made me crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long as I get to 'finish',last,first wherevever

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Is it a race?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I am a narcissistic monster and I always finish first.

Thankfully I am a repeater so the chicks get a go to.

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