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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello,

I received a friend request today. It was someone I had sent a message to, so I accepted their request. I just noticed they were online so sent a message asking if she wanted to chat. My message was deleted without being read, which seemed odd to me.

So, why would someone send a friend request but then delete any subsequent messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pic collectors. Unfriend them.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Senile

PMT

Alcoholic

Take your pick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 22/03/15 13:17:40]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its possible they meant to reply but hit 'send friend request' instead. They're very close together on mobiles/tablets. Just saying....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pic collectors. Unfriend them."
Or, of course, this...

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By *rof SalamanderMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Fab in action im afraid. I have had chats stop after 2 or 3 messages without any ott comments suddenly become block and they instigated it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pic collectors. Unfriend them."

I was thinking that but he has no friend only pics. Odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pic collectors. Unfriend them.Or, of course, this..."

i thought this but he hasnt got any in private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Senile

PMT

Alcoholic

Take your pick "

Lol!

Can't be pic collector OP only has one pic and that's already public.

I suggest we enrol mulder and scully?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope someone finds an answer to this conundrum otherwise I'll me awake for the next decade wondering ... please someone save me from this trauma and come up with an answer.

Oh hang on, I've had a flash of inspiration ... could they just have wanted a peek at your 'friends only' photos ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, just the one public photo and nothing private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats youre answer maybe - sent the invite wanting to see more - realised you had nothing else to show and changed her mind

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

I normally email a hello before accepting their uninvited friends request. Being real, anyone firing out uninvited friends requests but unable to hold online covo is not really an ingredient for a few things never mind fun

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

quite possibly they want to chat, but just not right now....Sunday mid day, people have other things going on in their lifes, give them the benefit of the doubt and don't subscribe to the 'doubting Thomas's' club on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I suggest we enrol mulder and scully?"

I have two cats called Mulder and Scully but they won't be much use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get used to it. The Internet isn't real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They were teasing ya

Utter utter Bastards

Gimp

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"

I suggest we enrol mulder and scully?

I have two cats called Mulder and Scully but they won't be much use "

Smiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I suggest we enrol mulder and scully?

I have two cats called Mulder and Scully but they won't be much use "

Useless felines!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Useless felines!"

I know! I don't know why I give them so much slack!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The brutally honest truth is.

She probably accepted the request and looked at your private pics when you went offline and didn't like what she saw for whatever reason.

I do the same if I get a request from someone who looks hot.

But most my requests I get and send are from women I'm already engaged in conversation with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly women do it too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The brutally honest truth is.

She probably accepted the request and looked at your private pics when you went offline and didn't like what she saw for whatever reason.

I do the same if I get a request from someone who looks hot.

But most my requests I get and send are from women I'm already engaged in conversation with."

I don't have any private pics, and never have. And she was the one who sent the friend request to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have no profile picture. Maybe they wanted to see what you look like because you probably have face pictures set to friends only. Maybe they saw your face and ran away? In which case, get better face pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have no profile picture. Maybe they wanted to see what you look like because you probably have face pictures set to friends only. Maybe they saw your face and ran away? In which case, get better face pictures."

He doesnt have friends only pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats youre answer maybe - sent the invite wanting to see more - realised you had nothing else to show and changed her mind"

This is what i would do. Not reply to messages if i don't know what a guy looks like.

I don't add people as friends now if they don't have private pics. Maybe they didn't realise you had none?

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