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"Ooh a weekend job for me, Better then doing overtime in work " I heard their fussy | |||
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"http://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/369192" yes but it about mail Escorts .?? | |||
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"Ooh a weekend job for me, Better then doing overtime in work I heard their fussy " But Scrumy says he brings chocolate so he has a good chance. | |||
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"I don't think I would ever pay a man for sex , lol But some woman do and happy to be in control ." You could always pay me in kind | |||
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"I don't think I would ever pay a man for sex , lol But some woman do and happy to be in control ." I don't think I would either, I like to at least have the illusion that they are doing it because they find me attractive | |||
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"I don't think I would ever pay a man for sex , lol But some woman do and happy to be in control . You could always pay me in kind " yes . lol | |||
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"I was seeing a male escort for a while a couple of years ago. When I saw his regular clients I wondered why he was interested in me. I said if you have these beautiful rich women in bed why do you want me? He said they are business you are for pleasure. " yes that was his job but you he pick to be with as he like you and picked for himself . | |||
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"I would hate to pay a male escort and he turned out to be a shit shag " maybe you can get money back .. | |||
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"I would hate to pay a male escort and he turned out to be a shit shag maybe you can get money back .. " Ahh exactly cash on delivery | |||
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"Ooh a weekend job for me, Better then doing overtime in work I heard their fussy But Scrumy says he brings chocolate so he has a good chance. " I prefer crisps | |||
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"I would hate to pay a male escort and he turned out to be a shit shag maybe you can get money back .. " Satisfaction guaranteed or your money back But maybe trading standards would have something to say about that | |||
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"I would hate to pay a male escort and he turned out to be a shit shag " Funny you should say that,my one was,glad I didn't pay | |||
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"Jodie meets woman who hire men ....... Now theres some lovely men here and free . lol " I'm free. | |||
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"My neighbour on my corridor on camp is a male escort, he is a physical training instructor and masseuse, needless to say, he's always away earning most evenings haha....." *checks location* Damn! I was going to ask if he's good looking | |||
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"Jodie meets woman who hire men ....... Now theres some lovely men here and free . lol I'm free." And in Wales its not fair. lol | |||
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"Must have money to burn !" Well that lady last night said he changed her life for the better he made her feel good as cost less than a shrink , she now see him as a close friend and even have a tattoo for it on her body . She lost 7 stone and can look at herself nude. So they are more than sex ... well to her an escort is . | |||
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"wish I could afford to pay for one so I could get exactly what I wanted." yes it come across very much when they are paying in control .. But the men can say no if things are not right . | |||
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"And I think we are lucky ladies to have some lovely men free here on fab .. as could be out there working . lol " If they are that lovely then maybe they should. | |||
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"And I think we are lucky ladies to have some lovely men free here on fab .. as could be out there working . lol If they are that lovely then maybe they should." I may have to look into it starting one . lol | |||
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"I don't personally see what the issue is! No one seems to bat an eyelid where guys have escorts but for women is considered "wrong". No different to be wined, dined, dressed and paraded by the bored, rich wives in the South of France" I think a lot of woman are doing as well as men and can do what ever they wish and feel in control. | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. " There was a man from uk he said some woman just say come to bed room I will be cuffed and blindfolded . | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. There was a man from uk he said some woman just say come to bed room I will be cuffed and blindfolded ." Did you get the females numbers ? Lol | |||
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"Ooh a weekend job for me, Better then doing overtime in work well looking at how much money they make 1000s a weekend you could get a nice house in 2 months. lol " I have a friend who does not work and every now and then goes 'off the radar' for 23/48 hrs. We reckon he's a high class gigolo!! | |||
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"Jodie meets woman who hire men ....... Now theres some lovely men here and free . lol " Lots of guys do this in fact I used to do this myself, I have stopped now as the most popular age for male escorts is around 40... | |||
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"I cant get over how the men have really helped the woman ..... not just sex one lost 7 stone as made her feel good , lol He healed her in and out of the bed room . " my kinda job , and would do it for free , | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. " Male escorts covers quite a range of men, catering to various clients in various circumstances, particularly if considering it on a worldwide scale. If they're using escorts as a euphemism for sex workers then it's even more. The suicide rate, I'd expect, varies across the group. Men who do it to fund addictions or out of financial desperation, are uncomfortable with their sexuality or work, or work at the seedier end of the industry would, I'd think, be more at risk. The same goes for women. I've not looked at statistics or research to see if this is the case though. | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. Male escorts covers quite a range of men, catering to various clients in various circumstances, particularly if considering it on a worldwide scale. If they're using escorts as a euphemism for sex workers then it's even more. The suicide rate, I'd expect, varies across the group. Men who do it to fund addictions or out of financial desperation, are uncomfortable with their sexuality or work, or work at the seedier end of the industry would, I'd think, be more at risk. The same goes for women. I've not looked at statistics or research to see if this is the case though." TV progs go for the shock factor especially on this subject as the status quo dont expect guys to do this for money . I have never touched drugs, dont hardly drink I am straight so that blows most of the myths out the water for a start lol. The way I saw it if I was getting paid to be in porn why not get paid for doing this without the cameras, did I enoy this work...yes. Most of the males in the sex industry have done this at some time because they needed the money or because of the buzz of how you can money. | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. Male escorts covers quite a range of men, catering to various clients in various circumstances, particularly if considering it on a worldwide scale. If they're using escorts as a euphemism for sex workers then it's even more. The suicide rate, I'd expect, varies across the group. Men who do it to fund addictions or out of financial desperation, are uncomfortable with their sexuality or work, or work at the seedier end of the industry would, I'd think, be more at risk. The same goes for women. I've not looked at statistics or research to see if this is the case though. TV progs go for the shock factor especially on this subject as the status quo dont expect guys to do this for money . I have never touched drugs, dont hardly drink I am straight so that blows most of the myths out the water for a start lol. The way I saw it if I was getting paid to be in porn why not get paid for doing this without the cameras, did I enoy this work...yes. Most of the males in the sex industry have done this at some time because they needed the money or because of the buzz of how you can money." The last bit should say "because of the buzz of how you can earn money" | |||
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"Jodie meets woman who hire men ....... Now theres some lovely men here and free . lol Lots of guys do this in fact I used to do this myself, I have stopped now as the most popular age for male escorts is around 40... " A shame but the cost would be against me too | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. Male escorts covers quite a range of men, catering to various clients in various circumstances, particularly if considering it on a worldwide scale. If they're using escorts as a euphemism for sex workers then it's even more. The suicide rate, I'd expect, varies across the group. Men who do it to fund addictions or out of financial desperation, are uncomfortable with their sexuality or work, or work at the seedier end of the industry would, I'd think, be more at risk. The same goes for women. I've not looked at statistics or research to see if this is the case though. TV progs go for the shock factor especially on this subject as the status quo dont expect guys to do this for money . I have never touched drugs, dont hardly drink I am straight so that blows most of the myths out the water for a start lol. The way I saw it if I was getting paid to be in porn why not get paid for doing this without the cameras, did I enoy this work...yes. Most of the males in the sex industry have done this at some time because they needed the money or because of the buzz of how you can money. The last bit should say "because of the buzz of how you can earn money"" And I'd say that you're in the part of the industry where the suicide rate is not significantly high. That was the point I was answering, that there are different motivations, different services offered and different client types seen amongst escorts and the likelihood of suicide will vary. Unless you agree that because you've escorted that you're more likely to commit suicide than a man who hasn't? | |||
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"I've paid for men and women more than once And only last year when I was very unwell and quite housebound I certainly would do it again because there a "the customer gets what the customer Pays for" approach " Yes you get what you pay for that's good. | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. Male escorts covers quite a range of men, catering to various clients in various circumstances, particularly if considering it on a worldwide scale. If they're using escorts as a euphemism for sex workers then it's even more. The suicide rate, I'd expect, varies across the group. Men who do it to fund addictions or out of financial desperation, are uncomfortable with their sexuality or work, or work at the seedier end of the industry would, I'd think, be more at risk. The same goes for women. I've not looked at statistics or research to see if this is the case though. TV progs go for the shock factor especially on this subject as the status quo dont expect guys to do this for money . I have never touched drugs, dont hardly drink I am straight so that blows most of the myths out the water for a start lol. The way I saw it if I was getting paid to be in porn why not get paid for doing this without the cameras, did I enoy this work...yes. Most of the males in the sex industry have done this at some time because they needed the money or because of the buzz of how you can money. The last bit should say "because of the buzz of how you can earn money" And I'd say that you're in the part of the industry where the suicide rate is not significantly high. That was the point I was answering, that there are different motivations, different services offered and different client types seen amongst escorts and the likelihood of suicide will vary. Unless you agree that because you've escorted that you're more likely to commit suicide than a man who hasn't? " I have been in this industry for 18yrs now and know a big percentage of the porn industry and escort industry and in that time 2 people out of hundreds have committed suicide, far more bankers commit suicide than anyone else but again another seedy profession lol. Girls on street corners and avid drug takers are no more part of UK sex industry than they are the swinging scene. The world I am used to is one where everyone is tested regularly and everything is legal not seedy in the slightest, TV shows papers etc write stories on the sex industry to sell their products and only a small part of what they say might be true but the other 95% is shock factor. | |||
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"I was seeing a male escort for a while a couple of years ago. When I saw his regular clients I wondered why he was interested in me. I said if you have these beautiful rich women in bed why do you want me? He said they are business you are for pleasure. " That must have made you feel awesome. | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. Male escorts covers quite a range of men, catering to various clients in various circumstances, particularly if considering it on a worldwide scale. If they're using escorts as a euphemism for sex workers then it's even more. The suicide rate, I'd expect, varies across the group. Men who do it to fund addictions or out of financial desperation, are uncomfortable with their sexuality or work, or work at the seedier end of the industry would, I'd think, be more at risk. The same goes for women. I've not looked at statistics or research to see if this is the case though. TV progs go for the shock factor especially on this subject as the status quo dont expect guys to do this for money . I have never touched drugs, dont hardly drink I am straight so that blows most of the myths out the water for a start lol. The way I saw it if I was getting paid to be in porn why not get paid for doing this without the cameras, did I enoy this work...yes. Most of the males in the sex industry have done this at some time because they needed the money or because of the buzz of how you can money. The last bit should say "because of the buzz of how you can earn money" And I'd say that you're in the part of the industry where the suicide rate is not significantly high. That was the point I was answering, that there are different motivations, different services offered and different client types seen amongst escorts and the likelihood of suicide will vary. Unless you agree that because you've escorted that you're more likely to commit suicide than a man who hasn't? I have been in this industry for 18yrs now and know a big percentage of the porn industry and escort industry and in that time 2 people out of hundreds have committed suicide, far more bankers commit suicide than anyone else but again another seedy profession lol. Girls on street corners and avid drug takers are no more part of UK sex industry than they are the swinging scene. The world I am used to is one where everyone is tested regularly and everything is legal not seedy in the slightest, TV shows papers etc write stories on the sex industry to sell their products and only a small part of what they say might be true but the other 95% is shock factor." The comment referred to escorts worldwide though, not just here or in Western countries. Street walkers and drug addicted sex workers may not be part of your world but I dispute the fact they don't exist. There are also trafficked sex workers. | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. Male escorts covers quite a range of men, catering to various clients in various circumstances, particularly if considering it on a worldwide scale. If they're using escorts as a euphemism for sex workers then it's even more. The suicide rate, I'd expect, varies across the group. Men who do it to fund addictions or out of financial desperation, are uncomfortable with their sexuality or work, or work at the seedier end of the industry would, I'd think, be more at risk. The same goes for women. I've not looked at statistics or research to see if this is the case though. TV progs go for the shock factor especially on this subject as the status quo dont expect guys to do this for money . I have never touched drugs, dont hardly drink I am straight so that blows most of the myths out the water for a start lol. The way I saw it if I was getting paid to be in porn why not get paid for doing this without the cameras, did I enoy this work...yes. Most of the males in the sex industry have done this at some time because they needed the money or because of the buzz of how you can money. The last bit should say "because of the buzz of how you can earn money" And I'd say that you're in the part of the industry where the suicide rate is not significantly high. That was the point I was answering, that there are different motivations, different services offered and different client types seen amongst escorts and the likelihood of suicide will vary. Unless you agree that because you've escorted that you're more likely to commit suicide than a man who hasn't? " This programme concentrated on the high end male escorts, they were able to travel across the world and stay within top hotels, all of this has a cost that needs covering. It was the male escorts that stated most were also bisexual and drug users and that they had lost male escort friends to suicide. Of course I accept programme makers will go for the drama and ignore the truth. It wouldn't surprise me to find (truley independent)female escorts also had a higher than normal suicide rate. Its hardly a job that encourages pride and respect amongst others. What the truth is I have no idea. | |||
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"it must be awful for people who have to do that sort of work because they are forced to or are drug addicts, they don't get to choose who they meet and would have to have sex with smelly men who didn't wash properly, weirdos, perverts and bullies." This is mainly untrue | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. Male escorts covers quite a range of men, catering to various clients in various circumstances, particularly if considering it on a worldwide scale. If they're using escorts as a euphemism for sex workers then it's even more. The suicide rate, I'd expect, varies across the group. Men who do it to fund addictions or out of financial desperation, are uncomfortable with their sexuality or work, or work at the seedier end of the industry would, I'd think, be more at risk. The same goes for women. I've not looked at statistics or research to see if this is the case though. TV progs go for the shock factor especially on this subject as the status quo dont expect guys to do this for money . I have never touched drugs, dont hardly drink I am straight so that blows most of the myths out the water for a start lol. The way I saw it if I was getting paid to be in porn why not get paid for doing this without the cameras, did I enoy this work...yes. Most of the males in the sex industry have done this at some time because they needed the money or because of the buzz of how you can money. The last bit should say "because of the buzz of how you can earn money" And I'd say that you're in the part of the industry where the suicide rate is not significantly high. That was the point I was answering, that there are different motivations, different services offered and different client types seen amongst escorts and the likelihood of suicide will vary. Unless you agree that because you've escorted that you're more likely to commit suicide than a man who hasn't? I have been in this industry for 18yrs now and know a big percentage of the porn industry and escort industry and in that time 2 people out of hundreds have committed suicide, far more bankers commit suicide than anyone else but again another seedy profession lol. Girls on street corners and avid drug takers are no more part of UK sex industry than they are the swinging scene. The world I am used to is one where everyone is tested regularly and everything is legal not seedy in the slightest, TV shows papers etc write stories on the sex industry to sell their products and only a small part of what they say might be true but the other 95% is shock factor." Ffs, if porn ain't seedy I want my money back lol | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. Male escorts covers quite a range of men, catering to various clients in various circumstances, particularly if considering it on a worldwide scale. If they're using escorts as a euphemism for sex workers then it's even more. The suicide rate, I'd expect, varies across the group. Men who do it to fund addictions or out of financial desperation, are uncomfortable with their sexuality or work, or work at the seedier end of the industry would, I'd think, be more at risk. The same goes for women. I've not looked at statistics or research to see if this is the case though. TV progs go for the shock factor especially on this subject as the status quo dont expect guys to do this for money . I have never touched drugs, dont hardly drink I am straight so that blows most of the myths out the water for a start lol. The way I saw it if I was getting paid to be in porn why not get paid for doing this without the cameras, did I enoy this work...yes. Most of the males in the sex industry have done this at some time because they needed the money or because of the buzz of how you can money. The last bit should say "because of the buzz of how you can earn money" And I'd say that you're in the part of the industry where the suicide rate is not significantly high. That was the point I was answering, that there are different motivations, different services offered and different client types seen amongst escorts and the likelihood of suicide will vary. Unless you agree that because you've escorted that you're more likely to commit suicide than a man who hasn't? I have been in this industry for 18yrs now and know a big percentage of the porn industry and escort industry and in that time 2 people out of hundreds have committed suicide, far more bankers commit suicide than anyone else but again another seedy profession lol. Girls on street corners and avid drug takers are no more part of UK sex industry than they are the swinging scene. The world I am used to is one where everyone is tested regularly and everything is legal not seedy in the slightest, TV shows papers etc write stories on the sex industry to sell their products and only a small part of what they say might be true but the other 95% is shock factor. Ffs, if porn ain't seedy I want my money back lol" Most I've seen had seed all over the place. | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. Male escorts covers quite a range of men, catering to various clients in various circumstances, particularly if considering it on a worldwide scale. If they're using escorts as a euphemism for sex workers then it's even more. The suicide rate, I'd expect, varies across the group. Men who do it to fund addictions or out of financial desperation, are uncomfortable with their sexuality or work, or work at the seedier end of the industry would, I'd think, be more at risk. The same goes for women. I've not looked at statistics or research to see if this is the case though. TV progs go for the shock factor especially on this subject as the status quo dont expect guys to do this for money . I have never touched drugs, dont hardly drink I am straight so that blows most of the myths out the water for a start lol. The way I saw it if I was getting paid to be in porn why not get paid for doing this without the cameras, did I enoy this work...yes. Most of the males in the sex industry have done this at some time because they needed the money or because of the buzz of how you can money. The last bit should say "because of the buzz of how you can earn money" And I'd say that you're in the part of the industry where the suicide rate is not significantly high. That was the point I was answering, that there are different motivations, different services offered and different client types seen amongst escorts and the likelihood of suicide will vary. Unless you agree that because you've escorted that you're more likely to commit suicide than a man who hasn't? I have been in this industry for 18yrs now and know a big percentage of the porn industry and escort industry and in that time 2 people out of hundreds have committed suicide, far more bankers commit suicide than anyone else but again another seedy profession lol. Girls on street corners and avid drug takers are no more part of UK sex industry than they are the swinging scene. The world I am used to is one where everyone is tested regularly and everything is legal not seedy in the slightest, TV shows papers etc write stories on the sex industry to sell their products and only a small part of what they say might be true but the other 95% is shock factor. The comment referred to escorts worldwide though, not just here or in Western countries. Street walkers and drug addicted sex workers may not be part of your world but I dispute the fact they don't exist. There are also trafficked sex workers." Like the swinging scene yes you wil get drug takers etc but we as a society disassociate ourselves with the likes of these, the op was talking about British people though but yes South America, Thailand, Africa plus many countries have got their problems. | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. Male escorts covers quite a range of men, catering to various clients in various circumstances, particularly if considering it on a worldwide scale. If they're using escorts as a euphemism for sex workers then it's even more. The suicide rate, I'd expect, varies across the group. Men who do it to fund addictions or out of financial desperation, are uncomfortable with their sexuality or work, or work at the seedier end of the industry would, I'd think, be more at risk. The same goes for women. I've not looked at statistics or research to see if this is the case though. TV progs go for the shock factor especially on this subject as the status quo dont expect guys to do this for money . I have never touched drugs, dont hardly drink I am straight so that blows most of the myths out the water for a start lol. The way I saw it if I was getting paid to be in porn why not get paid for doing this without the cameras, did I enoy this work...yes. Most of the males in the sex industry have done this at some time because they needed the money or because of the buzz of how you can money. The last bit should say "because of the buzz of how you can earn money" And I'd say that you're in the part of the industry where the suicide rate is not significantly high. That was the point I was answering, that there are different motivations, different services offered and different client types seen amongst escorts and the likelihood of suicide will vary. Unless you agree that because you've escorted that you're more likely to commit suicide than a man who hasn't? I have been in this industry for 18yrs now and know a big percentage of the porn industry and escort industry and in that time 2 people out of hundreds have committed suicide, far more bankers commit suicide than anyone else but again another seedy profession lol. Girls on street corners and avid drug takers are no more part of UK sex industry than they are the swinging scene. The world I am used to is one where everyone is tested regularly and everything is legal not seedy in the slightest, TV shows papers etc write stories on the sex industry to sell their products and only a small part of what they say might be true but the other 95% is shock factor. Ffs, if porn ain't seedy I want my money back lol Most I've seen had seed all over the place." Is that bankers or industry workers lol | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. Male escorts covers quite a range of men, catering to various clients in various circumstances, particularly if considering it on a worldwide scale. If they're using escorts as a euphemism for sex workers then it's even more. The suicide rate, I'd expect, varies across the group. Men who do it to fund addictions or out of financial desperation, are uncomfortable with their sexuality or work, or work at the seedier end of the industry would, I'd think, be more at risk. The same goes for women. I've not looked at statistics or research to see if this is the case though. TV progs go for the shock factor especially on this subject as the status quo dont expect guys to do this for money . I have never touched drugs, dont hardly drink I am straight so that blows most of the myths out the water for a start lol. The way I saw it if I was getting paid to be in porn why not get paid for doing this without the cameras, did I enoy this work...yes. Most of the males in the sex industry have done this at some time because they needed the money or because of the buzz of how you can money. The last bit should say "because of the buzz of how you can earn money" And I'd say that you're in the part of the industry where the suicide rate is not significantly high. That was the point I was answering, that there are different motivations, different services offered and different client types seen amongst escorts and the likelihood of suicide will vary. Unless you agree that because you've escorted that you're more likely to commit suicide than a man who hasn't? I have been in this industry for 18yrs now and know a big percentage of the porn industry and escort industry and in that time 2 people out of hundreds have committed suicide, far more bankers commit suicide than anyone else but again another seedy profession lol. Girls on street corners and avid drug takers are no more part of UK sex industry than they are the swinging scene. The world I am used to is one where everyone is tested regularly and everything is legal not seedy in the slightest, TV shows papers etc write stories on the sex industry to sell their products and only a small part of what they say might be true but the other 95% is shock factor. The comment referred to escorts worldwide though, not just here or in Western countries. Street walkers and drug addicted sex workers may not be part of your world but I dispute the fact they don't exist. There are also trafficked sex workers. Like the swinging scene yes you wil get drug takers etc but we as a society disassociate ourselves with the likes of these, the op was talking about British people though but yes South America, Thailand, Africa plus many countries have got their problems." My post though, the one you originally quoted, wasn't responding to the OP. It was replying to a post on the thread about there being a higher rate of suicide in escorts worldwide. | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. Male escorts covers quite a range of men, catering to various clients in various circumstances, particularly if considering it on a worldwide scale. If they're using escorts as a euphemism for sex workers then it's even more. The suicide rate, I'd expect, varies across the group. Men who do it to fund addictions or out of financial desperation, are uncomfortable with their sexuality or work, or work at the seedier end of the industry would, I'd think, be more at risk. The same goes for women. I've not looked at statistics or research to see if this is the case though. TV progs go for the shock factor especially on this subject as the status quo dont expect guys to do this for money . I have never touched drugs, dont hardly drink I am straight so that blows most of the myths out the water for a start lol. The way I saw it if I was getting paid to be in porn why not get paid for doing this without the cameras, did I enoy this work...yes. Most of the males in the sex industry have done this at some time because they needed the money or because of the buzz of how you can money. The last bit should say "because of the buzz of how you can earn money" And I'd say that you're in the part of the industry where the suicide rate is not significantly high. That was the point I was answering, that there are different motivations, different services offered and different client types seen amongst escorts and the likelihood of suicide will vary. Unless you agree that because you've escorted that you're more likely to commit suicide than a man who hasn't? I have been in this industry for 18yrs now and know a big percentage of the porn industry and escort industry and in that time 2 people out of hundreds have committed suicide, far more bankers commit suicide than anyone else but again another seedy profession lol. Girls on street corners and avid drug takers are no more part of UK sex industry than they are the swinging scene. The world I am used to is one where everyone is tested regularly and everything is legal not seedy in the slightest, TV shows papers etc write stories on the sex industry to sell their products and only a small part of what they say might be true but the other 95% is shock factor. Ffs, if porn ain't seedy I want my money back lol Most I've seen had seed all over the place. Is that bankers or industry workers lol" Porn. I used to work in a bank. The only seed I saw there were sesame seeds eaten as snacks and on sandwiches! | |||
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" the op was talking about British people though" Incidentally, the programme featured escorts in the US too because no British women would admit to hiring male escorts. | |||
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"it must be awful for people who have to do that sort of work because they are forced to or are drug addicts, they don't get to choose who they meet and would have to have sex with smelly men who didn't wash properly, weirdos, perverts and bullies. This is mainly untrue " oh well I suppose you would know. | |||
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"it must be awful for people who have to do that sort of work because they are forced to or are drug addicts, they don't get to choose who they meet and would have to have sex with smelly men who didn't wash properly, weirdos, perverts and bullies. This is mainly untrue oh well I suppose you would know. " Very drole And uncalled for comment from you I'm currently a member of six UK swingers clubs and lots of working girls visit those who I talk to Bernard my friend runs an adult contact magazine in Birmingham so I know many of the people who advertise socially also And your experience is what Remind me? | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. Male escorts covers quite a range of men, catering to various clients in various circumstances, particularly if considering it on a worldwide scale. If they're using escorts as a euphemism for sex workers then it's even more. The suicide rate, I'd expect, varies across the group. Men who do it to fund addictions or out of financial desperation, are uncomfortable with their sexuality or work, or work at the seedier end of the industry would, I'd think, be more at risk. The same goes for women. I've not looked at statistics or research to see if this is the case though. TV progs go for the shock factor especially on this subject as the status quo dont expect guys to do this for money . I have never touched drugs, dont hardly drink I am straight so that blows most of the myths out the water for a start lol. The way I saw it if I was getting paid to be in porn why not get paid for doing this without the cameras, did I enoy this work...yes. Most of the males in the sex industry have done this at some time because they needed the money or because of the buzz of how you can money. The last bit should say "because of the buzz of how you can earn money" And I'd say that you're in the part of the industry where the suicide rate is not significantly high. That was the point I was answering, that there are different motivations, different services offered and different client types seen amongst escorts and the likelihood of suicide will vary. Unless you agree that because you've escorted that you're more likely to commit suicide than a man who hasn't? I have been in this industry for 18yrs now and know a big percentage of the porn industry and escort industry and in that time 2 people out of hundreds have committed suicide, far more bankers commit suicide than anyone else but again another seedy profession lol. Girls on street corners and avid drug takers are no more part of UK sex industry than they are the swinging scene. The world I am used to is one where everyone is tested regularly and everything is legal not seedy in the slightest, TV shows papers etc write stories on the sex industry to sell their products and only a small part of what they say might be true but the other 95% is shock factor. Ffs, if porn ain't seedy I want my money back lol Most I've seen had seed all over the place. Is that bankers or industry workers lol Porn. I used to work in a bank. The only seed I saw there were sesame seeds eaten as snacks and on sandwiches!" You seem to be as uncomfortable with porn and escorting as I am with dodgy bankers lol, the industry is as safe as the swinging scene...even safer sexually and the drug users and people trafficking happen in walks of life. I can't help it if what you have read ain't true but at least the papers are attracting the audience they are aiming for. | |||
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"it must be awful for people who have to do that sort of work because they are forced to or are drug addicts, they don't get to choose who they meet and would have to have sex with smelly men who didn't wash properly, weirdos, perverts and bullies. This is mainly untrue oh well I suppose you would know. Very drole And uncalled for comment from you I'm currently a member of six UK swingers clubs and lots of working girls visit those who I talk to Bernard my friend runs an adult contact magazine in Birmingham so I know many of the people who advertise socially also And your experience is what Remind me? " Maybe just not the ones that you know. | |||
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"it must be awful for people who have to do that sort of work because they are forced to or are drug addicts, they don't get to choose who they meet and would have to have sex with smelly men who didn't wash properly, weirdos, perverts and bullies. This is mainly untrue oh well I suppose you would know. Very drole And uncalled for comment from you I'm currently a member of six UK swingers clubs and lots of working girls visit those who I talk to Bernard my friend runs an adult contact magazine in Birmingham so I know many of the people who advertise socially also And your experience is what Remind me? Maybe just not the ones that you know. " The daily mail The sun The mirror Media Scaremongering Simple | |||
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"I seem to remember hearing that there's a high suicide rate amongst male escorts. Some TV programme followed a few around the world, most were bisexual, drug users with little control over which clients they accepted, as with female escorts, its cash that rules in the end. Male escorts covers quite a range of men, catering to various clients in various circumstances, particularly if considering it on a worldwide scale. If they're using escorts as a euphemism for sex workers then it's even more. The suicide rate, I'd expect, varies across the group. Men who do it to fund addictions or out of financial desperation, are uncomfortable with their sexuality or work, or work at the seedier end of the industry would, I'd think, be more at risk. The same goes for women. I've not looked at statistics or research to see if this is the case though. TV progs go for the shock factor especially on this subject as the status quo dont expect guys to do this for money . I have never touched drugs, dont hardly drink I am straight so that blows most of the myths out the water for a start lol. The way I saw it if I was getting paid to be in porn why not get paid for doing this without the cameras, did I enoy this work...yes. Most of the males in the sex industry have done this at some time because they needed the money or because of the buzz of how you can money. The last bit should say "because of the buzz of how you can earn money" And I'd say that you're in the part of the industry where the suicide rate is not significantly high. That was the point I was answering, that there are different motivations, different services offered and different client types seen amongst escorts and the likelihood of suicide will vary. Unless you agree that because you've escorted that you're more likely to commit suicide than a man who hasn't? I have been in this industry for 18yrs now and know a big percentage of the porn industry and escort industry and in that time 2 people out of hundreds have committed suicide, far more bankers commit suicide than anyone else but again another seedy profession lol. Girls on street corners and avid drug takers are no more part of UK sex industry than they are the swinging scene. The world I am used to is one where everyone is tested regularly and everything is legal not seedy in the slightest, TV shows papers etc write stories on the sex industry to sell their products and only a small part of what they say might be true but the other 95% is shock factor. Ffs, if porn ain't seedy I want my money back lol Most I've seen had seed all over the place. Is that bankers or industry workers lol Porn. I used to work in a bank. The only seed I saw there were sesame seeds eaten as snacks and on sandwiches! You seem to be as uncomfortable with porn and escorting as I am with dodgy bankers lol, the industry is as safe as the swinging scene...even safer sexually and the drug users and people trafficking happen in walks of life. I can't help it if what you have read ain't true but at least the papers are attracting the audience they are aiming for." Bankers want to get your money and keep it themselves Escorts simply wish to earn money and keep it themselves I know who I'd trust more | |||
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"it must be awful for people who have to do that sort of work because they are forced to or are drug addicts, they don't get to choose who they meet and would have to have sex with smelly men who didn't wash properly, weirdos, perverts and bullies. This is mainly untrue oh well I suppose you would know. Very drole And uncalled for comment from you I'm currently a member of six UK swingers clubs and lots of working girls visit those who I talk to Bernard my friend runs an adult contact magazine in Birmingham so I know many of the people who advertise socially also And your experience is what Remind me? Maybe just not the ones that you know. The daily mail The sun The mirror Media Scaremongering Simple " What a strange thing to say, oh well as long as youre happy in your own little world. | |||
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"it must be awful for people who have to do that sort of work because they are forced to or are drug addicts, they don't get to choose who they meet and would have to have sex with smelly men who didn't wash properly, weirdos, perverts and bullies. This is mainly untrue oh well I suppose you would know. Very drole And uncalled for comment from you I'm currently a member of six UK swingers clubs and lots of working girls visit those who I talk to Bernard my friend runs an adult contact magazine in Birmingham so I know many of the people who advertise socially also And your experience is what Remind me? Maybe just not the ones that you know. The daily mail The sun The mirror Media Scaremongering Simple What a strange thing to say, oh well as long as youre happy in your own little world." Jealousy is a wasted emotion | |||
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"it must be awful for people who have to do that sort of work because they are forced to or are drug addicts, they don't get to choose who they meet and would have to have sex with smelly men who didn't wash properly, weirdos, perverts and bullies. This is mainly untrue oh well I suppose you would know. Very drole And uncalled for comment from you I'm currently a member of six UK swingers clubs and lots of working girls visit those who I talk to Bernard my friend runs an adult contact magazine in Birmingham so I know many of the people who advertise socially also And your experience is what Remind me? Maybe just not the ones that you know. The daily mail The sun The mirror Media Scaremongering Simple What a strange thing to say, oh well as long as youre happy in your own little world. Jealousy is a wasted emotion " Hell yes im realy jealous of you. | |||
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"it must be awful for people who have to do that sort of work because they are forced to or are drug addicts, they don't get to choose who they meet and would have to have sex with smelly men who didn't wash properly, weirdos, perverts and bullies. This is mainly untrue oh well I suppose you would know. Very drole And uncalled for comment from you I'm currently a member of six UK swingers clubs and lots of working girls visit those who I talk to Bernard my friend runs an adult contact magazine in Birmingham so I know many of the people who advertise socially also And your experience is what Remind me? Maybe just not the ones that you know. The daily mail The sun The mirror Media Scaremongering Simple What a strange thing to say, oh well as long as youre happy in your own little world. Jealousy is a wasted emotion Hell yes im realy jealous of you. " Odd that I'm not of you | |||
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"Yes the media will slate escorting, porn, swinging classing us all as low life sexually promiscuous people, papers and TV have to earn their crust with titillating stories on the UK most deprived...if we choose to believe that is another matter lol." I don't mean the ones who slate it i mean what happens in the real world. not everyone is going to be nice, clean decent people. | |||
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"You seem to be as uncomfortable with porn and escorting as I am with dodgy bankers lol, the industry is as safe as the swinging scene...even safer sexually and the drug users and people trafficking happen in walks of life. I can't help it if what you have read ain't true but at least the papers are attracting the audience they are aiming for." Where on earth have you got the idea I'm uncomfortable with porn and escorting? I've even actually said I'd be happy to hire escorts. My comment on "seed" being all over the porn I've seen was referring to cum! Cum, seed, geddit?! And I'm actually defending escorts and sex workers in general by pointing out that any higher suicide rate, (a claim based on what *someone else* saw or read), is unlikely to be the case across the board; a fact you actually confirm your experience supports as true. Go back and read the suicide rate comment again, and my first response, the one that quoted it. I think you've got entirely the wrong end of the stick. The only point I disagree with you on is that street walking and drug taking/addiction do not exist, or do not to any great extent, in the sex work industry. They most definitely do. | |||
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"I don't personally see what the issue is! No one seems to bat an eyelid where guys have escorts but for women is considered "wrong". No different to be wined, dined, dressed and paraded by the bored, rich wives in the South of France" I agree with this absolutely! Not for me but that's easy for me to say - as i'm fortunate in that I can still attract most of the men I find attractive - both on fab and in the 'real' world! x | |||
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" I agree with this absolutely! Not for me but that's easy for me to say - as i'm fortunate in that I can still attract most of the men I find attractive - both on fab and in the 'real' world! x" For me I didn't pay because I couldn't get any from anywhere else (I have no trouble attracting men who want relationships or sex). I paid, both times, because I wanted something other than what I could get on the open market, with no commitment or drama. | |||
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"You seem to be as uncomfortable with porn and escorting as I am with dodgy bankers lol, the industry is as safe as the swinging scene...even safer sexually and the drug users and people trafficking happen in walks of life. I can't help it if what you have read ain't true but at least the papers are attracting the audience they are aiming for. Where on earth have you got the idea I'm uncomfortable with porn and escorting? I've even actually said I'd be happy to hire escorts. My comment on "seed" being all over the porn I've seen was referring to cum! Cum, seed, geddit?! And I'm actually defending escorts and sex workers in general by pointing out that any higher suicide rate, (a claim based on what *someone else* saw or read), is unlikely to be the case across the board; a fact you actually confirm your experience supports as true. Go back and read the suicide rate comment again, and my first response, the one that quoted it. I think you've got entirely the wrong end of the stick. The only point I disagree with you on is that street walking and drug taking/addiction do not exist, or do not to any great extent, in the sex work industry. They most definitely do." I do apologise for cross wires x, the point I was making is that the sex industry is everyone including swinging clubs, sites etc. The porn industry in the UK does not need to drug girls / guys into making films, it does not create drug takers and none of us would work with people on drugs for obvious reasons. Yes you will get drug takers in all professions but we honestly try to avoid having anything to do with addicts of any kind. I shoots maybe 15 girls pics a month and a large percentage are escorts, these girls are not street walkers and people meeting them would think they are normal middle classed housewives with their nice cars clothes etc. Drugs and street walking do go on in the UK yes as I used to help my local GUM clinic hand out condoms to unfortunate people on the streets, the world I know is as separate from theirs as the swinging scene is. | |||
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"Women use prostitution technique in marriages to get what they want They just don't get paid in cash Imagine this She wants a new sofa and stair carpet He's said he's not paying for it So she (after weeks of zero sex) does her hair, gets dolled up in summat kinky, squirts on some smelly, cooks his favourite meal, then offers sexually many things that are often off limits Voila New sofa delivered in 6 weeks What's the difference you tell me? " | |||
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"Women use prostitution technique in marriages to get what they want They just don't get paid in cash Imagine this She wants a new sofa and stair carpet He's said he's not paying for it So she (after weeks of zero sex) does her hair, gets dolled up in summat kinky, squirts on some smelly, cooks his favourite meal, then offers sexually many things that are often off limits Voila New sofa delivered in 6 weeks What's the difference you tell me? " my hubby likes buying new carpets and sofas though and he lets me choose. | |||
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"Women use prostitution technique in marriages to get what they want They just don't get paid in cash Imagine this She wants a new sofa and stair carpet He's said he's not paying for it So she (after weeks of zero sex) does her hair, gets dolled up in summat kinky, squirts on some smelly, cooks his favourite meal, then offers sexually many things that are often off limits Voila New sofa delivered in 6 weeks What's the difference you tell me? my hubby likes buying new carpets and sofas though and he lets me choose." Now now ladies keep it clean lol, its an interesting thread with lots of varied views... | |||
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"it must be awful for people who have to do that sort of work because they are forced to or are drug addicts, they don't get to choose who they meet and would have to have sex with smelly men who didn't wash properly, weirdos, perverts and bullies." yes if feeding a hadit it must be .... But the men last night was making 1000s and well looked after and loved there job ... some woman don't even need the sex just a man to be seen with at work partys So they look good . | |||
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"Jodie meets woman who hire men ....... Now theres some lovely men here and free . lol I'm free." Sounds like john Inman | |||
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"Women use prostitution technique in marriages to get what they want They just don't get paid in cash Imagine this She wants a new sofa and stair carpet He's said he's not paying for it So she (after weeks of zero sex) does her hair, gets dolled up in summat kinky, squirts on some smelly, cooks his favourite meal, then offers sexually many things that are often off limits Voila New sofa delivered in 6 weeks What's the difference you tell me? " Is that how you operate? I don't know any women like that,most women I know work hard for their families and the men want the new sofas as much as the women. In fact,it was my husband who insisted we spent £3,500 on a 3 piece suite,I would have been happy with a much cheaper one | |||
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"I would hate to pay a male escort and he turned out to be a shit shag " Reduce your tip! | |||
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"I would hate to pay a male escort and he turned out to be a shit shag Reduce your tip! " I think I'd do a runner without paying | |||
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"Women use prostitution technique in marriages to get what they want They just don't get paid in cash Imagine this She wants a new sofa and stair carpet He's said he's not paying for it So she (after weeks of zero sex) does her hair, gets dolled up in summat kinky, squirts on some smelly, cooks his favourite meal, then offers sexually many things that are often off limits Voila New sofa delivered in 6 weeks What's the difference you tell me? " Guilty as charged your honor | |||
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"Women use prostitution technique in marriages to get what they want They just don't get paid in cash Imagine this She wants a new sofa and stair carpet He's said he's not paying for it So she (after weeks of zero sex) does her hair, gets dolled up in summat kinky, squirts on some smelly, cooks his favourite meal, then offers sexually many things that are often off limits Voila New sofa delivered in 6 weeks What's the difference you tell me? Is that how you operate? I don't know any women like that,most women I know work hard for their families and the men want the new sofas as much as the women. In fact,it was my husband who insisted we spent £3,500 on a 3 piece suite,I would have been happy with a much cheaper one " No honey it's not how I operate you cheeky mare lol I'm single these days from choice I buy everything myself But I've got hundreds of married friends who have done it But when I was married my husband gave me pretty much everything I asked for became I gave him all the sex he wanted Everyone's a winner | |||
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"I can see how for some the company is a good thing, as well as the sex. I limit myself to personal trainers, and feel many are over priced. But for someone to pop to the shops with you, maybe do a little driving, surely it shouldn't be that much above minimum wage? I think many would like to offer easy mundane accompanied service, it's just they probably need to rethink their earnings expectations. I'm not ultra rich, so I'm perhaps not the target market. It's almost better to get some hunky tradesman in, doing some odd jobs, as rates are probably lower than escorts and you can still have some banter and company, in addition to work done. " Yes I think your spot on saying this ....... Some women who have money and can do whatever as no ties .. it would just be a treat to have a nice man around them doing odd jobs maybe if sorted before meet and just being there if they feel the need of a man ....... Some don't wish for one 24/7 now as happy doing there thing. And don't have to be super sexy and gym fit all the time . Just a nice person who is easy to be around and good at banter maybe flirting if called for but respect them at the end of the day . | |||
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