FabSwingers.com forum: Has sex toys made fellas obsolete??

By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Just visited a sex shop, with the array of toys available geared for ladies are we really needed?

All for being unselfish and helping to heighten exp for partner but does make me wonder.

Ingenoius gadgets!!!

Only down side some say porn is to blame for making most fellas feel inadequate. Hhhhhmmm have to say with the multitude of over sized dildos rubber cocks greeting you as soon as you walk in, and everwhere you cast your eye almost these shops certainely don,t help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know any man who feels inadequate or any sex toy that can replace a man.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

no whos gonna get the spider out of the bath change a puncture or mow the lawn ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this was the case, no woman who had ever owned a dildo would be on this site seeking men to have sex with.

And they're not all massive, those are obviously just what caught your eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex toys are rubbish kisses and are not good for cuddles either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has sex toys made fellas obsolete??"

Or for those that use them just improved their sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't feel intimidated. Learn how to use them.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No course not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would a man feel inadequate over a toy... A real man is always better

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

Sex toys shouldn't make guys feel inadequate. They are there to enhance the experience for men and women. Learn how to love them because they're so much fun.

If I had to choose between a man and a sex toy for the rest of my life... I'd choose a man

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Only as much as sex-dolls made women obsolete

I have quite a collection of vibrators and sometimes use these even in the presence of a male sex partner, before or after we have had sex together. The ones who feel secure about their masculinity seem to get aroused watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No toy could replace a man I need kisses and cuddles and words

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By *lutmeup500Woman
over a year ago

London

I love them combined ... Using a wand on clit with butt plug in whilst being fucked, strapon fucking a guy whilst someone else sucks his cock.. anal beads being pushed out while he eats my pussy... So many combinations. Men and toys enhance each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just visited a sex shop, with the array of toys available geared for ladies are we really needed?

All for being unselfish and helping to heighten exp for partner but does make me wonder.

Ingenoius gadgets!!!

No not at all!!!

I love cock and want cock forever!

I only use the ears on my vibrator anyway.

I have got a new dildo that looks like a real cock, I havent used it yet to see if it feels like one. It's got a sucker on it too which is why I bought it

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By *ogotwanMan
over a year ago

south lanarkshire

"Only as much as sex-dolls made women obsolete

love watching.n also using on any partner

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Just visited a sex shop, with the array of toys available geared for ladies are we really needed?

All for being unselfish and helping to heighten exp for partner but does make me wonder.

Ingenoius gadgets!!!

Eye contact, pheromones, nerve endings, conversation, stroking, kissing ... Toys can't provide any of these.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's got a sucker on it too which is why I bought it"

On your own or with someone else either way looks like you will enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just visited a sex shop, with the array of toys available geared for ladies are we really needed?

All for being unselfish and helping to heighten exp for partner but does make me wonder.

Ingenoius gadgets!!!

Eye contact, pheromones, nerve endings, conversation, stroking, kissing ... Toys can't provide any of these."

And you have to use all your own energy. My arms ache when I use them. With a man I can lay back and think of England

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""It's got a sucker on it too which is why I bought it"

On your own or with someone else either way looks like you will enjoy yourself

Both

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

Ive recently hada fucking machine delivered..big,black,powerfull

Just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dildo isn't gonna bring you tea and toast in the morning is it?

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

Is there a nipple sucking toy?

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By *eaningofLifeCouple
over a year ago

York

I don't think they make men redundant. Toys are fun. But a toy can't give you a deep and passionate kiss that makes you melt into that person, or give you come to bed eyes. Or that look you get when you know its gonna utterly filthy hot sex, just from eye contact mmmm

and toys can't save me from spiders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just visited a sex shop, with the array of toys available geared for ladies are we really needed?

All for being unselfish and helping to heighten exp for partner but does make me wonder.

Ingenoius gadgets!!!

no they cant kiss you hold you and go down on you

as well as make a cuppa in the morning

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Sex toys add to the fun. Dudes shouldn't feel threatened; the toys don't have a personality, imagination or ability to show affection. Sex isn't just about having efficient orgasms.

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Just visited a sex shop, with the array of toys available geared for ladies are we really needed?

All for being unselfish and helping to heighten exp for partner but does make me wonder.

Ingenoius gadgets!!!

Eye contact, pheromones, nerve endings, conversation, stroking, kissing ... Toys can't provide any of these.

And you have to use all your own energy. My arms ache when I use them. With a man I can lay back and think of England

So true.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Hm well I know SOME men who could be replaced by sex toys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No hot sexy kisses and a warm body with a toy.. Give me a man anyway

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

toys just add to the fun and they dont replace men at all

I have a sex machine already and ive just bought another motor, so at last i can finish off building that sybian machine to add to the rest

as I always did like that bondage machine on another site that you tie a person to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A dildo isn't gonna bring you tea and toast in the morning is it?"

....and men do?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can't exactly buy a round of drinks can it

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer the real thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I much prefer the real thing

Good girl

lol

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A dildo isn't gonna bring you tea and toast in the morning is it?

....and men do?!

Yes they do,

If they want sex again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hm well I know SOME men who could be replaced by sex toys.

OP...toys used alone are usually just a temporary fix until I can get some action with an actual person. Toys used with someone can lead to hours of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A dildo isn't gonna bring you tea and toast in the morning is it?

....and men do?!

I believe some of us do, they may even bring you your dildo

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Hm well I know SOME men who could be replaced by sex toys.

OP...toys used alone are usually just a temporary fix until I can get some action with an actual person. Toys used with someone can lead to hours of fun

I'm not the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A dildo isn't gonna bring you tea and toast in the morning is it?

....and men do?!

I believe some of us do, they may even bring you your dildo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I particularly get turned on by the rampant rabbits - I do get turned on by watching a woman play with one but I must admit, I also get massively turned on if she wraps the rabbits ears around the tip of my cock. The vibrations really do work!

Toys should be shared!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hm well I know SOME men who could be replaced by sex toys.

OP...toys used alone are usually just a temporary fix until I can get some action with an actual person. Toys used with someone can lead to hours of fun

I'm not the OP.

I was just smiling at your comment. ..should have done two posts but was being lazy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just visited a sex shop, with the array of toys available geared for ladies are we really needed?

All for being unselfish and helping to heighten exp for partner but does make me wonder.

Ingenoius gadgets!!!

No not at all!!!

I love cock and want cock forever!

I only use the ears on my vibrator anyway.

I have got a new dildo that looks like a real cock, I havent used it yet to see if it feels like one. It's got a sucker on it too which is why I bought it

Try Vixen Creations for a toy that feels rather real...

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I love them combined ... Using a wand on clit with butt plug in whilst being fucked, strapon fucking a guy whilst someone else sucks his cock.. anal beads being pushed out while he eats my pussy... So many combinations. Men and toys enhance each other"
hey _lutmeup500, we have met and pleasure was all mine.Think you could possibly volunteer yourself as a sex toy industry endurance/ destruction tester........hope your well

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Just visited a sex shop, with the array of toys available geared for ladies are we really needed?

All for being unselfish and helping to heighten exp for partner but does make me wonder.

Ingenoius gadgets!!!

No not at all!!!

I love cock and want cock forever!

I only use the ears on my vibrator anyway.

I have got a new dildo that looks like a real cock, I havent used it yet to see if it feels like one. It's got a sucker on it too which is why I bought it

"
' sucker on end' ha ha very good... That nearly went over me...

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Men can't do what my favourite sex toy can do for me but there is nothing that can beat the feel of a real cock and real sex,so no men are nowhere near obsolete for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A dildo isn't gonna bring you tea and toast in the morning is it?"

Neither will a man.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"A dildo isn't gonna bring you tea and toast in the morning is it?"
tea and toast..? I said tea and toast..? Cor now your partner really is loved up..

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Is there a nipple sucking toy?"
hhhmmmm now its simple casual thought like this, that allows Dragons Den( tv programme) be so interesting.....

PATENT IT..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not a huge fan of toys anyway- and nothing gives a loving snugs like he does

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"It can't exactly buy a round of drinks can it

Him"

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I'd stare a sex toy out

They have their place though no doubt and can be fun as a twosome too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No toy could replace a man I need kisses and cuddles and words "
love the kiss and cuddles then to us a toy and then my turn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be afraid of the machines, use them, they are only machines!!!!

I don't think they will ever replace us, and by the looks of things the ladies here agree, the toys get the fun part, we get the cuddling, listening and massage part of sex....

just joking!

I don't think any bloke should think he could be replaced by a toy, embrace them after all who do they think builds them.....

that was just a joke aswell girls!!! please don't hurt me....much

Sex toys are exactly that, a toy. A lady needs her mind stimulated just as much as her bits, that's when the partner using the toy on her comes in.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

not only do ladies get to wear the nicest outfits, have guys falling over themselvs to play with them, but they also get a mind boggling array of sextoys to play with..

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

not really cos penetration is only a small part of it.no toy could match an inventive lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regularly fuck myself with my trusty dildo but NOTHING will ever replace a Man

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Any man who needs to ask that question may be obsolete. The rest are still very much required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not only do ladies get to wear the nicest outfits, have guys falling over themselvs to play with them, but they also get a mind boggling array of sextoys to play with.."
I so agree

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

have you seen the size of the cucumbers these days ...

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I don't think they make men redundant. Toys are fun. But a toy can't give you a deep and passionate kiss that makes you melt into that person, or give you come to bed eyes. Or that look you get when you know its gonna utterly filthy hot sex, just from eye contact mmmm

and toys can't save me from spiders.

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" come to bed eyes" often heard fellas refer to this when talking to ladies, first i,ve heard in reverse.

I do try to make meaningfull eye contact, but concious that i, m over doing it and going into weirdo territory.

Then predictabley gaze dropps down to the breasts.... not excactly endering lol...

Any preference on colours of eyes..?

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

It's like saying have men's right hand's (or left) made women obsolete? Obviously not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only use my rabbit vibrators when I am with a man who wants me too, they aren't that big as its the rabbit ears that I like. they look good but a lot of them don't feel good.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I don't own or use any sex toys, I prefer to wait for the real thing, you can't get a decent snog off a vibrator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A toy isn's going to say "put your nickers on and make me a cup of tea"

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Toys are like people, some are great, some are crap. I have toys that are ranked in order of preference, and people in between them - bottom of the list is the guy I lost my virginity to, at the top is Neil. I'd choose *this* toy over *this* person or *this* person over *this* toy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It often suduces me, needs must and all that

Her

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

"I don't own or use any sex toys, I prefer to wait for the real thing, you can't get a decent snog off a vibrator

"
There is hope for me then,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No toy can ever replace a man for me!! The chemistry, the passion, the teasing!!! noooooo give me a real man anyway, if he comes with a bag of toys that's a bonus

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I don't own or use any sex toys, I prefer to wait for the real thing, you can't get a decent snog off a vibrator

There is hope for me then,

Yes indeed there is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't own or use any sex toys, I prefer to wait for the real thing, you can't get a decent snog off a vibrator

There is hope for me then,

For you there is way more than hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't own or use any sex toys, I prefer to wait for the real thing, you can't get a decent snog off a vibrator

But toys AND a man can be a delicious combination

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I don't own or use any sex toys, I prefer to wait for the real thing, you can't get a decent snog off a vibrator

But toys AND a man can be a delicious combination

Not for me, that's why God have them fingers and a tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind been used as a sex toy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont mind been used as a sex toy

Just as long as someone doesn't insert batteries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont mind been used as a sex toy

Just as long as someone doesn't insert batteries

Im buzzing as it is without batteries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't have a drink with a dildo,well you can but you'd get funny looks ordering a glass of rosé and a pint for the dick in the corner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Encooperate into your sex life it helps to heighten certain senses it only improved doesn't replace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, without a doubt. No toy can read you like a partner does, and someone else doing it to me makes it all the more sensual and erotic for me.

Also my vibrator (as good as it is) does not bring me breakfast in bed!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"You can't have a drink with a dildo,well you can but you'd get funny looks ordering a glass of rosé and a pint for the dick in the corner."

That's what I used to order when I was married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toys can be great fun but nothing can replace a good hard cock to suck and fuck!

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Can a toy fuck a woman from behind whilst slapping her arse as she shouts "Yeah, ride them waves you magnificent stud!"?

No, it can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes Toy Boys replace men

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