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When is it time to stop swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ben on this site, as single and a couple, experienced just about all there is and have some wonderful memories and friends as a result. I still love sex...but im thinking that swinging is getting a bit boring...gone is the buzz of meeting new folk etc. What should I do?

Thoughts appreciated?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Whatever you feel you want to do yourself, nobody else can decide for you!

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Ben on this site, as single and a couple, experienced just about all there is and have some wonderful memories and friends as a result. I still love sex...but im thinking that swinging is getting a bit boring...gone is the buzz of meeting new folk etc. What should I do?

Thoughts appreciated?"
get married ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact you've asked this question should tell you all you need to know.

Good luck for the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess any kind of relationship can losed it's spark.

perhaps take some time out and try to re-kindle your love for it or certainly take some time to consider what you want...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so obvious. For you, you should quit swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess part of the answer depends on how much of your life you devote to swinging, taking a break or lessening the amount of time you spend in the scene might help bring back some of the buzz.

I had the same problem when I worked at clubs, everyday spending all my time seeing people having sex all around me, naked and half naked women all over the place, at first it was heaven but after a while it becomes mundane, the buzz of meeting and playing dwindled and now I have moved away from working in the scene (10 years on) the buzz is starting to return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your right swinging can be boring if your not meeting right people end of the day its just a word i only swing now and again as i to keep it feeling specile life is a journey and its good to do new things... Its not all about the sex to me swinging its meeting and making new friends and just having fun ....Peace and harmony and balance of my mind ,,,,,, when i dont have that i know somthing is wrong.. You must do what you feel is right for you and be true to yourself. JO XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Notbeen into the scene for long, but as with anything if you stop enjoying something then why continue?

The fact you are asking when is a good time to quit gives indication of boredom, you have to decide for yourself really :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact you've asked this question should tell you all you need to know.

Good luck for the future."

My initial thought!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The day i stop enjoying it is the day i will stop. Ive had little breaks from time to time. But i wouldnt do it if i wasnt getting any satisfaction from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When ya have had enough lol

Sometimes a break is in order xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What should I do

sounds like you should give it a rest and see how you feel in a few months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get a buzz from going to social events, clubs and meeting new peeps, so I guess I'll be around for a while yet!

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