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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Some People can be quite full of flattery in cyber world and some can also appear to be a bit OTT with the compliments, I'm wondering if they would be so sycophantic in a Face to Face meet.

So are you the same person in real Life as the person you come across as when sat behind a Key board or are you less full of flattery when Face to Face ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bollocks ......... here I go again

I FLATTER.... but it's NOT bullshit and im no sycophant.

If I like something im big enough to say so.

I'm not marley arsed , bitter or cyncial enough to feel a jealous reason not to.

If I don't like sommat I say nothing unless im asked or unless it's necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bollocks ......... here I go again

I FLATTER.... but it's NOT bullshit and im no sycophant.

If I like something im big enough to say so.

I'm not marley arsed , bitter or cyncial enough to feel a jealous reason not to.

If I don't like sommat I say nothing unless im asked or unless it's necessary.

"
I might delay going in the shower for this 1

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Granny.... I am sure it isn't bullshit when you offer flattery, but I am curious..... have you ever liked anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some People can be quite full of flattery in cyber world and some can also appear to be a bit OTT with the compliments, I'm wondering if they would be so sycophantic in a Face to Face meet.

So are you the same person in real Life as the person you come across as when sat behind a Key board or are you less full of flattery when Face to Face ? "

I don't believe I am either a flatterer or a sycophant, I am however a crap lier, so if I like something, I say so and if I don't... I say so too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Granny.... I am sure it isn't bullshit when you offer flattery, but I am curious..... have you ever liked anything? "

This may take some thought ........

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I kiss no one's ass...and note, I don't have rimming ticked under special interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kiss no one's ass...and note, I don't have rimming ticked under special interests.

"
I like mine kissed (after a shower) lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I like mine kissed (after a shower) lol "

always a good move ...

unless I inviting someone from my blocked list

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I like mine kissed (after a shower) lol

always a good move ...

unless I inviting someone from my blocked list "

Now I know what they mean when they talk about the people on skid row.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I like mine kissed (after a shower) lol

always a good move ...

unless I inviting someone from my blocked list

Now I know what they mean when they talk about the people on skid row."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like mine kissed (after a shower) lol

always a good move ...

unless I inviting someone from my blocked list

Now I know what they mean when they talk about the people on skid row."
Not if i put some Knicks on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am same ........ person to nice for my own good ,, lol people run all over me and take me for a mug at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP,

Is this like in the verifications?

I think it must be like reading a CV, you have to look for what is not being said, sometimes, and read between the lines!

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

To the OP,

Is this like in the verifications?

I think it must be like reading a CV, you have to look for what is not being said, sometimes, and read between the lines!"

Nahhhhh.... I'm just pissing about. Like any butt kisser is gonna own up to only butt kissing online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

To the OP,

Is this like in the verifications?

I think it must be like reading a CV, you have to look for what is not being said, sometimes, and read between the lines!

Nahhhhh.... I'm just pissing about. Like any butt kisser is gonna own up to only butt kissing online."

Online rimming... that must be quite a feat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually quite shy in person when it comes to communicating to someone that I want to shag her brains out. Siren has often said, "Who do ya like then" when at a social and I tend to veer away from the question in case she wants to go and talk to her/them. I kinda like it to be all natural and just happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmmmm, butt kissing, sucking up...! Where does one start!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmmmmm, butt kissing, sucking up...! Where does one start!!

"
mouth and work down ,, lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like to think i pay a lot of compliments in real life, far more than i do on here. But if my friend asked if she looked nice in something i would be truthful i wouldnt pay someone a compliment just to get "on side" no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're always nice to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to think i pay a lot of compliments in real life, far more than i do on here. But if my friend asked if she looked nice in something i would be truthful i wouldnt pay someone a compliment just to get "on side" no way"
God no i hate people like that who say stuff just to fit in it get on my tits ,, Your like me you say it how it is xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I like to think i pay a lot of compliments in real life, far more than i do on here. But if my friend asked if she looked nice in something i would be truthful i wouldnt pay someone a compliment just to get "on side" no way God no i hate people like that who say stuff just to fit in it get on my tits ,, Your like me you say it how it is xx"

I did spend one night complimenting you on your tits at chams one night but my they where yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you did and i have to say your ,,,,,, same in life as here lovely xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very wysiwyg, and I type the same way as I speak!

However, I am more diplomatic in written communications, as I take time to compose my posts/messages etc...

If I like and don't like something I would say so. However, I would like to believe I have sufficient life experience to know when to keep my mouth shut so as not to cause any offence.

Those who know me well say I am very predictable, and they can read me like a book. They know where they are with me.

If peeps ask me for an opinion, they will get an honest answer from me, which may or may not be what they want to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I try not to flatter people too much,= in a swinging sense,it sometimes gives people the wrong idea,an innocent compliment does'nt always mean come and get it big boy I want you now

I think once im more comfortable with people ill pay compliments where I think they're due

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only give compliments where it is due, and straight to the point, none of the insincere flattery just to appear to be nice or want to fit in etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been told several times that im the same in real life (iritating i think the word used was) lol xx

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Flattery and compliments can be a bit of a double edged sword - I believe should only be given if meant and not as a throw-away lest one be perceived to be full of crap.

On the other hand, some take it personally if you don't kiss their arse (one particular lady hates me on all 3 of her profiles as I refuse to join the crowd in giving her adulation, lol) and that's because I do not believe her to be 1% deserving of the praise she gets from randoms 'desperate for a fuck'.

I've actually seen extremes where people say "if I verify you, will you meet me?" Sad.

Life's too short to be anything but straight as an arrow with my intentions, whether am after a shag or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am honest and actually am comfortable having a conversation without the only ambition being to screw someone so if I like something I say so.

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