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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it my imagination, or is there an increasing prevalence of profiles expressing what they don't want, rather than what they do want? I've just done a local search, and ... wow... its really depressing. An observation: Couples' profiles seem to be much more negative than Singles' profiles. Any thoughts on this? Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we don't wish to read posts like that

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol


"Is it my imagination, or is there an increasing prevalence of profiles expressing what they don't want, rather than what they do want? I've just done a local search, and ... wow... its really depressing. An observation: Couples' profiles seem to be much more negative than Singles' profiles. Any thoughts on this? Mike "

I guess our profile is a bit like that, but it's to save wasting peoples time. Our profile never used to state negatives but then we got masses of mail from unsuitable people. It's easier to be upfront about what you want and don't want we've found.

*Her*

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Now that you mention it, you're right it's all about no this and no that. Very negative when you think about it.

I suppose it's a kneejerk reaction to getting lots of mail from desperados.

shame!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it my imagination, or is there an increasing prevalence of profiles expressing what they don't want, rather than what they do want? I've just done a local search, and ... wow... its really depressing. An observation: Couples' profiles seem to be much more negative than Singles' profiles. Any thoughts on this? Mike

I guess our profile is a bit like that, but it's to save wasting peoples time. Our profile never used to state negatives but then we got masses of mail from unsuitable people. It's easier to be upfront about what you want and don't want we've found.

*Her*"

Agree with this 100% - I'm the same. It helps separate the wheat from the chaff...allegedly!!

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol


"I guess our profile is a bit like that, but it's to save wasting peoples time. Our profile never used to state negatives but then we got masses of mail from unsuitable people. It's easier to be upfront about what you want and don't want we've found.

*Her*

Agree with this 100% - I'm the same. It helps separate the wheat from the chaff...allegedly!! "

Of course the down side is not much mail at all lol.

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it my imagination, or is there an increasing prevalence of profiles expressing what they don't want, rather than what they do want? I've just done a local search, and ... wow... its really depressing. An observation: Couples' profiles seem to be much more negative than Singles' profiles. Any thoughts on this? Mike "

If you put down what you DONT want, it's far clearer than generalising about what you do want. It clarifies the bounderies. Saying "no fat people" is exceptionally clear, isn't it? saying "no asians" is clear, yes? Saying "noone under 35" is clear?

It seem negative, but if you don't put what you don't want, you'll get every chancer mailing you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps because it would be a lot shorter list than what they would like.

look at it positively, if they have a concise lists of "don't want"...the rest is fair game!

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