FabSwingers.com forum: Be honest

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some People can be quite vocal in the forums and can also be aggressive, I'm wondering if they would be so confrontational in a Face to Face meet, I'm quite a forward Person and speak my mind but I try to be diplomatic when I can.

So are you the same Person in real Life as the Person you come across as when sat behind a Key board or are you braver when not Face to Face ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some People can be quite vocal in the forums and can also be aggressive, I'm wondering if they would be so confrontational in a Face to Face meet, I'm quite a forward Person and speak my mind but I try to be diplomatic when I can.

So are you the same Person in real Life as the Person you come across as when sat behind a Key board or are you braver when not Face to Face ?

Oh much braver as a keyboard warrior! Total chicken in real life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So are you the same Person in real Life as the Person you come across as when sat behind a Key board or are you braver when not Face to Face ?

Oh much braver as a keyboard warrior! Total chicken in real life

Yes but your honest as well

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

If I have a point to make in the forum I just see it as a discussion of opinion,I would still have the same opinion in the real world and have no problems with discussing the same face to face

Although when im out im out to have fun so would'nt want my night turning into the most boring night ever by talking about any forum disagreements I may have had.......yaaaawwwwnnnnn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess only those that have met me can judge if I'm the same in real life as on here. I've been told in the past that I'm exactly a 'what you see is what you get' kinda guy. I think I'd probably be a little more restrained face-to-face in a topical debate like we have on here as it's entirely different when all you have is the written word to get your point across and humour is often missed or misunderstood.

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton

i have to restrain my agressive everyday nature in the forums as i dont want another ban

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

I dont have a problem saying face to face what i say on the boards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im honest and im always getting told off for it at work and at home lol

here i try to be honest but fair lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

im the exact same in real life as i am here too xxxxxx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I'm actually probably more forthright face to face, tend to reign myself in on the forums as it's very easy to be misunderstood but very difficult to explain yourself after the fact! Z

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm pretty much identical in normal life as in here, probably slightly more unpleasant.

The only difference is you lot don't have to listen to my fuck awful singing and my body popping at inappropriate moments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im honest and im always getting told off for it at work and at home lol

here i try to be honest but fair lol

They don't dare tell me off at work, even though the Director of Personnel did ask me to copy my emails to her first before I sent them!!! I declined as I knew what I wanted to say, and didn't want to tone it down!!

My family and friends think I can be "quite horrible", but I don't think so, I don't believe in talking behind someone's back if I have a problem I state it there and then - then it's forgotten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm actually probably more forthright face to face, tend to reign myself in on the forums as it's very easy to be misunderstood but very difficult to explain yourself after the fact! Z"

I tone it down for the forums: how sad would I be to get into petty squabbles with people I don't know on the internet?!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think I am the same..

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"I'm actually probably more forthright face to face, tend to reign myself in on the forums as it's very easy to be misunderstood but very difficult to explain yourself after the fact! Z

I tone it down for the forums: how sad would I be to get into petty squabbles with people I don't know on the internet?!!

lol - I have been 'drawn into' said petty squabbles in the past and it is sad! I don't care if people think I'm an air head - I know I'm not really! Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"I think I am the same..

Can I ask, are you on the loo? Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its different in the forums as you have that time lapse to think about what you want to say. However, my incentive is not to win friends and influence people, in here or in real life. I'm a nice person but if someone wants a discussion or debate then I won't shy from it. I'm only sub when I'm in the bedroom

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Think im the same on here as i am in reality

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Think im the same on here as i am in reality"

Yes I can confirm you are, I've been watching

(cue music from psycho)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a good post .... I meet some ladys who use to be nasty in chat room to me on other site and was a nice as nice to my face but when back in the chat room nasty again in front of there friends. People are strange thay do all sorts to fit in there little clicks . jo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And allso meet some lovely people of the forums at the clubs and thay have been lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So are you the same Person in real Life as the Person you come across as when sat behind a Key board or are you braver when not Face to Face ?

Oh much braver as a keyboard warrior! Total chicken in real life

lol I like that lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life yes I do speak my mind ans it has often got me into trouble lol but that's on the everyday things, naughty talk, I'm much braver on here!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Think im the same on here as i am in reality

Yes I can confirm you are, I've been watching

(cue music from psycho)"

wow do i have an official stalker. Ive been wondering what that was hiding in the tree opposite my house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try and avoid kicking off both on line and in person but some things you see push you to the limit.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

totally same in real life - can't put on a pretence. Gob has got me into trouble (usually at the footie) many a time. Saying that though, I don't seek confrontation.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im sweet in real life (apparently) but i do loose it if someone upsets me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes you have to be like that as some people won't take no for an answer,

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I am braver face to face - I can punch at close range.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I'd hope I'm the same, but I don't have the objectivity to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes you have to be like that as some people won't take no for an answer,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes you have to be like that as some people won't take no for an answer,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes you have to be like that as some people won't take no for an answer,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes you have to be like that as some people won't take no for an answer,

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

So are you the same Person in real Life as the Person you come across as when sat behind a Key board or are you braver when not Face to Face ?

almost al the people i have met thru the site say i'm the same online as i am in the flesh. nuts, laid back and a horny bitch.

i don't see the point pretending to be someone else as when you meet a person they're going to find out anyway.

maybe the ones who are braver as you say have no plans to meet people but only here to stir things up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am braver face to face - I can punch at close range."
well i have to say you come across nice here say it how it is most of the time. lol Your a friend most of us would love to have around ,, lol I am big softy hate hurting people thats why most run rings around me ,, lol my mum did say in real world people would do that to me.

jo xx

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"sometimes you have to be like that as some people won't take no for an answer,"

How many times do you have to tell them before they get it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to avoid confrontation on here and face to face, although I'm a bit braver in real life.

Always slow to anger quick to forgive, but........ if really crossed watch out, as a red mist descends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am known for being honest off and on here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend to say things as i find them..being here makes me no less nor more open. i also try play devils advocate and see things from anothers point of _iew, i also dont mind supporting an opinion that is not necessarily supported by the masses.

i'll be true to myself, hard for anyone to object to that....though plenty will try

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I am braver face to face - I can punch at close range. well i have to say you come across nice here say it how it is most of the time. lol Your a friend most of us would love to have around ,, lol I am big softy hate hurting people thats why most run rings around me ,, lol my mum did say in real world people would do that to me.

jo xx"

I live by simple rules, one of which is to never say anything about someone which you haven't or wouldn't (when the chance arises) say to their face.

In real life I say what I mean and mean what I say... I see no reason to be any different on here.

My job is to... well you could say... it's to tell people how it really is. I have 10's of conversations per week telling people what they least wanting to hear about their abilities, performance, skills... but need to hear if they are to have any chance of improving. I would be failing at my job if I didn't have the courage of my convictions.

Some people say a true friend will always tell you that you look lovely whatever you wear.

I believe a true friend will tell you to go home and get changed because you look like a sack of shit... if indeed you do look like a sack of shit.

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

i am quiet and shy in real life nothing like i am in the forums would not boo to a goose

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

So are you the same Person in real Life as the Person you come across as when sat behind a Key board or are you braver when not Face to Face ?

almost al the people i have met thru the site say i'm the same online as i am in the flesh. nuts, laid back and a horny bitch.

i don't see the point pretending to be someone else as when you meet a person they're going to find out anyway.

maybe the ones who are braver as you say have no plans to meet people but only here to stir things up."

nah maddie, you are a wee quite innocent soul..... STRINGS xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One word to describe _muma........ nutter!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"One word to describe _muma........ nutter!

aye but a nice nutter loops!!! oh, and pot, kettle, black - bitches of breestwick!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One word to describe _muma........ nutter!

aye but a nice nutter loops!!! oh, and pot, kettle, black - bitches of breestwick!!!!

Moi? bitch?.... never!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im the same behind the keys as in life, shy honest and loyal,think id be better off being a bitch,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As already mentioned in the other thread, I am a bit more diplomatic with my written communications!

Otherwise I am the same bolshy person in real life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I have a point to make in the forum I just see it as a discussion of opinion,I would still have the same opinion in the real world and have no problems with discussing the same face to face

Although when im out im out to have fun so would'nt want my night turning into the most boring night ever by talking about any forum disagreements I may have had.......yaaaawwwwnnnnn

Agree and that is me in real life too except that face to face the smile, wink and tone of voice belays the aggression that sometimes my written word can convey.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

well in forum i just give my honest opinion on something ...thats the same in real life too. if someone asks my opinion then they will get it and reasoning behind it . may not agree with it but often good to see alternate _iews and give you food for though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One word to describe _muma........ nutter!

aye but a nice nutter loops!!! oh, and pot, kettle, black - bitches of breestwick!!!!

ring ring phone call for Wendy its the pot your blacker than black, you complete nutter

Of course I am the shy retiring kind and wouldnt know how to cackle at all

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am who I am all the time and sometimes get in trouble for it.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

So are you the same Person in real Life as the Person you come across as when sat behind a Key board or are you braver when not Face to Face ?

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Im very much louder in real life i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im very much louder in real life i think

You are not a shrinking violet or a mouse for sure!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Im very much louder in real life i think

You are not a shrinking violet or a mouse for sure!

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Im just me, i cant be any other way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im very much louder in real life i think

You are not a shrinking violet or a mouse for sure!

Im just me, i cant be any other way

Same here, and I am like Marmite too! Like it or lump it!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Im very much louder in real life i think

You are not a shrinking violet or a mouse for sure!

Im just me, i cant be any other way

Same here, and I am like Marmite too! Like it or lump it!

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Marmite isnt lumpy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been told im a nutter in the forums and in real life lol

Nowt like consistency xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been told im a nutter in the forums and in real life lol

Nowt like consistency xx

Nothing wrong with being a nutter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been told im a nutter in the forums and in real life lol

Nowt like consistency xx

Nothing wrong with being a nutter!

Funny that's what my psychiatrist said xx

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