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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

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By *xpatscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

I'd say your happy for them to come around your house for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Means you are able to host a visitor. Some can only travel to a person not accomodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting in the OP bed

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either inviting someone to your place or booking a room. Some men think a car is accommodation

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Will provide a private , indoor area where you can have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means "

Some seem to think it's an invitation to fuck, stay overnight and be given a full English breakfast in the morning

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Accommodate is where you go out with a punctuation mark....ie a date with a comma.

This can often lead to a whole relationship with a full stop but can all end with a question mark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means "

It probably means different things to different people - for some it means only hosting in their home, for others it can also include hotel accom etc .. I'm guessing you've met someone that could do neither?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Either inviting someone to your place or booking a room. Some men think a car is accommodation "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

Some seem to think it's an invitation to fuck, stay overnight and be given a full English breakfast in the morning "

Isn't it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Accommodate is where you go out with a punctuation mark....ie a date with a comma.

This can often lead to a whole relationship with a full stop but can all end with a question mark. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means "

we have had people who think that because our location is a seaside town it means a long weekend on full board basis with sex thrown in.

To us it means can invite us to your home but not overnight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

Some seem to think it's an invitation to fuck, stay overnight and be given a full English breakfast in the morning

Isn't it "

it would be if I invited someone to my home to play, means I would have already met them several times,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

Some seem to think it's an invitation to fuck, stay overnight and be given a full English breakfast in the morning

Isn't it

it would be if I invited someone to my home to play, means I would have already met them several times, "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it means you will provide the venue, be that home or hotel

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Either inviting someone to your place or booking a room. Some men think a car is accommodation

This"

Some men think that a car is a penis extension too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

we have had people who think that because our location is a seaside town it means a long weekend on full board basis with sex thrown in.

To us it means can invite us to your home but not overnight."

That's you scratched off our want to meet list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We think some people put they can accommodate to help them get a meet. Once you have done the social meet to see if everyone gets on then you arrange to meet again they can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

Some seem to think it's an invitation to fuck, stay overnight and be given a full English breakfast in the morning "

Don't you discuss with people beforehand how long they can stay? Anyone wanting me to stay the night will ask if I can,at theirs or in a hotel and ask if I want breakfast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

we have had people who think that because our location is a seaside town it means a long weekend on full board basis with sex thrown in.

To us it means can invite us to your home but not overnight.

That's you scratched off our want to meet list. "

I would at least expect a bag of seaside chips

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

we have had people who think that because our location is a seaside town it means a long weekend on full board basis with sex thrown in.

To us it means can invite us to your home but not overnight.

That's you scratched off our want to meet list. "

oh

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

we have had people who think that because our location is a seaside town it means a long weekend on full board basis with sex thrown in.

To us it means can invite us to your home but not overnight.

That's you scratched off our want to meet list.

I would at least expect a bag of seaside chips "

For you I would throw in salt and vinegar and some crackling

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If we said we can accommodate means at our place and not in a hotel or anywhere else. When you fill your profile in it say can you accommodate yes or no. If it means a hotel or anywhere else then im sure we can all accommodate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

we have had people who think that because our location is a seaside town it means a long weekend on full board basis with sex thrown in.

To us it means can invite us to your home but not overnight.

That's you scratched off our want to meet list.

I would at least expect a bag of seaside chips

For you I would throw in salt and vinegar and some crackling "
id give you crabs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

Some seem to think it's an invitation to fuck, stay overnight and be given a full English breakfast in the morning

Don't you discuss with people beforehand how long they can stay? Anyone wanting me to stay the night will ask if I can,at theirs or in a hotel and ask if I want breakfast. "

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

As has been said, either be able to have playtime at your address or be willing to pay for an hotel room. Obviously the overnight stay needs to be discussed beforehand

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

we have had people who think that because our location is a seaside town it means a long weekend on full board basis with sex thrown in.

To us it means can invite us to your home but not overnight.

That's you scratched off our want to meet list.

I would at least expect a bag of seaside chips

For you I would throw in salt and vinegar and some crackling id give you crabs! "

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

Some seem to think it's an invitation to fuck, stay overnight and be given a full English breakfast in the morning "

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

To me it means you can have people over to your place. IMO you book a hotel because you *can't* accommodate, it doesn't mean you can.

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham


"If we said we can accommodate means at our place and not in a hotel or anywhere else. When you fill your profile in it say can you accommodate yes or no. If it means a hotel or anywhere else then im sure we can all accommodate?"

This. Pretty sure everyone is capable of booking a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we said we can accommodate means at our place and not in a hotel or anywhere else. When you fill your profile in it say can you accommodate yes or no. If it means a hotel or anywhere else then im sure we can all accommodate?"

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Acomodate to me means having a couple of hrs fun at home

It doesn't mean staying overnight unless confirmed before hand

Acomodate certainly does not mean getting a hotel room

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"If we said we can accommodate means at our place and not in a hotel or anywhere else. When you fill your profile in it say can you accommodate yes or no. If it means a hotel or anywhere else then im sure we can all accommodate?"

This!

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

Some seem to think it's an invitation to fuck, stay overnight and be given a full English breakfast in the morning "

Oh don't put ideas into my head ffs!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

I've spoken to several guys who, when I have questioned the 'can accommodate' status on their profile, have explained that their car is very comfortable! One kind chap who had a transit van offered to 'chuck a mattress in the back'!!!

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I can and do accommodate. Meaning they are quite welcome to my place, they bring their own drinks and we all have a ball.

I have a couple of friends i trust enough to stay overnight if they so wish. Spare bedroom provided for them.

They want breakfast? They make it.

Does that sound fair enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have always assumed that "accommodate" simply means you allow peope to come to your home for play. That's what we mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we said we can accommodate means at our place and not in a hotel or anywhere else. When you fill your profile in it say can you accommodate yes or no. If it means a hotel or anywhere else then im sure we can all accommodate?"

Good point

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"We have always assumed that "accommodate" simply means you allow peope to come to your home for play. That's what we mean "

Agreed

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We take it to mean hosting people at my home. I don't want strangers in my home, if we get to know them well then I'd be fine with them visiting.

It doesn't mean a hotel or an overnight stay. I only spend the night with Mr, no one else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it means either accommodating at theirs or your place not a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We take it to mean hosting people at my home. I don't want strangers in my home, if we get to know them well then I'd be fine with them visiting.

It doesn't mean a hotel or an overnight stay. I only spend the night with Mr, no one else "

Same. We never invite meets to ours.

We have children, if it were just us it would be different, maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot accommodate. I will however chip in for a hotel. I have been known to pay for them. I have been known to stay overnight in them.

I cannot accommodate though.

I have been invited to stay over night by people. I've been invited to meet at houses, cars, hotels; as a general rule of being accommodated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it means that you are happy to have somebody visit your home for the purpose of swinging.

Not that you can pay for a hotel or own a truck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

we have had people who think that because our location is a seaside town it means a long weekend on full board basis with sex thrown in.

To us it means can invite us to your home but not overnight.

That's you scratched off our want to meet list.

I would at least expect a bag of seaside chips

For you I would throw in salt and vinegar and some crackling "

And some of those doughnuts you always get on the sea front. (Grew up near Southend on Sea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me it means that you are happy to have somebody visit your home for the purpose of swinging.

Not that you can pay for a hotel or own a truck..."

Same here. I can't accommodate and I wouldn't even if I was single. I can book a hotel, but that's not the same thing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

we have had people who think that because our location is a seaside town it means a long weekend on full board basis with sex thrown in.

To us it means can invite us to your home but not overnight.

That's you scratched off our want to meet list.

I would at least expect a bag of seaside chips

For you I would throw in salt and vinegar and some crackling

And some of those doughnuts you always get on the sea front. (Grew up near Southend on Sea! "

I have been called a doughnut on the seafront many a time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Accommodate should mean you have your own place to meet whoever and play

accommodate doesnt mean no i can't accommodate really as my brother lives with me or my kids live here or maybe no i live with my mother if thats the case then change the accommodate to no and stop wasting peoples time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means you can open your front door to let the visitor(s) in to have a fun evening/night.

If someone comes here then I wouldn't expect them to leave afterwards unless they had to get back for a reason.

Besides - why the hell would you miss out on morning sex

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Accommodate must mean play at yours?? Mine says accommodate but also explains on my profile this is not often as I do have grown up kids living here.

As has been said anyone can book a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we say accommodate - it means that we can use our own place for meeting in - it doesnt mean you can stay over but we will make you a brew or share drinks with you - the egg and bacon butties in the morning are for us alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it means you will provide the venue, be that home or hotel"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Accommodate should mean you have your own place to meet whoever and play

accommodate doesnt mean no i can't accommodate really as my brother lives with me or my kids live here or maybe no i live with my mother if thats the case then change the accommodate to no and stop wasting peoples time"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me accomadate means that someone can and does let another person/people come to their house for swinging fun, not booking a hotel or playing in a car, old factory, empty office etc lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we said we can accommodate means at our place and not in a hotel or anywhere else. When you fill your profile in it say can you accommodate yes or no. If it means a hotel or anywhere else then im sure we can all accommodate?"
If they pay for the hotel then I would say putting that they accommodate is okay, but if they want to split the bill then no.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Id love to see the 'Hotel' and 'club' options in the accomodate and travel section. Can this be done?

I get stick from people coz i say no to accom or travel.

I certainly cannot accom due to being a parent. And i cant travel far due to being a non driver. So i feel having hotel as a option would kinda stop some of the people attacking saying i shouldnt get any meets at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love to see the 'Hotel' and 'club' options in the accomodate and travel section. Can this be done?

I get stick from people coz i say no to accom or travel.

I certainly cannot accom due to being a parent. And i cant travel far due to being a non driver. So i feel having hotel as a option would kinda stop some of the people attacking saying i shouldnt get any meets at all.

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i think this would be a good idea - we never put anybody down if they cant accom - some people could just choose not to take swinging into their home - of course this is often explained in profiles but not everybody reads them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

we have had people who think that because our location is a seaside town it means a long weekend on full board basis with sex thrown in.

To us it means can invite us to your home but not overnight.

That's you scratched off our want to meet list.

I would at least expect a bag of seaside chips

For you I would throw in salt and vinegar and some crackling

And some of those doughnuts you always get on the sea front. (Grew up near Southend on Sea!

I have been called a doughnut on the seafront many a time "

We drive to Southend just for the doughnuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we said we can accommodate means at our place and not in a hotel or anywhere else. When you fill your profile in it say can you accommodate yes or no. If it means a hotel or anywhere else then im sure we can all accommodate?If they pay for the hotel then I would say putting that they accommodate is okay, but if they want to split the bill then no."

That's what I think. I've met men who have their own places but don't want to invite women over so pay for a hotel. I'm ok with that

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Either inviting someone to your place or booking a room. Some men think a car is accommodation "

omg seriously, doesn't a car count, what about a van or shed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if they are showing they can accommodate no matter if its a single man woman or a couple then that means they can accommodate at there house.

if they dnt wnt you at there house then they cnt accommodate!!! if they are single and say they can accommodate then say they cnt then its must ring a few bell's to people like they are hiding something like a B/F G/F hubby or wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they are showing they can accommodate no matter if its a single man woman or a couple then that means they can accommodate at there house.

if they dnt wnt you at there house then they cnt accommodate!!! if they are single and say they can accommodate then say they cnt then its must ring a few bell's to people like they are hiding something like a B/F G/F hubby or wife"

That's making a huge assumption. For some men it could be true,some may just not want to have different women in their beds. Changing their mind about accommodating isn't on though,trying their luck and hoping for car or outdoor sex,which has happened to me.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Either inviting someone to your place or booking a room. Some men think a car is accommodation

omg seriously, doesn't a car count, what about a van or shed"

Wendy house

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

When we say that we can accommodate it means that we are happy to invite meets to our home.

Our offer doesn't include staying overnight, just not something we are comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always provide the 'accommodation'. It could be our home, but equally could be a hotel or something else entirely (we once hired a dungeon for a particular role-play). To us 'can accommodate' simply means the other person(s) doesn't have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always provide the 'accommodation'. It could be our home, but equally could be a hotel or something else entirely (we once hired a dungeon for a particular role-play). To us 'can accommodate' simply means the other person(s) doesn't have to."

I do like the idea of a dungeon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've spoken to several guys who, when I have questioned the 'can accommodate' status on their profile, have explained that their car is very comfortable! One kind chap who had a transit van offered to 'chuck a mattress in the back'!!! "

Ha, ha. I can go one better, a whole single bed, frame and mattress in the back of a van, with a box of toys as the luxury items

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a tent does that count that I can accommodate

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I am a single guy and I accommodate, most of the time. But if I was meeting a couple I might prefer offsite or at theirs. That isn't because I have anything to hide. But I have neighbours with young kids and I prefer to keep my private life private, especially if it is getting out of hand and noisy.

I think any single person, male or female, should only accommodate provided you feel totally sure. Inviting more than one person especially into your home needs to be thought about. So just because you might not want to accommodate at your own place doesn't always mean you have something to hide, you might just be taking sensible precautions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always provide the 'accommodation'. It could be our home, but equally could be a hotel or something else entirely (we once hired a dungeon for a particular role-play). To us 'can accommodate' simply means the other person(s) doesn't have to.

I do like the idea of a dungeon "

We loved it. We're not heavily into the fetish scene, but all the kit was there and we had a great time 'dabbling' for a couple of hours. Google 'uk dungeon hire berkshire' for the website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accommodation to me means having someone in your house.

Only 2 people have been in my house 1 from the forums and 1 who doesn't post.

I don't mind accommodating .. First meet will always be hotel though.

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means "

A bed with a roof over it for a few hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I do like the idea of a dungeon

We loved it. We're not heavily into the fetish scene, but all the kit was there and we had a great time 'dabbling' for a couple of hours. Google 'uk dungeon hire berkshire' for the website."

My partner and I may have - in part - rented our house because it has a cellar that we use as a dungeon. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I do like the idea of a dungeon

We loved it. We're not heavily into the fetish scene, but all the kit was there and we had a great time 'dabbling' for a couple of hours. Google 'uk dungeon hire berkshire' for the website.

My partner and I may have - in part - rented our house because it has a cellar that we use as a dungeon. :D"

We'd love to have that. Not necessarily as a fully-loaded dungeon, but a dedicated play room would be fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I do like the idea of a dungeon

We loved it. We're not heavily into the fetish scene, but all the kit was there and we had a great time 'dabbling' for a couple of hours. Google 'uk dungeon hire berkshire' for the website.

My partner and I may have - in part - rented our house because it has a cellar that we use as a dungeon. :D

We'd love to have that. Not necessarily as a fully-loaded dungeon, but a dedicated play room would be fantastic."

We don't have a dedicated playroom, all of our spaces are used for various different things (five bedroom house plus two living rooms and cellar). But key to us was having a bedroom each, meaning that we could have other people round to play without it being an issue, or having to put them up on a sofabed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont like time constraints or to feel we're on a timetable, so for us, when we say we can accommodate it means theres a spare room available and I'll make a brew and crumpets in the morning

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"We dont like time constraints or to feel we're on a timetable, so for us, when we say we can accommodate it means theres a spare room available and I'll make a brew and crumpets in the morning

"

Crumpets for the crumpet!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

B B B , bed a bonk and breakfast ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dont like time constraints or to feel we're on a timetable, so for us, when we say we can accommodate it means theres a spare room available and I'll make a brew and crumpets in the morning

Crumpets for the crumpet! "

Best morning crumpet request so far has been peanut butter, jam and cheese! ...fully loaded crumpet, served by a half dressed crumpet (or is that strumpet!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Accommodate should mean you have your own place to meet whoever and play

"

Oh wouldn't that be good if everyone did mean that.

Instead of cars, trucks etc

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I have accommodate on my profile - to me it means I can host someone in my house, invite them a sa visitor, use the facilities etc.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"If we said we can accommodate means at our place and not in a hotel or anywhere else. When you fill your profile in it say can you accommodate yes or no. If it means a hotel or anywhere else then im sure we can all accommodate?"

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

OMG we hadn't even realised there was any issue - how näive are we?!

Perhaps we also need "can provide board and breakfast too" as a profile option.

We can very occasionally accommodate, but we always assumed 'staying the night' would be a separate invitation. (Which, admittedly, we have also done)

Mr ddc

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"We think some people put they can accommodate to help them get a meet. Once you have done the social meet to see if everyone gets on then you arrange to meet again they can't"

I've seen people post about this before so think you are right and it gives them an advantage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always provide the 'accommodation'. It could be our home, but equally could be a hotel or something else entirely (we once hired a dungeon for a particular role-play). To us 'can accommodate' simply means the other person(s) doesn't have to.

I do like the idea of a dungeon

We loved it. We're not heavily into the fetish scene, but all the kit was there and we had a great time 'dabbling' for a couple of hours. Google 'uk dungeon hire berkshire' for the website."

That's what I want,all the equipment and atmosphere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you count me booking a hotel room as accommodating? I've always wondered that.

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury


"We always provide the 'accommodation'. It could be our home, but equally could be a hotel or something else entirely (we once hired a dungeon for a particular role-play). To us 'can accommodate' simply means the other person(s) doesn't have to.

I do like the idea of a dungeon

We loved it. We're not heavily into the fetish scene, but all the kit was there and we had a great time 'dabbling' for a couple of hours. Google 'uk dungeon hire berkshire' for the website."

This is awesome gotta try this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

When I say I can accommodate, I mean that sometimes I can invite a lady into my home for sex. That could be for a couple of hours or overnight depending on what my wife is up to

I see a hotel meet as something different.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

When people say 'can't accommodate / can't travel' I always think of stand up shags on their back doorstep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you want to book for a week or more for your holiday.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather simple. I can accommodate means I can play at home. I'm NOT a married guy pretending to be single. (So many, many on here....like 44 yrs old and can't accommodate? VERY FEW will be genuine reason. Either married = avoid? Or living with mummy = avoid even more!).

When I say accommodate I also include overnight and provide breakfast...as can be seen in some verifications.

Accommodate doesn't mean in a hotel....prob another sign of married n playing away?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means "

Before the match begins,an intelligent question should include some details of the venue for the playground;Is it a full pitch, shared pitch or private pitch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rather simple. I can accommodate means I can play at home. I'm NOT a married guy pretending to be single. (So many, many on here....like 44 yrs old and can't accommodate? VERY FEW will be genuine reason. Either married = avoid? Or living with mummy = avoid even more!).

When I say accommodate I also include overnight and provide breakfast...as can be seen in some verifications.

Accommodate doesn't mean in a hotel....prob another sign of married n playing away?"

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

Some seem to think it's an invitation to fuck, stay overnight and be given a full English breakfast in the morning "

Well, if you're offering ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to at times on our boat on the Norfolk Broads as its home from home to us and good heating and good beds .

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

I state that I can't accommodate because the house is never empty and the neighbours have cctv. I also can't afford to rent a hotel room.

I've never assumed it meant I could stay all night. That was what I understood about swinging.

I've been late home (3.00 once) but never ever stay all night. There are exceptions though. If I've been asked to overnight then clearly we're walking up together in the morning. I'd only do this for someone very special though. It raises eyebrows at home and there are too many risks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I state that I can't accommodate because the house is never empty and the neighbours have cctv. I also can't afford to rent a hotel room.

I've never assumed it meant I could stay all night. That was what I understood about swinging.

I've been late home (3.00 once) but never ever stay all night. There are exceptions though. If I've been asked to overnight then clearly we're walking up together in the morning. I'd only do this for someone very special though. It raises eyebrows at home and there are too many risks."

Some offer stay over night if they have a spare room we have lots of friends who have no kids so they can offer the over night stay.We have young and grown up kids so can't really accommodate but if we get the chance we can have people here for a drink and chat for the 1st social meet or we meet somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We must have the wrong idea what accommodate means

we have had people who think that because our location is a seaside town it means a long weekend on full board basis with sex thrown in.

To us it means can invite us to your home but not overnight."

Can we book the last weekend in may please?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"if they are showing they can accommodate no matter if its a single man woman or a couple then that means they can accommodate at there house.

if they dnt wnt you at there house then they cnt accommodate!!! if they are single and say they can accommodate then say they cnt then its must ring a few bell's to people like they are hiding something like a B/F G/F hubby or wife"

Disagree with you. If my ex-husband was on here, at one point he wouldn't accommodate and he lived alone, 100% single. The house he was in was his mothers, she died unexpectedly. There is no way he'd have used her home to shag in.

Some don't want people they meet off the internet into their home, 100% their choice which I respect and wouldn't question. What annoys me are those that don't want you in their house, but want to come to yours.

I've kicked someone out of my bed for saying he doesn't want me in his house, so if you can't accommodate: not a problem, you're not coming to mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommodate at home,when I'm there,or in hotel,as I frequently work away,stay in nice places including country house hotels ,I take it to mean provide somewhere nice,comfortable and able to provide enjoyable experiences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm open in my profile. I can't accommodate as I live in a shared house, and between me and my housemate we have agreed rules on who can and can't stay. But am happy to sort a hotel after a social meet

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