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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do you make judgements on people from their pictures?

i was just sent a pic and knew he was married by the wallpaper behind him....is this an unusual way to pigeon hole a person??

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

lol I did the same, I thought hmmm a man would never have chosen that wallpaper and quilt cover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was just sent a pic and knew he was married by the wallpaper behind him....is this an unusual way to pigeon hole a person??"

Ooooooh do share how you knew!!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I've done that too. Was on cam with a guy one night who swore blind he wasn't married. He admitted 2 weeks later he was and asked how I knew. Told him I could tell from his furniture and furnishings. Woman's intuition is great!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never notice!

Then again I don't go by pictures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the photos were you can see books and dvds and so on. Wrong to judge on this but... oh well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why cant thay just say thay are married and looking to spice up there lifes ... I hate it when thay tell storys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why cant thay just say thay are married and looking to spice up there lifes ... I hate it when thay tell storys."

Cos they know they'll alienate a majority of the women they're attempting to seduce. Would it make much of a difference if they are up front about being married? They're still cheating on their wives aren't they?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i was just sent a pic and knew he was married by the wallpaper behind him....is this an unusual way to pigeon hole a person??

Ooooooh do share how you knew!! "

a man would never of chosen this wallpaper!!

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

I quite often spend more time looking at the backgrounds!

The ones with kids toys in the background annoy me! Sure we all have kids and lives outside of this but please take your dirty photos away from the toy box!

I remember seeing photos of a group session in someones living room. They were horny photos - apart from the muckly alsastion sitting watching the action!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

i love it when they say "nooo im not married" and then get all flustered when you question thier wedding ring showing in thier pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you make judgements on people from their pictures?

i was just sent a pic and knew he was married by the wallpaper behind him....is this an unusual way to pigeon hole a person??"

The picture may not be at his house. He also may have got divorced and is living back with his mother. It does happen but its not something you shout about.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Ah, the joy of generalisation.

Look behind the towel in my pic...see that pink valance? No man would choose that....

Therefore,

a) my wife chose it

or

b) the pic was taken in a hotel room

If I'm on cam in the chat room, then any femininity in the background is

a) proof that I'm married

or

b) proof that redecorating isn't the first task when a couple separates

or

c) proof that I'm Lawrence Llewellyn Bowen

Don't get me wrong, it's fun to analyse people's pics, and the generalisation is made because it's generally accurate, but...not universal.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"Ah, the joy of generalisation.

Look behind the towel in my pic...see that pink valance? No man would choose that....

"

I presumed it was a dodgy BnB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you make judgements on people from their pictures?

i was just sent a pic and knew he was married by the wallpaper behind him....is this an unusual way to pigeon hole a person??"

saw a chap on cam before on a lovely sofa and very feminine wallpaper...with border!

i would have accepted 'mums', but he swears to live in a house full of blokes...hmmmm

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

What is a valance? My wife must by those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you make judgements on people from their pictures?

i was just sent a pic and knew he was married by the wallpaper behind him....is this an unusual way to pigeon hole a person??

saw a chap on cam before on a lovely sofa and very feminine wallpaper...with border!

i would have accepted 'mums', but he swears to live in a house full of blokes...hmmmm"

If your renting with mates you are hardly going to go to the bother of redecorating.

Landlords i have found dont take well to the question "will you redecorate in manly colours for webcaming"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you make judgements on people from their pictures?

i was just sent a pic and knew he was married by the wallpaper behind him....is this an unusual way to pigeon hole a person??

saw a chap on cam before on a lovely sofa and very feminine wallpaper...with border!

i would have accepted 'mums', but he swears to live in a house full of blokes...hmmmm

If your renting with mates you are hardly going to go to the bother of redecorating.

Landlords i have found dont take well to the question "will you redecorate in manly colours for webcaming" "

disagree, i've always rented with men (far easier to cope with than neurotic women) and i cant think of one where they haven't spalshed shades of navy blue or green on the walls to cover up any semblance of feminism.

apparently, efeminate is not a good look when dragging the strays home from the clubs

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"I quite often spend more time looking at the backgrounds!"

Quite often it's the shite in the background that catches my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol I did the same, I thought hmmm a man would never have chosen that wallpaper and quilt cover."

So if I ask someone I meet to take some pics of me I best do it down the pub rather than in her bedroom? Surely most married men are down the pub! Either that or in the bathroom! Lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

off to redecorate and hide the wife in the cupboard..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol I did the same, I thought hmmm a man would never have chosen that wallpaper and quilt cover.

So if I ask someone I meet to take some pics of me I best do it down the pub rather than in her bedroom? Surely most married men are down the pub! Either that or in the bathroom! Lol"

clearly i havent looked at as many sinlge male profiles as you...but you're darn right!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"

Quite often it's the shite in the background that catches my eye "

I hate those 'cock over the toilet bowl' pics too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, background decor can give it away whether someone is married or not.

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