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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

Hey guys, please how long would you wait before you decide your meet is a no show? I've been waiting for close to an hour after lodging into a motel in Stoke but the couple i arranged to meet haven't been online for three hours now and it seems like I've wasted my money on accomodation and drinks at the moment. I didn't bother to ask for phone no because I've been on a social with them last month but don't know how to reach them although I gave them my no. Should I just give up?

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Another 15 mins then give up

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"Another 15 mins then give up"

Okay and thanks for the fair suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope they are just very late. Not good if they no show after your expenditure

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Get pissed, chat up the barmaid, then when she blows you out have a wank and cry afterwards

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If they have your number then I wouldn't wait any longer x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

That's a shame OP, although you now know the importance of getting a phone number. Is there no way you could put up a meet request or do whos near on your phone? Shame to waste the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would of been there well early,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think they are coming....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodness me! How could they not show. I need the TARDIS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel for you bro been there, theres hope yet alsorts of things can happen! Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think waiting an hour is fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a real shame, I hate to hear about people being let down. Hopefully it's because there is a genuine delay.

If they don't show: Just enjoy the room, have a wank and a wee drink instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that is not on, are they a verified couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

When did you last speak to them?

I'm going to be optimistic and say let's hope they're on their way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've paid for the room dude, hit a bar and grab yourself a girl the old fashioned way or at least have fun trying, all may not be lost. Some of the best nights are had when plans go to rat shit. Good luck and let us know how you get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah that's a shame, it's not looking good hun!

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

Thank you all for your contributions. I have spent over £50 on room, drinks and condom but I blame no one but myself for not getting their no. Yes they are verified and have even had a social meet with them last month and the wife wanted to meet me again. Never make my mistake guys!

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By *carineMan
over a year ago

Armthorpe, Doncaster

Tune in to BBC 6 radio right now and listen to DJ Yoda

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I give people half an hour, time for one drink.

Is there a club nearby, maybe you could go there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all for your contributions. I have spent over £50 on room, drinks and condom but I blame no one but myself for not getting their no. Yes they are verified and have even had a social meet with them last month and the wife wanted to meet me again. Never make my mistake guys! "

Seems a shame to waste the room, is there anyone on the who's near you thingy....?!

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

Given up already. Last spoke to them by 4pm and they were last seen on fab some three hours ago. goingb to a club would probably cost me another 30-40 quid which I didn budget for but who knows. Thanks for your advise guys. I appreciate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn couples. Giving fabbers a bad name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given up already. Last spoke to them by 4pm and they were last seen on fab some three hours ago. goingb to a club would probably cost me another 30-40 quid which I didn budget for but who knows. Thanks for your advise guys. I appreciate"

Hopefully it won't be a completely wasted them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn couples. Giving fabbers a bad name"

Hahahahaha...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given up already. Last spoke to them by 4pm and they were last seen on fab some three hours ago. goingb to a club would probably cost me another 30-40 quid which I didn budget for but who knows. Thanks for your advise guys. I appreciate"

aahh good luck,hope you find someone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's so rubbish ! Big hugs n stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've paid for the room dude, hit a bar and grab yourself a girl the old fashioned way or at least have fun trying, all may not be lost. Some of the best nights are had when plans go to rat shit. Good luck and let us know how you get on "

My sentiments, bloody shame x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn couples. Giving fabbers a bad name"

OI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a chance that something might have happened. An accident or family emergency. Especially if they haven't been online. See if they mail later/ tomorrow, there may be an explanation. Especially as you met them in person.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

They are crazy to not show up! I would definitely show

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"Thank you all for your contributions. I have spent over £50 on room, drinks and condom but I blame no one but myself for not getting their no. Yes they are verified and have even had a social meet with them last month and the wife wanted to meet me again. Never make my mistake guys!

Seems a shame to waste the room, is there anyone on the who's near you thingy....?!"

I've checked it and it probably won't work out looking at the time.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd not give people an hour, if there's good mobile coverage, before reevaluating my expectations. It's different if people don't know the area or have been in touch within 3hours.

I have my own methodology and rules and don't meet if I'm pissed off. I also insist on prompt communication. Anything else opens the floodgates to potential messing around and uncertainty.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Thank you all for your contributions. I have spent over £50 on room, drinks and condom but I blame no one but myself for not getting their no. Yes they are verified and have even had a social meet with them last month and the wife wanted to meet me again. Never make my mistake guys!

Seems a shame to waste the room, is there anyone on the who's near you thingy....?!

I've checked it and it probably won't work out looking at the time."

Worth a try though.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral


"I'd not give people an hour, if there's good mobile coverage, before reevaluating my expectations. It's different if people don't know the area or have been in touch within 3hours.

I have my own methodology and rules and don't meet if I'm pissed off. I also insist on prompt communication. Anything else opens the floodgates to potential messing around and uncertainty.

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"There's a chance that something might have happened. An accident or family emergency. Especially if they haven't been online. See if they mail later/ tomorrow, there may be an explanation. Especially as you met them in person."

They texted me now saying their youngest isn't home yet and they've just involved the police. I don't know how true it is but it so then I sympathise with them and hope they find their kid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a chance that something might have happened. An accident or family emergency. Especially if they haven't been online. See if they mail later/ tomorrow, there may be an explanation. Especially as you met them in person.

They texted me now saying their youngest isn't home yet and they've just involved the police. I don't know how true it is but it so then I sympathise with them and hope they find their kid. "

Goat farmers eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh honey that's a shame, especially since you met for a social previously and gone to the trouble of booking the hotel etc...

As they have your number and haven't been in touch then chances are slim that they'll turn up. Chalk this one up to experience,learn from it and move on - you'll be fine x

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

That really sucks, sorry dude.. I'd try salvage the night and try find another couple or lady to join you.

Other than that, you can actually report them as a no show. But i'd probably send them a message on here if it was me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do a meet on the meet page, hotel orgy party bring your wife and your vodka and turn it in to a night to remember

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"Oh honey that's a shame, especially since you met for a social previously and gone to the trouble of booking the hotel etc...

As they have your number and haven't been in touch then chances are slim that they'll turn up. Chalk this one up to experience,learn from it and move on - you'll be fine x "

Thank you!

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"That really sucks, sorry dude.. I'd try salvage the night and try find another couple or lady to join you.

Other than that, you can actually report them as a no show. But i'd probably send them a message on here if it was me.

"

I've been messaged saying their child is missing some minutes ago. I wouldn't like to report since they've gott in touch now. Only thing is if they still wanted to meet I wouldn't be the one to pay the bills.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

As others have said get yourself off to a club. The night is still young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That really sucks, sorry dude.. I'd try salvage the night and try find another couple or lady to join you.

Other than that, you can actually report them as a no show. But i'd probably send them a message on here if it was me.

I've been messaged saying their child is missing some minutes ago. I wouldn't like to report since they've gott in touch now. Only thing is if they still wanted to meet I wouldn't be the one to pay the bills."

that is a worry and understandable if true. hope it all works out for all concerned. x

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

My morale was low before posting this thread but after seeing your responses, I dec to call Atlantis evolution nightclub around the area and was told am allowed to come party tonight. Am off guys! Once again thank you all

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"My morale was low before posting this thread but after seeing your responses, I dec to call Atlantis evolution nightclub around the area and was told am allowed to come party tonight. Am off guys! Once again thank you all "

Wooohoooooo have fun x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"My morale was low before posting this thread but after seeing your responses, I dec to call Atlantis evolution nightclub around the area and was told am allowed to come party tonight. Am off guys! Once again thank you all "

Yayy! You'll have a ball, and you have a room to bring the lucky people back to

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"That really sucks, sorry dude.. I'd try salvage the night and try find another couple or lady to join you.

Other than that, you can actually report them as a no show. But i'd probably send them a message on here if it was me.

I've been messaged saying their child is missing some minutes ago. I wouldn't like to report since they've gott in touch now. Only thing is if they still wanted to meet I wouldn't be the one to pay the bills."

Yeh I did see that after I posted as I delayed in replying but I think that's a cancel..

It's all up to you though of course x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy ending (hopefully)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My morale was low before posting this thread but after seeing your responses, I dec to call Atlantis evolution nightclub around the area and was told am allowed to come party tonight. Am off guys! Once again thank you all

Yayy! You'll have a ball, and you have a room to bring the lucky people back to "

Good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds a bit dramatic that their child is missing. Be weary in the future. Hope you enjoy the club

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Night not wasted then ... enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need an update

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I hope you had a good night after all that! I've been stood up once but luckily I was at home and hadn't paid out any money.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need an update "
. Yes we do !

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"We need an update . Yes we do ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need an update . Yes we do ! "
3 women wanting an.update! who said women are nosey??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need an update . Yes we do ! 3 women wanting an.update! who said women are nosey?? "
4!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need an update . Yes we do ! 3 women wanting an.update! who said women are nosey?? "

Yup ! Loves a happy ending ...

The fact that the op last logged on at 3am one can assume he had a fun night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need an update . Yes we do ! 3 women wanting an.update! who said women are nosey??

Yup ! Loves a happy ending ...

The fact that the op last logged on at 3am one can assume he had a fun night "
hoping so no shows are hard to handle when you make the effort, im sure the nights fun will be on sometime today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That really sucks, sorry dude.. I'd try salvage the night and try find another couple or lady to join you.

Other than that, you can actually report them as a no show. But i'd probably send them a message on here if it was me.

I've been messaged saying their child is missing some minutes ago. I wouldn't like to report since they've gott in touch now. Only thing is if they still wanted to meet I wouldn't be the one to pay the bills."

In future fella, don't pay for the room in advance.

I've called on the day asking if they have rooms available tonight as I maybe staying in the area overnight. Hotels are rarely full, its never been a problem for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an hour would be a half hour too long for us to wait

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

Sorry for keeping you guys waiting lol. I finally attended Atlantis Evolution in Stoke last night and although I didn't know anyone there, Cat and her friend showed me around and fortunately I was lucky to get on with a young good looking lady who came with her man and thanks to the club not being too busy (maybe because of mothers day coming up) and still gutted I didn't get to ask for their fab name probably because I was too busy having fun. After club, I decided I deserved more for the night and set off to go see what's going on in town and it surely did pay off as I once again ended up with a 25 year old lady who was more interested in how good looking my nails are (never gotten such compliment for my nails before) but insisted we go back to hers for security reasons meaning my motel bed wasn't soaking at the end. Fast forward to this morning when she realised she actually doesn't know my age (she never asked last night haha) and never believed me until I showed her an ID and she said she never had her mate in bed talk less a younger guy and now wants to come see me sometime. Too bad she's not on fab (well that's what am guessing and don't want to look awkward if I ask and its a what's fab reply). It turned out to be a very fruitful journey at the end but with some lessons to learn. Thanks to all you ladies who decided to check up and see how I fared last night... I appreciate

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

That's great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Result

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Blimey. Must get down to Stoke some time if hot young men are wandering the streets last at night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done buddy glad it turned out ok for you

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm glad it all turned out good

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By *ike_TrishaCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Send them the invoice and if no reply get your lawyer onto them... If them parents could sue because a kid didn't turn up a a kids party then am sue us sex slaves to unthoughtful and happy it not coming out their pockets Cheeky tramps Can take them to court tooo..;-)

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Glad it all worked out for you and you had a good night

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over a year ago

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Send them the invoice and if no reply get your lawyer onto them... If them parents could sue because a kid didn't turn up a a kids party then am sue us sex slaves to unthoughtful and happy it not coming out their pockets Cheeky tramps Can take them to court tooo..;-) "

Is this VAT exempt? Don't want to get into trouble with the HMRC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they hadn't been on for 3 hours or even confirmed on the day I wouldn't have even left my house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys, please how long would you wait before you decide your meet is a no show? I've been waiting for close to an hour after lodging into a motel in Stoke but the couple i arranged to meet haven't been online for three hours now and it seems like I've wasted my money on accomodation and drinks at the moment. I didn't bother to ask for phone no because I've been on a social with them last month but don't know how to reach them although I gave them my no. Should I just give up? "

Dude I feel for you !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ended up with a result. Good on ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice one OP.

Did you hear from the couple again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You were very lucky OP. Can I have some of your good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a shame OP, although you now know the importance of getting a phone number. Is there no way you could put up a meet request or do whos near on your phone? Shame to waste the room."

This - exploit the situation to your advantage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for keeping you guys waiting lol. I finally attended Atlantis Evolution in Stoke last night and although I didn't know anyone there, Cat and her friend showed me around and fortunately I was lucky to get on with a young good looking lady who came with her man and thanks to the club not being too busy (maybe because of mothers day coming up) and still gutted I didn't get to ask for their fab name probably because I was too busy having fun. After club, I decided I deserved more for the night and set off to go see what's going on in town and it surely did pay off as I once again ended up with a 25 year old lady who was more interested in how good looking my nails are (never gotten such compliment for my nails before) but insisted we go back to hers for security reasons meaning my motel bed wasn't soaking at the end. Fast forward to this morning when she realised she actually doesn't know my age (she never asked last night haha) and never believed me until I showed her an ID and she said she never had her mate in bed talk less a younger guy and now wants to come see me sometime. Too bad she's not on fab (well that's what am guessing and don't want to look awkward if I ask and its a what's fab reply). It turned out to be a very fruitful journey at the end but with some lessons to learn. Thanks to all you ladies who decided to check up and see how I fared last night... I appreciate "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww I do like a happy ending and well done OP for getting up and doing something about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP sounds like a fucking nice guy.

I've read this entire thread.

Glad it worked out for you man.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Glad it all turned out to be a good night for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cracking night by the sounds of it OP, good work fella

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"Blimey. Must get down to Stoke some time if hot young men are wandering the streets last at night."

Hahaha! Why not

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"Send them the invoice and if no reply get your lawyer onto them... If them parents could sue because a kid didn't turn up a a kids party then am sue us sex slaves to unthoughtful and happy it not coming out their pockets Cheeky tramps Can take them to court tooo..;-) "

Sounds like a good idea just that the process might cost me more

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"Nice one OP.

Did you hear from the couple again?"

Not at all.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

What a really nice bloke the OP is. You never disrespected the couple, never whinged at the fact you had been stood up. I'm so glad you had an awesome evening. Sometimes in life when we are let down sometimes that can be our biggest blessing

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By *hatterfabWoman
over a year ago

Wakefield


"What a really nice bloke the OP is. You never disrespected the couple, never whinged at the fact you had been stood up. I'm so glad you had an awesome evening. Sometimes in life when we are let down sometimes that can be our biggest blessing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice one OP.

Did you hear from the couple again?

Not at all."

Their loss mate. Glad you had a good time on the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aww....I'm so glad you got your happy ending, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a really nice bloke the OP is. You never disrespected the couple, never whinged at the fact you had been stood up. I'm so glad you had an awesome evening. Sometimes in life when we are let down sometimes that can be our biggest blessing "

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By *eaningofLifeCouple
over a year ago

York


"You've paid for the room dude, hit a bar and grab yourself a girl the old fashioned way or at least have fun trying, all may not be lost. Some of the best nights are had when plans go to rat shit. Good luck and let us know how you get on "

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