FabSwingers.com forum: Ego trip?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not sure if this has been covered before but it seems to us a lot of people are on fab purely for an ego trip.

Lots of 'look at me' pics and status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been done to death.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Has been done lots, but of course people want looked at - its how you stand out from the crowd and get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely, the whole idea of using fab is to gain the attention of those with whom you wish to meet.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Has been done lots, but of course people want looked at - its how you stand out from the crowd and get meets."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not here for an ego trip, I'm here to make friends, chat to people and if I get a meet - cool!

No one could boost my ego on here, cause I find pics are just pics. I am who I am and that's all I can be.

I appreciate compliments like anyone else, but they don't boost my ego.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Has been done lots, but of course people want looked at - its how you stand out from the crowd and get meets.

Is there any kind of pic that isn't of the 'look at me' variety?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not here for an ego trip, I'm here to make friends, chat to people and if I get a meet - cool!

No one could boost my ego on here, cause I find pics are just pics. I am who I am and that's all I can be.

I appreciate compliments like anyone else, but they don't boost my ego. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure if this has been covered before but it seems to us a lot of people are on fab purely for an ego trip.

Lots of 'look at me' pics and status.

Totally totally agree actually posted here to see if it's just me who loves attention seeking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just here for the hot sex with hot men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just here for the hot sex with hot men

Yet men can't message you ??

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I thought we all enjoyed a bit of narcissism...am I wrong?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Is there any kind of pic that isn't of the 'look at me' variety?

Yep. The look at the pic of some actress or pornstar I found on Twitter or Instagram that I am pretending is me. It's a 'look at me' without actually looking at me type pic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Narcissist and proud here

I do also have sex with people. The two aren't mutually exclusive.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Attention seeking cock loving fat assed slut here

So....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Narcissist and proud here

I do also have sex with people. The two aren't mutually exclusive. "

Not mutually exclusive? Sssh, you'll shatter the illusion some have here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure if this has been covered before but it seems to us a lot of people are on fab purely for an ego trip.

Lots of 'look at me' pics and status.

Are you talking about facebook

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Is there any kind of pic that isn't of the 'look at me' variety?

Yep. The look at the pic of some actress or pornstar I found on Twitter or Instagram that I am pretending is me. It's a 'look at me' without actually looking at me type pic..."

I honestly don't believe that sort of thing would ever happen!

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Look at me isn't a bad thing, most people are here to be seen in one form or another, what we are fed up with are the endless kiss fuck avoid threads, some posters have multiple versions running, calling them snog bang run, etc etc one guy even posted one with just two options BJ or Shag, got uptight when we chose avoid, telling us that's not an option... the ego on some guys.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I'm just here for the hot sex with hot men

Yet men can't message you ??"

Now this is just a theory but............

Maybe she messages them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just here for the hot sex with hot men

Yet men can't message you ??"

I get more than my fair share believe me

Seriously though,I'm not meeting at the moment while I'm in recovery. Soon be back on track but I do block men and filter a lot out most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just here for the hot sex with hot men

Yet men can't message you ??

Now this is just a theory but............

Maybe she messages them?

In my case I'm a lazy cow who can't stand scrolling through profiles -it actually makes me feel ill. I usually let them come to me but not at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just here for the hot sex with hot men

Yet men can't message you ??

Now this is just a theory but............

Maybe she messages them?

In my case I'm a lazy cow who can't stand scrolling through profiles -it actually makes me feel ill. I usually let them come to me but not at the moment

Which part of tastes like bacon? Your bacon flaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just here for the hot sex with hot men

Yet men can't message you ??

Now this is just a theory but............

Maybe she messages them?

In my case I'm a lazy cow who can't stand scrolling through profiles -it actually makes me feel ill. I usually let them come to me but not at the moment

Which part of tastes like bacon? Your bacon flaps?"

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just here for the hot sex with hot men

Yet men can't message you ??

Now this is just a theory but............

Maybe she messages them?

In my case I'm a lazy cow who can't stand scrolling through profiles -it actually makes me feel ill. I usually let them come to me but not at the moment

Which part of tastes like bacon? Your bacon flaps?

Maybe

Interesting ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just here for the hot sex with hot men

Yet men can't message you ??

Now this is just a theory but............

Maybe she messages them?

In my case I'm a lazy cow who can't stand scrolling through profiles -it actually makes me feel ill. I usually let them come to me but not at the moment

Which part of tastes like bacon? Your bacon flaps?

Maybe

Interesting ... "

It's more like Spam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes that's quite true for a lot of people, as well as wanting sex and just plain old boredom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey pal, this thread smells like plagiarism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey pal, this thread smells like plagiarism

Didn't you have a popular pic??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey pal, this thread smells like plagiarism

Only if you had an ego.................

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

We all advertise ourselves on here, it's the nature of the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all advertise ourselves on here, it's the nature of the site

yes, there are quite a few needy people who are desperate for approval though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey pal, this thread smells like plagiarism

Didn't you have a popular pic??"

*Sigh* Bronson, you KNOW I don't like talking about that... but OK, seeing as you've brought it up, I won an award on the 16th of February this year, a very prestigious award, voted by the Great British public as #FabsHottestMan (by virtue of having the most King Kong-esque long wanger on the site).

But like I said, I don't like talking about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey pal, this thread smells like plagiarism

Didn't you have a popular pic??

But like I said, I don't like talking about it. "

Sorry i forgot - Ifeel awful for making you have to mention it - I know it must pain you!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"We all advertise ourselves on here, it's the nature of the site

yes, there are quite a few needy people who are desperate for approval though.

There are but I find them quite easy to ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey pal, this thread smells like plagiarism

Didn't you have a popular pic??

But like I said, I don't like talking about it.

Sorry i forgot - Ifeel awful for making you have to mention it - I know it must pain you!"

It's a pain that never ends. And that's just from scraping it along the floor!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all advertise ourselves on here, it's the nature of the site

yes, there are quite a few needy people who are desperate for approval though.

There are but I find them quite easy to ignore

its not that easy when there are so many of them though.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

now you have highlighted this we will be alot more conscious of it moving forward ....I'm sure a lot of other members will have found this a very illuminating thread as well !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey pal, this thread smells like plagiarism

Didn't you have a popular pic??

But like I said, I don't like talking about it.

Sorry i forgot - Ifeel awful for making you have to mention it - I know it must pain you!

It's a pain that never ends. And that's just from scraping it along the floor! "

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I thought we all enjoyed a bit of narcissism...am I wrong?"

I like flowers.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm not interested in ego trips or stroking other people's ego. I come on the site to find people to meet, and on the forums for amusement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure if this has been covered before but it seems to us a lot of people are on fab purely for an ego trip.

Lots of 'look at me' pics and status.

If there's anything on here more important than me, i want it caught and shot now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure if this has been covered before but it seems to us a lot of people are on fab purely for an ego trip.

Lots of 'look at me' pics and status.

If there's anything on here more important than me, i want it caught and shot now!

My sex life,good luck catching up with that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a whole lot of desperation and need to be 'fabbed' which just baffles us. The amount of times we've seen the same pictures continually reposted for attention makes no sense to us.

Can't stand the "new photos up" or "fab our new pictures everyone" statuses.

It's a bit bonkers to be honest...does anyone ever need that level of ego massaging or are they that desperate to try and outshine others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the forums that's it. I think by blocking all messages and not being able to fab my pictures that removes me from searches so not looking to waste anyone's time or have my ego stroked. I just come on here if I'm bored or having a fag or a poo, it's sort of company for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a whole lot of desperation and need to be 'fabbed' which just baffles us. The amount of times we've seen the same pictures continually reposted for attention makes no sense to us.

Can't stand the "new photos up" or "fab our new pictures everyone" statuses.

It's a bit bonkers to be honest...does anyone ever need that level of ego massaging or are they that desperate to try and outshine others?

what they said ^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a whole lot of desperation and need to be 'fabbed' which just baffles us. "

My fabs are switched off.

FFS most of them were blokes.

As for the ego-stroking on here, that's fine, it's 100% cool.

I just watch and grin.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Narcissist and proud here

I do also have sex with people. The two aren't mutually exclusive. "

Thank god for that!! LOL

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"I'm just here for the hot sex with hot men

Yet men can't message you ??

I get more than my fair share believe me

Seriously though,I'm not meeting at the moment while I'm in recovery. Soon be back on track but I do block men and filter a lot out most of the time "

Nice toes mind.

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