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"There are many sexy, sassy, ballsy, ladies on these forums, ladies who know what they want and not afraid to get it. So a question to you ladies, have you always been this confident, even in your younger years, or has your confidence increased since swinging. I must admit I feel a lot more confident now than I did a year ago. For once Im proud of my curves and ok, whilst I would be lying if I said I like the roll of fat on my tummy, ive realised that its ok to not look like Kate Moss. I havent been swinging for very long and still feel a bit shy to say no to people in clubs that I dont want to play with. That doesnt mean I play with them all, i just hide my face in my partners shoulder and he tells them no. I accept Ive got a lot to learn in relation to etiquette etc. Did it all come naturally or have you ladies made mistakes along the way ![]() ![]() My confidence has been up n down but this is usually due to life experiences and not specifically swinging...i was a good girl when i was younger...wouldnt have dreamt of doing some of the stuff i have done recently ,years ago, but i have to say i am comfortable in my own skin, in answer to the OPs question swinging hasnt been specifically responsible for my confidence as it is now ![]() | |||
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"Ive always been a bossy boots and know EXACTLY what i want....alllll my life ![]() Really? It doesn't show at all. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"No! I had a domineering husband who sapped my confidence for years, a boss that made me feel equally useless and I just wanted to disappear. I used to dress in black, navy, brown and grey. I wanted to be invisible. One day I just had enough!!! I remember my boss going on about something and dismissed me with the words - "I don't even know what you do around here!" I went into the office and told my staff to type up the briefings, letters EXACTLY how he'd written them. They asked me to check and I said no, just pp them and send them out. A few days later he came into the office and started looking through the day book - we had to staple his original to the file copy. After a while he coughed and said "oh, we've been getting complaints that the standard of work coming out of the department is slacking, and the executives are complaining. I asked him to be specific, explain what he meant. He took out a pile of correspondence and said, these haven't been corrected. I looked at it and said, "well, that's what you wrote" he said yes, but you always correct it. I looked at him and said - "now you know what I do...I make you look good!" That was the turning point for me - I changed, I realised I'm quite a smart, funny, person and I was being subjugated by my husband and boss. I decided that I was going to leave my husband, but there was no way was I going to be a single parent, so waited until my youngest went to secondary school and I left. I kept my head down, getting to know me and finding out what I liked. The first time I went shopping after leaving my husband I was confused - I didn't know what cereal I liked for heaven's sake as I always bought what the family wanted. When I discovered internet dating that was a shock, as men just wanted to jump my bones. I felt appalled and flattered in equal measure, but found I couldn't put myself in a position where men dominated me again. I don't recognise the woman I was. This new me is fearless, confident, ballsy, yes, arrogant at times, and enjoying the fun of playing with men. The thing is the men I play with HAVE to be successful, alpha males outside the bedroom for me to really enjoy them. I have a couple that are really lovely men, and I enjoy playing with them as they are a great laugh and the look on their faces when I have a new toy is a huge turn on. The others, it's just a buzz having them - with one I'll call him when I know he's about to go into a meeting and tell him he's needed. I had a mental block at work once and needed light relief - called him out of work to come and wank for me in my office. ![]() love it! | |||
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"No! I had a domineering husband who sapped my confidence for years, a boss that made me feel equally useless and I just wanted to disappear. I used to dress in black, navy, brown and grey. I wanted to be invisible. One day I just had enough!!! I remember my boss going on about something and dismissed me with the words - "I don't even know what you do around here!" I went into the office and told my staff to type up the briefings, letters EXACTLY how he'd written them. They asked me to check and I said no, just pp them and send them out. A few days later he came into the office and started looking through the day book - we had to staple his original to the file copy. After a while he coughed and said "oh, we've been getting complaints that the standard of work coming out of the department is slacking, and the executives are complaining. I asked him to be specific, explain what he meant. He took out a pile of correspondence and said, these haven't been corrected. I looked at it and said, "well, that's what you wrote" he said yes, but you always correct it. I looked at him and said - "now you know what I do...I make you look good!" That was the turning point for me - I changed, I realised I'm quite a smart, funny, person and I was being subjugated by my husband and boss. I decided that I was going to leave my husband, but there was no way was I going to be a single parent, so waited until my youngest went to secondary school and I left. I kept my head down, getting to know me and finding out what I liked. The first time I went shopping after leaving my husband I was confused - I didn't know what cereal I liked for heaven's sake as I always bought what the family wanted. When I discovered internet dating that was a shock, as men just wanted to jump my bones. I felt appalled and flattered in equal measure, but found I couldn't put myself in a position where men dominated me again. I don't recognise the woman I was. This new me is fearless, confident, ballsy, yes, arrogant at times, and enjoying the fun of playing with men. The thing is the men I play with HAVE to be successful, alpha males outside the bedroom for me to really enjoy them. I have a couple that are really lovely men, and I enjoy playing with them as they are a great laugh and the look on their faces when I have a new toy is a huge turn on. The others, it's just a buzz having them - with one I'll call him when I know he's about to go into a meeting and tell him he's needed. I had a mental block at work once and needed light relief - called him out of work to come and wank for me in my office. ![]() me too lol | |||
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