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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will not meet anyone without a phone number. I'm happy to talk on kik or on here but when it comes to actually meeting if you can't provide one that's it say goodbye.

Why its because i've been on here too long and know the consequences of trusting people that wont even trust you. Its never ended well

So i don't want a sodding argument! And i dont want you acting all superior because you found me on Facebook. I know who i am but who the fuck are you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry had a bit of a rant there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But how do you reconcile the fact that phone numbers are, themselves, disposable?

Someone can get a mobile for the express purposes of arranging a meet and then throw it out of the car windows on their way home. Or even worse, arrange a meet and then just dispose of the number and never turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But how do you reconcile the fact that phone numbers are, themselves, disposable?

Someone can get a mobile for the express purposes of arranging a meet and then throw it out of the car windows on their way home. Or even worse, arrange a meet and then just dispose of the number and never turn up. "

Or just change/buy new sims...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry had a bit of a rant there "

No problem.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I will not meet anyone without a phone number. I'm happy to talk on kik or on here but when it comes to actually meeting if you can't provide one that's it say goodbye.

Why its because i've been on here too long and know the consequences of trusting people that wont even trust you. Its never ended well

So i don't want a sodding argument! And i dont want you acting all superior because you found me on Facebook. I know who i am but who the fuck are you?! "

maybe put the above on your profile to inform those who may think about getting in touch..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But how do you reconcile the fact that phone numbers are, themselves, disposable?

Someone can get a mobile for the express purposes of arranging a meet and then throw it out of the car windows on their way home. Or even worse, arrange a meet and then just dispose of the number and never turn up. "

True but i still would trust someone more if they have a number. Maybe i should get them to show me their passports.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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True but i still would trust someone more if they have a number. Maybe i should get them to show me their passports.

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Hmm. Border Agency Roleplay.

Thats a new one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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True but i still would trust someone more if they have a number. Maybe i should get them to show me their passports.

Hmm. Border Agency Roleplay.

Thats a new one!"

strip and search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will not meet anyone without a phone number. I'm happy to talk on kik or on here but when it comes to actually meeting if you can't provide one that's it say goodbye.

Why its because i've been on here too long and know the consequences of trusting people that wont even trust you. Its never ended well

So i don't want a sodding argument! And i dont want you acting all superior because you found me on Facebook. I know who i am but who the fuck are you?! "

agreed

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

[Removed by poster at 11/03/15 12:23:51]

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"I will not meet anyone without a phone number. I'm happy to talk on kik or on here but when it comes to actually meeting if you can't provide one that's it say goodbye.

Why its because i've been on here too long and know the consequences of trusting people that wont even trust you. Its never ended well

So i don't want a sodding argument! And i dont want you acting all superior because you found me on Facebook. I know who i am but who the fuck are you?!

agreed "

Double agreed.

Not being able to give a phone number, so you can text if you're running late at the very least, is one of our many criteria for seeing who is serious.

I'm more amazed when women meet alone without stuff like this, I mean, I know I'M not a crazed axe-murdering lone man, but you don't

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I won't meet anyone without a number either,ive never had any issues in 7 years and I don't trust anyone who prefers to remain anonymous behind an app

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 11/03/15 14:34:23]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree trust is a big thing and manners even more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry had a bit of a rant there "

Don't blame you......always happy to give mine out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always take a phone number before meeting why wouldnt you?!

maybe half the time wasting, no show threads would disappear if more people did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry had a bit of a rant there "
it's not everyone have there rules and that's one of yours. X

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

We all have to have a system.

For instance I insist on my initials being shaved into the female's pubis before a meet.

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