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By *isherking OP   Man
over a year ago

lancs

why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you mail them? Just leave them be to enjoy the site the way they want to.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

How do you know they aren't meeting? They might meet loads in clubs off here but not bother to verify. I also don't know why the actions of people unconnected to you would have any impact on your ability to use and enjoy fab.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

How do you know why they are on here

How are they spoiling it for others

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol "

Why do the admins on here allow people who come on the forums to moan about other users to stay ? They are here to get their kicks from the messages they leave - nothing else, it spoils it for others who have to read these messages that are never deleted and sometimes ingnored, and .... smile.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 10/03/15 21:02:54]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many different ways to use this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may have intentions to meet and indeed may have met several times but not been varied

do we not all have a right to be here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you not thought that one of the reasons you don't get any replies is because your profile doesn't say anything about you?

Just because they don't reply to you it doesn't mean they don't reply to others.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Don't anyone go stealing that photo either. There's a warning about it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our meets are not arranged through Fab. We can go at least 18 months without meeting anyone from here , sometimes longer. Should we be kicked off ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Most of our meets are not arranged through Fab. We can go at least 18 months without meeting anyone from here , sometimes longer. Should we be kicked off ? "

Uhhmmmmmmmmmm Im thinkin......

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Why do you mail them? Just leave them be to enjoy the site the way they want to. "

Sounds like you need to read the profiles BEFORE you mail them OP, not just afterwards, when trying to justify why they didn't reply. Then you wouldn't feel you'd wasted your time.

Mr ddc

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Most of our meets are not arranged through Fab. We can go at least 18 months without meeting anyone from here , sometimes longer. Should we be kicked off ? "

Bloody timewasters!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

WOW! A 1 line profile and you wonder why no replies?

If you don't like them, if they have no veri's? Just don't message them....simple really is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know why they are on here

How are they spoiling it for others

"
because he is another winning single guy who doesnt get enough attention! And ive met lots of meets off here and ive not got any veris am in your fuckin way too? moaning fuckers like you spoil it for single guys!!

oh you have now got attention! hey you a member of pof?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of our meets are not arranged through Fab. We can go at least 18 months without meeting anyone from here , sometimes longer. Should we be kicked off ?

Uhhmmmmmmmmmm Im thinkin...... "

Well ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they have met but chose not to show the verification , so chill out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't anyone go stealing that photo either. There's a warning about it.. "

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

another moaning why am i not getting all the sex i want NOW thread..

which somehow is the fault of others who choose to use the site for how it suits them..

strange..

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

I know someone who has quite a few meets but does not want veris and does not send any,it is there choice

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Why do you mail them? Just leave them be to enjoy the site the way they want to.

Sounds like you need to read the profiles BEFORE you mail them OP, not just afterwards, when trying to justify why they didn't reply. Then you wouldn't feel you'd wasted your time.

Mr ddc"

Yep...this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, given the lack of information in the OP's profile, I wouldn't be responding to his mail either.

Shall I jump before I'm pushed?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol "

What about the ones who do but still don't want to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Endless messages only happen when you allow them. Someone with lots of recent verifications is just as capable of sending a message as someone who has none. I have had men message who are way out of my age range,when I didn't have them blocked. My fault,they were just chancing that I would make an exception. I didn't moan about it,it happens. They don't spoil it for other men who want to meet me.

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By *elkel1979Woman
over a year ago

Cumbria

Some of us are not veri collectors and do not need veris to big ourselves up.

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By *ixen and RudolphCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH


"why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol "

No it doesn't! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of us are not veri collectors and do not need veris to big ourselves up. "

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol "
. How does this spoil it for others ?There is no obligation to meet anyone and quite a few members just enjoy browsing the site or reading the forums . If you do meet people , again why would you require verifications which in many cases are meaningless . If you feel that members are not replying to your messages why not have a really detailed profile with lots of pictures which will give all members a better chance of assessing the type of person that you are . Would you like all profiles which are less than three lines to be deleted .

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By *ixen and RudolphCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH


"why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol . How does this spoil it for others ?There is no obligation to meet anyone and quite a few members just enjoy browsing the site or reading the forums . If you do meet people , again why would you require verifications which in many cases are meaningless . If you feel that members are not replying to your messages why not have a really detailed profile with lots of pictures which will give all members a better chance of assessing the type of person that you are . Would you like all profiles which are less than three lines to be deleted . "

Very good point well presented. Just checked the profile of the OP

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol "

It is just a suggestion but perhaps all your deleted and ignored messages are due to you having a profile which is 4 sentences long, 3 sentences of which are a warning.

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By *awkesWoman
over a year ago

Corwen

Hang on...lol...so you think admin should intervene when members have no veris after ages of being here as they obviously don't wish to meet? Just want to get that clear in my head. Because you have been here over a year and have been verified by one person. ..so that's one person last veri was 9 months ago! Perhaps admin should intervene cos you obviously don't intend to meet any time soon.

Or..am I being presumptuous?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hang on...lol...so you think admin should intervene when members have no veris after ages of being here as they obviously don't wish to meet? Just want to get that clear in my head. Because you have been here over a year and have been verified by one person. ..so that's one person last veri was 9 months ago! Perhaps admin should intervene cos you obviously don't intend to meet any time soon.

Or..am I being presumptuous?

"

I can't see the bit in the rules where it says members must meet and must leave verifications.

Why would Admin do anything about people who are doing nothing wrong?

One of the functions of this site is to facilitate the meeting of people but there's no rule saying you have to be here to meet, or actually meet.

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By *awkesWoman
over a year ago

Corwen

Well exactly..it's a very presumptuous statement..so OP only chooses to show 1 person's veris..whether he has more or not..so why is he concerned about how others display veris or indeed if they have any? Some folk don't meet on fab..so what..I don't.

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By *immy2xMan
over a year ago

aberdeen/inverness/ highlands

At the obvious probable barrage of gate that will now be directed towards me im going to say it anyhow.

When anyone skims across the obvious fact here that for single straight men this site has littlr to offer then all the usually gorum crowd badh them down in a torrent of abuse and insultd. When sll thstd happening is the poster is just coming to the conclusion that no-matter how good looking, how greatly worded his profile or his fantastically crafted msgs he will find after an initial burst of interest that stagnation will set in. He will find that once he has msged the maybe 50 rdgular online and active femsles in his area that are looking for single guys he id out in the cold. The 50 woman will cherry pick from the 1000 guys msging them so god damn you better have yer shit together.

The game is diffrent for most posting negatively towards the thread starter here so its completely unfair when they cadtigate him when he has a very onbioud and glaring poibt to make

The admins of the forum also shut down any suggestions of what the op should do to increase his chances of getting laid because it shows up the unequal game here for dingle men, no matter what all the smart alecs that talk about banging everything cause there " game" is right.

To sum up. Straight single men on here arr all fighting over at more than 100/1 the single woman that want them on here, we cant all be winners so the woman ate having a ball picking and choosing while most men aint got a hope.

Solution as some dating sites, nughtclubs, single meets do is restrict the amount of men allowed in ti balance the sexe's. But thry prrfer a forever churning door of men paying fees till they get bored.

Ps: in my 100 mile radius there are maybe only 30 active site females even romeo himself would soon run out of new meets.

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By *immy2xMan
over a year ago

aberdeen/inverness/ highlands

Apoligies for any typos above its late and i canny be assed sorting through it

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Most of our meets are not arranged through Fab. We can go at least 18 months without meeting anyone from here , sometimes longer. Should we be kicked off ? "

Anyone not wanting to meet single guys should be kicked of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who has more disclaimer than profile content should also be deleted...

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Anyone can use fab as they see fit. If you are bothered by people on over a year with no meets don't message them.

Plenty of people have either their summary (which shows how many meets including the lastest date) or a few veris (which can sometime show the last meet they had).

Avoid anyone who has neither and your problem is solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boring

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol "

Hey thats me. Other than a few details.

I apologise to all of those who have written an unread deleted message, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol "

Very small minded attitude there buddy, almost as if you're extremely bitter about something, dunno though.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"At the obvious probable barrage of gate that will now be directed towards me im going to say it anyhow.

When anyone skims across the obvious fact here that for single straight men this site has littlr to offer then all the usually gorum crowd badh them down in a torrent of abuse and insultd. When sll thstd happening is the poster is just coming to the conclusion that no-matter how good looking, how greatly worded his profile or his fantastically crafted msgs he will find after an initial burst of interest that stagnation will set in. He will find that once he has msged the maybe 50 rdgular online and active femsles in his area that are looking for single guys he id out in the cold. The 50 woman will cherry pick from the 1000 guys msging them so god damn you better have yer shit together.

The game is diffrent for most posting negatively towards the thread starter here so its completely unfair when they cadtigate him when he has a very onbioud and glaring poibt to make

The admins of the forum also shut down any suggestions of what the op should do to increase his chances of getting laid because it shows up the unequal game here for dingle men, no matter what all the smart alecs that talk about banging everything cause there " game" is right.

To sum up. Straight single men on here arr all fighting over at more than 100/1 the single woman that want them on here, we cant all be winners so the woman ate having a ball picking and choosing while most men aint got a hope.

Solution as some dating sites, nughtclubs, single meets do is restrict the amount of men allowed in ti balance the sexe's. But thry prrfer a forever churning door of men paying fees till they get bored.

Ps: in my 100 mile radius there are maybe only 30 active site females even romeo himself would soon run out of new meets.

"
. Would you prefer if fab charged single men a fee of £150 to ensure less joined ? To obtain meets you must target the correct market , be polite and considerate , have an interesting profile , and a various unique selling features . Difficulty in obtaining meets can also work to your advantage . If you do meet and have the right attitude , you may become one of their regular. meets .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you know that 12 months in Estonia is pronounced "cock tastes good" just thought you would like to know that

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