FabSwingers.com forum: Veiled attacks

By *ariner192 OP Man
over a year ago

Near Newport

I decided to put my profile away for a little while, and especially avoid the forums, as there seemed to be veiled attacks on people, some I know, some I didnt have a clue about.

Unfortunately its nice to see it hasn't changed NOT.

It is a shame, this is a swingers place to meet up, not everyone is going to get on with everyone else, but why try to let people have there own minds, without any other influences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i could be doin with a veil i got a spot almighty right in the middle of my forehead!!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i could be doin with a veil i got a spot almighty right in the middle of my forehead!!! x

Get a burka they cover all spots and come in a nifty shade of black.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky you- ma whole face could do with a restructure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lucky you- ma whole face could do with a restructure!"

Noooooo i tried to look but your profile is hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i could honestly play join the dots with my spots just now!! but the one on my forehead is startin to look like a hungover 3rd eye!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i could honestly play join the dots with my spots just now!! but the one on my forehead is startin to look like a hungover 3rd eye!! x

I only get the odd spot and it is always on my bum the day before meeting someone.

It sounds like you have huge spot, want me to squeeze it you you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I decided to put my profile away for a little while, and especially avoid the forums, as there seemed to be veiled attacks on people, some I know, some I didnt have a clue about.

Unfortunately its nice to see it hasn't changed NOT.

It is a shame, this is a swingers place to meet up, not everyone is going to get on with everyone else, but why try to let people have there own minds, without any other influences."

Don't be daft...of course you can have your own preferences...as long as it's the agreed ones. Those are the rules...tsk, get with the programme!

Seriously, I know what you mean, but sadly I can't see it changing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

errrrr ok, great thread (I think) very informative anyway ?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I thought this was going to be another one of those ban the berka threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was going to be another one of those ban the berka threads."

Its confusing but i think the man is sad because he isn't getting messages back from you ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i could honestly play join the dots with my spots just now!! but the one on my forehead is startin to look like a hungover 3rd eye!! x

I only get the odd spot and it is always on my bum the day before meeting someone.

It sounds like you have huge spot, want me to squeeze it you you

right its a deal!! we meet u squeeze my spot i squeeze yours!! so excited now!!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know i must be really slow lol

Cause i can never see these veiled attacks

Or it could be something to do with the fact that i don't want or need ta see em that is if they exist at all xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

These type of threads are just doing what the original posters complain of, veiled attacks at someone.

Happily no one bit this time, I think most are just bored now with this type of thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you know i must be really slow lol

Cause i can never see these veiled attacks

Or it could be something to do with the fact that i don't want or need ta see em that is if they exist at all xx"

I have not experience the so-called veiled attacks either.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Do you know i must be really slow lol

Cause i can never see these veiled attacks

Or it could be something to do with the fact that i don't want or need ta see em that is if they exist at all xx

I have not experience the so-called veiled attacks either.

Some have and do happen , but I still don't think this type of thread helps in any way to stop it, in fact it normally makes things worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you know i must be really slow lol

Cause i can never see these veiled attacks

Or it could be something to do with the fact that i don't want or need ta see em that is if they exist at all xx"
two many suds in your eyes soapy, what you doing in the water to create so many bubbles?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you know i must be really slow lol

Cause i can never see these veiled attacks

Or it could be something to do with the fact that i don't want or need ta see em that is if they exist at all xxtwo many suds in your eyes soapy, what you doing in the water to create so many bubbles?????

Come find out lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 20/09/10 21:38:49]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooops, I fuked that one up lol x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"oooops, I fuked that one up lol x"

but it was funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I missed it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I missed it xx

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see, told you its them suds xx

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

W A L T E R of course.

Silent H for He who must be on holiday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must walk around with my eyes shut or I'm incredibly dense when it comes to spotting attacks on people - veiled or otherwise. I just don't see them. Or maybe I don't care and that's why I don't see them.

I prefer the direct approach. Say what you see and allow me to respond.

And no, that's not a veiled attack on anyone, I just don't see them.

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

"I decided to put my profile away for a little while, and especially avoid the forums, as there seemed to be veiled attacks on people, some I know, some I didnt have a clue about.

Unfortunately its nice to see it hasn't changed NOT.

It is a shame, this is a swingers place to meet up, not everyone is going to get on with everyone else, but why try to let people have there own minds, without any other influences."

Think most of its tounge in cheek, its a case of getting to know the regular posters and their sense of humour helps. I do know that negative posts tend to get ignored.

As swingers it does not stop us having fun, so i would'nt let the banter bother you. Join in or back off. Swing still happens either way!

Good luck MT XxX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must walk around with my eyes shut or I'm incredibly dense when it comes to spotting attacks on people - veiled or otherwise. I just don't see them. Or maybe I don't care and that's why I don't see them.

I prefer the direct approach. Say what you see and allow me to respond.

And no, that's not a veiled attack on anyone, I just don't see them.

your dense!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the direct approach. Say what you see and allow me to respond.

And no, that's not a veiled attack on anyone, I just don't see them.

your dense!!

Siren prefers 'thick'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the direct approach. Say what you see and allow me to respond.

And no, that's not a veiled attack on anyone, I just don't see them.

your dense!!

Siren prefers 'thick'.

Boom, boom!

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

You quite right Mr Roy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the direct approach. Say what you see and allow me to respond.

And no, that's not a veiled attack on anyone, I just don't see them.

your dense!!

Siren prefers 'thick'.

and that is how you have witty banter without attack!! x

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

"I decided to put my profile away for a little while, and especially avoid the forums, as there seemed to be veiled attacks on people, some I know, some I didnt have a clue about.

Unfortunately its nice to see it hasn't changed NOT.

It is a shame, this is a swingers place to meet up, not everyone is going to get on with everyone else, but why try to let people have there own minds, without any other influences."

As we said, develop a thick skin and move on, or Join in. Petty insder jokes will surface, just blank them.

The best advice we have ever been given was? "dont give a flyin f**k", your here for your own reasons.

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By *ariner192 OP Man
over a year ago

Near Newport

Thank you for all the comments, pro and against, perhaps I am sensitive that I see things others don't (never been said before - me sensitive !!), or perhaps paranoid that I see things where there aren't any.

Whichever, I would like to thank people who have posted to me and on here.

However I still feel my orignal post stands.

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

"Thank you for all the comments, pro and against, perhaps I am sensitive that I see things others don't (never been said before - me sensitive !!), or perhaps paranoid that I see things where there aren't any.

Whichever, I would like to thank people who have posted to me and on here.

However I still feel my orignal post stands."

so your still gonna hide XxX MT

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By *ariner192 OP Man
over a year ago

Near Newport

Whichever, I would like to thank people who have posted to me and on here.

However I still feel my orignal post stands.

so your still gonna hide XxX MT"

Never know - managing to keep afloat at the moment

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Whichever, I would like to thank people who have posted to me and on here.

However I still feel my orignal post stands."

But your not hidden, and havent been for the last 2 hours?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I think he means he hid his profile a while ago and has unhidden it now

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

"Do you know i must be really slow lol

Cause i can never see these veiled attacks

Or it could be something to do with the fact that i don't want or need ta see em that is if they exist at all xx

I have not experience the so-called veiled attacks either.

I have it was a BEE, dressed as a wasp.

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"I think he means he hid his profile a while ago and has unhidden it now

Naaa he hadn't logged into it for over 8 weeks.

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

"I decided to put my profile away for a little while, and especially avoid the forums, as there seemed to be veiled attacks on people, some I know, some I didnt have a clue about.

Unfortunately its nice to see it hasn't changed NOT.

It is a shame, this is a swingers place to meet up, not everyone is going to get on with everyone else, but why try to let people have there own minds, without any other influences."

With you all the way.................

WE see what your tryin to do

Those that dont clearly arent players..

ty for that XxX

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

I saw a slogan on a T-shirt one time that said...

"Paranoid? I bit of paranoia is healthy... or put it this way, if you think NO ONE has it in for you, you must be insane"

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

"I decided to put my profile away for a little while, and especially avoid the forums, as there seemed to be veiled attacks on people, some I know, some I didnt have a clue about.

Unfortunately its nice to see it hasn't changed NOT.

It is a shame, this is a swingers place to meet up, not everyone is going to get on with everyone else, but why try to let people have there own minds, without any other influences."

With you all the way.................

WE see what your tryin to do

Those that dont clearly arent players..

ty for that XxX

odd hes online now not 8 hours ago........... a glitch?

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

As I said mariner alot of folks are best ignored. XxX

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By *ariner192 OP Man
over a year ago

Near Newport

"I think he means he hid his profile a while ago and has unhidden it now

Naaa he hadn't logged into it for over 8 weeks.

SO big brother is alive and Kicking - even telling me how long it has been since I have signed on - nice to see I am important

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

hmmmm there seems to be some veiled collusion on this thread

tryng to goad people into biting perhaps??

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I've been guilty of the odd veiled attack every now and then.

Usually out of immediate frustration, not that that is any excuse.

It'll probably happen again too, and maybe one day all the mods will compare notes, realise how many of my posts they're collectively removed, and banish me to the naughty step...

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"I think he means he hid his profile a while ago and has unhidden it now

Naaa he hadn't logged into it for over 8 weeks.

SO big brother is alive and Kicking - even telling me how long it has been since I have signed on - nice to see I am important

glad you got the spelling of "important" correct.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

This thread is just confusing me now!

Especially when my earlier post disapeared

Seems the OP is doing what he said he was against in the first place!

PS - I do know why my earleir post vanished along with a few others too!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Did you quote anyone else?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I've been guilty of the odd veiled attack every now and then.

Usually out of immediate frustration, not that that is any excuse.

It'll probably happen again too, and maybe one day all the mods will compare notes, realise how many of my posts they're collectively removed, and banish me to the naughty step..."

How do you know we havn't done that already

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Are you saying this IS the naughty step?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Did you quote anyone else?"

You didn't read my post all the way through did you?

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"I've been guilty of the odd veiled attack every now and then.

Usually out of immediate frustration, not that that is any excuse.

It'll probably happen again too, and maybe one day all the mods will compare notes, realise how many of my posts they're collectively removed, and banish me to the naughty step...

How do you know we havn't done that already

No room for him! Me and Mr Rugby are having a beer on it right now

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Are you saying this IS the naughty step?"

Nope, the naughty step involves a whip

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Did you quote anyone else?

You didn't read my post all the way through did you?

Dont think i read, or saw, any of it. Not been on that long.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Are you saying this IS the naughty step?

Nope, the naughty step involves a whip"

Was a whip and a Top

in my day.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Did you quote anyone else?

You didn't read my post all the way through did you?

Dont think i read, or saw, any of it. Not been on that long. "

Have you been watching paint dry tonight too and have inhaled too many fumes?

I meant my post you asked the question about, there was a PS at the end of it saying I knew why my post was removed.

PS - BB's Disclaimer - The paint drying comment relates to another of my posts on another thread tonight and is in no way a vieled attack on anyone!

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

showin ur age

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

How do you know we havn't done that already

The naughty step involves a whip...

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I understand better now.

And my Walter post was left all alone on it's lonesome.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It'll probably happen again too, and maybe one day all the mods will compare notes, realise how many of my posts they're collectively removed,

How do you know we havn't done that already

I meant this comment Sharpy

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

One man's veiled attack is another man's pissy-take banter.

All I can say is I assure you that any member of my clique would not veil their attack or even put a hood on their attack, possibly a Fez, I like red Fezs.

Rule 8 section C clearly states that all attacks on a forum member must be offensive, dismissive and brutal with at least 3 other clique members backing them up in subsequent posts.

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