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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having been victim to about three or four fake profiles. I now find myself suspicious of most profiles on here. I guess this is now affecting my time on FAB. How do you all cope? Anyone else having this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In what way were you a victim?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling sorry for yourself? Again?!

I've got a real problem here! I've got this delicious piece of cake in front of me...but trying to be good....shall I have it or not..... I have to make serious decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanna know what paranlod is ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wanna know what paranlod is ?? "

PARANLOD wtf? Perhaps he is being hunted by the spelling Nazis?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/03/15 09:04:07]

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"[Removed by poster at 09/03/15 09:04:07]"

(cough)...Grammar (and spelling) police most certainly are everywhere....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha Grammar police everywhere. That mistake is a case of fat thumbs and a small mobile phone screen. As for the cake metaphor I have no idea what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wanna know what paranlod is ?? "

Could be mis-spelling of paranoid? Lol

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By *ellowmaleMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"Feeling sorry for yourself? Again?!

I've got a real problem here! I've got this delicious piece of cake in front of me...but trying to be good....shall I have it or not..... I have to make serious decision "

eat it!!! problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry next time ill put a green laughing icon so you know i was only joshing sheesh !!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We have people contacting us all the time from profiles that don't properly represent them if that's what you mean by fake. We don't consider ourselves victims though, we just laugh and move on to the next man who's wife is too shy to have her photo taken but is more than happy for him to play alone .

Seriously, if it's affecting you badly step away and do something that doesn't.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Feeling sorry for yourself? Again?! "

Obviously as Jez shut his last thread down on the subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling sorry for yourself? Again?!

I've got a real problem here! I've got this delicious piece of cake in front of me...but trying to be good....shall I have it or not..... I have to make serious decision "

Trying to be good? Does that mean you don't get crumbs everywhere??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry next time ill put a green laughing icon so you know i was only joshing sheesh !! "

All taken in good fun Paranold is a new word I just came up with. Meaning is yet to be discovered?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake profiles, yes there are lots.....

Do they contact us? Sometimes.........we find them out pretty early on.

Does it bother us? No.

We just move on, nothing to get knickers in a knot over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry next time ill put a green laughing icon so you know i was only joshing sheesh !!

All taken in good fun Paranold is a new word I just came up with. Meaning is yet to be discovered? "

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

*types Paranold into ma dictionary

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Having been victim to about three or four fake profiles. I now find myself suspicious of most profiles on here. I guess this is now affecting my time on FAB. How do you all cope? Anyone else having this? "

There are certain things that we look out for. If we are at all suspicious, then we tend to drop all contact.

Yes I'm sure we have got it wrong at times, but oh well. It works for us...

Most fake profiles stand out a mile and are easy to spot. It doesn't affect our time on Fab on all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I need to clear something up folks. I never used the word victim in my post nor is it a feel sorry for me post. I now seem suspicious of most accounts on here because of previous history. I was simply asking how other people deal with fakes or when contacting new people how the vet out the fakes. However I shall now simply man up and just get on with it. Paranoid or paranold included. Amen

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think I need to clear something up folks. I never used the word victim in my post nor is it a feel sorry for me post. I now seem suspicious of most accounts on here because of previous history. I was simply asking how other people deal with fakes or when contacting new people how the vet out the fakes. However I shall now simply man up and just get on with it. Paranoid or paranold included. Amen "

You did use the word victim.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If I'm interested I will have a face to face Skype chat to see them. If they can't Skype then its not worth the risk for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the bear pit :-/

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I need to clear something up folks. I never used the word victim in my post nor is it a feel sorry for me post. I now seem suspicious of most accounts on here because of previous history. I was simply asking how other people deal with fakes or when contacting new people how the vet out the fakes. However I shall now simply man up and just get on with it. Paranoid or paranold included. Amen

You did use the word victim.

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So I did. Oh dear! Taxi for one.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think I need to clear something up folks. I never used the word victim in my post nor is it a feel sorry for me post. I now seem suspicious of most accounts on here because of previous history. I was simply asking how other people deal with fakes or when contacting new people how the vet out the fakes. However I shall now simply man up and just get on with it. Paranoid or paranold included. Amen

You did use the word victim.

So I did. Oh dear! Taxi for one. "

We just get a feel for people who aren't quite what they present themselves as.

When you say fake what do you mean, do they stand you up or message but never meet?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I think I need to clear something up folks. I never used the word victim in my post nor is it a feel sorry for me post. I now seem suspicious of most accounts on here because of previous history. I was simply asking how other people deal with fakes or when contacting new people how the vet out the fakes. However I shall now simply man up and just get on with it. Paranoid or paranold included. Amen "

Don't be put off by the people who don't want to give you advice.

Without going into details...What exactly is the previous history? Did you arrange meets and they didn't turn up? Did they stop answering your mails? etc etc

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I think I need to clear something up folks. I never used the word victim in my post nor is it a feel sorry for me post. I now seem suspicious of most accounts on here because of previous history. I was simply asking how other people deal with fakes or when contacting new people how the vet out the fakes. However I shall now simply man up and just get on with it. Paranoid or paranold included. Amen "

I read your post as I think it was meant, has anyone been victim to fake profiles rather than I am a victim and I feel sorry for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly?

Fakes are easy to spot.

Granted. .You could get caught out with one, you might even get caught out with two.

But seriously? .... three or four times?

Come on man!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I never send preemptive messages. but it's still fun here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling sorry for yourself? Again?!

I've got a real problem here! I've got this delicious piece of cake in front of me...but trying to be good....shall I have it or not..... I have to make serious decision "

Lick it slowly.... Nibble the sides

Savour every mouthful....

Or do what I call the goldfish... Cake, what cake, did I have cake ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry next time ill put a green laughing icon so you know i was only joshing sheesh !!

All taken in good fun Paranold is a new word I just came up with. Meaning is yet to be discovered? "

Paranold - That uneasy feeling you're aging by the minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Or do what I call the goldfish... Cake, what cake, did I have cake ? "

ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry next time ill put a green laughing icon so you know i was only joshing sheesh !!

All taken in good fun Paranold is a new word I just came up with. Meaning is yet to be discovered?

Paranold - That uneasy feeling you're aging by the minute. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think genuine people are patient, might come across as a little desperate but not in a bad way just in a normal way that horny people do, although they might also come across as pushy which isn't good to me. They're likely to message you more than once, even if ignored, and this will be over the weeks, not just the occasional time they are horny, desperate and want dirty chat.

Dirty chatters/wamkers tend to try and move you off to apps where you can trade pics or view cams straight away. They don't care what you're doing right now on here, they want their needs sorted asap.

I did have a whole load of info to put here but tbh i don't wanna shove it on a public forum for fakes to use this info against those of us who have worked them out.

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