FabSwingers.com forum: Feeling lost

By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Do you ever feel a bit lost with life? I Just feel a bit lost with everything and I'm not sure why. I have a great job and great family and a few awesome friends I just feel like something is missing and I'm not sure what...I hate feeling like this it's doing my head in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Awww cheeky, maybe you need an adventure a new hobby or something or it could just be a passing phase

(Hugs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we all feel a little lost. Personally I think it's the desire to keep going, the desire to try something new and stop us all getting stuck in a rut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens from time to time, just think carefully at the next signpost you come across. Choose your route and go for it.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Awww cheeky, maybe you need an adventure a new hobby or something or it could just be a passing phase

(Hugs)

Think I just need a good kick up the arse

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Awww cheeky, maybe you need an adventure a new hobby or something or it could just be a passing phase

(Hugs)

Think I just need a good kick up the arse

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ohh I can do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what you need is a BF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awww cheeky, maybe you need an adventure a new hobby or something or it could just be a passing phase

(Hugs)

Think I just need a good kick up the arse

bend over then....

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"what you need is a BF

What a best friend? I don't want a boyfriend right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! I'm feeling like this at the moment, not sure why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs

Not feeling lost but feeling like I have no control on my life at the moment.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Awww cheeky, maybe you need an adventure a new hobby or something or it could just be a passing phase

(Hugs)

Think I just need a good kick up the arse

bend over then....

Oh kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a fantastic man to sweep you off your feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awww cheeky, maybe you need an adventure a new hobby or something or it could just be a passing phase

(Hugs)

Think I just need a good kick up the arse

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i blame that chicken

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Big hugs

Not feeling lost but feeling like I have no control on my life at the moment. "

You have an excuse you are pregnant and all your hormones are running ragged with you...You will be fine lovely

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Hugs and hope it passes quickly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you like your job, but is it your passion? Mos people I meet who feel lost like this aren't fulfilling what they truly want, what their true passion in life is. A good job might be a good job, but does it really satisfy you to the core of your being to be doing it?

If you do have a passion for something, do you feel you're doing everything you can to engage with it?

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"You say you like your job, but is it your passion? Mos people I meet who feel lost like this aren't fulfilling what they truly want, what their true passion in life is. A good job might be a good job, but does it really satisfy you to the core of your being to be doing it?

If you do have a passion for something, do you feel you're doing everything you can to engage with it?"

People who know me know I love my job and what I do is my passion I'm on track career wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal sex. It's made my life complete

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Anal sex. It's made my life complete

Ermmm right ok I think I'll give that one a miss

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By *lirtyjjWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I think sometimes when we have do many rules to play, wife, mother, sister, friend, colleague etc we focus on the other people and totally forget about ourselves. You lose yourself in other peoples perception of you. Every now and then you have to just stop and remember who you are to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go ginger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anal sex. It's made my life complete

Ermmm right ok I think I'll give that one a miss

Suit yourself

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awww cheeky, maybe you need an adventure a new hobby or something or it could just be a passing phase

(Hugs)

Think I just need a good kick up the arse

Anyone else think that "kick" is a typo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do have a passion for something, do you feel you're doing everything you can to engage with it?

People who know me know I love my job and what I do is my passion I'm on track career wise

Yeah, fair enough

I guess part of what I mean is sometimes someone's passion isn't necessarily a "job" or "career"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok. So anal doesn't appeal..... Vodka?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok. So anal doesn't appeal..... Vodka?

And cake??

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Ok. So anal doesn't appeal..... Vodka?

No vodka I've stopped drinking for a bit...I'll have tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok. So anal doesn't appeal..... Vodka?

No vodka I've stopped drinking for a bit...I'll have tea

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ive stopped wanking ill put kettle on ! milk n sugar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok. So anal doesn't appeal..... Vodka?

No vodka I've stopped drinking for a bit...I'll have tea

ive stopped wanking ill put kettle on ! milk n sugar?

Don't forget the cake

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Ok. So anal doesn't appeal..... Vodka?

No vodka I've stopped drinking for a bit...I'll have tea

ive stopped wanking ill put kettle on ! milk n sugar?

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've worked out why you're feeling lost anyway..... You've stopped drinking!

ARE YOU QUITE MAD WOMAN?

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I've worked out why you're feeling lost anyway..... You've stopped drinking!

ARE YOU QUITE MAD WOMAN? "

No I just need to have a detox from drink and to shift some weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anal sex. It's made my life complete

I have been told not only can it make your night, it can also make your hole weak

I'll shut up now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a satnav ...... Oh no don't they get you lost too have a big hug instead xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok. So anal doesn't appeal..... Vodka?

No vodka I've stopped drinking for a bit...I'll have tea

ive stopped wanking ill put kettle on ! milk n sugar?

Yes please

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coming right up x and believe me its not a ploy to get in ya pants im a nice man and just want to help you feel a bit better ok? dnt be cheeky and ask for bicuits either!! last time i got em out i nipped to the toilet and when i got back theyd all gone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've worked out why you're feeling lost anyway..... You've stopped drinking!

ARE YOU QUITE MAD WOMAN?

No I just need to have a detox from drink and to shift some weight

Well admirable as that may be its not going to be a whole lot of fun is it?

Sat nav?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do have a passion for something, do you feel you're doing everything you can to engage with it?

People who know me know I love my job and what I do is my passion I'm on track career wise

To go all psychoanalytical for a moment, I thought that it's really interesting you answered like this?

Wouldn't you just expect someone to say "I love my job".

Not "People who know me know I love my job".

Why are the opinions of others more important than you having the conviction to know it yourself?

I was wondering if subconsciously maybe you feel it's not that satisfying to you, even though you feel it should be?

(Warning: I'm chronically sleep deprived right now so if this post doesn't make sense that's why!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've worked out why you're feeling lost anyway..... You've stopped drinking!

ARE YOU QUITE MAD WOMAN?

No I just need to have a detox from drink and to shift some weight

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tea up x and ive only put half a sugar in

saw the weight issue im not gonna add to your woes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok. So anal doesn't appeal..... Vodka?

No vodka I've stopped drinking for a bit...I'll have tea

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boring innit? I've opened the wine

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I feel lost quite frequently. Can I suggest doing something which helps you re-focus? Like maybe taking up a hobby you've always wanted to or going somewhere you've always wanted to? Or challenge yourself? I try to do this and find it helps.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Ok. So anal doesn't appeal..... Vodka?

No vodka I've stopped drinking for a bit...I'll have tea

boring innit? I've opened the wine

Lol you cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last few weeks yes I feel the same op

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

Big hugs from me! I'm here if you need a chat x

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Last few weeks yes I feel the same op

It's a shite feeling to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last few weeks yes I feel the same op

It's a shite feeling to have

We need a girlie night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awww cheeky, maybe you need an adventure a new hobby or something or it could just be a passing phase

(Hugs)

Think I just need a good kick up the arse

was that kick or dick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last few weeks yes I feel the same op

It's a shite feeling to have

We need a girlie night out

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group hug!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awww cheeky, maybe you need an adventure a new hobby or something or it could just be a passing phase

(Hugs)

Think I just need a good kick up the arse

Or a slap on the arse?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google life balance wheel...this tool can help you identify certain areas of your life that are maybe needing a boost, and help regain purpose. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anal sex. It's made my life complete

I have been told not only can it make your night, it can also make your hole weak

I'll shut up now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel the same as you cheeky, but I know why I feel like that, I want a relationship, I don't want friends with benefits anymore, I want something more meaningful

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