FabSwingers.com forum: How would you react?

By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

If someone gave you a ring that was originally meant for someone else?

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

It depends on who it was originally meant for.

If a boyfriend gave me a ring that he bought for his ex, I'd be pissed.

If a family member passed away before the ring that was bought for them could be given to them, and it was then given to me as a sentimental present, then I'd be over the moon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone gave you a ring that was originally meant for someone else? "

As long as it wasn't a PA/cock ring I'd be ok with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say "Sorry, you've got the wrong number".

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"It depends on who it was originally meant for.

If a boyfriend gave me a ring that he bought for his ex, I'd be pissed.

If a family member passed away before the ring that was bought for them could be given to them, and it was then given to me as a sentimental present, then I'd be over the moon "

An engagement ring that was meant for his ex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone gave you a ring that was originally meant for someone else? "

I'd just say "Ok no worries"..and that would be it.

Unless there was more to it besides a wrong number...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want it. It'd be a reminder of someone they loved before me and it'd make me feel shitty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waste not want not and all that.

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"If someone gave you a ring that was originally meant for someone else?

I'd just say "Ok no worries"..and that would be it.

Unless there was more to it besides a wrong number..."

Not a phone call you plum. A ring. For your finger!!!

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

I should add that the original person who was meant to get it chose it as well as paid towards it.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I wouldn't want it

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

"It depends on who it was originally meant for.

If a boyfriend gave me a ring that he bought for his ex, I'd be pissed.

If a family member passed away before the ring that was bought for them could be given to them, and it was then given to me as a sentimental present, then I'd be over the moon

An engagement ring that was meant for his ex. "

I'd feel like I was second best and I would flip out. If he sold it and bought a new ring especially for me with the money he got from selling it, then fair enough, I could handle that.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would say 'thank you'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends on who it was originally meant for.

An engagement ring that was meant for his ex. "

Is it a ring you'd wear? If so, I'd enjoy wearing it.

Although that wouldn't apply if it's given as an engagement ring. Then I think that's a different story. It should be chosen for the person it's going to.

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

Hmmmm. If it's got a rock then it won't have depreciated much, if at all. Flog it and get a new one personal to the new person methinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone gave you a ring that was originally meant for someone else?

I'd just say "Ok no worries"..and that would be it.

Unless there was more to it besides a wrong number...

Not a phone call you plum. A ring. For your finger!!! "

ffs...you need to be clearer!!!!

I thought you meant a phone call....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually made the phone call joke first.

#JustSaying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although i should be flattered guess if im being truly honest id feel a bit deflated, 2nd best and id not want to accept it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it was an engagement ring and she said no, I wouldn't give it to somebody else, I would sell it and take the new lady on holiday!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

[Removed by poster at 07/03/15 11:02:52]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sell it buy new underwear/toys and say you lost it!

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"It depends on who it was originally meant for.

An engagement ring that was meant for his ex.

Is it a ring you'd wear? If so, I'd enjoy wearing it.

Although that wouldn't apply if it's given as an engagement ring. Then I think that's a different story. It should be chosen for the person it's going to. "
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It's not my ring I don't know what it looks like. I've just recieved text from a friend saying that when she and her ex were together they reserved rings and were paying them off. But the reservation was in his name so when they split she couldn't get her money/ring. She did however get a phone call this morning to say that he had paid the last couple of payments and collected the rings. They split up nearly a year ago. He's had 2 gf since and the 3rd is now pregnant. I said I bet he's selling them but then I thought if that were me and I got a ring that someone else had chosen I wouldn't be too impressed.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I would try and explain to the emotionless robot who had just proposed how inappropriate it would be for them to give me a ring that was romantically attached to someone else. Then I would dump him and buy my own rings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually made the phone call joke first.

#JustSaying."

I wasn't joking.

I genuinely thought a phone call.

But anyway...

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"I actually made the phone call joke first.

#JustSaying.

I wasn't joking.

I genuinely thought a phone call.

But anyway...

That's ok. The joke wasn't funny anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually made the phone call joke first.

#JustSaying.

I wasn't joking.

I genuinely thought a phone call.

But anyway...

That's ok. The joke wasn't funny anyway

LMFAO!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the new person doesn't know that it was originally chosen by/with someone else, then it's not an issue for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually made the phone call joke first.

#JustSaying.

I wasn't joking.

I genuinely thought a phone call.

But anyway...

That's ok. The joke wasn't funny anyway

Bit harsh on GreedyThump there, love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two words - Jeremy Kyle

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"If the new person doesn't know that it was originally chosen by/with someone else, then it's not an issue for them."

Agreed. But imagine finding out. That someone else had chosen and even paid money towards your ring..

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Two words - Jeremy Kyle

Haha, there could be a whole bumper episode devoted to it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the new person doesn't know that it was originally chosen by/with someone else, then it's not an issue for them.

Agreed. But imagine finding out. That someone else had chosen and even paid money towards your ring.. "

Yeah I'd be horrified. But it doesn't sound like this person has great taste in blokes anyway, so they might not be that surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance it would go in the bin

Cheap skate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the new person doesn't know that it was originally chosen by/with someone else, then it's not an issue for them.

Agreed. But imagine finding out. That someone else had chosen and even paid money towards your ring.. "

I wouldn't want it or him if that's how little he thought of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends on who it was originally meant for.

If a boyfriend gave me a ring that he bought for his ex, I'd be pissed.

If a family member passed away before the ring that was bought for them could be given to them, and it was then given to me as a sentimental present, then I'd be over the moon

An engagement ring that was meant for his ex. "

Kick his asssss

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"It depends on who it was originally meant for.

If a boyfriend gave me a ring that he bought for his ex, I'd be pissed.

If a family member passed away before the ring that was bought for them could be given to them, and it was then given to me as a sentimental present, then I'd be over the moon

An engagement ring that was meant for his ex. "

Shove it up his own ring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get some people. So what if it was going to be for someone else? They didn't in the end because they weren't worthy and now he's found someone else that is worthy of receiving it. I'd accept it and be happy that someone thought enough about me to want to give me it in the first place.

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"I don't get some people. So what if it was going to be for someone else? They didn't in the end because they weren't worthy and now he's found someone else that is worthy of receiving it. I'd accept it and be happy that someone thought enough about me to want to give me it in the first place. "

Id agree if the original person hasn't chosen it and paid towards it. That would be the part that would make me really annoyed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say "Sorry, you've got the wrong number"."

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would decline with a thanks but no thanks

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

This would tell me so much about him.

He _iews the ring as nothing more than something a man has to do for a woman in a committed relationship.

I would _iew the ring as something chosen by both of us and it would have some significance to us.

In his eyes it's just a ring.

I wouldn't wear it.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

If I knew it was meant for someone else then I'd tell him to flog it and buy something useful with the money.

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